Infidelity Therapists in Unionville, CT
Currently welcoming new clients to my practice.With more than twenty yrs of experience providing therapy, I have worked extensively with both individuals& families. The cornerstone of my treatment method is a strength-based approach.I focus on identifying & building upon existing strengths as we explore factors contributing to your current life stressors.My goal is to support you & your loved ones in developing effective, healthy coping skills.These skills are designed to help you address & manage challenges as they arise.
Experiencing depression, anxiety family conflict, trauma, school based conconcerns, life challenges, I can help
Currently welcoming new clients to my practice.With more than twenty yrs of experience providing therapy, I have worked extensively with both individuals& families. The cornerstone of my treatment method is a strength-based approach.I focus on identifying & building upon existing strengths as we explore factors contributing to your current life stressors.My goal is to support you & your loved ones in developing effective, healthy coping skills.These skills are designed to help you address & manage challenges as they arise.
Experiencing depression, anxiety family conflict, trauma, school based conconcerns, life challenges, I can help
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Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
Whether you are struggling with a particular issue, or just can't shake the feeling that there should be more to life, I can help. I provide a caring environment in which you can identify and explore those issues that may be getting in the way of a more rewarding home life and career, or of more fulfilling relationships. The goal is to help provide you with the insights and tools you need to move beyond old, limiting beliefs and behaviors.
Whether you are struggling with a particular issue, or just can't shake the feeling that there should be more to life, I can help. I provide a caring environment in which you can identify and explore those issues that may be getting in the way of a more rewarding home life and career, or of more fulfilling relationships. The goal is to help provide you with the insights and tools you need to move beyond old, limiting beliefs and behaviors.
Do you feel under appreciated? Do you wish he could break the cycle of negative behavior? Does she constantly keep criticizing? Do you experience anxiety and distrust? Lack of intimacy and sexual desire? I am a marriage and family therapist with specialized training and experience in couple therapy. Nothing you say will surprise or shock me. I am easy to talk to and skilled at creating tools to help couples maintain healthy relationships. Together, We repair your relationship by introducing new communication methods and understanding that promote empathy and flexibility.
Do you feel under appreciated? Do you wish he could break the cycle of negative behavior? Does she constantly keep criticizing? Do you experience anxiety and distrust? Lack of intimacy and sexual desire? I am a marriage and family therapist with specialized training and experience in couple therapy. Nothing you say will surprise or shock me. I am easy to talk to and skilled at creating tools to help couples maintain healthy relationships. Together, We repair your relationship by introducing new communication methods and understanding that promote empathy and flexibility.
Do you feel under appreciated? Do you wish he could break the cycle of negative behavior? Does she constantly keep criticizing? Do you experience anxiety and distrust? Lack of intimacy and sexual desire? I am a marriage and family therapist with specialized training and experience in couple therapy. Nothing you say will surprise or shock me. I am easy to talk to and skilled at creating tools to help couples maintain healthy relationships. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new communication methods and understanding that promote empathy and flexibility.
Do you feel under appreciated? Do you wish he could break the cycle of negative behavior? Does she constantly keep criticizing? Do you experience anxiety and distrust? Lack of intimacy and sexual desire? I am a marriage and family therapist with specialized training and experience in couple therapy. Nothing you say will surprise or shock me. I am easy to talk to and skilled at creating tools to help couples maintain healthy relationships. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new communication methods and understanding that promote empathy and flexibility.
I specialize in working with couples. I seek depth, looking for patterns in how you find yourself continually ending up in the same place. My type of therapy is good when you keep asking yourself, why do we keep fighting like this? I tend to be very active, getting to the heart of intentions and fears behind the dynamic. I locate the validity of your point of views. I think everyone has logic to their thoughts and behavior and I make a major effort to identify that logic so that we understand, together, what is going on. My work draws from 20 years of psychodynamic training centered on interpersonal relations.
I specialize in working with couples. I seek depth, looking for patterns in how you find yourself continually ending up in the same place. My type of therapy is good when you keep asking yourself, why do we keep fighting like this? I tend to be very active, getting to the heart of intentions and fears behind the dynamic. I locate the validity of your point of views. I think everyone has logic to their thoughts and behavior and I make a major effort to identify that logic so that we understand, together, what is going on. My work draws from 20 years of psychodynamic training centered on interpersonal relations.
