Male Therapists in Middlebury, CT
I work with adults experiencing trauma, anxiety, relationship challenges, life transitions, or seeking personal growth. Many come feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or aware that simply talking about their experiences has not brought the change they hoped for.
I believe more process and experience, and less dialogue, (somatic approaches) can often lead to deeper results. I help clients gently connect with and process their experiences at a pace that feels safe and appropriate for them. My approach is collaborative, compassionate, and individualized.
I work with adults experiencing trauma, anxiety, relationship challenges, life transitions, or seeking personal growth. Many come feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or aware that simply talking about their experiences has not brought the change they hoped for.
I believe more process and experience, and less dialogue, (somatic approaches) can often lead to deeper results. I help clients gently connect with and process their experiences at a pace that feels safe and appropriate for them. My approach is collaborative, compassionate, and individualized.
At Flourish to Better Health, our licensed therapists provide compassionate, evidence-based therapy for children, teens, adults, couples, families, and athletes throughout Connecticut. Offices are located in Middlebury and New Britain, as well as virtually. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship challenges, parenting stress, life transitions, grief, or low self-esteem, we’re here to help. We can support children by providing play therapy, teen counseling, couples and family work. Get a free consult today!
At Flourish to Better Health, our licensed therapists provide compassionate, evidence-based therapy for children, teens, adults, couples, families, and athletes throughout Connecticut. Offices are located in Middlebury and New Britain, as well as virtually. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship challenges, parenting stress, life transitions, grief, or low self-esteem, we’re here to help. We can support children by providing play therapy, teen counseling, couples and family work. Get a free consult today!
You are not your mistakes, you are allowed to take up space in the world just as you are- the weird, the funny, the intelligent, the strange, and developing versions of you. I’d love to come alongside you to get to know all the parts of you - the good, the bad, and the sometimes scary. I will meet you with humor, mutual weirdness, and a sense of humility to help cultivate a safe and judgement free environment where you can explore life’s challenges in a space that doesn’t feel like a doctor's office.
You are not your mistakes, you are allowed to take up space in the world just as you are- the weird, the funny, the intelligent, the strange, and developing versions of you. I’d love to come alongside you to get to know all the parts of you - the good, the bad, and the sometimes scary. I will meet you with humor, mutual weirdness, and a sense of humility to help cultivate a safe and judgement free environment where you can explore life’s challenges in a space that doesn’t feel like a doctor's office.
Whether you are struggling with a particular issue, or just can't shake the feeling that there should be more to life, I can help. I provide a caring environment in which you can identify and explore those issues that may be getting in the way of a more rewarding home life and career, or of more fulfilling relationships. The goal is to help provide you with the insights and tools you need to move beyond old, limiting beliefs and behaviors.
Whether you are struggling with a particular issue, or just can't shake the feeling that there should be more to life, I can help. I provide a caring environment in which you can identify and explore those issues that may be getting in the way of a more rewarding home life and career, or of more fulfilling relationships. The goal is to help provide you with the insights and tools you need to move beyond old, limiting beliefs and behaviors.
If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or ready for change, you don’t have to face it alone. Therapy should be a place where you feel understood, supported, and encouraged to move forward. I work with individuals and couples across the lifespan, and my approach blends practicality with compassion. Together we will focus on what matters most, create a plan, and take meaningful steps toward healing and growth.
If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or ready for change, you don’t have to face it alone. Therapy should be a place where you feel understood, supported, and encouraged to move forward. I work with individuals and couples across the lifespan, and my approach blends practicality with compassion. Together we will focus on what matters most, create a plan, and take meaningful steps toward healing and growth.
Hello, my name is George Hayes; I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor, specializing in individual psychotherapy, couples therapy, addiction, and family therapy. In addition, I have worked in the school system for over 14 years and have a “unique” understanding of children’s issues. My thought process is that "all behavior meets a need", understanding the need fulfillment behind the behavior is key to effective treatment.
