Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Wallingford, CT
My name is Heather K. Mazarakos LCSW. I have been in practice for 26Yr. I have a Bachelors in Social Work from Southern CT State University in New Haven CT. I have a Masters Degree in Clinical Social Work with a specialization in Substance Abuse Dual Diagnosis and Bereavement from Fordham University in New York State. I am licensed in CT. I have extensive experience in areas of Addictions, Legal Issues related to drug and alcohol offenses, Sexual Abuse and Trauma. In addition, I have worked with geriatric disorders, mood disorders, sexual identity, transgender, infertility, Grief and Loss, Hospice and suicidal and Fetish Life.
My name is Heather K. Mazarakos LCSW. I have been in practice for 26Yr. I have a Bachelors in Social Work from Southern CT State University in New Haven CT. I have a Masters Degree in Clinical Social Work with a specialization in Substance Abuse Dual Diagnosis and Bereavement from Fordham University in New York State. I am licensed in CT. I have extensive experience in areas of Addictions, Legal Issues related to drug and alcohol offenses, Sexual Abuse and Trauma. In addition, I have worked with geriatric disorders, mood disorders, sexual identity, transgender, infertility, Grief and Loss, Hospice and suicidal and Fetish Life.
My name is A Gould (pronouns they/he). I'm a mental health counselor and an owner of Ember & Bloom Counseling. I’m a proud non-binary, transgender, queer, and autistic person. I'm passionate about serving my LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent communities, providing affirming mental healthcare.
I offer in-person/telehealth sessions on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays and telehealth sessions on Tuesdays, 10 am - 5 pm.
My name is A Gould (pronouns they/he). I'm a mental health counselor and an owner of Ember & Bloom Counseling. I’m a proud non-binary, transgender, queer, and autistic person. I'm passionate about serving my LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent communities, providing affirming mental healthcare.
I offer in-person/telehealth sessions on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays and telehealth sessions on Tuesdays, 10 am - 5 pm.
I have 20 years experience in the mental health. This includes individual and family therapy with adults and children. I have extensive history working with the LGBTQI community, Substance Use, Adult Autism and ADHD.
I have 20 years experience in the mental health. This includes individual and family therapy with adults and children. I have extensive history working with the LGBTQI community, Substance Use, Adult Autism and ADHD.
I am called to SERVE. I have worked as a clinician for almost two decades and have had the pleasure of working with clients of all genders, from all racial backgrounds with various ages and needs. I meet my clients where they are emotionally with the goal of getting them to where they want to be in life by working through life's challenges and roadblocks. The 7 years of training I received as a clinician and supervisor at the Yale Child Study Center have influenced my attention to detail, assessment, and collaboration. I encourage you to take this amazing journey of self-discovery and healing from inside and out with me.
I am called to SERVE. I have worked as a clinician for almost two decades and have had the pleasure of working with clients of all genders, from all racial backgrounds with various ages and needs. I meet my clients where they are emotionally with the goal of getting them to where they want to be in life by working through life's challenges and roadblocks. The 7 years of training I received as a clinician and supervisor at the Yale Child Study Center have influenced my attention to detail, assessment, and collaboration. I encourage you to take this amazing journey of self-discovery and healing from inside and out with me.
Alexandra Marvel
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP-II, NATC
10 Endorsed
Online Only
Not accepting new clients
If you're ready to dig deep and enrich yourself with a new story, join me! You may be navigating complex trauma, identity challenges, or relationship dynamics, and you’re looking for more than just shallow solutions. You want deep understanding and empowerment as we work together to untangle the patterns holding you back. Whether you’re healing from relational trauma, exploring your personal identity, or seeking support as a member of a marginalized group, I’m here to help you reclaim your story!
If you're ready to dig deep and enrich yourself with a new story, join me! You may be navigating complex trauma, identity challenges, or relationship dynamics, and you’re looking for more than just shallow solutions. You want deep understanding and empowerment as we work together to untangle the patterns holding you back. Whether you’re healing from relational trauma, exploring your personal identity, or seeking support as a member of a marginalized group, I’m here to help you reclaim your story!
