Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Wolcott, CT
Ashle Hupchick
Licensed Professional Counselor, LADC, LPC, NCC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Have you ever been weighed down by feelings of anxiety or depression? Do you struggle with trauma? Are you struggling with your gender identity or sexuality? Do you find yourself in the cycle of substance abuse? Are you stuck in a cycle of negative thinking? Untangling these challenges in life can be exhausting, stressful, and overwhelming. Let's work together to navigate your thoughts and find more balance and peace in your life. We are all shaped by our life experiences. My therapeutic approach is to meet you where you are at and focus on the changes you want for your life, utilizing person centered and trauma informed care.
Have you ever been weighed down by feelings of anxiety or depression? Do you struggle with trauma? Are you struggling with your gender identity or sexuality? Do you find yourself in the cycle of substance abuse? Are you stuck in a cycle of negative thinking? Untangling these challenges in life can be exhausting, stressful, and overwhelming. Let's work together to navigate your thoughts and find more balance and peace in your life. We are all shaped by our life experiences. My therapeutic approach is to meet you where you are at and focus on the changes you want for your life, utilizing person centered and trauma informed care.
When you are experiencing stress, it is common to feel lost and unsure. My passion is helping people heal and grow from conflict; whether that's family, marital, major life changes or general feelings of being overwhelmed/stressed. I have dedicated my career to helping people of all kinds, including teens, adults, couples and families. With the extensive evidenced based therapy training and years of experience I have received, I can offer quality treatment. To make it even more convenient to receive quality treatment in the comfort of your own home, I offer online exclusively.
When you are experiencing stress, it is common to feel lost and unsure. My passion is helping people heal and grow from conflict; whether that's family, marital, major life changes or general feelings of being overwhelmed/stressed. I have dedicated my career to helping people of all kinds, including teens, adults, couples and families. With the extensive evidenced based therapy training and years of experience I have received, I can offer quality treatment. To make it even more convenient to receive quality treatment in the comfort of your own home, I offer online exclusively.
Dealing with life events can be stressful for anyone. But there are further difficulties when it comes to neurodiversity, anxiety disorders, and being part of the LGBTQIA+ communities. In this day and age, life can be even more trying as part of a marginalized community. I enjoy helping people work through their life struggles, explore techniques for better executive functioning, and explore ways to manage stressors. While I can work with a wide range of ages, I particularly enjoy helping support children, adolescents, and young adults in their development.
Dealing with life events can be stressful for anyone. But there are further difficulties when it comes to neurodiversity, anxiety disorders, and being part of the LGBTQIA+ communities. In this day and age, life can be even more trying as part of a marginalized community. I enjoy helping people work through their life struggles, explore techniques for better executive functioning, and explore ways to manage stressors. While I can work with a wide range of ages, I particularly enjoy helping support children, adolescents, and young adults in their development.
Sometimes attempting to navigate the complexity of mental health, life change or relationships, we need support! I'm Shane Putney, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and I'm here to be that support for you. Drawing from diverse experience and ongoing learning, my approach is holistic and client centered. I understand that every individual, couple, and family brings their own unique rhythm and narrative. I am dedicated to establishing a safe space where you can explore parts of yourself and gather insight you need to make a shift in your life.
Sometimes attempting to navigate the complexity of mental health, life change or relationships, we need support! I'm Shane Putney, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and I'm here to be that support for you. Drawing from diverse experience and ongoing learning, my approach is holistic and client centered. I understand that every individual, couple, and family brings their own unique rhythm and narrative. I am dedicated to establishing a safe space where you can explore parts of yourself and gather insight you need to make a shift in your life.
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Hi, I’m Kira (she/her) —a sex therapist, clinical social worker, and educator with over 15 years of experience supporting adults in building more connected, confident, and compassionate relationships with their bodies, identities, and intimate lives. I work w individuals and people in relationships of all different identities and experiences who want to increase their overall quality of life, and access to connection. Sometimes this includes working on more mental health focused work like anxiety, or depression, while other times it might include specific sexuality related goals.
Hi, I’m Kira (she/her) —a sex therapist, clinical social worker, and educator with over 15 years of experience supporting adults in building more connected, confident, and compassionate relationships with their bodies, identities, and intimate lives. I work w individuals and people in relationships of all different identities and experiences who want to increase their overall quality of life, and access to connection. Sometimes this includes working on more mental health focused work like anxiety, or depression, while other times it might include specific sexuality related goals.