Hello, my name is George Hayes; I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor, specializing in individual psychotherapy, couples therapy, addiction, and family therapy. In addition, I have worked in the school system for over 14 years and have a “unique” understanding of children’s issues. My thought process is that "all behavior meets a need", understanding the need fulfillment behind the behavior is key to effective treatment.
Michael Cowan is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with experience helping clients who struggle with anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, addiction, as well as a variety of other issues. He has a kind, friendly, and welcoming persona, and he is known for making his clients feel comfortable. He provides a non-judgmental, safe environment and helps his clients recognize their own strengths.
Michael Cowan is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with experience helping clients who struggle with anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, addiction, as well as a variety of other issues. He has a kind, friendly, and welcoming persona, and he is known for making his clients feel comfortable. He provides a non-judgmental, safe environment and helps his clients recognize their own strengths.
I work with adults of all ages in a highly attuned, caring, and deeply respectful way. I have helped many people overcome painful anxiety, shame, depression, relationship difficulties, job stress, loss, and the challenges of creating a truly meaningful life. As a fully licensed clinical social worker, I offer an effective blend of deep empathy, understanding and considerable training. I enjoy working with adults from all backgrounds and lifestyles, and will tailor my approach to your needs.
I work with adults of all ages in a highly attuned, caring, and deeply respectful way. I have helped many people overcome painful anxiety, shame, depression, relationship difficulties, job stress, loss, and the challenges of creating a truly meaningful life. As a fully licensed clinical social worker, I offer an effective blend of deep empathy, understanding and considerable training. I enjoy working with adults from all backgrounds and lifestyles, and will tailor my approach to your needs.
I am a child and family therapist who prefers to work with children who show oppositional behavior and other problematic behaviors. Are you experiencing difficulty communicating with your child? Do you feel like you're trying to help your child but your child doesn't recognize this? Perhaps you are aware that something is bothering your child but you and your child can't put your finger on it. You may have heard from the school that your child is having difficulty in school and your having trouble identifying what is causing this.
I am a child and family therapist who prefers to work with children who show oppositional behavior and other problematic behaviors. Are you experiencing difficulty communicating with your child? Do you feel like you're trying to help your child but your child doesn't recognize this? Perhaps you are aware that something is bothering your child but you and your child can't put your finger on it. You may have heard from the school that your child is having difficulty in school and your having trouble identifying what is causing this.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, stuck in old patterns, or struggling to navigate life's challenges on your own? Whether you're dealing with depression, relationship difficulties, stress, substance use concerns, or a major life transition, you don't have to figure it out alone. Therapy is an opportunity to better understand yourself, build practical coping skills, and create meaningful, lasting change and I'd be honored to be part of that journey.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, stuck in old patterns, or struggling to navigate life's challenges on your own? Whether you're dealing with depression, relationship difficulties, stress, substance use concerns, or a major life transition, you don't have to figure it out alone. Therapy is an opportunity to better understand yourself, build practical coping skills, and create meaningful, lasting change and I'd be honored to be part of that journey.
The ideal client is an adult feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or off-track, struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, or OCD. They may be navigating significant life transitions, grief, addiction recovery, anger, or emotional regulation challenges.
They need a grounded, compassionate space and seek a therapist who can address the whole person—mind, body, and spirit. They want to move beyond feeling "stuck" and align their life with their values.
This client is often motivated to engage in evidence-based therapy like ACT, IFS, or ERP, and appreciates a safe, inclusive environment.
The ideal client is an adult feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or off-track, struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, or OCD. They may be navigating significant life transitions, grief, addiction recovery, anger, or emotional regulation challenges.
They need a grounded, compassionate space and seek a therapist who can address the whole person—mind, body, and spirit. They want to move beyond feeling "stuck" and align their life with their values.
This client is often motivated to engage in evidence-based therapy like ACT, IFS, or ERP, and appreciates a safe, inclusive environment.
