Couples Counseling Therapists in Boulder, CO

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Lucy Heller
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80308
Hey there! I'm accepting new clients who are experiencing challenging emotions (depression, anxiety, anger), feel like they’re on the edge of burnout (compassion fatigue, eco-grief, difficulty with daily routines), or noticing relationship distress (communication issues, identity and sexuality exploration, boundaries and agreements). Most of the frameworks I use center around body wisdom and emotions because I believe you are the expert on your own experience and I'm just along to offer gentle guidance when needed. I feel passionate about supporting people who care about the world and want to make it a better place.
Hey there! I'm accepting new clients who are experiencing challenging emotions (depression, anxiety, anger), feel like they’re on the edge of burnout (compassion fatigue, eco-grief, difficulty with daily routines), or noticing relationship distress (communication issues, identity and sexuality exploration, boundaries and agreements). Most of the frameworks I use center around body wisdom and emotions because I believe you are the expert on your own experience and I'm just along to offer gentle guidance when needed. I feel passionate about supporting people who care about the world and want to make it a better place.
(720) 370-9752 View (720) 370-9752
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Matthew Wikswo
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80304  (Online Only)
My practice centers on themes of human lifespan development and attachment. I work with: 1) Couples, from an attachment/emotion-focused approach; 2) Individual adults, to engage life-level issues such as family and partner relationships, long-term personal goals, and divorce and other major transitions. 3) Parents, to address family dynamics with children, including blended and adoptive families (unlike traditional family therapy involving the entire family, my approach engages with parents as a consultant and coach). 4) College students, regarding academic and vocational challenges, and individuation from family and parents.
My practice centers on themes of human lifespan development and attachment. I work with: 1) Couples, from an attachment/emotion-focused approach; 2) Individual adults, to engage life-level issues such as family and partner relationships, long-term personal goals, and divorce and other major transitions. 3) Parents, to address family dynamics with children, including blended and adoptive families (unlike traditional family therapy involving the entire family, my approach engages with parents as a consultant and coach). 4) College students, regarding academic and vocational challenges, and individuation from family and parents.
(303) 223-6327 View (303) 223-6327
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Talya Dash
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, SEP, Ennea, PACT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80303  (Online Only)
Online only- Feeling stuck, anxious, depressed, or overwhelmed? Struggling with your mood, substance abuse, a challenging family or relationship dynamic? I believe that no matter what you have been through, or are currently facing, you have the capacity to heal and thrive. After working for years, with a high level of success, with some of the most traumatized, addicted, and overlooked individuals in society, I have a broad knowledge and ability to help or assist many who are stuck or feel they cannot be helped.
Online only- Feeling stuck, anxious, depressed, or overwhelmed? Struggling with your mood, substance abuse, a challenging family or relationship dynamic? I believe that no matter what you have been through, or are currently facing, you have the capacity to heal and thrive. After working for years, with a high level of success, with some of the most traumatized, addicted, and overlooked individuals in society, I have a broad knowledge and ability to help or assist many who are stuck or feel they cannot be helped.
(720) 580-5984 View (720) 580-5984
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Beth Tamborski
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC-S
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80301  (Online Only)
Welcome! I’m glad you’ve decided to reach out for counseling, as I know it can often be a difficult step to take. I look forward to getting to know you as you explore what brought you here. I have over 20 years of experience in the mental health field working with individuals of all age ranges. I enjoy working with individuals and couples and utilize a person-centered approach, where I meet each individual where they are at on their journey towards wellness. I believe in the mind-body connection and the importance of using a holistic approach to building resilience and meeting life’s challenges.
Welcome! I’m glad you’ve decided to reach out for counseling, as I know it can often be a difficult step to take. I look forward to getting to know you as you explore what brought you here. I have over 20 years of experience in the mental health field working with individuals of all age ranges. I enjoy working with individuals and couples and utilize a person-centered approach, where I meet each individual where they are at on their journey towards wellness. I believe in the mind-body connection and the importance of using a holistic approach to building resilience and meeting life’s challenges.
(720) 619-3250 View (720) 619-3250
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Ayla Maduzia
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80302  (Online Only)
My biggest hope is to help you create a deeper awareness of yourself in order to nurture the relationship within, and with those around you. I view therapy as a collaborative process and relationship. I believe that you are the expert of your own life. I welcome feedback! If you’re ever wondering where we’re going, or what I’m doing - please ask. The therapeutic process should not be a secret, and I’m happy to share information with you along the way.
My biggest hope is to help you create a deeper awareness of yourself in order to nurture the relationship within, and with those around you. I view therapy as a collaborative process and relationship. I believe that you are the expert of your own life. I welcome feedback! If you’re ever wondering where we’re going, or what I’m doing - please ask. The therapeutic process should not be a secret, and I’m happy to share information with you along the way.