My brand of therapy is all about real human connection. Need a hype girl or a cheerleader, I'm on it. Need some tough love and honesty, also there. Just need a listening ear and some reassurance that you aren't alone on this wild ride of a planet, yeah, I get it. Therapy should be about YOU. No AI, no filters, just us sharing space for all that spins your world. Very happily queer and nontraditional relationship friendly! Yes, that's a nod to you, ENM folks.
Currently, I am currently open to new clients and am in network with Aetna, Optum (Connecticare, United, and Oxford), and Husky. OON friendly.
My brand of therapy is all about real human connection. Need a hype girl or a cheerleader, I'm on it. Need some tough love and honesty, also there. Just need a listening ear and some reassurance that you aren't alone on this wild ride of a planet, yeah, I get it. Therapy should be about YOU. No AI, no filters, just us sharing space for all that spins your world. Very happily queer and nontraditional relationship friendly! Yes, that's a nod to you, ENM folks.
Currently, I am currently open to new clients and am in network with Aetna, Optum (Connecticare, United, and Oxford), and Husky. OON friendly.
I am LGBTQ+ affirming, sex-positive, kink-allied, and HAES oriented.
I am here to guide folks who are looking to slow down and tend to their nervous system, improve self-esteem and assertiveness, practice self-compassion, or work through grief and life transitions. I feel passionate about working with folks navigating trauma and individuals looking to explore personal identity or non-traditional relationship dynamics.
I am LGBTQ+ affirming, sex-positive, kink-allied, and HAES oriented.
I am here to guide folks who are looking to slow down and tend to their nervous system, improve self-esteem and assertiveness, practice self-compassion, or work through grief and life transitions. I feel passionate about working with folks navigating trauma and individuals looking to explore personal identity or non-traditional relationship dynamics.
My professional and personal experience as a queer, neurodivergent, kink-allied clinician inform my work: you don't need to explain your existence or justify your lifestyle—we can focus instead on your goals and your process, at your own pace.
Work with me is relational, collaborative, and very human! In relational psychodynamic therapy we'll explore how past and present "attachments" (important relationships) affect you, work through ruptures and conflict, and test-drive new ways of relating. You'll develop healthier blueprints for connection—experiencing and experimenting with them in real-time.
My professional and personal experience as a queer, neurodivergent, kink-allied clinician inform my work: you don't need to explain your existence or justify your lifestyle—we can focus instead on your goals and your process, at your own pace.
Work with me is relational, collaborative, and very human! In relational psychodynamic therapy we'll explore how past and present "attachments" (important relationships) affect you, work through ruptures and conflict, and test-drive new ways of relating. You'll develop healthier blueprints for connection—experiencing and experimenting with them in real-time.
Kelsey Greene, LCSW - Sex Therapy, IFS, & EMDR
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
6 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you struggling with shame, distress, or anxiety related to your sexuality or porn use? Do you feel stuck in cycles of secrecy or guilt, unsure of how to navigate your desires in a way that aligns with your values and well-being? I am Kelsey, a trauma-informed sex therapist practicing in the states of NY, CT, & FL. I work with individuals and couples experiencing sex- and intimacy-related issues, such as communication challenges, shame, desire discrepancy, ED, pelvic pain, and infidelity, as well as individuals seeking treatment for processing trauma. I am accepting new clients and have immediate availability for a consult.
Are you struggling with shame, distress, or anxiety related to your sexuality or porn use? Do you feel stuck in cycles of secrecy or guilt, unsure of how to navigate your desires in a way that aligns with your values and well-being? I am Kelsey, a trauma-informed sex therapist practicing in the states of NY, CT, & FL. I work with individuals and couples experiencing sex- and intimacy-related issues, such as communication challenges, shame, desire discrepancy, ED, pelvic pain, and infidelity, as well as individuals seeking treatment for processing trauma. I am accepting new clients and have immediate availability for a consult.
Hi! I'm Tanya. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I enjoy working with individuals whose goals are to achieve a sense of balance and fulfillment in their lives. Collaborating with clients to manage their mental health concerns, improve their relationships, and find clarity in their personal and professional paths.
Hi! I'm Tanya. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I enjoy working with individuals whose goals are to achieve a sense of balance and fulfillment in their lives. Collaborating with clients to manage their mental health concerns, improve their relationships, and find clarity in their personal and professional paths.
