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Ellie Moghaddam
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, TLLP
Verified Verified
Troy, MI 48084
Through my journey working with different populations, I have developed a special interest in psychological and behavioral assessment, while also developing focused clinical skills in trauma, relationship difficulties, and personality dysfunction.
I am a bicultural psychologist who appreciates diversity and uses humanistic principles and beliefs to understand the mind and behavior, focusing on the uniqueness of each individual that is inherently good. I am passionate about helping people find or restore the condition in which they can rediscover their inherent happiness and satisfaction of life, while also leading them to personal growth by addressing their diverse experiences with caregivers or peers that may have led to emotional wounds and maladaptive behaviors.
Through my journey working with different populations, I have developed a special interest in psychological and behavioral assessment, while also developing focused clinical skills in trauma, relationship difficulties, and personality dysfunction.
I am a bicultural psychologist who appreciates diversity and uses humanistic principles and beliefs to understand the mind and behavior, focusing on the uniqueness of each individual that is inherently good. I am passionate about helping people find or restore the condition in which they can rediscover their inherent happiness and satisfaction of life, while also leading them to personal growth by addressing their diverse experiences with caregivers or peers that may have led to emotional wounds and maladaptive behaviors.
(248) 587-8810 View (248) 587-8810
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Sarah E Kuchon
Counselor, MA, LLC, JD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48084
I work with individuals and couples experiencing stress, anxiety, post-traumatic stress, depression, trauma, grief, loss, overburden, or dissatisfaction of career, relationship, or life in general, among other issues.
Life can be challenging. From loss and grief to anxiety and fear to relationship difficulties to parenting challenges, life can be hard. It is normal for people to struggle. It is OK to not be OK. It is also OK to seek help. You do not have to face life's challenges alone. Counseling is more than just listening. Counseling can provide a safe, compassionate, non-judgmental environment to work through and process life's challenges. Counseling can foster and promote healing and growth. Well-being is a journey, not a destination. Take control of your mental health and start your well-being journey. Heal. Grow. Transform.
I work with individuals and couples experiencing stress, anxiety, post-traumatic stress, depression, trauma, grief, loss, overburden, or dissatisfaction of career, relationship, or life in general, among other issues.
Life can be challenging. From loss and grief to anxiety and fear to relationship difficulties to parenting challenges, life can be hard. It is normal for people to struggle. It is OK to not be OK. It is also OK to seek help. You do not have to face life's challenges alone. Counseling is more than just listening. Counseling can provide a safe, compassionate, non-judgmental environment to work through and process life's challenges. Counseling can foster and promote healing and growth. Well-being is a journey, not a destination. Take control of your mental health and start your well-being journey. Heal. Grow. Transform.
(248) 720-5872 View (248) 720-5872
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Rizzo Nichols
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48083
My philosophy is evidence-based and person-centered. Each person's story is dynamic and one-of-a-kind; it only makes sense that your healing journey follows suit. In my work, I integrate elements of somatic experiencing, mindfulness, Acceptance and Commitment therapy (ACT), eco-psychology, and parts work (IFS) to facilitate clients’ inner wisdom and healing. I enjoying working with individuals and couples who are seeking to deepen their relationship with Self. I specialize in psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy, anxiety, depression, trauma, neurodiversity, attachment-based work, and sexual therapy + sexual education. ​
My philosophy is evidence-based and person-centered. Each person's story is dynamic and one-of-a-kind; it only makes sense that your healing journey follows suit. In my work, I integrate elements of somatic experiencing, mindfulness, Acceptance and Commitment therapy (ACT), eco-psychology, and parts work (IFS) to facilitate clients’ inner wisdom and healing. I enjoying working with individuals and couples who are seeking to deepen their relationship with Self. I specialize in psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy, anxiety, depression, trauma, neurodiversity, attachment-based work, and sexual therapy + sexual education. ​
(947) 210-7477 View (947) 210-7477
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Jennifer Oles
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48084  (Online Only)
TELEHEALTH PROVIDER***Problems with your spouse, partner, child, family, friends or job? Feeling depressed, anxious or overwhelmed? Finding a therapist who understands your needs can be very difficult but with my 37+ years experience with mental health and substance abuse treatment can help you live a more satisfying life. I have experience with all age clients with mental health, substance abuse, grief and loss, communication, impulse control, ADH-D, learning disabilities, autism, parenting, school staff and trauma issues.
