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Diana Kogan
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
I have over 20 years of experience working with clients that struggle with anxiety, depression, ADHD, stress, trauma, grief, loss and relationship issues. My clinical style is gentle and caring with a focus on helping my client realize their current strengths at the same time helping them discover new ways of finding a solution and learning to utilize them.
I have over 20 years of experience working with clients that struggle with anxiety, depression, ADHD, stress, trauma, grief, loss and relationship issues. My clinical style is gentle and caring with a focus on helping my client realize their current strengths at the same time helping them discover new ways of finding a solution and learning to utilize them.
(949) 867-6749 View (949) 867-6749
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Deeann Peterson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
My goal as a therapist is to help you feel better as quickly as possible. I have years of experience helping individuals, couples, and families with a wide range of issues, including anxiety and depression, marital difficulties, and problems with children/adolescents. Also, I have a strong background in Trauma, Sexual Abuse, Bipolar Disorder, and Borderline Personality Disorder. Please give me a call--I am here to help.
My goal as a therapist is to help you feel better as quickly as possible. I have years of experience helping individuals, couples, and families with a wide range of issues, including anxiety and depression, marital difficulties, and problems with children/adolescents. Also, I have a strong background in Trauma, Sexual Abuse, Bipolar Disorder, and Borderline Personality Disorder. Please give me a call--I am here to help.
(949) 439-3880 View (949) 439-3880
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Netta Halpern
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
The last few years have been especially challenging: COVID, changes in social structure, inflation and other unsettling issues. Do you find yourself with unsettling intrusive thoughts, confused and/or anxious? Do you feel stuck in life? Are depression and anxiety blocking you from living your life? Don't give up. You don't have to do it alone. We can do it together. There is significant strength in seeking support and guidance when you need it.
The last few years have been especially challenging: COVID, changes in social structure, inflation and other unsettling issues. Do you find yourself with unsettling intrusive thoughts, confused and/or anxious? Do you feel stuck in life? Are depression and anxiety blocking you from living your life? Don't give up. You don't have to do it alone. We can do it together. There is significant strength in seeking support and guidance when you need it.
(714) 867-1405 View (714) 867-1405
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Sharon Hou
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MDiv, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92612  (Online Only)
你好!Life is a long journey; we all struggle at some point. Battling with pains and dark thoughts, you long for having a breakthrough to experience healing. In chaos and confusion, you want to find your way and rebuild confidence. I am here to walk the journey of restoration with you. I will accompany you to resolve your interpersonal problems and emotional wounds. My integrative approach tailors to your needs in dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, life transitions, sexual confusion, and spiritual struggles that you may be experiencing. Take action to email me for any question you have.
你好!Life is a long journey; we all struggle at some point. Battling with pains and dark thoughts, you long for having a breakthrough to experience healing. In chaos and confusion, you want to find your way and rebuild confidence. I am here to walk the journey of restoration with you. I will accompany you to resolve your interpersonal problems and emotional wounds. My integrative approach tailors to your needs in dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, life transitions, sexual confusion, and spiritual struggles that you may be experiencing. Take action to email me for any question you have.
(949) 681-9628 View (949) 681-9628
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Jennifer Pourvasei
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
If you’re struggling to find meaning and joy in your life, then I can help. Most clients I work with know in their heart that they can feel better than they do right now. Whether you're feeling anxious, depressed, or stressed, I can help you sort through what the issues are, and how you can manage them in a way that lets you enjoy your life. I also have extensive experience helping clients work through traumatic experiences, so please reach out if that's you.
If you’re struggling to find meaning and joy in your life, then I can help. Most clients I work with know in their heart that they can feel better than they do right now. Whether you're feeling anxious, depressed, or stressed, I can help you sort through what the issues are, and how you can manage them in a way that lets you enjoy your life. I also have extensive experience helping clients work through traumatic experiences, so please reach out if that's you.
(714) 276-8833 View (714) 276-8833
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Mona K Eakin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92612
I am experienced with working with adolescents, teens and adults, who are suffering from anxiety, depression and life changes.
I understand how anxiety and overwhelming worries can be debilitating in these uncertain times. I help adolescents and young adults find the peace they desire. I use my experience in anxiety & trauma to reach your goals. I have success working with high-achievers struggling with perfectionism, imposter syndrome, high expectations, overwhelming stress, loneliness, rigid schedules and balance. My approach is warm, caring, compassionate, collaborative, and supportive towards meeting your goals. My clients appreciate how I am REAL in the room, where they can share openly without judgement.
I am experienced with working with adolescents, teens and adults, who are suffering from anxiety, depression and life changes.
