Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Southington, CT
Taking the step to seek help is no easy act. It takes courage! You're doing a scary thing and I applaud you for it. Welcome. Coming to therapy takes collaboration, consistency, and an open mind. I believe that in working together in an authentic and curious way, we can figure out ways to meet your needs and overcome obstacles. I work with individuals looking for change and a desire to break free from the burden of impossible standards.
Taking the step to seek help is no easy act. It takes courage! You're doing a scary thing and I applaud you for it. Welcome. Coming to therapy takes collaboration, consistency, and an open mind. I believe that in working together in an authentic and curious way, we can figure out ways to meet your needs and overcome obstacles. I work with individuals looking for change and a desire to break free from the burden of impossible standards.
Therapy is really about you. My approach is influenced by Person-Centered and Cognitive-Behavioral therapy. Basically, this means that you lead with what you’d like to discuss, I help to find connections between thoughts and behaviors, then together we discuss helpful tools, skills, or next steps. Whether you’re searching for peace, clarity, or healing, we will work towards your goal together. It is important to find a therapist that you connect with. Working together is more successful with a therapist you trust. I provide an unbiased, collaborative, open, and relaxed environment and strive for honest and direct communication.
Therapy is really about you. My approach is influenced by Person-Centered and Cognitive-Behavioral therapy. Basically, this means that you lead with what you’d like to discuss, I help to find connections between thoughts and behaviors, then together we discuss helpful tools, skills, or next steps. Whether you’re searching for peace, clarity, or healing, we will work towards your goal together. It is important to find a therapist that you connect with. Working together is more successful with a therapist you trust. I provide an unbiased, collaborative, open, and relaxed environment and strive for honest and direct communication.
Are you a parent seeking support for your transgender or gender-diverse child—or navigating this journey yourself? Many of the families I work with are managing identity development alongside anxiety, trauma, school stress, or neurodivergence (autism, ADHD, high sensitivity). They want clarity, steadiness, and practical support—not just affirmation, but real tools to help their child feel grounded and their family feel more confident.
Are you a parent seeking support for your transgender or gender-diverse child—or navigating this journey yourself? Many of the families I work with are managing identity development alongside anxiety, trauma, school stress, or neurodivergence (autism, ADHD, high sensitivity). They want clarity, steadiness, and practical support—not just affirmation, but real tools to help their child feel grounded and their family feel more confident.
Sometimes attempting to navigate the complexity of mental health, life change or relationships, we need support! I'm Shane Putney, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and I'm here to be that support for you. Drawing from diverse experience and ongoing learning, my approach is holistic and client centered. I understand that every individual, couple, and family brings their own unique rhythm and narrative. I am dedicated to establishing a safe space where you can explore parts of yourself and gather insight you need to make a shift in your life.
Sometimes attempting to navigate the complexity of mental health, life change or relationships, we need support! I'm Shane Putney, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and I'm here to be that support for you. Drawing from diverse experience and ongoing learning, my approach is holistic and client centered. I understand that every individual, couple, and family brings their own unique rhythm and narrative. I am dedicated to establishing a safe space where you can explore parts of yourself and gather insight you need to make a shift in your life.
As a therapist, my primary focus is to help adults who are grappling with depression, anxiety, OCD, substance use recovery, and emotional trauma. Additionally, I am PSI trained in perinatal mental health, and support moms through every stage of motherhood. These challenges can be immensely difficult to face alone, and my goal is to offer you a supportive and healing space. We will work together to help you gain a deeper understanding of yourself through the cultivation of self awareness, self acceptance, and taking back control of your own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
As a therapist, my primary focus is to help adults who are grappling with depression, anxiety, OCD, substance use recovery, and emotional trauma. Additionally, I am PSI trained in perinatal mental health, and support moms through every stage of motherhood. These challenges can be immensely difficult to face alone, and my goal is to offer you a supportive and healing space. We will work together to help you gain a deeper understanding of yourself through the cultivation of self awareness, self acceptance, and taking back control of your own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
Have you ever considered seeking therapy but didn’t know where to begin, what to discuss or what the experience could be like? Maybe people in your life have mentioned that it could be helpful. Maybe you are looking for a different perspective on a familiar circumstance, or to gain insight into your life, learn skills to cope with challenges, understand the impact of your culture on your worldview or even simply improve your quality of life? Maybe you are navigating a new phase of life or an unexpected stressor. If any of this sounds familiar, you are not alone, and I am happy you are here.