TELEHEALTH PROVIDER***Problems with your spouse, partner, child, family, friends or job? Feeling depressed, anxious or overwhelmed? Finding a therapist who understands your needs can be very difficult but with my 37+ years experience with mental health and substance abuse treatment can help you live a more satisfying life. I have experience with all age clients with mental health, substance abuse, grief and loss, communication, impulse control, ADH-D, learning disabilities, autism, parenting, school staff and trauma issues.
(586) 991-3430 View (586) 991-3430
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Kevin Rem
Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Troy, MI 48085
I work with adolescents, individuals, and couples to help find healthy solutions for the problems they may be facing.
"Mental health isn't a thing. Talking about feelings and experiences isn't going to help. Things will get better by just putting my head down and powering through. I'm strong, self-reliant, and I don't need any help. I'll be fine just the way I am." These are all valid thoughts and feelings for an individual to have and many people believe these statements are true. Stereotypically, men especially, fall into these thought patterns. The numbers reflect this, approximately 30% vs 70% of those seeking counseling are men vs women. We are taught men don't have feelings and if they do they sure as hell don't talk to anybody about them.
I work with adolescents, individuals, and couples to help find healthy solutions for the problems they may be facing.
"Mental health isn't a thing. Talking about feelings and experiences isn't going to help. Things will get better by just putting my head down and powering through. I'm strong, self-reliant, and I don't need any help. I'll be fine just the way I am." These are all valid thoughts and feelings for an individual to have and many people believe these statements are true. Stereotypically, men especially, fall into these thought patterns. The numbers reflect this, approximately 30% vs 70% of those seeking counseling are men vs women. We are taught men don't have feelings and if they do they sure as hell don't talk to anybody about them.
(248) 609-3004 View (248) 609-3004
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Jennifer Talbot
Counselor, MA, LPC, BCC, NCC, CTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48083
Specializing training with approx. 15 years' work experience in: Trauma Therapy, DBT, Solution Focused Therapy, Strength Based Counseling, School Counseling, and Life Coaching, etc.. Utilizing various psychological modalities & assessments and client specific interventions. Career and personal and business Life Coaching is an additional specialty. I work with Individuals, families, couples and children. I enjoy helping client(s) achieve their break throughs. I value my longstanding relationships with each client, and often received clients referring me to their family, friends, coworkers, physicians, teachers, etc..
Specializing training with approx. 15 years' work experience in: Trauma Therapy, DBT, Solution Focused Therapy, Strength Based Counseling, School Counseling, and Life Coaching, etc.. Utilizing various psychological modalities & assessments and client specific interventions. Career and personal and business Life Coaching is an additional specialty. I work with Individuals, families, couples and children. I enjoy helping client(s) achieve their break throughs. I value my longstanding relationships with each client, and often received clients referring me to their family, friends, coworkers, physicians, teachers, etc..
(313) 327-3370 View (313) 327-3370
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Shelley Sollars
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, LLP
Verified Verified
Troy, MI 48084
We encourage an open and honest relationship to help clients feel emotionally supported.
The psychologists, psychotherapists and mental health counselors at Sollars and Associates are licensed by the state of Michigan and work under the clinical direction of Franklin Sollars, PhD, LP. All share my passion for working with others in their quest for resolution of feelings and issues that interfere with personal growth and productive lifestyles. Our therapists possess a great deal of experience in evaluating and working with children, adolescents and families dealing with: Attention Deficit Disorder, School Difficulties, Interpersonal Issues such as bullying, adult ADD and related issues, Depression, Trauma, and more.
We encourage an open and honest relationship to help clients feel emotionally supported.
The psychologists, psychotherapists and mental health counselors at Sollars and Associates are licensed by the state of Michigan and work under the clinical direction of Franklin Sollars, PhD, LP. All share my passion for working with others in their quest for resolution of feelings and issues that interfere with personal growth and productive lifestyles. Our therapists possess a great deal of experience in evaluating and working with children, adolescents and families dealing with: Attention Deficit Disorder, School Difficulties, Interpersonal Issues such as bullying, adult ADD and related issues, Depression, Trauma, and more.
(248) 862-1171 View (248) 862-1171
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Jen Susan
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48084
My educational background has given me experience in working with adolescents and teens but I also work with couples and young adults.