Many of my clients are sensitive, neurodivergent, navigating kink and poly dynamics, and are tired of managing everything alone.
Currently accepting new clients! I specialize in neurodivergence, anxiety, and relationship dynamics, including non-traditional relationship structures. I use humor, mindfulness, somatic and parts-based approaches to help you track what’s happening in real time. Together, we will practice expanding your capacity to stay present, make different choices, and relate to yourself and others differently.
Many of my clients are sensitive, neurodivergent, navigating kink and poly dynamics, and are tired of managing everything alone.
Currently accepting new clients! I specialize in neurodivergence, anxiety, and relationship dynamics, including non-traditional relationship structures. I use humor, mindfulness, somatic and parts-based approaches to help you track what’s happening in real time. Together, we will practice expanding your capacity to stay present, make different choices, and relate to yourself and others differently.
These are the main issues I can help you with: navigating LGBTQ/Queer and neurodiverse identities, embracing sex-positive, kink-affirming, ethically non-monogamy-informed perspectives, and addressing life's challenges from ADHD to trauma.
I work best with those whose lives exist outside the margins, people whose intersecting identities have been historically or systematically marginalized. My clients seek a space where they are affirmed, understood, and gently challenged. Together, we address the systems and patterns keeping them stuck, so they leave feeling safe, supported, and able to self-empower as the experts of their own lives.
These are the main issues I can help you with: navigating LGBTQ/Queer and neurodiverse identities, embracing sex-positive, kink-affirming, ethically non-monogamy-informed perspectives, and addressing life's challenges from ADHD to trauma.
I work best with those whose lives exist outside the margins, people whose intersecting identities have been historically or systematically marginalized. My clients seek a space where they are affirmed, understood, and gently challenged. Together, we address the systems and patterns keeping them stuck, so they leave feeling safe, supported, and able to self-empower as the experts of their own lives.
I provide a safe, confidential, judgment-free, culturally competent, and sex-positive environment to aid your comfort and growth.
I am most committed to and interested in couples' counseling. I have worked with straight and queer/nonbinary partnerships, as well as ENM/poly. Therapy is not warranted only in crisis, but can often be utilized as a maintenance tool, especially regarding learning how to successfully communicate. Communication in a long term relationship is essential and something about which I am especially passionate. I have completed emotionally focused couples' therapy training as well as level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples’ Therapy and will utilize these methods in my work with couples.
I provide a safe, confidential, judgment-free, culturally competent, and sex-positive environment to aid your comfort and growth.
I am most committed to and interested in couples' counseling. I have worked with straight and queer/nonbinary partnerships, as well as ENM/poly. Therapy is not warranted only in crisis, but can often be utilized as a maintenance tool, especially regarding learning how to successfully communicate. Communication in a long term relationship is essential and something about which I am especially passionate. I have completed emotionally focused couples' therapy training as well as level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples’ Therapy and will utilize these methods in my work with couples.
Are you struggling to feel truly connected in your relationships? Do you find yourself overwhelmed by feelings of guilt, shame, or frustration when it comes to intimacy? Perhaps you're longing for emotional closeness but don’t know how to get there, or you're simply searching for a deeper sense of inner peace. Whatever you're experiencing, you deserve a safe space to explore these feelings with compassion and without judgment. Together, we can work toward healing, growth, and the peace you're longing for. Let’s embark on this journey, so you can experience the joy and connection you deserve.
Are you struggling to feel truly connected in your relationships? Do you find yourself overwhelmed by feelings of guilt, shame, or frustration when it comes to intimacy? Perhaps you're longing for emotional closeness but don’t know how to get there, or you're simply searching for a deeper sense of inner peace. Whatever you're experiencing, you deserve a safe space to explore these feelings with compassion and without judgment. Together, we can work toward healing, growth, and the peace you're longing for. Let’s embark on this journey, so you can experience the joy and connection you deserve.
Licensed in CT (in-person/virtually), VT & ME (virtually) with immediate openings. I specialize in and support women through all stages and challenges of life; late adolescent, emerging adult, through mid-life and aging. I welcome same-sex couples and alternative relationships navigating identity, trauma, and relationship or sexual challenges. I also facilitate ketamine-assisted therapy. This is an insurance-friendly practice which can process out-of-network reimbursements on your behalf. Reach out to check your benefits.