I am committed and passionate about my work in helping others reach their full potential. I am trained to work with couples, families and individuals. I have experience in helping couples work through issues of infidelity, betrayal, intimacy, conflict resolution, and family/ life stage transitions. I believe in the power of all relationships and how it affects the quality of our lives. When working with individuals I use a systemic lens, in which I see the individual in the context of their relationships, major life events, ethnicity, race, culture, religion & sexuality.
I am committed and passionate about my work in helping others reach their full potential. I am trained to work with couples, families and individuals. I have experience in helping couples work through issues of infidelity, betrayal, intimacy, conflict resolution, and family/ life stage transitions. I believe in the power of all relationships and how it affects the quality of our lives. When working with individuals I use a systemic lens, in which I see the individual in the context of their relationships, major life events, ethnicity, race, culture, religion & sexuality.
I love to work with clients who are open to growing, gaining a deeper understanding of who they are, and discovering a better version of themselves.
I love to work with clients who are open to growing, gaining a deeper understanding of who they are, and discovering a better version of themselves.
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My biggest passion as a queer, trans, and poly therapist is working within LGBTQIA+, Polyamorous/Non-Monogamous, and BDSM/ kink communities.
I have extensive experience spanning diverse populations, from young adults to elder adults of different backgrounds, ethnicities, sexual orientations, and gender identities. Through this experience I bring a depth of understanding and cultural competence to our work together. Regardless of your background or the challenges you face, I'm here to support you.
My biggest passion as a queer, trans, and poly therapist is working within LGBTQIA+, Polyamorous/Non-Monogamous, and BDSM/ kink communities.
I have extensive experience spanning diverse populations, from young adults to elder adults of different backgrounds, ethnicities, sexual orientations, and gender identities. Through this experience I bring a depth of understanding and cultural competence to our work together. Regardless of your background or the challenges you face, I'm here to support you.
Kelsey Greene, LCSW - Sex Therapy, IFS, & EMDR
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
6 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you struggling with shame, distress, or anxiety related to your sexuality or porn use? Do you feel stuck in cycles of secrecy or guilt, unsure of how to navigate your desires in a way that aligns with your values and well-being? I am Kelsey, a trauma-informed sex therapist practicing in the states of NY, CT, & FL. I work with individuals and couples experiencing sex- and intimacy-related issues, such as communication challenges, shame, desire discrepancy, ED, pelvic pain, and infidelity, as well as individuals seeking treatment for processing trauma. I am accepting new clients and have immediate availability for a consult.
Are you struggling with shame, distress, or anxiety related to your sexuality or porn use? Do you feel stuck in cycles of secrecy or guilt, unsure of how to navigate your desires in a way that aligns with your values and well-being? I am Kelsey, a trauma-informed sex therapist practicing in the states of NY, CT, & FL. I work with individuals and couples experiencing sex- and intimacy-related issues, such as communication challenges, shame, desire discrepancy, ED, pelvic pain, and infidelity, as well as individuals seeking treatment for processing trauma. I am accepting new clients and have immediate availability for a consult.
Many of my clients are sensitive, neurodivergent, navigating kink and poly dynamics, and are tired of managing everything alone.
Currently accepting new clients! I specialize in neurodivergence, anxiety, and relationship dynamics, including non-traditional relationship structures. I use humor, mindfulness, somatic and parts-based approaches to help you track what’s happening in real time. Together, we will practice expanding your capacity to stay present, make different choices, and relate to yourself and others differently.
Many of my clients are sensitive, neurodivergent, navigating kink and poly dynamics, and are tired of managing everything alone.
Currently accepting new clients! I specialize in neurodivergence, anxiety, and relationship dynamics, including non-traditional relationship structures. I use humor, mindfulness, somatic and parts-based approaches to help you track what’s happening in real time. Together, we will practice expanding your capacity to stay present, make different choices, and relate to yourself and others differently.