(720) 664-5347 View (720) 664-5347
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Lauren Lottino
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LGBTQ+
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80301  (Online Only)
Please note as of April 2024 - I'm accepting couples on a limited basis only. Space is open for individuals. I support relationships of all sexuality and gender identities with reclaiming their relationship from painful arguments, disempowering assumptions, and disconnection.
Please note as of April 2024 - I'm accepting couples on a limited basis only. Space is open for individuals. I support relationships of all sexuality and gender identities with reclaiming their relationship from painful arguments, disempowering assumptions, and disconnection.
(720) 807-2765 View (720) 807-2765
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Suzanne Marie
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA , LPC
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80302
As a body centered therapist I tend to work experientially, with movement and sometimes use cranial sacral touch to support nervous system regulation and healing. Individuals, couples and family who are interested in skill building, improved communication, self agency and self awareness while addressing challenges including depression, anxiety, relational issues, attachment dynamics and traumatic events. I support intention setting from the client's perspective and encourage their full participation.
As a body centered therapist I tend to work experientially, with movement and sometimes use cranial sacral touch to support nervous system regulation and healing. Individuals, couples and family who are interested in skill building, improved communication, self agency and self awareness while addressing challenges including depression, anxiety, relational issues, attachment dynamics and traumatic events. I support intention setting from the client's perspective and encourage their full participation.
(720) 782-8088 View (720) 782-8088
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Igor Giusti Phd
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80305
I specialize in treating depression, anxiety, PTSD, grief, relationship challenges, spiritual crisis/integration, and I coach people to help them realize their life goals, what they really want in life, work/career and relationships. I use specialized cognitive, client centered, and somatic approaches. For details please see www.newtranspersonalpsychotherapy.com
I specialize in treating depression, anxiety, PTSD, grief, relationship challenges, spiritual crisis/integration, and I coach people to help them realize their life goals, what they really want in life, work/career and relationships. I use specialized cognitive, client centered, and somatic approaches. For details please see www.newtranspersonalpsychotherapy.com
(470) 296-2475 View (470) 296-2475
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Leah Wolf
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CLC
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80302  (Online Only)
I love helping couples improve their relationships with each other, and I love helping individuals improve their relationship with themselves.
If you want to improve your life or relationships, you are in the right place. If you are here, chances are you want a better relationship with your partner, or with yourself. You want to feel better and find solutions to your problems. You are not alone. The good news is, there is hope. Marriage and Family Therapist’s have a specialty - to see beyond an individual and help create change that lasts.
I love helping couples improve their relationships with each other, and I love helping individuals improve their relationship with themselves.
If you want to improve your life or relationships, you are in the right place. If you are here, chances are you want a better relationship with your partner, or with yourself. You want to feel better and find solutions to your problems. You are not alone. The good news is, there is hope. Marriage and Family Therapist’s have a specialty - to see beyond an individual and help create change that lasts.
(720) 902-9687 View (720) 902-9687
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Mateo Mercur
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MA, MFTC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80304  (Online Only)
I work with individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships, around sexuality, identity, and self-expression, as well as family, grief, and life transitions.
Deep trust and communication are at the heart of safe, secure, and fulfilling relationships. Whether with family, in romance, in therapy, or in sport; trust and safety allow us to be fully expressed, to explore, to take risks, and to grow. The therapeutic relationship can provide unique opportunities to feel safe, seen, and understood. It can also support our innate capacities for healing, integration, and growth.
I work with individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships, around sexuality, identity, and self-expression, as well as family, grief, and life transitions.
Deep trust and communication are at the heart of safe, secure, and fulfilling relationships. Whether with family, in romance, in therapy, or in sport; trust and safety allow us to be fully expressed, to explore, to take risks, and to grow. The therapeutic relationship can provide unique opportunities to feel safe, seen, and understood. It can also support our innate capacities for healing, integration, and growth.
(720) 743-5250 View (720) 743-5250
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Dr. Jodie Benabe
Psychologist, PsyD, CEDS-C, CCTP-II
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80302
You've experienced infidelity by someone you trust and now you're confused and left to deal with overwhelming decisions. The person you once knew is a stranger who is mistreating you now. You feel sick to your stomach most of the time, can't sleep, hell- you can barely function. And yet you know you have to keep it together. You need support but no one seems to really get it and you're so embarrassed to be in this place in your life. Every memory you have is tainted and you're left questioning the entire history of your relationship. You wonder if this nightmare will ever end. You just want to wake up to a different life.
You've experienced infidelity by someone you trust and now you're confused and left to deal with overwhelming decisions. The person you once knew is a stranger who is mistreating you now. You feel sick to your stomach most of the time, can't sleep, hell- you can barely function. And yet you know you have to keep it together. You need support but no one seems to really get it and you're so embarrassed to be in this place in your life. Every memory you have is tainted and you're left questioning the entire history of your relationship. You wonder if this nightmare will ever end. You just want to wake up to a different life.