My mission is to bring Exceptionally Compassionate and Empowering Treatment to every Client & every Client System. I specialize in treating the many forms of Addiction, including Co-Dependency as well as Psychiatric issues such as Depression, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder. Many clients are surprised to find out that by the time they enter my door for the first time, 90% of the work they need to complete has already been accomplished. The toughest journeys in life all begin with the First Step. There is no shame in needing help, only in not getting the help you need.
My mission is to bring Exceptionally Compassionate and Empowering Treatment to every Client & every Client System. I specialize in treating the many forms of Addiction, including Co-Dependency as well as Psychiatric issues such as Depression, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder. Many clients are surprised to find out that by the time they enter my door for the first time, 90% of the work they need to complete has already been accomplished. The toughest journeys in life all begin with the First Step. There is no shame in needing help, only in not getting the help you need.
My ideal client is someone who may be feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of where to begin but is ready to take that first step toward healing. Whether they’re struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, or the everyday challenges of life, my goal is to help them rediscover balance and purpose.
My ideal client is someone who may be feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of where to begin but is ready to take that first step toward healing. Whether they’re struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, or the everyday challenges of life, my goal is to help them rediscover balance and purpose.
Southbury Counseling works with teens and adults with a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use disorders, athletic performance, and family issues. Southbury Counseling will match you with a counselor best skilled to assist you with your specific issues and at your convenience and offers both male and female counselors.
Southbury Counseling works with teens and adults with a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use disorders, athletic performance, and family issues. Southbury Counseling will match you with a counselor best skilled to assist you with your specific issues and at your convenience and offers both male and female counselors.
I take a compassionate, collaborative approach to therapy where clients feel heard, supported, and respected. My work is trauma-informed, solution-focused, and cutlurally-responsive, helping individuals and families build practical tools while working through emotional and behavioral challenges. I tailor therapy to each person’s unique needs, using evidence-informed strategies to promote resilience, clarity, and confidence. I also provide care in English, Portuguese, and Spanish to better support diverse communities.
I take a compassionate, collaborative approach to therapy where clients feel heard, supported, and respected. My work is trauma-informed, solution-focused, and cutlurally-responsive, helping individuals and families build practical tools while working through emotional and behavioral challenges. I tailor therapy to each person’s unique needs, using evidence-informed strategies to promote resilience, clarity, and confidence. I also provide care in English, Portuguese, and Spanish to better support diverse communities.
It pays to talk to someone you can trust and who would not use what you say against you. Life has many challenges in store for everyone. Some, we can prevent, and others we can only manage them. This is particularly so with parents who are going through immense struggles as a result of parenting, work, and relationship with their spouses and other family members. You may be doing the right thing but not sure. That feeling of "lost control" suggest that you need to have a deeper view of the problem to regain control. Come talk to me.
It pays to talk to someone you can trust and who would not use what you say against you. Life has many challenges in store for everyone. Some, we can prevent, and others we can only manage them. This is particularly so with parents who are going through immense struggles as a result of parenting, work, and relationship with their spouses and other family members. You may be doing the right thing but not sure. That feeling of "lost control" suggest that you need to have a deeper view of the problem to regain control. Come talk to me.
Whatever it is that you are struggling with, I am certain of one thing, it has been beating you up and convincing you that there is no hope. You’re tired of it, you’ve been fighting it tooth and nail and yet it still persists. You are surviving without any tools and my role to you is to give you a hammer. As someone who has ten years experience working with people who struggle with anger, anxiety, relationship issues, and who struggle with conventional therapy, I have found reliable methods to elevate people to where they want to be in life.
Whatever it is that you are struggling with, I am certain of one thing, it has been beating you up and convincing you that there is no hope. You’re tired of it, you’ve been fighting it tooth and nail and yet it still persists. You are surviving without any tools and my role to you is to give you a hammer. As someone who has ten years experience working with people who struggle with anger, anxiety, relationship issues, and who struggle with conventional therapy, I have found reliable methods to elevate people to where they want to be in life.