My clients include individuals and couples who struggle with entitlement, infidelity, codependency, parenting, self-esteem, trauma, compulsivity and sexual dysfunction issues that haven't been resolved.
Do you have trust issues in your relationship? Afraid to be honest with your partner and tired of trying to be someone you're not? Do you find yourself having regrets about a current or previous relationship? Do you have an inability to be intimate with your partner because of a past trauma or challenge? Do you struggle with your sexual identity or functioning? Contact me and we will talk about what you do, what you think, and feel about your challenges and together come up with a strategy for you to move forward! I work remotely by spending time with clients via Zoom.
My clients include individuals and couples who struggle with entitlement, infidelity, codependency, parenting, self-esteem, trauma, compulsivity and sexual dysfunction issues that haven't been resolved.
Do you have trust issues in your relationship? Afraid to be honest with your partner and tired of trying to be someone you're not? Do you find yourself having regrets about a current or previous relationship? Do you have an inability to be intimate with your partner because of a past trauma or challenge? Do you struggle with your sexual identity or functioning? Contact me and we will talk about what you do, what you think, and feel about your challenges and together come up with a strategy for you to move forward! I work remotely by spending time with clients via Zoom.
widedi catedth couples and individuals facing betrayal, intimacy struggles, and deep disconnection These aren’tu jst relationship issues—they’re trauma responses.
Good news: healing can happen faster than you think. When brain and body heal together, transformation accelerates. The same relationship that triggers pain can become your greatest source of healing. I use evidence-based methods like EMDR, Gottman, and CPT to create a personalized plan—rooted in deep clinical and research expertise.
widedi catedth couples and individuals facing betrayal, intimacy struggles, and deep disconnection These aren’tu jst relationship issues—they’re trauma responses.
Good news: healing can happen faster than you think. When brain and body heal together, transformation accelerates. The same relationship that triggers pain can become your greatest source of healing. I use evidence-based methods like EMDR, Gottman, and CPT to create a personalized plan—rooted in deep clinical and research expertise.
Do you feel under appreciated? Do you wish he could break the cycle of negative behavior? Does she constantly keep criticizing? Do you experience anxiety and distrust? Lack of intimacy and sexual desire? I am a marriage and family therapist with specialized training and experience in couple therapy. Nothing you say will surprise or shock me. I am easy to talk to and skilled at creating tools to help couples maintain healthy relationships. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new communication methods and understanding that promote empathy and flexibility.
Do you feel under appreciated? Do you wish he could break the cycle of negative behavior? Does she constantly keep criticizing? Do you experience anxiety and distrust? Lack of intimacy and sexual desire? I am a marriage and family therapist with specialized training and experience in couple therapy. Nothing you say will surprise or shock me. I am easy to talk to and skilled at creating tools to help couples maintain healthy relationships. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new communication methods and understanding that promote empathy and flexibility.
Learning how to process the dynamics in your relationships can empower you to make the changes you desire - including recovery from infidelity.
Life is all about relationships. Healthy relationships make life better. I help facilitate change so you can move out of rigid roles and towards more authentic, satisfying relationships. When anxiety or depression has a grip on individuals, I help them gain tools for healthier thinking which leads to healthier relationships at home, at work, and socially.
Learning how to process the dynamics in your relationships can empower you to make the changes you desire - including recovery from infidelity.
Life is all about relationships. Healthy relationships make life better. I help facilitate change so you can move out of rigid roles and towards more authentic, satisfying relationships. When anxiety or depression has a grip on individuals, I help them gain tools for healthier thinking which leads to healthier relationships at home, at work, and socially.
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Deborah specializes in helping clients strengthen relationships and deepen connections. Using holistic and science-based methods, clients learn a new way to communicate and alter unhealthy relationship dynamics. Partners are able to have productive conversations without blowing up or shutting down. Deborah is an 'active therapist' who offers suggestions and brings good energy to sessions. On her watch, there is no “bad guy” and blame is never the focus. She creates a safe space where clients feel comfortable discussing tough topics and personal issues. Deborah is warm, open and has the ability to quickly identify the core issues.