(720) 307-3520 View (720) 307-3520
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Reuvain Bacal Psychotherapy And Evolutionary Coaching
MA
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80301
Are you in a challenging relationship dynamic, dealing with anxiety, feeling unfulfilled, lacking purpose, or at an uncertain juncture in your life? I help you boldly shift limiting patterns to create the fulfilling life and relationship you want. I specialize in helping both individuals and couples optimize their relationship dynamics to open to more love. In couples work, we help you shift reactions you're having with each other that create closure and conflict, and create reparative experiences where you come to skillfully collaborate in helping each other feel good.
Are you in a challenging relationship dynamic, dealing with anxiety, feeling unfulfilled, lacking purpose, or at an uncertain juncture in your life? I help you boldly shift limiting patterns to create the fulfilling life and relationship you want. I specialize in helping both individuals and couples optimize their relationship dynamics to open to more love. In couples work, we help you shift reactions you're having with each other that create closure and conflict, and create reparative experiences where you come to skillfully collaborate in helping each other feel good.
(303) 974-4593 View (303) 974-4593
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Allison Villarreal
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80303
I specialize in working with couples become securely attached through breaking old and damaging patterns and habits.
As an individual and couple therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor, EMDR trained therapist and Certified Integrative Wellness and Life Coach, I believe we all possess the inner strength and ability to make positive changes in our lives. Together we can explore life events, relationship difficulties, or behavior patterns that are leaving you feeling stuck, overwhelmed or unhappy. Through our time spent together in a supportive and safe environment, I can help you to discover new insight and understanding, while learning new ways to approach life or relationship challenges.
I specialize in working with couples become securely attached through breaking old and damaging patterns and habits.
As an individual and couple therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor, EMDR trained therapist and Certified Integrative Wellness and Life Coach, I believe we all possess the inner strength and ability to make positive changes in our lives. Together we can explore life events, relationship difficulties, or behavior patterns that are leaving you feeling stuck, overwhelmed or unhappy. Through our time spent together in a supportive and safe environment, I can help you to discover new insight and understanding, while learning new ways to approach life or relationship challenges.
(303) 625-6778 View (303) 625-6778
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Luke Walljasper
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80304
As we travel along in life, emotional pain and trauma often cause us to fracture and lose touch with ourselves, leaving us scrambling to pick up the pieces–but the good news is we don’t have to go it alone. In a world full of distraction and overstimulation, it is an act of rebellion to slow down, look within, and feel. I see myself as a guide and co-pilot to support you in exploring your emotional landscape and navigating the ever-evolving journey of self-discovery. I’ve had the honor of helping clients work through anxiety, depression, complex trauma, PTSD, addiction, terminal illness, men’s issues, and relationship troubles.
As we travel along in life, emotional pain and trauma often cause us to fracture and lose touch with ourselves, leaving us scrambling to pick up the pieces–but the good news is we don’t have to go it alone. In a world full of distraction and overstimulation, it is an act of rebellion to slow down, look within, and feel. I see myself as a guide and co-pilot to support you in exploring your emotional landscape and navigating the ever-evolving journey of self-discovery. I’ve had the honor of helping clients work through anxiety, depression, complex trauma, PTSD, addiction, terminal illness, men’s issues, and relationship troubles.
(720) 734-8070 View (720) 734-8070
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Silvan Erb-Summers
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, R-DMT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80305
Adult Families and Couples are also in my repertoire.
We'll figure this out together! Get back to baseline and begin to build the life you want to live. I'll help you learn to use your body as a resource for your mind. Beginning with simple breathing techniques & physical movements to aid in emotional management & reduction of stress, anxiety, & depression. For those who are ready, we will do the deeper work of releasing unprocessed emotions & old storylines that may be silently running your life in the background. Thus transforming hardships into wisdom & personal power to propel your life forward in whatever direction you choose.
Adult Families and Couples are also in my repertoire.
We'll figure this out together! Get back to baseline and begin to build the life you want to live. I'll help you learn to use your body as a resource for your mind. Beginning with simple breathing techniques & physical movements to aid in emotional management & reduction of stress, anxiety, & depression. For those who are ready, we will do the deeper work of releasing unprocessed emotions & old storylines that may be silently running your life in the background. Thus transforming hardships into wisdom & personal power to propel your life forward in whatever direction you choose.
