Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Washington, DC
My ideal client is seeking more than traditional therapy. They want creative, playful ways to reconnect with joy and their authentic self. They may be navigating complex identities and need a supportive space to explore these. Often, they feel stuck or disconnected due to trauma, societal/familial expectations, or a desire for deeper self-awareness. Their goals may be about rediscovering their creativity, unlocking/understanding parts of their identity, and building deeper, more authentic connections in their relationships. They come to me ready for a dynamic, interactive approach that fosters growth and healing.
My ideal client is seeking more than traditional therapy. They want creative, playful ways to reconnect with joy and their authentic self. They may be navigating complex identities and need a supportive space to explore these. Often, they feel stuck or disconnected due to trauma, societal/familial expectations, or a desire for deeper self-awareness. Their goals may be about rediscovering their creativity, unlocking/understanding parts of their identity, and building deeper, more authentic connections in their relationships. They come to me ready for a dynamic, interactive approach that fosters growth and healing.
Infinite Zen Holistic
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, ABS, LICSW, LCSW-S, CCATP, CST
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I am a sex-positive, non-monogamous, BDSM/ KINK, LGBTQIA+ affirming relationship therapist.
Areas of Specialty: LGBTQ/ non-monogamous relationships, infidelity, coming out KINK, Sex therapy Couple's Therapy, IFS, KINK, intimacy and sexuality, sacred sexuality, anxiety, work-related stress, grief, and loss. Each person/ couple/polycule is unique therefore, I use an individually tailored eclectic and flexible approach.
I am a sex-positive, non-monogamous, BDSM/ KINK, LGBTQIA+ affirming relationship therapist.
Areas of Specialty: LGBTQ/ non-monogamous relationships, infidelity, coming out KINK, Sex therapy Couple's Therapy, IFS, KINK, intimacy and sexuality, sacred sexuality, anxiety, work-related stress, grief, and loss. Each person/ couple/polycule is unique therefore, I use an individually tailored eclectic and flexible approach.
Dr. Ricaurte has worked with diverse individual of different races, ethnicities, religions, and sexual orientations in a variety of settings. Dr. Ricaurte is fluent in Spanish both written and spoken and welcomes the chance to work with Spanish speaking clients. She is an advocate, educator, and therapist, focusing her work on issues related to human sexuality and human rights. Dr. Ricaurte has conducted research on factors that influence relationship satisfaction, conflict, and compromise among interfaith couples.
Dr. Ricaurte has worked with diverse individual of different races, ethnicities, religions, and sexual orientations in a variety of settings. Dr. Ricaurte is fluent in Spanish both written and spoken and welcomes the chance to work with Spanish speaking clients. She is an advocate, educator, and therapist, focusing her work on issues related to human sexuality and human rights. Dr. Ricaurte has conducted research on factors that influence relationship satisfaction, conflict, and compromise among interfaith couples.
I’m a Certified Sex Therapist and Couples Therapist providing care to individuals and couples in Arizona, Illinois, New York, Washington D.C., and Florida. My approach is trauma-informed, offering a safe and compassionate space to address sensitive issues such as betrayal trauma, relationship repair, mismatched libido, erectile difficulties, and dating challenges. I’m passionate about helping people build stronger connections, heal from painful experiences, and cultivate more satisfying intimate lives.
I’m a Certified Sex Therapist and Couples Therapist providing care to individuals and couples in Arizona, Illinois, New York, Washington D.C., and Florida. My approach is trauma-informed, offering a safe and compassionate space to address sensitive issues such as betrayal trauma, relationship repair, mismatched libido, erectile difficulties, and dating challenges. I’m passionate about helping people build stronger connections, heal from painful experiences, and cultivate more satisfying intimate lives.
Stacy Reyes
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCPC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I have been practicing for over 6 years and have a focus on working with individuals and couples, including individuals throughout the pregnancy and postpartum phase. I have experience working with clients facing issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma history, ADHD, and more. I believe in creating an open and supportive space for all clients, regardless of age, gender, sexual orientation, race, and religious practices.
I have been practicing for over 6 years and have a focus on working with individuals and couples, including individuals throughout the pregnancy and postpartum phase. I have experience working with clients facing issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma history, ADHD, and more. I believe in creating an open and supportive space for all clients, regardless of age, gender, sexual orientation, race, and religious practices.
Sierra Coleman-Modern Love and Wellness
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LCMFT, ABS
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I am LGBTQ+ allied, sex positive, kink-friendly and nurturing to all clients.
