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Deborah A Hedin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Urbana, IL 61801
Waitlist for new clients
I am a therapist who helps adults and couples who are struggling with life’s hurtful problems: single parenthood, relationship conflicts, divorce, difficulties at college, depression/anxiety, a partner or parent’s alcoholism, mental illness in the family, stress at work, news of a serious disease or financial reversal, caring for aged parents, overcoming a traumatic childhood, “empty nest syndrome,” the special pressures on military families, and so forth. Our work together would begin by focusing on the here-and-now, so that you can experience some immediate feelings of being heard and of moving forward.
I am a therapist who helps adults and couples who are struggling with life’s hurtful problems: single parenthood, relationship conflicts, divorce, difficulties at college, depression/anxiety, a partner or parent’s alcoholism, mental illness in the family, stress at work, news of a serious disease or financial reversal, caring for aged parents, overcoming a traumatic childhood, “empty nest syndrome,” the special pressures on military families, and so forth. Our work together would begin by focusing on the here-and-now, so that you can experience some immediate feelings of being heard and of moving forward.
(217) 356-2213 View (217) 356-2213
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Angela R. Wilson
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Urbana, IL 61801
Training: Relationship and Couples Therapy, Sexual Dysfunction, Group and Family Counseling, Multicultural Counseling, Violence, Addiction (substance, gambling, shopping), Eating Disorders, Personality Disorders, Developmental Counseling, Career and Lifestyle Counseling, Incidence/Crisis Training (American Red Cross).
We strive for happiness and avoid discomfort. I am passionate about helping you with your discomfort using various theraputic methods to find your happier place. Working in a private practice allows me to utilize many techniques of counseling and psychotherapy. Clinically, I adapt a treatment approach based on client goals or goals we set together. I believe one's life story as it relates to his or her behavior is a fascinating self-exploration exercise that everyone should have the chance to experience - especially given the fact that understanding self is imperative to acceptance and/or change.
Training: Relationship and Couples Therapy, Sexual Dysfunction, Group and Family Counseling, Multicultural Counseling, Violence, Addiction (substance, gambling, shopping), Eating Disorders, Personality Disorders, Developmental Counseling, Career and Lifestyle Counseling, Incidence/Crisis Training (American Red Cross).
We strive for happiness and avoid discomfort. I am passionate about helping you with your discomfort using various theraputic methods to find your happier place. Working in a private practice allows me to utilize many techniques of counseling and psychotherapy. Clinically, I adapt a treatment approach based on client goals or goals we set together. I believe one's life story as it relates to his or her behavior is a fascinating self-exploration exercise that everyone should have the chance to experience - especially given the fact that understanding self is imperative to acceptance and/or change.
(217) 645-6283 View (217) 645-6283

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Lolita Drummond
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CADC
Verified Verified
Champaign, IL 61820  (Online Only)
Hello! I am delighted to introduce myself to you. My name is Li Drummond. I have worked with many different presenting issues including adjustment issues, anxiety, depression, suicide risk, stress, loss, trauma, struggles with drugs and alcohol, family problems, child welfare, family problems, offenders, and relationship difficulties. I feel comfortable working with clients ranging in age from children to adults and feel especially well-equipped to work with clients facing discrimination and marginalization including members of various immigrant communities, LGBTQIA+ clientele, black, indigenous and people of color (BIPOC).
Hello! I am delighted to introduce myself to you. My name is Li Drummond. I have worked with many different presenting issues including adjustment issues, anxiety, depression, suicide risk, stress, loss, trauma, struggles with drugs and alcohol, family problems, child welfare, family problems, offenders, and relationship difficulties. I feel comfortable working with clients ranging in age from children to adults and feel especially well-equipped to work with clients facing discrimination and marginalization including members of various immigrant communities, LGBTQIA+ clientele, black, indigenous and people of color (BIPOC).
(773) 985-6279 View (773) 985-6279
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Frank Bates
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Champaign, IL 61820
Frank also enjoys working with couples and utilizes a therapeutic approach that he calls the “ABC-4B” approach (acceptance, acknowledge, attention, belief, benevolence, commitment, compassion; and the 4B-bitterness, berating, belittling, and blaming). He specializes in working with adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, self-work issues, life transitions, and some personality disorders as well.