(720) 897-0912 View (720) 897-0912
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Igor Giusti Phd
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80303
I specialize in treating depression, anxiety, PTSD, grief, relationship challenges, spiritual crisis/development, and I coach people to help them realize their life goals, what they really want in life, work/career and relationships. I use specialized cognitive, client centered, and somatic approaches. For details please see www.newtranspersonalpsychotherapy.com
I specialize in treating depression, anxiety, PTSD, grief, relationship challenges, spiritual crisis/development, and I coach people to help them realize their life goals, what they really want in life, work/career and relationships. I use specialized cognitive, client centered, and somatic approaches. For details please see www.newtranspersonalpsychotherapy.com
(470) 330-8661 View (470) 330-8661
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Eve Kilmer
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80303
Although I have 31 years experience working with a broad spectrum of issues, I have particular expertise with anxiety, life transitions, divorce recovery, self-esteem issues, perfectionism, eating disorders and couples therapy.
I'm an interactive, solution-focused psychologist with 31 years experience (website: www.evekilmer.com). My therapeutic approach is to provide support and practical feedback to help you effectively address personal life challenges in a warm, safe environment. I integrate complementary methodologies and techniques to offer a highly personalized approach tailored to you as an individual or couple. With compassion and understanding, I work with you to help you build on your strengths and attain the personal growth that you want.
Although I have 31 years experience working with a broad spectrum of issues, I have particular expertise with anxiety, life transitions, divorce recovery, self-esteem issues, perfectionism, eating disorders and couples therapy.
I'm an interactive, solution-focused psychologist with 31 years experience (website: www.evekilmer.com). My therapeutic approach is to provide support and practical feedback to help you effectively address personal life challenges in a warm, safe environment. I integrate complementary methodologies and techniques to offer a highly personalized approach tailored to you as an individual or couple. With compassion and understanding, I work with you to help you build on your strengths and attain the personal growth that you want.
(303) 536-3214 View (303) 536-3214
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Joel Chabrier
Licensed Professional Counselor, MC, LPC
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80301  (Online Only)
I work especially with people who struggle with their intimate and social relationships, who suffer from anxiety, depression, grief and loss, self-harm, insomnia, chronic pain, or chronic illness, or with those who need more support, more positivity, help starting a career, or a better process of coping in their life due to a stressful moment or transition. I see clients of all ages, as well as couples and families.
I work especially with people who struggle with their intimate and social relationships, who suffer from anxiety, depression, grief and loss, self-harm, insomnia, chronic pain, or chronic illness, or with those who need more support, more positivity, help starting a career, or a better process of coping in their life due to a stressful moment or transition. I see clients of all ages, as well as couples and families.
(480) 571-9168 View (480) 571-9168
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Dr. Brittany Rubin
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80304
I also weave in elements of relationship with the earth, ritual and the energetic body.
I am honored to work with humans feeling heartache inside the constraints of our modern world. Through conditioning + relational wounding, we temporarily lose touch with the deep, innate wisdom of our souls + bodies. Life can feel chaotic and daunting - we question ourselves and even feel dead inside. If you long to experience belonging as your true self, I’m here to shepherd you back to safety in relationship with yourself, your body and others. I was brought to this sacred work through my personal experience of rising above trauma. I’m devoted to guiding others out of the depths of struggle and into fulfillment and connection.
I also weave in elements of relationship with the earth, ritual and the energetic body.
I am honored to work with humans feeling heartache inside the constraints of our modern world. Through conditioning + relational wounding, we temporarily lose touch with the deep, innate wisdom of our souls + bodies. Life can feel chaotic and daunting - we question ourselves and even feel dead inside. If you long to experience belonging as your true self, I’m here to shepherd you back to safety in relationship with yourself, your body and others. I was brought to this sacred work through my personal experience of rising above trauma. I’m devoted to guiding others out of the depths of struggle and into fulfillment and connection.
(720) 408-3242 View (720) 408-3242
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Dr. Annie Tanasugarn
PhD, CCTSA
Verified Verified
Boulder, CO 80303  (Online Only)
Congratulations on taking an empowering first step in your transformational journey! As a behavioral psychologist & Certified Clinical Trauma and Relationship Specialist, my goal is to champion my clients with histories of attachment insecurities, fears, avoidance, anger, & self-sabotage by providing you a solution-focused toolkit for your overall growth. I offer a comprehensive and empirically-supported approach to elevate your overall well-being while collaborating at a pace that is comfortable and aligned with your specific needs. As a trauma-informed clinician, I provide a safe space for reflection, so you feel seen and heard.
Congratulations on taking an empowering first step in your transformational journey! As a behavioral psychologist & Certified Clinical Trauma and Relationship Specialist, my goal is to champion my clients with histories of attachment insecurities, fears, avoidance, anger, & self-sabotage by providing you a solution-focused toolkit for your overall growth. I offer a comprehensive and empirically-supported approach to elevate your overall well-being while collaborating at a pace that is comfortable and aligned with your specific needs. As a trauma-informed clinician, I provide a safe space for reflection, so you feel seen and heard.
(720) 740-1097 View (720) 740-1097
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.