Have you ever considered seeking therapy but didn’t know where to begin, what to discuss or what the experience could be like? Maybe people in your life have mentioned that it could be helpful. Maybe you are looking for a different perspective on a familiar circumstance, or to gain insight into your life, learn skills to cope with challenges, understand the impact of your culture on your worldview or even simply improve your quality of life? Maybe you are navigating a new phase of life or an unexpected stressor. If any of this sounds familiar, you are not alone, and I am happy you are here.
Stop looking for your next therapist! Start getting curious about someone you truly connect with, who understands you and wants to create a safe, affirming space. Lewis and Megan Berry are both licensed mental health professionals looking to walk alongside you on your journey towards healing and personal growth. Lewis, an LMFT, and Megan, an LPC, have years of experience working with teens and adults with a wide range of clinical needs. We are collaborative and non-judgmental, and integrate various therapeutic approaches adapted to your individual needs and preferences.
Stop looking for your next therapist! Start getting curious about someone you truly connect with, who understands you and wants to create a safe, affirming space. Lewis and Megan Berry are both licensed mental health professionals looking to walk alongside you on your journey towards healing and personal growth. Lewis, an LMFT, and Megan, an LPC, have years of experience working with teens and adults with a wide range of clinical needs. We are collaborative and non-judgmental, and integrate various therapeutic approaches adapted to your individual needs and preferences.
I help individuals and couples in CA, CT, and TX navigate intimacy concerns, low desire, sexual anxiety, relationship conflict, and the impact of trauma on sex, intimacy, and emotional connection. Many of my clients come to therapy feeling confused, stuck, or disconnected from their bodies or partners—and wanting something to change, even if they’re not sure where to start.
I help individuals and couples in CA, CT, and TX navigate intimacy concerns, low desire, sexual anxiety, relationship conflict, and the impact of trauma on sex, intimacy, and emotional connection. Many of my clients come to therapy feeling confused, stuck, or disconnected from their bodies or partners—and wanting something to change, even if they’re not sure where to start.
Dealing with life events can be stressful for anyone. But there are further difficulties when it comes to neurodiversity, anxiety disorders, and being part of the LGBTQIA+ communities. In this day and age, life can be even more trying as part of a marginalized community. I enjoy helping people work through their life struggles, explore techniques for better executive functioning, and explore ways to manage stressors. While I can work with a wide range of ages, I particularly enjoy helping support children, adolescents, and young adults in their development.
Dealing with life events can be stressful for anyone. But there are further difficulties when it comes to neurodiversity, anxiety disorders, and being part of the LGBTQIA+ communities. In this day and age, life can be even more trying as part of a marginalized community. I enjoy helping people work through their life struggles, explore techniques for better executive functioning, and explore ways to manage stressors. While I can work with a wide range of ages, I particularly enjoy helping support children, adolescents, and young adults in their development.
Our ideal client is a woman who feels overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or unsupported. She may be struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, motherhood, work-life balance, or major life transitions. She often gives to others but neglects her own needs and feels disconnected from herself. She is seeking clarity, emotional relief, and a safe space to heal, grow, and feel empowered again.
Our ideal client is a woman who feels overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or unsupported. She may be struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, motherhood, work-life balance, or major life transitions. She often gives to others but neglects her own needs and feels disconnected from herself. She is seeking clarity, emotional relief, and a safe space to heal, grow, and feel empowered again.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or stuck in patterns that no longer feel aligned with who you are. I know how hard that can be, and reaching out for help is the most important step. I'm passionate about working with adults going through major life transitions, and folks who are struggling with anxiety, depression, or irritability that feels out of control. I strive to create a space where you feel you can find and explore your authentic self. I also specialize in working with members of the LGBTQIA+ community and I'm committed to providing compassionate and high quality care to all my clients.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or stuck in patterns that no longer feel aligned with who you are. I know how hard that can be, and reaching out for help is the most important step. I'm passionate about working with adults going through major life transitions, and folks who are struggling with anxiety, depression, or irritability that feels out of control. I strive to create a space where you feel you can find and explore your authentic self. I also specialize in working with members of the LGBTQIA+ community and I'm committed to providing compassionate and high quality care to all my clients.