Frank also enjoys working with couples and utilizes a therapeutic approach that he calls the “ABC-4B” approach (acceptance, acknowledge, attention, belief, benevolence, commitment, compassion; and the 4B-bitterness, berating, belittling, and blaming). He specializes in working with adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, self-work issues, life transitions, and some personality disorders as well.
(217) 269-1870 View (217) 269-1870

Online Therapists

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White Oak Institute for Growth and Wellness LLC
Counselor, MA,PSYD, LCPC, LMFT, LCSW, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Frankfort, IL 60423
At the White Oak we pride ourselves on building the therapeutic relationship with you and offering comfort and a personal quality in our approach.
Are you still trying to work on your own to feel better, adjust to life stress, find balance, or cope with mental illness? We will join you. At the White Oak we believe that the relationship with our clients is the paramount of any successful therapeutic endeavor. We tailor a plan to help you gain insight, develop skills, and balance your life best in coordination with your perceived mental health dilemma, stressors, or problem. Our beautiful facility in a restored colonial style home from 1934 is in the heart of downtown historic Frankfort, Illinois. The White Oak offers a familial comfort and country charm like no other.
At the White Oak we pride ourselves on building the therapeutic relationship with you and offering comfort and a personal quality in our approach.
Are you still trying to work on your own to feel better, adjust to life stress, find balance, or cope with mental illness? We will join you. At the White Oak we believe that the relationship with our clients is the paramount of any successful therapeutic endeavor. We tailor a plan to help you gain insight, develop skills, and balance your life best in coordination with your perceived mental health dilemma, stressors, or problem. Our beautiful facility in a restored colonial style home from 1934 is in the heart of downtown historic Frankfort, Illinois. The White Oak offers a familial comfort and country charm like no other.
(779) 228-4061 View (779) 228-4061
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Dr Sara Bahn Behavioral Health Center Of Illinois
Psychologist, PsyD, MAAT
Verified Verified
Springfield, IL 62703  (Online Only)
as well as common social and relationship issues.
I 've worked over 30 years working and consulting with children, adolescents, parents, couples, families, adults, corporations and military personnel. My focus encompasses a holistic, integrative, and strength based perspective and worldview. Through a combination of various healing modalities and psychotherapeutic approaches I focus on research based setting with each individual's specific needs and goals. I help individuals with personal growth, health and wellness, and the journey of self examination as well as symptom relief. View community education by Dr. Bahn on Channel 17, Channel 20 local news, and Mind, Body, Radio.
as well as common social and relationship issues.
I 've worked over 30 years working and consulting with children, adolescents, parents, couples, families, adults, corporations and military personnel. My focus encompasses a holistic, integrative, and strength based perspective and worldview. Through a combination of various healing modalities and psychotherapeutic approaches I focus on research based setting with each individual's specific needs and goals. I help individuals with personal growth, health and wellness, and the journey of self examination as well as symptom relief. View community education by Dr. Bahn on Channel 17, Channel 20 local news, and Mind, Body, Radio.
(217) 909-9097 View (217) 909-9097
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Lisa Schwab
Counselor, LCPC, NCC, CTC, DCC, EAS-C
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Peoria Heights, IL 61616
It has been my honor to serve Central Illinois for over 15 years with a broad experience in working with patients through mental health concerns, relationship issues, infidelity and marriage issues, brokenness and low self-worth, behavioral issues, addiction recovery, and gay, lesbian and transgender issues, and much more.
Life can be hard, painful, confusing, scary, and challenging. Events happen that leave us reeling with brokenness, grief, disbelief, guilt, fear, insecurity, and shame. We don't know what to do or which way to turn or how we got here in the first place. We may hold onto false beliefs about our self-worth, negative thoughts that tear us apart, relationships that are toxic, and behaviors that are destructive. All in an attempt to somehow alleviate how we are feeling. I am here to partner with you in working towards wholeness and healing and to empower you to move forward, happily and confidently.