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There is an old saying: "Never give a sword to a person who can't dance". This wisdom speaks directly to minds that are stuck and cannot move rhythmically but are bound to fear, anxiety and neglect. When our minds become inflexible, we cut ourselves away from our intuitive self, causing suffering and pain. Only with the experience of standing unbiased and naked in "another's shoes" can we really know we are clear and authentic. When we become authentic, we receive confidence. Confidence begets creativity and with creativity we discover our life.
There is an old saying: "Never give a sword to a person who can't dance". This wisdom speaks directly to minds that are stuck and cannot move rhythmically but are bound to fear, anxiety and neglect. When our minds become inflexible, we cut ourselves away from our intuitive self, causing suffering and pain. Only with the experience of standing unbiased and naked in "another's shoes" can we really know we are clear and authentic. When we become authentic, we receive confidence. Confidence begets creativity and with creativity we discover our life.
I work with teens, young adults, adults, and families struggling with overwhelming emotions, difficulty tolerating stress, relationship challenges, and anxiety. Many of my clients deal with self-harm, panic, substance use, trauma, or intense emotional reactivity. I help them gain skills to regulate emotions, reduce conflict, tolerate distress, and move toward goals that matter—whether that’s stability, stronger relationships, a life that feels more manageable, or the first step of figuring out what those goals are.
I work with teens, young adults, adults, and families struggling with overwhelming emotions, difficulty tolerating stress, relationship challenges, and anxiety. Many of my clients deal with self-harm, panic, substance use, trauma, or intense emotional reactivity. I help them gain skills to regulate emotions, reduce conflict, tolerate distress, and move toward goals that matter—whether that’s stability, stronger relationships, a life that feels more manageable, or the first step of figuring out what those goals are.
Accepting new clients who are struggling with pornography addiction, sex addiction, compulsive sexual behaviors, substance use, alcoholism, or other high-risk behaviors. Many have tried to stop on their own but continue to find themselves caught in a cycle of shame, secrecy, and relapse. Others are experiencing relationship difficulties, infidelity, anxiety, depression, or emotional distress related to their addiction. I also work with individuals who are committed to maintaining long-term sobriety and preventing relapse.
My approach is compassionate, confidential, and free of judgment.
Accepting new clients who are struggling with pornography addiction, sex addiction, compulsive sexual behaviors, substance use, alcoholism, or other high-risk behaviors. Many have tried to stop on their own but continue to find themselves caught in a cycle of shame, secrecy, and relapse. Others are experiencing relationship difficulties, infidelity, anxiety, depression, or emotional distress related to their addiction. I also work with individuals who are committed to maintaining long-term sobriety and preventing relapse.
My approach is compassionate, confidential, and free of judgment.
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FAQ - Therapist Gender
Does it matter what gender my therapist is?
In general, there is no relationship between a therapist’s gender and their efficacy. Some clients, however, prefer to see therapists of a particular gender, whether due to their own past experiences with men and women, or because they feel more comfortable with a therapist of their own gender due to shared life experiences or perspectives. Considering what one wants to address in therapy can help someone determine whether their therapist’s gender may matter or improve your therapeutic experience. The most important consideration is that a client is able to build a trusting relationship with their therapist.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Why might an individual seek a male therapist?
Clients, particularly men, may look for a male therapist because they may share life experiences that help them connect well and understand each other more immediately. Some men might feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about gender-specific issues, such as fatherhood or the social pressures around masculinity. Men who have experienced trauma or abuse, sexual or otherwise, may find it more comfortable to talk through their memories of these experiences with a male therapist. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
Is therapy different for men and women?
Therapy can be different for men and women insofar as gender plays a role in the challenges an individual faces and the events in life an individual has experienced. Men often face different expectations from their families, friends, and society than women do. In some cases, men might feel most comfortable expressing themselves differently from how women do. Talking about one’s feelings and emotions is a critical part of most therapies, and some men might find it comes more naturally when talking to a male therapist. Ultimately, though, therapeutic treatment should be tailored to the individual’s specific needs.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.