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Alamo, CA 94507
Most couples who find their way here have already tried talking it through — and keep ending up in the same place. The problem usually isn't effort or intention. It's that they're missing a framework built on what actually works. I'm a Gottman Method Level 3 practitioner with 15 years teaching communication at NYU Tisch. I work with couples navigating conflict, emotional distance, eroded trust, and affair recovery — and with individuals dealing with anxiety, burnout, and major life transitions.
Sessions are structured and direct. We identify what's driving the pattern, build specific skills to interrupt it, and track whether they're working. You'll know therapy is doing something because you'll be able to measure it — arguments that used to derail you for days start resolving faster, and the distance between you actually starts to shift.
I came to therapy after 15 years in the classroom at NYU, where I taught expository writing — which is really a study in how people communicate, what they mean versus what they say, and why some words land and others don't. That background shapes everything about how I work.
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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Alamo, CA 94507

(341) 221-3642

Atherton, CA 94027

My website
Direct, structured sessions with something concrete to take away every time. Reach out — first step is easy.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Relationship Issues and Infidelity 
$395 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (341) 221-3642
Photo of Daniel Menely, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Alamo, CA 94507

(341) 221-3642

Atherton, CA 94027

My website
Direct, structured sessions with something concrete to take away every time. Reach out — first step is easy.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Relationship Issues and Infidelity 
$395 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $395
  • Couple Sessions $395

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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395 per session, paid out of pocket. Superbills are provided, and Reimbursify can assist with submitting claims. Reimbursement depends on each client's out-of-network benefits.
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Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (341) 221-3642
"
395 per session, paid out of pocket. Superbills are provided, and Reimbursify can assist with submitting claims. Reimbursement depends on each client's out-of-network benefits.
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Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (341) 221-3642

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 20773 Daniel Menely
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended New York University, MA in Applied Psychology
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from Vassar College BA, English Literature
  • Degree/Diploma from New York University MFA, Creative Writing
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Gottman Method Level 3 Practicum Training — advanced clinical training in the Gottman Method. MA Applied Psychology and MFA from NYU. Post-Master's Certificates in Trauma-Informed Practice and Clinical Assessment from NYU Silver School of Social Work.
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Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (341) 221-3642
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Gottman Method Level 3 Practicum Training — advanced clinical training in the Gottman Method. MA Applied Psychology and MFA from NYU. Post-Master's Certificates in Trauma-Informed Practice and Clinical Assessment from NYU Silver School of Social Work.
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Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (341) 221-3642

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Relationship Issues
  • Infidelity

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Communication Problems
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Grief
  • Intimacy Issues
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Parenting
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
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My primary focus is couples therapy using the Gottman Method — conflict, communication breakdown, emotional distance, and affair recovery. I also work with individuals navigating anxiety, burnout, relationship stress, and life transitions.
Photo of Daniel Menely, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (341) 221-3642
"
My primary focus is couples therapy using the Gottman Method — conflict, communication breakdown, emotional distance, and affair recovery. I also work with individuals navigating anxiety, burnout, relationship stress, and life transitions.
Photo of Daniel Menely, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (341) 221-3642

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Gottman Method
  • Psychodynamic
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
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I draw primarily on the Gottman Method, which I use as a structured, research-backed framework rather than a general orientation. I also incorporate elements of solution-focused and emotionally focused approaches where they serve the work.
Photo of Daniel Menely, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (341) 221-3642
"
I draw primarily on the Gottman Method, which I use as a structured, research-backed framework rather than a general orientation. I also incorporate elements of solution-focused and emotionally focused approaches where they serve the work.
Photo of Daniel Menely, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (341) 221-3642

Location

Primary Location

Alamo, CA 94507

(341) 221-3642

Additional Location

Atherton, CA 94027

(341) 221-3642
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Direct, structured sessions with something concrete to take away every time. Reach out — first step is easy.
Photo of Daniel Menely, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (341) 221-3642
"
Direct, structured sessions with something concrete to take away every time. Reach out — first step is easy.
Photo of Daniel Menely, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (341) 221-3642