I believe that therapy can help you “ride the wave" with hope, courage, and purpose. I believe in the power of relationships, and I believe therapists should be just as authentic as they ask of their clients. My commitment to you is to bring my whole self into our time together, just as I ask of you. I will encourage you to trust your gut, trust the process, and trust yourself in what you need. I firmly believe that therapy, like self-care, is not “one size fits all."
I believe that therapy can help you “ride the wave" with hope, courage, and purpose. I believe in the power of relationships, and I believe therapists should be just as authentic as they ask of their clients. My commitment to you is to bring my whole self into our time together, just as I ask of you. I will encourage you to trust your gut, trust the process, and trust yourself in what you need. I firmly believe that therapy, like self-care, is not “one size fits all."
Immediate openings available! Feeling anxious, stressed, or like you're constantly battling your inner critic? I'm passionate about supporting adults who are struggling with anxiety, burnout, depression, disordered eating, neurodiversity, LGTBQ+ related issues, and more. You're not alone, and real change is possible. I use cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) to help people regain their sense of hope and learn effective coping skills. Together we will: 1. Identify and change negative thought patterns 2. Develop a more positive self-image 3. Boost your confidence in all areas of your life.
Immediate openings available! Feeling anxious, stressed, or like you're constantly battling your inner critic? I'm passionate about supporting adults who are struggling with anxiety, burnout, depression, disordered eating, neurodiversity, LGTBQ+ related issues, and more. You're not alone, and real change is possible. I use cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) to help people regain their sense of hope and learn effective coping skills. Together we will: 1. Identify and change negative thought patterns 2. Develop a more positive self-image 3. Boost your confidence in all areas of your life.
I am the owner and clinical director of Kind Attention Behavioral Health, where I directly supervise our team of clinicians and specialize in treating Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and anxiety disorders. Over the past decade, I have developed a therapeutic style that balances clear, direct guidance with focused attentiveness, ensuring a collaborative and secure space for recovery. I know how isolating anxiety can feel, and my goal is to provide a non-judgmental, secure environment where we can tackle your challenges together.
I am the owner and clinical director of Kind Attention Behavioral Health, where I directly supervise our team of clinicians and specialize in treating Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and anxiety disorders. Over the past decade, I have developed a therapeutic style that balances clear, direct guidance with focused attentiveness, ensuring a collaborative and secure space for recovery. I know how isolating anxiety can feel, and my goal is to provide a non-judgmental, secure environment where we can tackle your challenges together.
New clients welcome! Starting therapy can be anxiety inducing, and scary. You deserve to feel relief and safety. Put yourself first and begin your journey of growth and healing. I utilize a holistic and somatic approach that will customize our sessions around your desires while focusing on your goals. I also use a client-centered, strength-based and solution-focused approach. My goal is to help you establish appropriate coping skills that can be implemented at anytime. Sessions are truly a collaborative space, where you are the main character.
New clients welcome! Starting therapy can be anxiety inducing, and scary. You deserve to feel relief and safety. Put yourself first and begin your journey of growth and healing. I utilize a holistic and somatic approach that will customize our sessions around your desires while focusing on your goals. I also use a client-centered, strength-based and solution-focused approach. My goal is to help you establish appropriate coping skills that can be implemented at anytime. Sessions are truly a collaborative space, where you are the main character.
As a self-described geek therapist, I understand that healing happens when we feel safe being fully ourselves. I work from a trauma informed, parts aware, and relational framework, but I also know that therapy only works when it is engaging. Whether it’s anime, gaming, art, or storytelling, I try to incorporate the creative passions that make you feel most alive. Together, we build emotional safety, self leadership, and the freedom to live authentically: without shame, fear, or masks. I specialize in working with adults navigating anxiety, depression, ADHD, trauma, life transitions, and self-esteem challenges.
