David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

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David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

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330 West 58th Street Suite 306 New York, NY 10019

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You may care deeply about each other but feel stuck in the same arguments—often about communication, closeness, trust, intimacy, parenting, or everyday responsibilities. Conversations quickly escalate, one of you shuts down, or nothing ever seems fully resolved. Over time, you may feel more like opponents than partners. I help couples understand these recurring patterns, communicate differently, and rebuild a sense of connection and security.

My approach is grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). I help couples understand the pattern that takes over during conflict and the emotions underneath it. Together, we’ll work toward conversations in which each partner can feel heard, understood, and more securely connected.

Couples often wait until they feel discouraged or unsure whether things can change. Therapy offers a supportive, nonjudgmental space to slow down the conflict and understand what is happening between you. If you’re tired of having the same arguments and want to find your way back to each other, I’m here to help you take the next step.

Call or Email David Stahler now for a free 15 minute consultation - (914) 521-4064

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

330 West 58th Street

Suite 306

New York, NY 10019 map

(914) 521-4064

My website

I offer in-person and virtual sessions. I look forward to meeting you!

I specialize in Relationship Issues, Marital and Premarital and Anxiety

$175 Per Session

I see individuals and couples

Let's Connect (914) 521-4064

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

330 West 58th Street

Suite 306

New York, NY 10019 map

(914) 521-4064

My website

I offer in-person and virtual sessions. I look forward to meeting you!

I specialize in Relationship Issues, Marital and Premarital and Anxiety

$175 Per Session

I see individuals and couples

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $175
Couple Sessions $250
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

Out of Network

David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

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David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. Email or (914) 521-4064

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of New York / P132611 Supervised by Michael Moran (New York / 078605-01) David Stahler

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 2 years

Attended New York University, Masters in Mental Health Counseling, Graduated 2024

Additional Credentials

Certificate from Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy Core Skills 2025

Degree/Diploma from New York University MBA / 2016

I hold a Master's in Mental Health Counseling and an MBA from NYU, combining clinical expertise with business insight. Certified in LGBTQ-affirmative CBT from Yale, I have experience working with diverse populations, including LGBTQ and modern Orthodox clients.

David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 521-4064

David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 521-4064

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Relationship Issues
Marital and Premarital
Anxiety

Expertise

LGBTQ+

I work with clients who are navigating relationship challenges, LGBTQ concerns, or anxiety. In our initial sessions, we'll explore and develop a personalized plan to address their issues. Many clients notice improved communication, reduced stress, and deeper connection as we progress through treatment.

David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 521-4064

David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 521-4064

5 Endorsements

Rachel Molly Moses

Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC

David combines deep empathy with a strong clinical approach with all his clients. He is dedicated to helping clients live authentic, empowered lives.

Amanda Fogel

Counselor, LMHC

David has a remarkable talent for making his clients feel truly seen and valued. He brings a deep curiosity and insightfulness to his work, fostering growth in all of his clients.

Michael Moran

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CST-S

David is a keen combination of being very intelligent/thoughtful while also creating a sense of warmth and safety. I've witnessed how this helps clients develop the capacity to experience deep, vulnerable feelings and get right to the heart of the matter.

Anastasia Voron

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, PMH-C

David is a wonderful, warm, and highly skilled clinician. I highly recommend him!

Dr. Matthew Keller

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MA, LMFT-D, CST-S

David is a compassionate therapist who brings genuine passion and care to his affirming work with the LGBTQI+ community. His warmth and cultural humility create a space where clients feel truly seen as they navigate identity, relationships, and growth.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Queer Allied

Religion

Jewish

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Queer Allied

Religion

Jewish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Attachment-based
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Emotionally Focused
Integrative
Psychodynamic

I use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and integrative approaches tailored to your needs. In our first session, we'll explore what brought you to therapy and develop a plan together. With EFT, we'll deepen emotional understanding, strengthen connections, and create lasting change in your relationships and well-being.

David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 521-4064

David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 521-4064

Location

Primary Location

330 West 58th Street

Suite 306

New York, NY 10019

(914) 521-4064

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Nearby Areas

Cities

New York, NY

Counties

New York

Zips

Neighborhoods

I offer in-person and virtual sessions. I look forward to meeting you!

David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

Call for a free consultation now - (914) 521-4064

I offer in-person and virtual sessions. I look forward to meeting you!

David Stahler

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP

Call for a free consultation now - (914) 521-4064

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