Dexter Mai

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When was the last time you felt TRULY happy? Are you feeling overwhelmed by life? Have past traumas left you feeling stressed and anxious? Or maybe you're on a journey to better understand yourself and find lasting happiness. If any of this resonates with you, I can help. As a Taiwanese American who immigrated to the United States at a young age, I know firsthand the struggles faced by individuals from AAPI and immigrant communities. I also recognize the unique challenges the LGBTQ+ community faces, and I'm committed to creating a safe and inclusive environment for all my clients.

In my work, I view my clients from a social justice lens and address systemic issues that impact their mental health. I utilize various therapeutic approaches to help my clients achieve their goals. I am certified and a consultant-level Brainspotting practitioner and use this neurological approach to support clients in processing their rooted traumas.

I specialize in supporting people who are experiencing challenges with depression, anxiety, relationships, sexual identity, gender identity, substance use, and men's issues. Together, we can work towards building a happier and more fulfilling life. If you're ready to take the first step, Let's email or schedule a 15-minute phone call with me today.

Call or Email Dexter Mai now for a free 15 minute consultation - (408) 478-9309

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Francisco, CA 94132

Cupertino, CA 95014

I offer individual therapy during weekday evenings and limited weekend availability via telehealth across California!

I specialize in Men's Issues, Trauma and PTSD and Sex-Positive, Kink Allied

$280 Per Session

Individual one-on-one therapy

Let's Connect (408) 478-9309

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Francisco, CA 94132

Immigration Psychological Evaluations- Dr. Grey

Cupertino, CA 95014

I offer individual therapy during weekday evenings and limited weekend availability via telehealth across California!

I specialize in Men's Issues, Trauma and PTSD and Sex-Positive, Kink Allied

$280 Per Session

Individual one-on-one therapy

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $280
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Out of Network

If you think we are a good fit but cannot afford my full price, give me a call and we can see if you qualify for sliding scale.

Dexter Mai

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ABS, CHT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 478-9309

If you think we are a good fit but cannot afford my full price, give me a call and we can see if you qualify for sliding scale.

Dexter Mai

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ABS, CHT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 478-9309

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 134200 Dexter Mai

Education and Years In Practice

Attended University of California, Berkeley, Master of Social Welfare

Additional Credentials

Certificate from American Council of Hypnotist Examiners Certified Hypnotherapist (CHT)

Certificate from Brainspotting Institute Certified Brainspotting Consultant

I have supported the BIPOC adult population with their depression, anxiety, complex trauma, relationships, and daily life stress since 2018. I am certified in Brainspotting Therapy and currently a Consultant-In-Training for Brainspotting.

Dexter Mai

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ABS, CHT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 478-9309

Dexter Mai

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ABS, CHT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 478-9309

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Men's Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied

Expertise

Addiction
Alcohol Use
Anger Management
Anxiety
Body Image
Chronic Relapse
Coping Skills
Depression
Emotional Disturbance
Grief
LGBTQ+
Life Transitions
Mood Disorders
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Racial Identity
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Sex Therapy
Spirituality
Sports Performance
Stress
Substance Use

I offer addressing specific challenges faced by AAPIs, navigating LGBTQ identities, overcoming trauma/PTSD, managing relationship dynamics, and coping with daily life stressors. An individualized treatment plan may involve a comprehensive assessment to understand your unique experiences, followed by a combination of evidence-based therapy modalities tailored to your needs.

Dexter Mai

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ABS, CHT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 478-9309

Dexter Mai

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ABS, CHT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 478-9309

22 Endorsements

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Dexter is a compassionate therapist specializing in LGBTQ issues, dedicated to empowering individuals to overcome stigma and embrace their authentic selves, leading lives of greater freedom and fulfillment.

Amma H Tai

Psychologist, PsyD

I have known Mr. Dexter Mai in a professional capacity for few years. He is an enthusiastic person. He can provide a safe environment and incorporate trauma-informed practices into treatment with diverse populations.

Dr. Trung (Jack) Duong

Psychiatrist, MD

Dexter is a wonderful therapist especially with AAPI population. He is approachable and communicative. He works especially well with others and I would recommend him for your therapy journey.

Dr. Christina Stuive

Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-S, NCC, BC-TMH

Talented engaged brainspotter and therapist who brings full attention to his client's needs and uses innovative exciting new interventions and paradigms to help clients access healing and change.