My brand of therapy is all about real human connection. Need a hype girl or a cheerleader, I'm on it. Need some tough love and honesty, also there. Just need a listening ear and some reassurance that you aren't alone on this wild ride of a planet, yeah, I get it. Therapy should be about YOU. No AI, no filters, just us sharing space for all that spins your world. Very happily queer and nontraditional relationship friendly! Yes, that's a nod to you, ENM folks.
Currently, I am currently open to new clients and am in network with Aetna, Optum (Connecticare, United, and Oxford), and Husky. OON friendly.
My brand of therapy is all about real human connection. Need a hype girl or a cheerleader, I'm on it. Need some tough love and honesty, also there. Just need a listening ear and some reassurance that you aren't alone on this wild ride of a planet, yeah, I get it. Therapy should be about YOU. No AI, no filters, just us sharing space for all that spins your world. Very happily queer and nontraditional relationship friendly! Yes, that's a nod to you, ENM folks.
Currently, I am currently open to new clients and am in network with Aetna, Optum (Connecticare, United, and Oxford), and Husky. OON friendly.
Hi, I’m Kira (she/her) —a sex therapist, clinical social worker, and educator with over 15 years of experience supporting adults in building more connected, confident, and compassionate relationships with their bodies, identities, and intimate lives. I work w individuals and people in relationships of all different identities and experiences who want to increase their overall quality of life, and access to connection. Sometimes this includes working on more mental health focused work like anxiety, or depression, while other times it might include specific sexuality related goals.
Hi, I’m Kira (she/her) —a sex therapist, clinical social worker, and educator with over 15 years of experience supporting adults in building more connected, confident, and compassionate relationships with their bodies, identities, and intimate lives. I work w individuals and people in relationships of all different identities and experiences who want to increase their overall quality of life, and access to connection. Sometimes this includes working on more mental health focused work like anxiety, or depression, while other times it might include specific sexuality related goals.
Licensed in CT (in-person/virtually), VT & ME (virtually) with immediate openings. I specialize in and support women through all stages and challenges of life; late adolescent, emerging adult, through mid-life and aging. I welcome same-sex couples and alternative relationships navigating identity, trauma, and relationship or sexual challenges. I also facilitate ketamine-assisted therapy. This is an insurance-friendly practice which can process out-of-network reimbursements on your behalf. Reach out to check your benefits.
Licensed in CT (in-person/virtually), VT & ME (virtually) with immediate openings. I specialize in and support women through all stages and challenges of life; late adolescent, emerging adult, through mid-life and aging. I welcome same-sex couples and alternative relationships navigating identity, trauma, and relationship or sexual challenges. I also facilitate ketamine-assisted therapy. This is an insurance-friendly practice which can process out-of-network reimbursements on your behalf. Reach out to check your benefits.
Hi! I'm Tanya. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I enjoy working with individuals whose goals are to achieve a sense of balance and fulfillment in their lives. Collaborating with clients to manage their mental health concerns, improve their relationships, and find clarity in their personal and professional paths.
Hi! I'm Tanya. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I enjoy working with individuals whose goals are to achieve a sense of balance and fulfillment in their lives. Collaborating with clients to manage their mental health concerns, improve their relationships, and find clarity in their personal and professional paths.
I provide a safe, confidential, judgment-free, culturally competent, and sex-positive environment to aid your comfort and growth.
I am most committed to and interested in couples' counseling. I have worked with straight and queer/nonbinary partnerships, as well as ENM/poly. Therapy is not warranted only in crisis, but can often be utilized as a maintenance tool, especially regarding learning how to successfully communicate. Communication in a long term relationship is essential and something about which I am especially passionate. I have completed emotionally focused couples' therapy training as well as level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples’ Therapy and will utilize these methods in my work with couples.
I provide a safe, confidential, judgment-free, culturally competent, and sex-positive environment to aid your comfort and growth.