Hi there! I believe every client brings a unique mix of challenges, strengths, and stories to therapy. I tailor my approach to meet each person’s individual needs, using a person-centered, empathetic, and direct style that draws on experiential therapy and Internal Family Systems (parts work). As a certified Sexologist (ABS), I also support individuals and couples in navigating sexual and relational concerns. I view therapy as a collaborative process that integrates mind, body, and relationships to foster empowerment and lasting growth.
I am LGBTQ+ allied, sex positive, kink-friendly and nurturing to all clients.
Hi there! I believe every client brings a unique mix of challenges, strengths, and stories to therapy. I tailor my approach to meet each person’s individual needs, using a person-centered, empathetic, and direct style that draws on experiential therapy and Internal Family Systems (parts work). As a certified Sexologist (ABS), I also support individuals and couples in navigating sexual and relational concerns. I view therapy as a collaborative process that integrates mind, body, and relationships to foster empowerment and lasting growth.
Her specialty is with neurodivergent individuals, people in ethical non-monogamous relationships, the kink/BDSM community, and LGBTQ+ individuals.
Alicia’s therapeutic style is process based, collaborative and challenging without judgment. She views psychotherapy through a sex positive, body positive/HAES, feminist, and culturally humble lens. Her focus is not on pathologizing but of discovering and embracing aspects of yourself and the way you live your life.
Her specialty is with neurodivergent individuals, people in ethical non-monogamous relationships, the kink/BDSM community, and LGBTQ+ individuals.
Alicia’s therapeutic style is process based, collaborative and challenging without judgment. She views psychotherapy through a sex positive, body positive/HAES, feminist, and culturally humble lens. Her focus is not on pathologizing but of discovering and embracing aspects of yourself and the way you live your life.
Perhaps you’re navigating kink, repairing trust, or untangling shame that keeps you from fully embracing your sexuality.
I provide a collaborative, shame-free space to explore relationships, sexuality, and intimacy. I specialize in supporting polyamorous, kinky, and queer adults as they navigate consent, communication, and connection. Using trauma-informed and somatic approaches, I help clients reclaim pleasure, rebuild trust, and feel safe in their bodies.
Perhaps you’re navigating kink, repairing trust, or untangling shame that keeps you from fully embracing your sexuality.
I provide a collaborative, shame-free space to explore relationships, sexuality, and intimacy. I specialize in supporting polyamorous, kinky, and queer adults as they navigate consent, communication, and connection. Using trauma-informed and somatic approaches, I help clients reclaim pleasure, rebuild trust, and feel safe in their bodies.
I also have experience working with folks in the Poly, ENM, and Kink communities.
We all feel stuck, beat down, and demoralized sometimes. Whether it’s by
stress at work; feeling disconnected from friends, partners, maybe even
yourself; a recent devastating loss, or some other challenge in your life; you’re not alone and there is help.
My approach is best defined as evidence-based, highlighted with a warm, safe, welcoming, and understanding environment. I use science-based therapeutic techniques and approaches to empower clients with the tools to directly address their difficulties, while creating a safe, nonjudgmental space for them to be who they truly are. También hablo español
I also have experience working with folks in the Poly, ENM, and Kink communities.
We all feel stuck, beat down, and demoralized sometimes. Whether it’s by
stress at work; feeling disconnected from friends, partners, maybe even
yourself; a recent devastating loss, or some other challenge in your life; you’re not alone and there is help.
My approach is best defined as evidence-based, highlighted with a warm, safe, welcoming, and understanding environment. I use science-based therapeutic techniques and approaches to empower clients with the tools to directly address their difficulties, while creating a safe, nonjudgmental space for them to be who they truly are. También hablo español
My work emphasizes multicultural counseling and affirming therapy for queer, kink, polyamorous, and neurodivergent communities.
I’m queer, gay, neurodivergent, and a non-linear thinker. I know what it's like to feel like a misfit and I help other misfits reclaim power, freedom, and truth. The world teaches queer & neurodivergent people to doubt our inner truths; I teach people how to slow down & listen inward. Your body isn’t the enemy. It holds a deeper wisdom: the key to your aliveness, your clarity, and your next right move. So stop fighting yourself & come learn how to have a dialogue within. Let’s work together to build trust in your deepest self, listen to your true guide, & find your inner home. Let's get started in finding your power to be you.
My work emphasizes multicultural counseling and affirming therapy for queer, kink, polyamorous, and neurodivergent communities.
