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Many of the people I work with appear strong and capable on the outside while privately carrying trauma, grief or memories of experiences that few people know about. I often work with individuals who have lived through profound loss, suicide loss, traumatic events, or chaotic environments, yet have built thoughtful and capable lives. Over time, unresolved grief or complex trauma can surface as depression, emotional numbness, exhaustion, or a sense that something inside still hasn’t settled. Therapy can offer a place where the weight you’ve been carrying no longer has to remain as a heaviness or affecting your growth and happiness.
With more than two decades of clinical experience, I specialize in complex trauma, grief therapy and suicide loss. I use EMDR and inner child work to help the brain and body process memories that may be intrusive, or emotionally overwhelming. Together we work to reduce the intensity of trauma memories, allow you to feel your grief and look to your future.
My approach is compassionate, direct and respectful of each person’s worldview. Many of the people I work with value reflection, spirituality, or a broader sense of meaning without identifying with organized religion. Therapy can offer a space to speak openly, process difficult experiences, and move forward with greater clarity, resilience, and self-trust
Call or Denise Frisella Tompkins now for a free 15 minute consultation - (314) 269-1995

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Ballwin, MO 63011

(314) 269-1995

Kansas City, MO 64151

My website
I offer telehealth sessions throughout Missouri and California, allowing you to engage from a location where you feel comfortable.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Grief and Suicide Loss 
$175 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Let's Connect (314) 269-1995
Photo of Denise Frisella Tompkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Ballwin, MO 63011

(314) 269-1995

Kansas City, MO 64151

My website
I offer telehealth sessions throughout Missouri and California, allowing you to engage from a location where you feel comfortable.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Grief and Suicide Loss 
$175 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $175

Payment Methods

Apple Cash, Cash, Discover, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • BHS | Behavioral Health Systems
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Meritain Health
  • Optum
  • Oscar Health
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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A superbill is provided upon request for clients wishing to submit to their insurance for out-of-network reimbursement.
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Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995
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A superbill is provided upon request for clients wishing to submit to their insurance for out-of-network reimbursement.
Photo of Denise Frisella Tompkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Missouri / 2002031754 Denise Frisella Tompkins
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 27 years
  • Attended St. Louis University , MSW, Graduated 1999
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: State of Missouri 2002031754 / 2002
  • License: State of California LCSW130090 / 2025
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LCSW specializing in EMDR, CPT, CBT, mindfulness, Reiki & EFT tapping. 20 plus years compassionately supporting complex trauma and grief healing.
Photo of Denise Frisella Tompkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995
"
LCSW specializing in EMDR, CPT, CBT, mindfulness, Reiki & EFT tapping. 20 plus years compassionately supporting complex trauma and grief healing.
Photo of Denise Frisella Tompkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Grief
  • Suicide Loss

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Body Image
  • Chronic Pain
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Geriatric and Seniors
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Parenting
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Weight Loss
  • Women's Issues
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EMDR and Inner Child Work, works... I will support your emotional, physical and spiritual wellness. Denise Frisella, LCSW
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Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995
"
EMDR and Inner Child Work, works... I will support your emotional, physical and spiritual wellness. Denise Frisella, LCSW
Photo of Denise Frisella Tompkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals

Religion

Secular and Non-Religious

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals

Religion

Secular and Non-Religious

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • EMDR
  • Energy Psychology
  • Integrative
  • Multicultural
  • Positive Psychology
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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We'll start with what's happening for you right now, easing the immediate weight and building healthier ways of being. When you're ready we'll begin to process trauma histories, complex grief, guilt, negative self talk, working to lessen the intensity. Using EMDR, CPT, CBT, mindfulness, Reiki, and EFT tapping, you'll see progress: reduced distress, clearer insights, and a stronger you.
Photo of Denise Frisella Tompkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995
"
We'll start with what's happening for you right now, easing the immediate weight and building healthier ways of being. When you're ready we'll begin to process trauma histories, complex grief, guilt, negative self talk, working to lessen the intensity. Using EMDR, CPT, CBT, mindfulness, Reiki, and EFT tapping, you'll see progress: reduced distress, clearer insights, and a stronger you.
Photo of Denise Frisella Tompkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (314) 269-1995

Location

Primary Location

Ballwin, MO 63011

(314) 269-1995

Additional Location

Kansas City, MO 64151

(314) 269-1995
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I offer telehealth sessions throughout Missouri and California, allowing you to engage from a location where you feel comfortable.
Photo of Denise Frisella Tompkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call for a free consultation now - (314) 269-1995
"
I offer telehealth sessions throughout Missouri and California, allowing you to engage from a location where you feel comfortable.
Photo of Denise Frisella Tompkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Denise Frisella Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Call for a free consultation now - (314) 269-1995