It has been my honor to serve Central Illinois for over 15 years with a broad experience in working with patients through mental health concerns, relationship issues, infidelity and marriage issues, brokenness and low self-worth, behavioral issues, addiction recovery, and gay, lesbian and transgender issues, and much more.
Life can be hard, painful, confusing, scary, and challenging. Events happen that leave us reeling with brokenness, grief, disbelief, guilt, fear, insecurity, and shame. We don't know what to do or which way to turn or how we got here in the first place. We may hold onto false beliefs about our self-worth, negative thoughts that tear us apart, relationships that are toxic, and behaviors that are destructive. All in an attempt to somehow alleviate how we are feeling. I am here to partner with you in working towards wholeness and healing and to empower you to move forward, happily and confidently.
(309) 228-4676 View (309) 228-4676
Photo of Stephen Hart Lanterman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Urbana, IL
Stephen Hart Lanterman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, JD, MSW, LCSW, CSAT, CADC
Verified Verified
Joliet, IL 60435
SOCIAL MEDIATOR-THERAPIST: Social Mediation lends third party neutral support to prepare and empower family members to have a voice; and to prepare to heal the raw wounds of relationship conflict, betrayal and broken trust; Social mediation addresses some of the following problems: Depression, anxiety,alcohol abuse, abuse of prescription medication, trauma, alienation in marriage, family, or community,divorce,narcissism, sex addiction, partners’ trauma, shame, gaslighting, betrayal and broken trust,restoring trust, and revitalizing sexual intimacy, conflict over parenting; and adult child issues over parents’ elder care.
SOCIAL MEDIATOR-THERAPIST: Social Mediation lends third party neutral support to prepare and empower family members to have a voice; and to prepare to heal the raw wounds of relationship conflict, betrayal and broken trust; Social mediation addresses some of the following problems: Depression, anxiety,alcohol abuse, abuse of prescription medication, trauma, alienation in marriage, family, or community,divorce,narcissism, sex addiction, partners’ trauma, shame, gaslighting, betrayal and broken trust,restoring trust, and revitalizing sexual intimacy, conflict over parenting; and adult child issues over parents’ elder care.
(779) 223-1771 View (779) 223-1771
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The Kennedy Center for Counseling
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
New Lenox, IL 60451
The counselors at the Kennedy Center are experienced working with children, adolescents, adults, couples and families.
The Kennedy Center for Counseling provides a safe, confidential, and supportive atmosphere in which clients can work toward and achieve optimal growth and happiness. Our Therapist's address and treat a wide range of concerns and issues across the life span.
The counselors at the Kennedy Center are experienced working with children, adolescents, adults, couples and families.
The Kennedy Center for Counseling provides a safe, confidential, and supportive atmosphere in which clients can work toward and achieve optimal growth and happiness. Our Therapist's address and treat a wide range of concerns and issues across the life span.
(815) 320-3749 View (815) 320-3749
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Sara Rivier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Minooka, IL 60447
I love working with individuals, couples, and families.
I believe that change happens outside of our comfort zone. At the same time, I believe that feeling safe is a vital part of the change process. We can only begin to step outside of where we have been, into a more healthy and happy life, if we are first grounded in safety and security. I strive to provide this environment for my clients. My goal is that all clients feel safe and secure the entire time that we work together, to move through the uncomfortable aspects of life, towards a happier, healthier, more fulfilling existence.
I love working with individuals, couples, and families.
I believe that change happens outside of our comfort zone. At the same time, I believe that feeling safe is a vital part of the change process. We can only begin to step outside of where we have been, into a more healthy and happy life, if we are first grounded in safety and security. I strive to provide this environment for my clients. My goal is that all clients feel safe and secure the entire time that we work together, to move through the uncomfortable aspects of life, towards a happier, healthier, more fulfilling existence.
(815) 242-4410 View (815) 242-4410
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Williams Psychological Services
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Bloomington, IL 61701
Our work with clients is meant to be supportive and comprehensive. Our work begins by learning about our clients, the situation, and their goals. We gather this information through listening and engaging our clients. We will then discuss practical next-steps that are relevant to each client's experience. Our services include psychotherapy and psychological testing. Our brief psychotherapy model seeks to help individuals, couples, and families flourish.