As a self-described geek therapist, I understand that healing happens when we feel safe being fully ourselves. I work from a trauma informed, parts aware, and relational framework, but I also know that therapy only works when it is engaging. Whether it’s anime, gaming, art, or storytelling, I try to incorporate the creative passions that make you feel most alive. Together, we build emotional safety, self leadership, and the freedom to live authentically: without shame, fear, or masks. I specialize in working with adults navigating anxiety, depression, ADHD, trauma, life transitions, and self-esteem challenges.
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Kelsey Greene, LCSW - Sex Therapy, IFS, & EMDR
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
6 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you struggling with shame, distress, or anxiety related to your sexuality or porn use? Do you feel stuck in cycles of secrecy or guilt, unsure of how to navigate your desires in a way that aligns with your values and well-being? I am Kelsey, a trauma-informed sex therapist practicing in the states of NY, CT, & FL. I work with individuals and couples experiencing sex- and intimacy-related issues, such as communication challenges, shame, desire discrepancy, ED, pelvic pain, and infidelity, as well as individuals seeking treatment for processing trauma. I am accepting new clients and have immediate availability for a consult.
Are you struggling with shame, distress, or anxiety related to your sexuality or porn use? Do you feel stuck in cycles of secrecy or guilt, unsure of how to navigate your desires in a way that aligns with your values and well-being? I am Kelsey, a trauma-informed sex therapist practicing in the states of NY, CT, & FL. I work with individuals and couples experiencing sex- and intimacy-related issues, such as communication challenges, shame, desire discrepancy, ED, pelvic pain, and infidelity, as well as individuals seeking treatment for processing trauma. I am accepting new clients and have immediate availability for a consult.
My professional and personal experience as a queer neurodivergent kink-allied clinician inform my work: you don't need to explain your existence or justify your lifestyle—we can focus instead on your goals and journey, at your own pace.
Work with me is grounded, collaborative, and very human! In relational psychodynamic therapy we'll explore how past and present "attachments" (important relationships) affect you, work through ruptures and conflict, and test-drive new ways of relating. You'll develop insight and blueprints for healthy, meaningful relationships (and skills for keeping them!).
My professional and personal experience as a queer neurodivergent kink-allied clinician inform my work: you don't need to explain your existence or justify your lifestyle—we can focus instead on your goals and journey, at your own pace.
Work with me is grounded, collaborative, and very human! In relational psychodynamic therapy we'll explore how past and present "attachments" (important relationships) affect you, work through ruptures and conflict, and test-drive new ways of relating. You'll develop insight and blueprints for healthy, meaningful relationships (and skills for keeping them!).
Hi, I’m Kira (she/her) —a sex therapist, clinical social worker, and educator with over 15 years of experience supporting adults in building more connected, confident, and compassionate relationships with their bodies, identities, and intimate lives. I work w individuals and people in relationships of all different identities and experiences who want to increase their overall quality of life, and access to connection. Sometimes this includes working on more mental health focused work like anxiety, or depression, while other times it might include specific sexuality related goals.
Hi, I’m Kira (she/her) —a sex therapist, clinical social worker, and educator with over 15 years of experience supporting adults in building more connected, confident, and compassionate relationships with their bodies, identities, and intimate lives. I work w individuals and people in relationships of all different identities and experiences who want to increase their overall quality of life, and access to connection. Sometimes this includes working on more mental health focused work like anxiety, or depression, while other times it might include specific sexuality related goals.
I am LGBTQ+ affirming, sex-positive, kink-allied, and HAES oriented.
I am here to guide folks who are looking to slow down and tend to their nervous system, improve self-esteem and assertiveness, practice self-compassion, or work through grief and life transitions. I feel passionate about working with folks navigating trauma and individuals looking to explore personal identity or non-traditional relationship dynamics.
I am LGBTQ+ affirming, sex-positive, kink-allied, and HAES oriented.
I am here to guide folks who are looking to slow down and tend to their nervous system, improve self-esteem and assertiveness, practice self-compassion, or work through grief and life transitions. I feel passionate about working with folks navigating trauma and individuals looking to explore personal identity or non-traditional relationship dynamics.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.