I understand how anxiety and overwhelming worries can be debilitating in these uncertain times. I help adolescents and young adults find the peace they desire. I use my experience in anxiety & trauma to reach your goals. I have success working with high-achievers struggling with perfectionism, imposter syndrome, high expectations, overwhelming stress, loneliness, rigid schedules and balance. My approach is warm, caring, compassionate, collaborative, and supportive towards meeting your goals. My clients appreciate how I am REAL in the room, where they can share openly without judgement.
(714) 242-8973 View (714) 242-8973
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Ashley Zawolik
DNP, ARNP
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
My ideal client is someone who has truly struggled with depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, chronic pain, fibromyalgia, migraines…you’ve tried treatments in the past, whether it’s SSRIs or other modalities for these chronic health conditions, and nothing seems to work. You’re looking for a treatment that is effective and will help you live your best life and help you feel like yourself again
My ideal client is someone who has truly struggled with depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, chronic pain, fibromyalgia, migraines…you’ve tried treatments in the past, whether it’s SSRIs or other modalities for these chronic health conditions, and nothing seems to work. You’re looking for a treatment that is effective and will help you live your best life and help you feel like yourself again
(949) 482-4368 View (949) 482-4368
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Trinity Wang
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
*Please email me to schedule an appt* Have you ever found yourself asking “What was I thinking?” or thought, “I should have done this differently!” I get it, and you’re not alone in these thoughts! They are signs that you’re hoping for change. Whether you’re experiencing conflicts in your relationship, cross-cultural challenges, academic concerns, or you’re taking time for self-exploration, you’re likely feeling overwhelmed, scared, anxious, or even depressed through it all. I’m here to work with you in turning these challenges into the freedom you’re pursuing.
*Please email me to schedule an appt* Have you ever found yourself asking “What was I thinking?” or thought, “I should have done this differently!” I get it, and you’re not alone in these thoughts! They are signs that you’re hoping for change. Whether you’re experiencing conflicts in your relationship, cross-cultural challenges, academic concerns, or you’re taking time for self-exploration, you’re likely feeling overwhelmed, scared, anxious, or even depressed through it all. I’m here to work with you in turning these challenges into the freedom you’re pursuing.
(949) 979-7355 View (949) 979-7355
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Dr. Cassidy Blair
Psychologist, MA, PsyD
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
I specialize in treatment of Anxiety, Depression, Bipolar D/O, variety of Addictions, Trauma, Intimacy and Relationship Issues, Eating D/O, Life Coaching and Performance Coaching.
WE OFFER EVENING AND WEEKEND APPOINTMENTS. My goal is to help you improve the quality of your life and make positive changes by reducing your Anxiety, Depression, eliminating stress, Addiction, and gaining back control. You will achieve a much higher quality of life in a safe, exclusive and caring environment. I will support you to discover your inner strength, and develop effective coping skills. You will experience freedom from emotional pain and feel empowered to achieve your goals and dreams. I provide CONCEIRGE care to executives and professionals.
I specialize in treatment of Anxiety, Depression, Bipolar D/O, variety of Addictions, Trauma, Intimacy and Relationship Issues, Eating D/O, Life Coaching and Performance Coaching.
WE OFFER EVENING AND WEEKEND APPOINTMENTS. My goal is to help you improve the quality of your life and make positive changes by reducing your Anxiety, Depression, eliminating stress, Addiction, and gaining back control. You will achieve a much higher quality of life in a safe, exclusive and caring environment. I will support you to discover your inner strength, and develop effective coping skills. You will experience freedom from emotional pain and feel empowered to achieve your goals and dreams. I provide CONCEIRGE care to executives and professionals.
(424) 888-6124 View (424) 888-6124
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Michelle Fallah
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
I mainly work with those that struggle with anxiety and depression that wish to develop tools to overcome their symptoms.
I mainly work with those that struggle with anxiety and depression that wish to develop tools to overcome their symptoms.
(949) 438-5952 View (949) 438-5952
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Yangyang Xie
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
My name is Dorothy Xie. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of California. My approach is evidence-based and strength-based, solution-focused, and utilizes several modalities such as ACT, CBT, DBT, Family Systems, Gottman Method, Gestalt, EMDR, mindfulness, and more. I work with individuals, couples, and families in a variety of areas including depression, anger management, anxiety, behavioral issues, coping skills, cultural stress, relationship issues, family conflict, grief, and trauma & PTSD, amongst others.
My name is Dorothy Xie. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of California. My approach is evidence-based and strength-based, solution-focused, and utilizes several modalities such as ACT, CBT, DBT, Family Systems, Gottman Method, Gestalt, EMDR, mindfulness, and more. I work with individuals, couples, and families in a variety of areas including depression, anger management, anxiety, behavioral issues, coping skills, cultural stress, relationship issues, family conflict, grief, and trauma & PTSD, amongst others.
(714) 613-4937 View (714) 613-4937
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Christine Chae
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92612