Our work with clients is meant to be supportive and comprehensive. Our work begins by learning about our clients, the situation, and their goals. We gather this information through listening and engaging our clients. We will then discuss practical next-steps that are relevant to each client's experience. Our services include psychotherapy and psychological testing. Our brief psychotherapy model seeks to help individuals, couples, and families flourish.
(309) 328-8725 View (309) 328-8725
Photo of Nicholas Barry, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Urbana, IL
Nicholas Barry
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Frankfort, IL 60423
Nicholas Barry is a Licensed Social Worker in Illinois who has been practicing since 2017. He earned a Bachelor of Arts in Christian Ministry, double majoring in Pastoral Counseling and Biblical Studies, at Urshan College. After completing his undergraduate studies, Nicholas embarked on a bi-vocational journey through graduate school. He has earned a Master of Social Work through Florida State University and is completing a Master of Theological Studies at Urshan Graduate School of Theology. Nicholas takes a truly holistic approach to working with his clients. This means that he takes a bio-psycho-social-spiritual assessment.
Nicholas Barry is a Licensed Social Worker in Illinois who has been practicing since 2017. He earned a Bachelor of Arts in Christian Ministry, double majoring in Pastoral Counseling and Biblical Studies, at Urshan College. After completing his undergraduate studies, Nicholas embarked on a bi-vocational journey through graduate school. He has earned a Master of Social Work through Florida State University and is completing a Master of Theological Studies at Urshan Graduate School of Theology. Nicholas takes a truly holistic approach to working with his clients. This means that he takes a bio-psycho-social-spiritual assessment.
(708) 381-1779 View (708) 381-1779
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Cynthia M Jagodzinski (Harbaugh)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bloomington, IL 61701
Life is a journey that requires moments of reflection concerning where we have been in order to concentrate on where we could allow life to lead us next. Meeting with a therapist enables individuals and families the opportunities to inquire as to why patterns exist and encourages us to ask the questions - is this working for me? Would change benefit me? Am I uncomfortable enough with the present to commit to change? I am an attachment based therapist that works from a strengths base to encourage individuals to tolerate the discomfort that comes with introspection and inspire growth.
Life is a journey that requires moments of reflection concerning where we have been in order to concentrate on where we could allow life to lead us next. Meeting with a therapist enables individuals and families the opportunities to inquire as to why patterns exist and encourages us to ask the questions - is this working for me? Would change benefit me? Am I uncomfortable enough with the present to commit to change? I am an attachment based therapist that works from a strengths base to encourage individuals to tolerate the discomfort that comes with introspection and inspire growth.
(309) 328-3285 View (309) 328-3285
Photo of Jonquil Chason, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Urbana, IL
Jonquil Chason
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CDVP, QMHP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Joliet, IL 60435
You deserve dignity, respect, and honesty because YOU, and those you love, are worth it. I will gladly utilize unique tools & methods to help give clients the strength they need to overcome their troubles. You have a right to cultural, religious, and sexual sensitivity in a judgement free space, and to interventions, without unrealistic expectations. You’ll never have to be afraid to ask questions or fear the answers. I excel at unique and difficult cases, and I'm not afraid to be direct. I have excellent boundaries, and I respect discretion.
You deserve dignity, respect, and honesty because YOU, and those you love, are worth it. I will gladly utilize unique tools & methods to help give clients the strength they need to overcome their troubles. You have a right to cultural, religious, and sexual sensitivity in a judgement free space, and to interventions, without unrealistic expectations. You’ll never have to be afraid to ask questions or fear the answers. I excel at unique and difficult cases, and I'm not afraid to be direct. I have excellent boundaries, and I respect discretion.
(815) 855-2753 View (815) 855-2753
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Mended Hearts Stable Inc
Counselor, LCPC, CCTP, RN, EFT, EMDR
Verified Verified
Metamora, IL 61548
I love to help any one that comes to our wonderful facility on 14 acre horse ranch that reaches out for help. www.mended-hearts.org
I love to help any one that comes to our wonderful facility on 14 acre horse ranch that reaches out for help. www.mended-hearts.org
(309) 383-4323 View (309) 383-4323
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.