Do you feel overwhelmed? Are you having a difficult time coping? Life can be hard and the traumatic events (divorce, job loss, the death of a loved one, abuse) that take place in our lives can affect us in ways that sometimes we are not even aware. Therapy is a wonderful way to explore those hidden parts of our lives that we rarely talk about or are hesitant to share. As your therapist, I provide a client centered environment that is safe, empathetic, and non-judgmental. My goal is to provide support for you and an individualized plan that is unique to your situation.
My educational background has given me experience in working with adolescents and teens but I also work with couples and young adults.
Do you feel overwhelmed? Are you having a difficult time coping? Life can be hard and the traumatic events (divorce, job loss, the death of a loved one, abuse) that take place in our lives can affect us in ways that sometimes we are not even aware. Therapy is a wonderful way to explore those hidden parts of our lives that we rarely talk about or are hesitant to share. As your therapist, I provide a client centered environment that is safe, empathetic, and non-judgmental. My goal is to provide support for you and an individualized plan that is unique to your situation.
(586) 460-4135 View (586) 460-4135
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Jarid Hill
Counselor, MA, LLC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48084  (Online Only)
I believe in the power of the therapeutic relationship and its healing potential.
Your mind races with intrusive thoughts that cause you to worry about everything, or you can't forget about that horrible event that happened to you in your past. Or maybe you lost an important person in your life or experienced a change that took away that feeling of life being normal. You try to move on with life, but you're angry, sad, confused, or feel helpless. Believe me, I’ve been there and done that. And if any of this resonates with you, keep reading or take a look at my website, www.hillside-counseling.com, to find out more about me and what I'm all about.
I believe in the power of the therapeutic relationship and its healing potential.
Your mind races with intrusive thoughts that cause you to worry about everything, or you can't forget about that horrible event that happened to you in your past. Or maybe you lost an important person in your life or experienced a change that took away that feeling of life being normal. You try to move on with life, but you're angry, sad, confused, or feel helpless. Believe me, I’ve been there and done that. And if any of this resonates with you, keep reading or take a look at my website, www.hillside-counseling.com, to find out more about me and what I'm all about.
(248) 971-2253 View (248) 971-2253
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Sarah M Primeau
Counselor, LLPC, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48084
I work with adults and adolescents struggling with most mental health issues including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, and ADHD coping strategies.
As a therapist with life experience, I believe that this life is a healing journey. Modern life has created many obstacles for many of us that result in mental health issues. I provide a safe and judgement free atmosphere. A safe place is imperative to unravel the complexity of emotional stress and pain.
I work with adults and adolescents struggling with most mental health issues including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, and ADHD coping strategies.
As a therapist with life experience, I believe that this life is a healing journey. Modern life has created many obstacles for many of us that result in mental health issues. I provide a safe and judgement free atmosphere. A safe place is imperative to unravel the complexity of emotional stress and pain.
(248) 453-2928 View (248) 453-2928
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Anna Paterson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LLPC, MA, PMH-C, EFTi
Verified Verified
Troy, MI 48084
Hormonal changes make life feel unmanageable at times. Are you a women struggling with midlife, perimenopause anxiety, career shifts, questioning stagnant romantic relationships, or grieving children leaving the home? I specialize in anxiety, women’s issues - pregnancy, fertility issues, parenthood, and midlife changes. I use evidence based cognitive behavior principals combined with holistic somatic therapy to give you lasting anxiety relief, heal relationship, and parenting challenges. As trained perinatal/postpartum therapist, I support clients through these challenging stages. Together, we heal, grow, and make lasting change.
Hormonal changes make life feel unmanageable at times. Are you a women struggling with midlife, perimenopause anxiety, career shifts, questioning stagnant romantic relationships, or grieving children leaving the home? I specialize in anxiety, women’s issues - pregnancy, fertility issues, parenthood, and midlife changes. I use evidence based cognitive behavior principals combined with holistic somatic therapy to give you lasting anxiety relief, heal relationship, and parenting challenges. As trained perinatal/postpartum therapist, I support clients through these challenging stages. Together, we heal, grow, and make lasting change.
(248) 846-1239 View (248) 846-1239
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Sharon K Hall
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Troy, MI 48085  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
What is happening for this person? Emotional pain? Confusion? Are they troubled personally, or is a relationship their concern? Second, I establish goals with them--what they hope to accomplish in counseling.
There are times in our lives when we all need special support. It may be due to a crisis--a major loss, a critical incident, a communication breakdown. Or, it may be more an experience in our everyday life--too much stress, a loss of focus or direction, a sense of being unfulfilled. No matter if the cause is extraordinary or ordinary, the result is that we sense that we have tapped out our own resources. It is time to reach out and find someone who has the insight and experience to offer guidance and support.