Are you feeling helpless in dealing with your child/teen emotional and behavioral issues? Do you feel lost in connecting with your child/teen? You want to help them but don't know how? I have been working with children, adults, and families for over 15 years to bring out their potential in mindfulness, creativity and relationships through individual and family therapy. Through this process, clients get to know themselves better, in a safe and supportive environment. I develop a therapeutic relationship based on their needs and goals. My experience includes treating individuals with depression, anxiety, anger, and trauma.
Are you feeling helpless in dealing with your child/teen emotional and behavioral issues? Do you feel lost in connecting with your child/teen? You want to help them but don't know how? I have been working with children, adults, and families for over 15 years to bring out their potential in mindfulness, creativity and relationships through individual and family therapy. Through this process, clients get to know themselves better, in a safe and supportive environment. I develop a therapeutic relationship based on their needs and goals. My experience includes treating individuals with depression, anxiety, anger, and trauma.
(818) 350-5345 View (818) 350-5345
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Crossroads Institute
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
Because we have a large group of well trained and qualified psychologists and psychiatrists, we are able to address most concerns that our clients present with, including depression, anxiety, relationship concerns, ADHD, and ASD.
We are an organization of mental health professionals with a common goal of providing excellent and expert services in Los Angeles, Orange County, and San Diego counties. We are committed to providing the highest level of professional expertise and human compassion for issues and concerns that arise in the course of our lives. Crossroads Institute offers psychotherapy services for all ages, psychiatry, clinical, educational, and neuropsychological assessment, and brain training services, including qEEG based Neurofeedback and Biofeedback services.
Because we have a large group of well trained and qualified psychologists and psychiatrists, we are able to address most concerns that our clients present with, including depression, anxiety, relationship concerns, ADHD, and ASD.
We are an organization of mental health professionals with a common goal of providing excellent and expert services in Los Angeles, Orange County, and San Diego counties. We are committed to providing the highest level of professional expertise and human compassion for issues and concerns that arise in the course of our lives. Crossroads Institute offers psychotherapy services for all ages, psychiatry, clinical, educational, and neuropsychological assessment, and brain training services, including qEEG based Neurofeedback and Biofeedback services.
(562) 354-8971 View (562) 354-8971
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Mastaneh Lashkari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
Students, Young Professionals, and Adults who are struggling with issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, or relationship problems.
My name is Mastaneh (Masti) Lashkari, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 136681. I have always been passionate about psychology, philosophy, art, and creativity. I aim to illuminate this profoundly beautiful yet miserable growth process as a therapist. To help you become more conscious, self-actualized, hopeful, and mature. Before psychotherapy, I achieved two decades of successful marketing and sales experience in Business Banking and Pharmaceutical Sales. In other words, I have been practicing and developing a multi-faced wide range of experiences in various forms of psychology for over 20 years.
Students, Young Professionals, and Adults who are struggling with issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, or relationship problems.
My name is Mastaneh (Masti) Lashkari, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 136681. I have always been passionate about psychology, philosophy, art, and creativity. I aim to illuminate this profoundly beautiful yet miserable growth process as a therapist. To help you become more conscious, self-actualized, hopeful, and mature. Before psychotherapy, I achieved two decades of successful marketing and sales experience in Business Banking and Pharmaceutical Sales. In other words, I have been practicing and developing a multi-faced wide range of experiences in various forms of psychology for over 20 years.
(323) 991-9313 View (323) 991-9313
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Alysia St. Clair
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92612
Alysia is a warm, compassionate, caring clinician who provides a calm safe environment to work through life's challenges. Alysia has extensive experience working with a variety of populations including depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, and trauma. She uses Evidenced-Based Practices including mindfulness, DBT, EMDR, and CBT to help clients work through struggles. She is an expert on addiction and trauma based interventions. Alysia is certified as an Advanced Mindfulness Practitioner. She is genuinely compassionate and engages deeply with her clients.
Alysia is a warm, compassionate, caring clinician who provides a calm safe environment to work through life's challenges. Alysia has extensive experience working with a variety of populations including depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, and trauma. She uses Evidenced-Based Practices including mindfulness, DBT, EMDR, and CBT to help clients work through struggles. She is an expert on addiction and trauma based interventions. Alysia is certified as an Advanced Mindfulness Practitioner. She is genuinely compassionate and engages deeply with her clients.
(424) 262-1521 View (424) 262-1521
Photo of Kathleen (Kay) Wenger, Marriage & Family Therapist in 92612, CA
Kathleen (Kay) Wenger
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LPCC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
I offer Couples Counseling, Marital Counseling, Issues with Depression or Anxiety.
Do you feel out of balance in your life? Having conflicts with important relationships; anxiety about the future; regrets about the past? Feeling as though life is passing you by and the joy you once felt isn't there anymore? Let me help you restore balance and happiness in your life and relationships. I am an experienced, skilled licensed counselor and psychology educator and want to help you regain your life, and live it to the fullest. If you are looking for a better life, or just want to resolve a problem that has you stumped, I can help.