Follow Deborah on TICTOK and INSTA for videos on relationships, love, infidelity, family and more.
Deborah specializes in helping clients strengthen relationships and deepen connections. Using holistic and science-based methods, clients learn a new way to communicate and alter unhealthy relationship dynamics. Partners are able to have productive conversations without blowing up or shutting down. Deborah is an 'active therapist' who offers suggestions and brings good energy to sessions. On her watch, there is no “bad guy” and blame is never the focus. She creates a safe space where clients feel comfortable discussing tough topics and personal issues. Deborah is warm, open and has the ability to quickly identify the core issues.
I work with men who are used to holding it all together—professionals, partners, and fathers who are dependable on the outside but feel stressed, disconnected, or not like themselves underneath. They’re often navigating relationship strain, irritability, or a quiet sense that something isn’t working anymore. Together, we go beyond surface-level coping to understand what’s driving these patterns and create meaningful, lasting change. Through focused, intentional work, they begin to feel more grounded, more connected, and more like themselves again.
I work with men who are used to holding it all together—professionals, partners, and fathers who are dependable on the outside but feel stressed, disconnected, or not like themselves underneath. They’re often navigating relationship strain, irritability, or a quiet sense that something isn’t working anymore. Together, we go beyond surface-level coping to understand what’s driving these patterns and create meaningful, lasting change. Through focused, intentional work, they begin to feel more grounded, more connected, and more like themselves again.
Whether through a death, betrayal, the loss of a relationship or lifestyle, you are forever changed.
I help people who have experienced a difficult loss or betrayal. Together, we'll work through your feelings, find where you might be "stuck", and the steps needed to create a life where you experience joy and peace again. I can help you come to terms with that painful loss or betrayal and help you integrate it into your life so you can move forward.
Whether through a death, betrayal, the loss of a relationship or lifestyle, you are forever changed.
I help people who have experienced a difficult loss or betrayal. Together, we'll work through your feelings, find where you might be "stuck", and the steps needed to create a life where you experience joy and peace again. I can help you come to terms with that painful loss or betrayal and help you integrate it into your life so you can move forward.
My work often includes diverse sexual expressions, sex positive & kink-aware therapy, and complicated infidelity, situations that feel nuanced, layered, and uniquely complex.
Sometimes life can feel like you're just going through the motions, surviving rather than truly living. Many of my clients tell me they have a good life overall, but feel deeply dissatisfied in one area: intimacy. They may feel disconnected from themselves or weighed down by unspoken truths in their relationships. Often the same painful argument resurfaces with a partner, once or twice a year, and when it happens, it's BIG! and draining. With a holistic, sex-positive approach, I offer a safe and supportive space to explore hidden desires, break old cycles and move toward a more authentic, connected way of living and loving.
My work often includes diverse sexual expressions, sex positive & kink-aware therapy, and complicated infidelity, situations that feel nuanced, layered, and uniquely complex.
Sometimes life can feel like you're just going through the motions, surviving rather than truly living. Many of my clients tell me they have a good life overall, but feel deeply dissatisfied in one area: intimacy. They may feel disconnected from themselves or weighed down by unspoken truths in their relationships. Often the same painful argument resurfaces with a partner, once or twice a year, and when it happens, it's BIG! and draining. With a holistic, sex-positive approach, I offer a safe and supportive space to explore hidden desires, break old cycles and move toward a more authentic, connected way of living and loving.
Along with working with clients confronted with conflicted relationships and the potential for divorce, my major areas of clinical focus include infidelity, domestic violence, sexual abuse, parenting issues, empty-nest syndrome and life cycle changes, often resulting in symptoms of depression, anxiety and PTSD.
Have past therapies not worked and are you back to dealing with the same patterns that cause you to feel disconnected? Using the modalities of Relational Life Therapy (Terry Real) and the Enneagram, a typology tool, I help you deal with those parts of you that don't want to do the skills you have learned in other therapies. As a relationship specialist, my approach is compassionate and honest with the intention of helping you gain mindful self-awareness of those tendencies that keep you stuck with the goal of guiding you towards a more fulfilling life of connection, acceptance, and love.
