Dan
Counselor, MA, LMHC
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You still love each other. You’re just exhausted.
Remember when it was just the two of you? Now, between the demands of career, community, and raising kids, it can feel like you and your partner have become "efficient roommates" instead of best friends. You still like each other, but the constant bickering or that "walking on eggshells" feeling is draining the joy out of your home.
I get it. As a husband in a long-term marriage and a father of two young kids, I’m right there in the trenches with you. I know how hard it is to protect your relationship when life feels like a never-ending to-do list.
In my work, I don't just "talk about feelings." I use evidence-based tools from the Gottman Method and EFT to help you:
Stop the circular arguments before they escalate.
Move past the resentment of "who does more" around the house.
Reconnect emotionally so you feel like a team again, not just co-parents.
It takes effort, but a fulfilling, joyful partnership is entirely achievable—even when you’re running on five hours of sleep. I’d love to help you build a relationship that feels like a sanctuary, not another chore.
Let’s see if we’re a good fit. Reach out for a brief, no-pressure consultation, and let's get started.
Take the first step to help. Call or Email Dan Fajans now - (206) 452-4104
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $180
- Couple Sessions $180
Payment Methods
Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Out of Network
Dan Fajans
Counselor, MA, LMHC
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Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Washington / LH61332732 Dan Fajans
- In Practice for 10 years
- Attended Saybrook University, Graduated 2017
Education and Years In Practice
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Depression
- Anxiety
Expertise
- ADHD
- Adults with ADHD
- Bisexual
- Body Image
- Coping Skills
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Internet Addiction
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Mood Disorders
- Parenting Children with Behavior Challenges
- Peer Relationships
- Polyamory & ENM
- Self Esteem
- Stress
- Trauma and PTSD
Client Focus
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)
- Gestalt
- Interpersonal
- Lifespan Integration
- Person-Centered
Location
Additional Location
Olympia, WA 98506
(206) 452-4104