I offer Couples Counseling, Marital Counseling, Issues with Depression or Anxiety.
Do you feel out of balance in your life? Having conflicts with important relationships; anxiety about the future; regrets about the past? Feeling as though life is passing you by and the joy you once felt isn't there anymore? Let me help you restore balance and happiness in your life and relationships. I am an experienced, skilled licensed counselor and psychology educator and want to help you regain your life, and live it to the fullest. If you are looking for a better life, or just want to resolve a problem that has you stumped, I can help.
(949) 357-3587 View (949) 357-3587
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Shellee Moore
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, MS, MA, Coach
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612  (Online Only)
My motto - "Don't spend more time in therapy discussing your childhood than it took to live it!" Known as "the solution therapist," I help adults and couples find effective solutions to everyday problems. I combine Solution Focused therapy, Cognitive Behavioral therapy, Positive Psychology and Life Coaching to address: depression, anxiety/panic attacks, PTSD, marriage counseling, singles and dating, codependency, empath, highly sensitive person, food addiction, perfectionism, parenting, behavioral problems, ADD, grief, trauma, and post divorce issues. You are not alone, and there is help and support available.
My motto - "Don't spend more time in therapy discussing your childhood than it took to live it!" Known as "the solution therapist," I help adults and couples find effective solutions to everyday problems. I combine Solution Focused therapy, Cognitive Behavioral therapy, Positive Psychology and Life Coaching to address: depression, anxiety/panic attacks, PTSD, marriage counseling, singles and dating, codependency, empath, highly sensitive person, food addiction, perfectionism, parenting, behavioral problems, ADD, grief, trauma, and post divorce issues. You are not alone, and there is help and support available.
(714) 989-6991 View (714) 989-6991
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Matt Fleischman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92612
Hi, my name is Matt Fleischman. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Newport Beach. I have over 10 years of experience working with children, teens, young adults, families, and couples with a variety of mental heath issues. I specialize in working with children and teens with: Behavior problems, ADHD, Depression, Trauma, and relationship difficulties. I am currently taking new clients. I look forward to working with you!
Hi, my name is Matt Fleischman. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Newport Beach. I have over 10 years of experience working with children, teens, young adults, families, and couples with a variety of mental heath issues. I specialize in working with children and teens with: Behavior problems, ADHD, Depression, Trauma, and relationship difficulties. I am currently taking new clients. I look forward to working with you!
(949) 484-0520 View (949) 484-0520
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Sunita Churiwala
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92612
I see people struggling with issues like depression, anxiety, stress, trauma, ADHD, ASD, and relationships.
Sometimes we need support and guidance to help us manage distress, achieve greater clarity, build better relationships and develop a healthier sense of ourselves. Most of us many times don’t want to discuss our personal problems, even with those closest to us. I would like to extend my hand to help you feel better about your life, relationships and most importantly, yourself! I am a skilled, and experienced psychotherapist who offers a supportive and non-judgmental environment for the therapeutic relationship. I provide short term solution focused or medium to long term therapy for adults and teens, depending on individual needs.
I see people struggling with issues like depression, anxiety, stress, trauma, ADHD, ASD, and relationships.
Sometimes we need support and guidance to help us manage distress, achieve greater clarity, build better relationships and develop a healthier sense of ourselves. Most of us many times don’t want to discuss our personal problems, even with those closest to us. I would like to extend my hand to help you feel better about your life, relationships and most importantly, yourself! I am a skilled, and experienced psychotherapist who offers a supportive and non-judgmental environment for the therapeutic relationship. I provide short term solution focused or medium to long term therapy for adults and teens, depending on individual needs.
(562) 379-5023 View (562) 379-5023
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Sanjeshni Sen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
My name is Sanjeshni Sen. I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT 105067). I utilize a person centered/humanistic approach to therapy. My areas of practice include depression, anxiety, grief, stage of life transitions, interpersonal relationships/conflicts, PTSD, women's issues, coping skills, and addiction/ relapse prevention. I have worked with individuals from varies paths of life. This includes working with individuals with mood disorders, comorbidity, life transitions, self-esteem, family conflict, peer/ romantic relationships, grief, perinatal (pregnancy, postpartum), LGBTQ+ and racial identity.
My name is Sanjeshni Sen. I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT 105067). I utilize a person centered/humanistic approach to therapy. My areas of practice include depression, anxiety, grief, stage of life transitions, interpersonal relationships/conflicts, PTSD, women's issues, coping skills, and addiction/ relapse prevention. I have worked with individuals from varies paths of life. This includes working with individuals with mood disorders, comorbidity, life transitions, self-esteem, family conflict, peer/ romantic relationships, grief, perinatal (pregnancy, postpartum), LGBTQ+ and racial identity.
(661) 463-9826 View (661) 463-9826
Depression Therapists