Along with working with clients confronted with conflicted relationships and the potential for divorce, my major areas of clinical focus include infidelity, domestic violence, sexual abuse, parenting issues, empty-nest syndrome and life cycle changes, often resulting in symptoms of depression, anxiety and PTSD.
Have past therapies not worked and are you back to dealing with the same patterns that cause you to feel disconnected? Using the modalities of Relational Life Therapy (Terry Real) and the Enneagram, a typology tool, I help you deal with those parts of you that don't want to do the skills you have learned in other therapies. As a relationship specialist, my approach is compassionate and honest with the intention of helping you gain mindful self-awareness of those tendencies that keep you stuck with the goal of guiding you towards a more fulfilling life of connection, acceptance, and love.
With 30 years of experience working with couples, business partners and relationships, Dr. Dori Gatter creates an environment of compassion and safety for your personal growth and healing. She uses cutting edge brain science and mindfulness based modalities to help you with your relationship issues and goals. Dr. Dori specializes in working with couples and business partners and offers couples retreats at our West Hartford office and Worldwide. Dr. Dori was awarded Connecticut's Women Owned Small Business of the Year award 2024.
With 30 years of experience working with couples, business partners and relationships, Dr. Dori Gatter creates an environment of compassion and safety for your personal growth and healing. She uses cutting edge brain science and mindfulness based modalities to help you with your relationship issues and goals. Dr. Dori specializes in working with couples and business partners and offers couples retreats at our West Hartford office and Worldwide. Dr. Dori was awarded Connecticut's Women Owned Small Business of the Year award 2024.
Whatever is getting your way as a couple, including infidelity, can be handled if you have the will and the right roadmap.
Are you worried about your future together? Fighting too much, too often, too intensely? Or the opposite: avoiding conflict for fear of getting lost in it. Conflicts that are avoided or are too long and too intense and too difficult to recover from will all weigh you down. You know that things can be easier: you know you could communicate more efficiently, smarter, and get to have fun together on the other side this. What you need then is a therapist who can diagnose communicational difficulties and engineer solutions that keep you out of the same trouble in the future.
Whatever is getting your way as a couple, including infidelity, can be handled if you have the will and the right roadmap.
Are you worried about your future together? Fighting too much, too often, too intensely? Or the opposite: avoiding conflict for fear of getting lost in it. Conflicts that are avoided or are too long and too intense and too difficult to recover from will all weigh you down. You know that things can be easier: you know you could communicate more efficiently, smarter, and get to have fun together on the other side this. What you need then is a therapist who can diagnose communicational difficulties and engineer solutions that keep you out of the same trouble in the future.
I specialize in couple therapy, physical and emotional intimacy issues, infidelity, and male and female sexual dysfunction.
There are times in our lives when we run out of resources to sustain our relationships. We often feel overwhelmed, not knowing what to do to make them better. As your therapist, I can be there to provide compassion, insight, and suggestions that can help you move in the direction you want to go. I believe that therapy can help you develop the skills needed to help you achieve your goals.
I specialize in couple therapy, physical and emotional intimacy issues, infidelity, and male and female sexual dysfunction.
There are times in our lives when we run out of resources to sustain our relationships. We often feel overwhelmed, not knowing what to do to make them better. As your therapist, I can be there to provide compassion, insight, and suggestions that can help you move in the direction you want to go. I believe that therapy can help you develop the skills needed to help you achieve your goals.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 15 years of experience in private practice, working with a diverse range of adults and seniors. My clients have included trauma survivors from events like 9/11 and the Sandy Hook shootings, as well as everyday families seeking support & expert care. I specialize in treating abuse, trauma, depression, family conflict, anxiety, stress, relationship issues, & more. I earned my Master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Southern Connecticut State University & have had the honor of serving as a Keynote Speaker on behalf of The National Coalition for Domestic Violence.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 15 years of experience in private practice, working with a diverse range of adults and seniors. My clients have included trauma survivors from events like 9/11 and the Sandy Hook shootings, as well as everyday families seeking support & expert care. I specialize in treating abuse, trauma, depression, family conflict, anxiety, stress, relationship issues, & more. I earned my Master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Southern Connecticut State University & have had the honor of serving as a Keynote Speaker on behalf of The National Coalition for Domestic Violence.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.