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Delve Deep Psychotherapy

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT (he, him)

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Available both in-person and online
Sebastopol, CA 95472
I enjoy supporting individuals and couples who feel misunderstood or marginalized. I like helping people gain a better understanding of themselves and their patterns and how understanding themselves better can lead to positive changes and improved satisfaction in life. I find working with trauma, neuro-diversity, and relationship issues fascinating and I have a strong passion to help others. Some specialties I have include working with open relationships/polyamory, being sex positive and working with kink and BDSM, supporting psychedelic experiences with pre-medicine support and integration work, and working with the LGBT community.
I am a Holistic therapist who likes to focus on healing an individual from all aspects including mind-body wellness. I bring an eclectic skill set of many different therapeutic approaches and orientations so that I can use different techniques to find the best tools and interventions to help and support whoever I am working with.
I like to bring my authentic self into the sessions as I believe it makes it easier for someone to feel safe and trusting to be able to go deep with their therapy and get the most out of each session. I work from a person-centered modality to meet you where you are and help address the primary challenges you are facing.
Call or Delve Deep Psychotherapy now for a free 15 minute consultation - (707) 985-2282

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Sebastopol, CA 95472

(707) 985-2282
Website
I have flexibility to conduct in-person or online tele-health sessions with flexibility in my scheduling to accommodate your needs.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, ADHD and Relationship Issues 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (707) 985-2282
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Sebastopol, CA 95472

(707) 985-2282
Website
I have flexibility to conduct in-person or online tele-health sessions with flexibility in my scheduling to accommodate your needs.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, ADHD and Relationship Issues 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $150
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Optum
  • Oxford
  • Quest Behavioral Health
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Western Health Advantage
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I don't want cost to be an issue or a barrier to therapy so please ask and I will likely be able to accommodate you in some way. I accept many different insurance carriers or can provide a "superbill" for you to get reimbursed by your insurance provider. I also offer sliding scale rates.
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Delve Deep Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 985-2282
"
I don't want cost to be an issue or a barrier to therapy so please ask and I will likely be able to accommodate you in some way. I accept many different insurance carriers or can provide a "superbill" for you to get reimbursed by your insurance provider. I also offer sliding scale rates.
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Delve Deep Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 985-2282

Qualifications

    Marriage & Family Therapist: Jacob Lapides

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 104773 Jacob Lapides
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 11 years
  • Attended John F. Kennedy University, Masters in Counseling Psychology; emphasis in Holi, Graduated 2010
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from WPATH 2023
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Delve Deep Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (707) 985-2282
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Delve Deep Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (707) 985-2282

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Trauma and PTSD
  • ADHD
  • Relationship Issues

Expertise

  • Anger Management
  • Coping Skills
  • Couples Counseling
  • Depression
  • Existential life questions
  • Family Conflict
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Thinking Disorders
  • Transgender
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I will help you gain clarity on what is keeping you stuck in old patterns that no longer work for you & help you gain control of your reactions to feel more free, in-control of your life, and not let your past impact your ability to feel joy currently. Some of my specialties include working with ADHD and other neuro-diversities, individuals identifying as LGBT, trauma, teens, and single parents.
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Delve Deep Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 985-2282
"
I will help you gain clarity on what is keeping you stuck in old patterns that no longer work for you & help you gain control of your reactions to feel more free, in-control of your life, and not let your past impact your ability to feel joy currently. Some of my specialties include working with ADHD and other neuro-diversities, individuals identifying as LGBT, trauma, teens, and single parents.
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Delve Deep Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 985-2282

5 Endorsements

Kirsty Cordell
Kirsty Cordell
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTMALPCC
Authenticity, genuine care, and a depth of knowledge and experience underscores Jacob's work as a clinician. His dedication to understanding the unique needs and perspectives of the client's he works with is a priority that is felt in our consultations.
Dr. Austin Slade
Dr. Austin Slade
PsychologistPsyD
Jacob is a caring, grounded person, with a big heart. He is nonjudgmental and easy to talk to. I can only imagine how this translates as a clinician. I highly recommend him.
Alyson Filippa, LCSW
Alyson Filippa, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Jacob is a gem of a human and a skilled and heart-centered therapist. Jacob is a beautiful balance of strength and compassion. His skills are varied and he is an expansive person with a great deal of capacity to hold all of life's challenges with care.
Alen Schwab
Alen Schwab
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
I would reach out to Jacob if I needed support with: LGBTQ+ topics, gender dysphoria, polyamory, sex/intimacy issues, mood/anxiety issues, personality disorders, and ADHD and/or autism spectrum. Jacob is a dependable colleague and I value his perspective.
Liz Cosentino
Liz Cosentino
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMA
Jacob is a thoughtful, grounded therapist with a calm, compassionate presence. He brings deep insight and genuine care to his work with both individuals and couples, creating space for real growth, healing, and connection.

Client Focus

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Little Person Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Religion

Jewish

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Little Person Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Religion

Jewish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Eclectic
  • Existential
  • Humanistic
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Multicultural
  • Person-Centered
  • Positive Psychology
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Somatic
  • Transpersonal
  • Trauma Focused
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I utilize a Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) approach which melds together the scientific based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques with Mindfulness tools and approaches. This approach can help people slow down their automatic patterned responses and create space to choose how to react, feel, and handle situations.
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Delve Deep Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 985-2282
"
I utilize a Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) approach which melds together the scientific based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques with Mindfulness tools and approaches. This approach can help people slow down their automatic patterned responses and create space to choose how to react, feel, and handle situations.
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Delve Deep Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 985-2282

Location

Primary Location

Sebastopol, CA 95472

(707) 985-2282
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I have flexibility to conduct in-person or online tele-health sessions with flexibility in my scheduling to accommodate your needs.
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Delve Deep Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (707) 985-2282
"
I have flexibility to conduct in-person or online tele-health sessions with flexibility in my scheduling to accommodate your needs.
Photo of Jacob Lapides - Delve Deep Psychotherapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Delve Deep Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (707) 985-2282