What is the goal of therapy for depression?

Therapy for depression has several major goals. One is to relieve the mental pain of depression, which distorts feeling and thinking so that sufferers cannot see beyond their current state of mind or envision feeling better. Another is to give people the mental tools to recognize and correct the kinds of distorted thinking that turn a problem into a catastrophe and lead to despair. Therapy also teaches people how to process negative emotions in constructive ways, so they have more control over their own emotional reactivity. And it helps people regain the ability to see themselves positively, the motivation to do things, and the capacity for pleasure.

What happens in therapy for depression?

Perhaps most important, no matter the type of therapy, patients form an alliance with the therapist; that connection is therapeutic in itself, plus it becomes an instrument of change. Patients learn to identify and to challenge their own erroneous beliefs and thoughts that amplify the effects of negative experiences. They learn to identify situations in which they are especially vulnerable. And they learn new patterns of thinking and behaving. They may be given “homework” assignments in which they practice their developing skills. In addition, good therapists regularly monitor patients to assess whether and how much the condition is improving.

What therapy types help with depression?

Several types of short-term therapy have been found effective, each targeting one or more areas of dysfunction. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) helps clients challenge their negative thoughts and beliefs, learn new behavioral strategies, and curb reactivity to distressing situations. Behavioral activation (BA) is a form of therapy often used in conjunction with CBT; it focuses on engagement in rewarding activity as a pathway to changing negative feelings and disturbed mood. Another widely used approach is interpersonal therapy (IPT), which targets the social difficulties that both give rise to and get exacerbated by depression. Therapists may combine approaches as needed.

Can therapy for depression be done online?

Studies have found that online therapy can be highly effective for treating depression, although it may be more challenging to build a good therapist-patient alliance on screen than in person—at least at first. However, online therapy can offer considerable advantages. Accessibility and convenience are tops among them. Some people actually find it easier to talk about problems online than in person. While online therapy typically limits visibility of facial expression and body gestures that give important nonverbal cues to a patient’s state of mind, it can give therapists a glimpse into a patient’s world and life, providing information that can be highly useful in guiding therapy.

How effective is therapy for depression?

Many studies show that therapy is highly effective provided that patients complete the prescribed course of therapy, commonly 16 to 20 sessions. Over the long term, it is more effective than medication and the effects are more enduring. As a result, psychotherapy has the power not just to relieve current suffering but to prevent future episodes of the disorder. Therapy reverses the dysfunction in neural circuitry that disposes individuals to a negative view of themselves, the world, and their future and they acquire coping techniques, problem-solving skills, and understanding of their own vulnerabilities that are useful over the course of a lifetime.