Licensed in CT (in-person/virtually), VT & ME (virtually) with immediate openings. I specialize in and support women through all stages and challenges of life; late adolescent, emerging adult, through mid-life and aging. I welcome same-sex couples and alternative relationships navigating identity, trauma, and relationship or sexual challenges. I also facilitate ketamine-assisted therapy. This is an insurance-friendly practice which can process out-of-network reimbursements on your behalf. Reach out to check your benefits.
My biggest passion as a queer, trans, and poly therapist is working within LGBTQIA+, Polyamorous/Non-Monogamous, and BDSM/ kink communities.
I have extensive experience spanning diverse populations, from young adults to elder adults of different backgrounds, ethnicities, sexual orientations, and gender identities. Through this experience I bring a depth of understanding and cultural competence to our work together. Regardless of your background or the challenges you face, I'm here to support you.
My biggest passion as a queer, trans, and poly therapist is working within LGBTQIA+, Polyamorous/Non-Monogamous, and BDSM/ kink communities.
I have extensive experience spanning diverse populations, from young adults to elder adults of different backgrounds, ethnicities, sexual orientations, and gender identities. Through this experience I bring a depth of understanding and cultural competence to our work together. Regardless of your background or the challenges you face, I'm here to support you.
If you struggle with limiting beliefs, trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, Internet or porn addiction, body image, or sexual issues or abuse, my holistically focused approach to therapy can help you find your center again. I support teens and young adults navigating change, as well as adults dealing with complexities of abusive relationships or narcissistic partners. I support women and men who are tired of just having their therapist nod and want help to create change. Sex-workers welcomed! Judgment-free zone. My practice is built on a foundation of radical acceptance, empathy, and respect for all your experiences.
If you struggle with limiting beliefs, trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, Internet or porn addiction, body image, or sexual issues or abuse, my holistically focused approach to therapy can help you find your center again. I support teens and young adults navigating change, as well as adults dealing with complexities of abusive relationships or narcissistic partners. I support women and men who are tired of just having their therapist nod and want help to create change. Sex-workers welcomed! Judgment-free zone. My practice is built on a foundation of radical acceptance, empathy, and respect for all your experiences.
I am sex-positive, affirming, and comfortable working with diverse relationship structures, including kink-informed and polyamorous relationships.
My approach is collaborative, practical, and grounded in both Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and narrative-informed work. I have strong experience supporting executive functioning challenges, including difficulties with organization, motivation, emotional regulation, and follow-through. I also work with individuals and couples navigating relationships.
I am sex-positive, affirming, and comfortable working with diverse relationship structures, including kink-informed and polyamorous relationships.
My approach is collaborative, practical, and grounded in both Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and narrative-informed work. I have strong experience supporting executive functioning challenges, including difficulties with organization, motivation, emotional regulation, and follow-through. I also work with individuals and couples navigating relationships.
I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with adult's, young adults, adolescents, couples, and families navigating anxiety, stress, and past experiences that continue to impact daily life. Starting therapy can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to figure things out alone.
I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with adult's, young adults, adolescents, couples, and families navigating anxiety, stress, and past experiences that continue to impact daily life. Starting therapy can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to figure things out alone.
Therapy is an act of resistance, and my goal is to cultivate a space that allows for accessible exploration, safety, and healing at all stages and abilities. I'm a fat, queer, provisionally licensed LCSW who uses a wide array of intersectional therapeutic techniques that are adaptive to a person’s individualistic needs. I prefer using strengths-based, person-centered approaches to allow for realistic, attainable, and flexible goals.
The basis of my practice is supporting individuals who are working through trauma, depression, anxiety, C-/PTSD, coping strategies, identity exploration, and difficult family/ partner(s) dynamics.
Therapy is an act of resistance, and my goal is to cultivate a space that allows for accessible exploration, safety, and healing at all stages and abilities. I'm a fat, queer, provisionally licensed LCSW who uses a wide array of intersectional therapeutic techniques that are adaptive to a person’s individualistic needs. I prefer using strengths-based, person-centered approaches to allow for realistic, attainable, and flexible goals.
The basis of my practice is supporting individuals who are working through trauma, depression, anxiety, C-/PTSD, coping strategies, identity exploration, and difficult family/ partner(s) dynamics.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.