What is happening for this person? Emotional pain? Confusion? Are they troubled personally, or is a relationship their concern? Second, I establish goals with them--what they hope to accomplish in counseling.
There are times in our lives when we all need special support. It may be due to a crisis--a major loss, a critical incident, a communication breakdown. Or, it may be more an experience in our everyday life--too much stress, a loss of focus or direction, a sense of being unfulfilled. No matter if the cause is extraordinary or ordinary, the result is that we sense that we have tapped out our own resources. It is time to reach out and find someone who has the insight and experience to offer guidance and support.
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Maria Lingg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48084
Imagine a day when anxiety doesn’t hold you back. A day when you don't feel trapped in the most painful parts of your past. When you feel close again to your partner, your friends, your family. If it’s hard to imagine, that’s ok. You're not alone. And you don't have to figure it all out on your own. I've been working with survivors of abuse and trauma since 2014, particularly with those who’ve experienced sexual abuse and assault. I’m dedicated to helping you overcome the issues that are keeping you from the life and connections you want. Let’s talk. I’ll work hard to make sure you feel comfortable, safe, and genuinely understood.
Imagine a day when anxiety doesn’t hold you back. A day when you don't feel trapped in the most painful parts of your past. When you feel close again to your partner, your friends, your family. If it’s hard to imagine, that’s ok. You're not alone. And you don't have to figure it all out on your own. I've been working with survivors of abuse and trauma since 2014, particularly with those who’ve experienced sexual abuse and assault. I’m dedicated to helping you overcome the issues that are keeping you from the life and connections you want. Let’s talk. I’ll work hard to make sure you feel comfortable, safe, and genuinely understood.
(248) 629-1067 View (248) 629-1067
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Lauren Hahn
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Troy, MI 48098
Whether you are seeking change for yourself or wanting to improve your relationships, you have taken the first step. I focus on client's strengths by working collaboratively with individuals, couples, and families from a variety of backgrounds. My expertise is in treating relationship issues, specializing in couple's therapy, life stressors and resolving family conflict. I address the dynamics between people that keep them from feeling emotionally and physically connected, as well as their individual concerns.
Whether you are seeking change for yourself or wanting to improve your relationships, you have taken the first step. I focus on client's strengths by working collaboratively with individuals, couples, and families from a variety of backgrounds. My expertise is in treating relationship issues, specializing in couple's therapy, life stressors and resolving family conflict. I address the dynamics between people that keep them from feeling emotionally and physically connected, as well as their individual concerns.
(248) 218-9305 View (248) 218-9305
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Sollars and Associates
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
Troy, MI 48084
I encourage a very open and honest relationship to help clients feel emotionally safe.
I am a Licensed Psychologist and the Clinical Director of Sollars and Associates Integrative Counseling and Psychological Services. I have been providing counseling and psychotherapy for over 30 years in the Metro Detroit area and our group practice spans across the state of Michigan. Our group is trained in dealing with a variety of issues including: Attention Deficit Disorder, School Difficulties, Interpersonal Issues such as bullying, adult ADD and related issues, Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Mood Disorders, Grief and Loss, Parenting, Educational Concerns, Relationship Concerns, Career and Work Issues, and Sexual Issues.
I encourage a very open and honest relationship to help clients feel emotionally safe.
I am a Licensed Psychologist and the Clinical Director of Sollars and Associates Integrative Counseling and Psychological Services. I have been providing counseling and psychotherapy for over 30 years in the Metro Detroit area and our group practice spans across the state of Michigan. Our group is trained in dealing with a variety of issues including: Attention Deficit Disorder, School Difficulties, Interpersonal Issues such as bullying, adult ADD and related issues, Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Mood Disorders, Grief and Loss, Parenting, Educational Concerns, Relationship Concerns, Career and Work Issues, and Sexual Issues.
(248) 787-0855 View (248) 787-0855
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Laurel Greenwood-Martinez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, OSW-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48098
Sometimes when you feel broken, you need the help of another to rebuild. But where do you start when you’re seeking a therapist who is empathetic and experienced, supportive and compassionate? As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 23 years experience, I promise I am here to offer you a hand, not a judgment. Over two decades, I have worked with individuals, couples and families specializing in depression, anxiety, grief/loss, bereavement, body image, caregiver stress, family issues, relationship struggles and adjustment disorders/life transitions.