I’m queer, gay, neurodivergent, and a non-linear thinker. I know what it's like to feel like a misfit and I help other misfits reclaim power, freedom, and truth. The world teaches queer & neurodivergent people to doubt our inner truths; I teach people how to slow down & listen inward. Your body isn’t the enemy. It holds a deeper wisdom: the key to your aliveness, your clarity, and your next right move. So stop fighting yourself & come learn how to have a dialogue within. Let’s work together to build trust in your deepest self, listen to your true guide, & find your inner home. Let's get started in finding your power to be you.
My ideal client is someone who has experienced trauma and is seeking a therapist who truly holds space for the depth of their experiences. They may be navigating the lasting effects of abuse, struggling with their identity, or working through challenges related to current policies, sexuality, or sex work. They need a space where they feel safer, affirmed, and met with genuine compassion—where they don’t have to educate their therapist or fear judgment. Their goals might include processing past trauma, building healthier relationships, affirming identity, developing coping skills, or simply feeling more at home in themselves.
My ideal client is someone who has experienced trauma and is seeking a therapist who truly holds space for the depth of their experiences. They may be navigating the lasting effects of abuse, struggling with their identity, or working through challenges related to current policies, sexuality, or sex work. They need a space where they feel safer, affirmed, and met with genuine compassion—where they don’t have to educate their therapist or fear judgment. Their goals might include processing past trauma, building healthier relationships, affirming identity, developing coping skills, or simply feeling more at home in themselves.
Connor is queer+, sex+, kink+, and poly-affirming for any clients of those backgrounds or exploration journeys.
He has extensive experience working with adults of emotionally immature parents, adult children of dysfunctional and/or addicted families, codependency, substance use/misuse, perfectionism, sexual issues, trauma, relationship issues, and people-pleasing personalities and tendencies. He is additionally interested in working with queer adult males.
Connor is queer+, sex+, kink+, and poly-affirming for any clients of those backgrounds or exploration journeys.
He has extensive experience working with adults of emotionally immature parents, adult children of dysfunctional and/or addicted families, codependency, substance use/misuse, perfectionism, sexual issues, trauma, relationship issues, and people-pleasing personalities and tendencies. He is additionally interested in working with queer adult males.
My areas of specialty are Trauma and PTSD, Dissociative Disorders (DID), Relationship Issues, Open Relationships Non Monogamy, and Sex-Positive, Kink Allied practice.
I work from a psychodynamic and attachment theory orientation. I believe that by developing a trusting and meaningful connection between therapist and client, each person can begin to create the relationship with themselves, others, and the world that works best for them.
My areas of specialty are Trauma and PTSD, Dissociative Disorders (DID), Relationship Issues, Open Relationships Non Monogamy, and Sex-Positive, Kink Allied practice.
I work from a psychodynamic and attachment theory orientation. I believe that by developing a trusting and meaningful connection between therapist and client, each person can begin to create the relationship with themselves, others, and the world that works best for them.
Hi, I'm Anah! I am a Licensed Graduate Professional Counselor (LGPC) serving clients in Washington, D.C. specializing in sex therapy and relationship counseling. I work with individuals and couples to explore intimacy, strengthen connection, and navigate challenges in their sexual and relational lives. My goal is to create a safe, affirming space where clients can openly discuss their experiences and move toward greater fulfillment and authenticity. As a first-generation American with roots in the West Indies, I bring a culturally responsive lens to my practice. I also support clients with stress, anxiety, depression, generation
Hi, I'm Anah! I am a Licensed Graduate Professional Counselor (LGPC) serving clients in Washington, D.C. specializing in sex therapy and relationship counseling. I work with individuals and couples to explore intimacy, strengthen connection, and navigate challenges in their sexual and relational lives. My goal is to create a safe, affirming space where clients can openly discuss their experiences and move toward greater fulfillment and authenticity. As a first-generation American with roots in the West Indies, I bring a culturally responsive lens to my practice. I also support clients with stress, anxiety, depression, generation
Hey badasses and tenderhearts. I’m Petey, a sex educator and therapy intern making the taboo feel totally normal. I create inclusive, shame free spaces where you can show up as your full, messy, beautiful self. I work mostly with adults on sexual wellness, intimacy, identity, and unlearning sexual shame, but I also support kids with emotional and behavioral needs. I bring a mix of art and science to the therapy room with a background in bioethics, studio art, and counseling. If you are curious, questioning, healing, or just want to talk about the stuff no one else will, I am here for it. Let’s talk!