I am most committed to and interested in couples' counseling. I have worked with straight and queer/nonbinary partnerships, as well as ENM/poly. Therapy is not warranted only in crisis, but can often be utilized as a maintenance tool, especially regarding learning how to successfully communicate. Communication in a long term relationship is essential and something about which I am especially passionate. I have completed emotionally focused couples' therapy training as well as level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples’ Therapy and will utilize these methods in my work with couples.
I am LGBTQ+ affirming, sex-positive, kink-allied, and HAES oriented.
I am here to guide folks who are looking to slow down and tend to their nervous system, improve self-esteem and assertiveness, practice self-compassion, or work through grief and life transitions. I feel passionate about working with folks navigating trauma and individuals looking to explore personal identity or non-traditional relationship dynamics.
I am LGBTQ+ affirming, sex-positive, kink-allied, and HAES oriented.
I am here to guide folks who are looking to slow down and tend to their nervous system, improve self-esteem and assertiveness, practice self-compassion, or work through grief and life transitions. I feel passionate about working with folks navigating trauma and individuals looking to explore personal identity or non-traditional relationship dynamics.
My professional and personal experience as a queer neurodivergent kink-allied clinician inform my work: you don't need to explain your existence or justify your lifestyle—we can focus instead on your goals and journey, at your own pace.
Work with me is grounded, collaborative, and very human! In relational psychodynamic therapy we'll explore how past and present "attachments" (important relationships) affect you, work through ruptures and conflict, and test-drive new ways of relating. You'll develop insight and blueprints for healthy, meaningful relationships (and skills for keeping them!).
My professional and personal experience as a queer neurodivergent kink-allied clinician inform my work: you don't need to explain your existence or justify your lifestyle—we can focus instead on your goals and journey, at your own pace.
Work with me is grounded, collaborative, and very human! In relational psychodynamic therapy we'll explore how past and present "attachments" (important relationships) affect you, work through ruptures and conflict, and test-drive new ways of relating. You'll develop insight and blueprints for healthy, meaningful relationships (and skills for keeping them!).
These are the main issues I can help you with: navigating LGBTQ/Queer and neurodiverse identities, embracing sex-positive, kink-affirming, ethically non-monogamy-informed perspectives, and addressing life's challenges from ADHD to trauma.
I work best with those whose lives exist outside the margins, people whose intersecting identities have been historically or systematically marginalized. My clients seek a space where they are affirmed, understood, and gently challenged. Together, we address the systems and patterns keeping them stuck, so they leave feeling safe, supported, and able to self-empower as the experts of their own lives.
These are the main issues I can help you with: navigating LGBTQ/Queer and neurodiverse identities, embracing sex-positive, kink-affirming, ethically non-monogamy-informed perspectives, and addressing life's challenges from ADHD to trauma.
I work best with those whose lives exist outside the margins, people whose intersecting identities have been historically or systematically marginalized. My clients seek a space where they are affirmed, understood, and gently challenged. Together, we address the systems and patterns keeping them stuck, so they leave feeling safe, supported, and able to self-empower as the experts of their own lives.
Many accomplished professionals seek therapy when responsibility and pressure feel too heavy to carry alone. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, depression, sustained stress, or a persistent sense of stagnation, therapy provides a place to pause, think clearly, and recalibrate. When daily demands begin to overwhelm—or when longstanding patterns limit progress—therapy can help you regain clarity, confidence, and direction. In our work together, we’ll examine what has been weighing on you, understand how your mind and body respond under pressure, and build effective strategies to reduce symptoms and enhance your overall quality of life
Many accomplished professionals seek therapy when responsibility and pressure feel too heavy to carry alone. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, depression, sustained stress, or a persistent sense of stagnation, therapy provides a place to pause, think clearly, and recalibrate. When daily demands begin to overwhelm—or when longstanding patterns limit progress—therapy can help you regain clarity, confidence, and direction. In our work together, we’ll examine what has been weighing on you, understand how your mind and body respond under pressure, and build effective strategies to reduce symptoms and enhance your overall quality of life
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.