Sometimes when you feel broken, you need the help of another to rebuild. But where do you start when you’re seeking a therapist who is empathetic and experienced, supportive and compassionate? As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 23 years experience, I promise I am here to offer you a hand, not a judgment. Over two decades, I have worked with individuals, couples and families specializing in depression, anxiety, grief/loss, bereavement, body image, caregiver stress, family issues, relationship struggles and adjustment disorders/life transitions.
(517) 306-4831 View (517) 306-4831
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Meredith Fenton
Counselor, MA-CMHC, LLC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48084  (Online Only)
I am honored to help those experiencing various challenges, including all aspects of relationship counseling, separation, divorce, parenting challenges, perinatal and reproductive mental health, life and career transitions, anxiety, depression, disordered eating, obsessive-compulsive disorder (including perfectionism), and ADHD.
Compassionate, attentive, and knowledgeable. ​I am a Clinical Mental Health Counselor practicing in Birmingham, Michigan. I also have my Limited Licensed Counselor and National Certified Counselor Credentials. I have a B.A. in Psychology from Michigan State, and my Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Northwestern University, where I presented my thesis on decreasing the misdiagnosis of bipolar disorder.
I am honored to help those experiencing various challenges, including all aspects of relationship counseling, separation, divorce, parenting challenges, perinatal and reproductive mental health, life and career transitions, anxiety, depression, disordered eating, obsessive-compulsive disorder (including perfectionism), and ADHD.
Compassionate, attentive, and knowledgeable. ​I am a Clinical Mental Health Counselor practicing in Birmingham, Michigan. I also have my Limited Licensed Counselor and National Certified Counselor Credentials. I have a B.A. in Psychology from Michigan State, and my Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Northwestern University, where I presented my thesis on decreasing the misdiagnosis of bipolar disorder.
(248) 927-1341 View (248) 927-1341
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Meagan R Riesenberger (Hahn)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, OSW-C
Verified Verified
Troy, MI 48083
Sometimes when you feel broken, you need the help of another to rebuild. But where do you start when you’re seeking a therapist who is empathetic and experienced, supportive and compassionate? As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 15 years experience, I promise I am here to offer you a hand, not a judgment. Almost two decades, I have worked with individuals, couples and families specializing in depression, anxiety, grief/loss, bereavement, body image, caregiver stress, family issues, relationship struggles and adjustment disorders/life transitions.
Sometimes when you feel broken, you need the help of another to rebuild. But where do you start when you’re seeking a therapist who is empathetic and experienced, supportive and compassionate? As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 15 years experience, I promise I am here to offer you a hand, not a judgment. Almost two decades, I have worked with individuals, couples and families specializing in depression, anxiety, grief/loss, bereavement, body image, caregiver stress, family issues, relationship struggles and adjustment disorders/life transitions.
(586) 800-3985 View (586) 800-3985
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Lisa A. Barber
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Troy, MI 48007
"The struggle you're in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow." I'm passionate about working with adults and couples who are seeking to overcome life challenges and live a fulfilling life. I strive to create a supportive, safe, and non-judgmental environment that encourages insight and self-awareness and enhances the self-discovery process. I will empower you to make positive changes in your life that increase personal connections and help you to feel hopeful about the future.
"The struggle you're in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow." I'm passionate about working with adults and couples who are seeking to overcome life challenges and live a fulfilling life. I strive to create a supportive, safe, and non-judgmental environment that encourages insight and self-awareness and enhances the self-discovery process. I will empower you to make positive changes in your life that increase personal connections and help you to feel hopeful about the future.
(248) 595-7730 View (248) 595-7730
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Luann Adams LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Troy, MI 48098
You may be wondering what a counseling experience feels like. Let's begin by picturing counseling as a "walking alongside" relationship during a painful, conflicted, or confused time. As we begin talking together, your concerns, and your desires for counseling will lay the foundation for clarifying your goals for therapy. Often, a creative plan for removing obstacles in the way helps us get unstuck and moving forward quite naturally.
You may be wondering what a counseling experience feels like. Let's begin by picturing counseling as a "walking alongside" relationship during a painful, conflicted, or confused time. As we begin talking together, your concerns, and your desires for counseling will lay the foundation for clarifying your goals for therapy. Often, a creative plan for removing obstacles in the way helps us get unstuck and moving forward quite naturally.
(248) 688-0554 View (248) 688-0554
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.