Denise Frisella
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR (she, her)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
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Many of the people I work with appear strong and capable on the outside while privately carrying trauma, grief or memories of experiences that few people know about. I often work with individuals who have lived through profound loss, suicide loss, traumatic events, or chaotic environments, yet have built thoughtful and capable lives. Over time, unresolved grief or complex trauma can surface as depression, emotional numbness, exhaustion, or a sense that something inside still hasn’t settled. Therapy can offer a place where the weight you’ve been carrying no longer has to remain as a heaviness or affecting your growth and happiness.
With more than two decades of clinical experience, I specialize in complex trauma, grief therapy and suicide loss. I use EMDR and inner child work to help the brain and body process memories that may be intrusive, or emotionally overwhelming. Together we work to reduce the intensity of trauma memories, allow you to feel your grief and look to your future.
My approach is compassionate, direct and respectful of each person’s worldview. Many of the people I work with value reflection, spirituality, or a broader sense of meaning without identifying with organized religion. Therapy can offer a space to speak openly, process difficult experiences, and move forward with greater clarity, resilience, and self-trust
Call or Email Denise Frisella Tompkins now for a free 15 minute consultation - (314) 269-1995
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $175
Payment Methods
Apple Cash, Cash, Discover, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa, ZelleInsurance
- Aetna
- BHS | Behavioral Health Systems
- Cigna and Evernorth
- Meritain Health
- Optum
- Oscar Health
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
- Out of Network
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Missouri / 2002031754 Denise Frisella Tompkins
- In Practice for 27 years
- Attended St. Louis University , MSW, Graduated 1999
- License: State of Missouri 2002031754 / 2002
- License: State of California LCSW130090 / 2025
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Trauma and PTSD
- Grief
- Suicide Loss
Expertise
- ADHD
- Anxiety
- Bipolar Disorder
- Body Image
- Chronic Pain
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Family Conflict
- Geriatric and Seniors
- LGBTQ+
- Life Transitions
- Mood Disorders
- Parenting
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Sexual Abuse
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Weight Loss
- Women's Issues
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals
Religion
Secular and Non-Religious
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals
Religion
Secular and Non-Religious
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Coaching
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Compassion Focused
- Culturally Sensitive
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- EMDR
- Energy Psychology
- Integrative
- Multicultural
- Positive Psychology
- Relational
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995
Location
Additional Location
Kansas City, MO 64151
(314) 269-1995Nearby Areas
Counties
Neighborhoods
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call for a free consultation now - (314) 269-1995