Hey badasses and tenderhearts. I’m Petey, a sex educator and therapy intern making the taboo feel totally normal. I create inclusive, shame free spaces where you can show up as your full, messy, beautiful self. I work mostly with adults on sexual wellness, intimacy, identity, and unlearning sexual shame, but I also support kids with emotional and behavioral needs. I bring a mix of art and science to the therapy room with a background in bioethics, studio art, and counseling. If you are curious, questioning, healing, or just want to talk about the stuff no one else will, I am here for it. Let’s talk!
Through video Telehealth sessions, two main therapy approaches I use are Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Existential Therapy. In CBT, I am able to help you understand what thoughts are present and how to work through those thoughts to change behavior. An additional option, if desired, is Existential Therapy; with this optional approach, I help you to focus on larger questions involving purpose in life, drives and passions, meaning of life and also death, and other topics.
Through video Telehealth sessions, two main therapy approaches I use are Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Existential Therapy. In CBT, I am able to help you understand what thoughts are present and how to work through those thoughts to change behavior. An additional option, if desired, is Existential Therapy; with this optional approach, I help you to focus on larger questions involving purpose in life, drives and passions, meaning of life and also death, and other topics.
Therapy is a journey of self-discovery, healing and empowerment. It’s an opportunity for you to explore your life's narrative and dictate how the rest of your story will unfold. Whether it’s healing wounds from trauma, processing life-altering events, focusing on coping with a specific struggle such as anxiety, depression, PTSD, or working to improve your relationships, it's my honor to join you on your journey.
Therapy is a journey of self-discovery, healing and empowerment. It’s an opportunity for you to explore your life's narrative and dictate how the rest of your story will unfold. Whether it’s healing wounds from trauma, processing life-altering events, focusing on coping with a specific struggle such as anxiety, depression, PTSD, or working to improve your relationships, it's my honor to join you on your journey.
Let’s be honest: something hurts. Maybe it’s a relationship that’s unraveling, a sense of disconnection in your sex life, or a gnawing question about who you are and where you belong. Maybe you’ve been carrying the weight of shame, confusion, or invisibility for far too long. And in this moment, you’re searching for something more. Relief. Clarity. Change. If you’re navigating identity, intimacy, or the ache of transition, especially as someone under the Queer umbrella, you know how heavy it can feel. The world isn’t always kind to complexity. Whatever it is that has brought you to my profile, I am here to support you.
Let’s be honest: something hurts. Maybe it’s a relationship that’s unraveling, a sense of disconnection in your sex life, or a gnawing question about who you are and where you belong. Maybe you’ve been carrying the weight of shame, confusion, or invisibility for far too long. And in this moment, you’re searching for something more. Relief. Clarity. Change. If you’re navigating identity, intimacy, or the ache of transition, especially as someone under the Queer umbrella, you know how heavy it can feel. The world isn’t always kind to complexity. Whatever it is that has brought you to my profile, I am here to support you.
Hi there, I'm Emma! I specialize in working with adults of all ages that are facing eating disorders, depression, anxiety, trauma, and body image issues. I also work with clients seeking to explore their gender, sexuality, and relationships to sex and sexuality.
I am passionate about helping individuals live authentically in their values, their relationships, and in the present moment.
Hi there, I'm Emma! I specialize in working with adults of all ages that are facing eating disorders, depression, anxiety, trauma, and body image issues. I also work with clients seeking to explore their gender, sexuality, and relationships to sex and sexuality.
I am passionate about helping individuals live authentically in their values, their relationships, and in the present moment.
Helping You Find the Best You. Authentically, Boldly, and Without Shame
I am a licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, speaker, and sex educator specializing in LGBTQIA+ mental health, addiction, and inclusive sexuality. I work with individuals navigating issues such as social anxiety, fear of rejection, challenges around coming out, and the deep ache of feeling disconnected or alone. I also have extensive experience working with individuals impacted by substance use particularly crystal meth and sex-drug fusion offering compassionate, harm-reduction-informed care.
Helping You Find the Best You. Authentically, Boldly, and Without Shame
I am a licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, speaker, and sex educator specializing in LGBTQIA+ mental health, addiction, and inclusive sexuality. I work with individuals navigating issues such as social anxiety, fear of rejection, challenges around coming out, and the deep ache of feeling disconnected or alone. I also have extensive experience working with individuals impacted by substance use particularly crystal meth and sex-drug fusion offering compassionate, harm-reduction-informed care.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.