Video Game Counseling

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

In Dexter's care, clients find more than support; they find empowerment. Their unique approach fosters resilience, confidence, and self-discovery. For anyone on the brink of transformation, your journey is safe and respected in their hands.

Andrew Susskind

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SEP, CGP

Dexter Mai is a talented Brainspotting therapist and he is always eager to learn. Dexter's enthusiasm and openness to implement new clinical strategies is palpable and will benefit him in all of his future endeavors.

Simon Chan

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT

Dexter is dedicated to work with Asian American Pacific Islanders populations and their unique challenges. He go above and beyond for his clients.

Jiewen Huang

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CGE

Dexter and I were both supporting a Brainspotting International training when we met. Dexter not only presented as a warm, compassionate, and client-centered professional but also showed as a skilled Brainspotting therapist. Lucky to have him in this field

Erin Burton

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, #109570

As an expert in complex trauma, AAPIs, and men's issues, Dexter uses Brainspotting to help his clients heal. He has a deep understanding of the challenges faced by marginalized individuals and a natural ability to put you at ease with difficult topics.

Brandon Hoshiko

Dexter has a grounded self-awareness that is impressive. This undoubtedly affords Dexter an ability to be present and open in all settings. Dexter is an attuned Brainspotter, a genuine human being, and a caring healer of traumas we experience in life.

Deanna Kessler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW, CYT-200

I met Dexter at a Brainspotting International training, and I'm grateful for the connection. He's a skilled Brainspotting therapist-warm, compassionate, and brings great humor to his work. I highly recommend working with him!

Keren Khait Goldenberg

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, #137961

Dexter is a fantastic therapist and comes highly recommended! With his unique combination of modalities, from Brainspotting to Video Game Therapy, he is a great choice for anyone who needs something beyond the traditional therapeutic approach!

Mindful Evolutions

Dexter is a fantastic clinician and I confidently recommend him to anyone for men's health and trauma work. He is very knowledgeable and personable, and I appreciate how responsive and helpful he's been with me and clients.

Addison Golden

Alex Ly - Anxiety and Trauma Therapist

Dexter and I worked in a community mental health setting together while both working towards licensure. Dexter is thoughtful, compassionate and dedicated.

Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, AMFT

Dexter is passionate about the work that he does. He's a great listener and skilled clinician.

Louis Yeng-lo Lee

Dexter is a genuine and highly intelligent clinician. His enthusiasm and passion for his work is contagious.

Zi Zheng

Dexter is insightful, compassionate, and professional. His experience with applying Brainspotting to address trauma is outstanding.

Samuel Kim

Dexter is a compassionate Brainspotting therapist who has a lot of capacity to hold space for his clients. He has a strong, grounding presence and strives to help his clients grow.

Stephen Rought

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW

I highly recommend Dexter as a therapist for those facing generational trauma and substance use. His compassionate, insightful approach helps clients uncover inherited patterns, heal deeply, and build lasting change in a safe, supportive environment.

Jodie Menish

I highly recommend Dexter for anyone looking to address deep-rooted trauma, including generational trauma and substance use. His energy, passion, and earnest approach make him a standout Brainspotting consultant and therapist. He truly cares about helping

Luis Cardozo

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Dexter is dedicated and professional!

Priscilla Cheng

Dexter and I met through a training I facilitated at an agency. He is a collaborative and warm therapist, specializing working with LGBTQ+ individuals, trauma, and men's mental health. I would without reservation, refer him to clients for therapy.

Client Focus

Age

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

HIV / AIDS Allied ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Sex Worker Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian

I also speak

Mandarin

Age

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

HIV / AIDS Allied ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Sex Worker Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian

I also speak

Mandarin

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
Brainspotting
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Culturally Sensitive
Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
EMDR
Hypnotherapy
Integrative
Narrative
Psychodynamic
Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
Strength-Based

I am considered an integrated therapist, which means I utilize multiple approaches during our sessions to fit your needs best. What you can expect is I am doing my therapy work through a welcomed, judgemental-free, and social justice lens.

Dexter Mai

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ABS, CHT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 478-9309

Dexter Mai

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ABS, CHT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 478-9309

Location

Primary Location

San Francisco, CA 94132

Email me

My website

Additional Location

Cupertino, CA 95014