Jeffrey Thomas
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CGP
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
I specialize in individual and couples psychoanalysis and psychoanalytic psychotherapy.
Are you looking for insight with something in your life that you are not satisfied with?Maybe I can help. I have worked with many different issues in the 20 years that I have been in practice. I hold a great deal of respect for those who are open to working on whatever problems bring them in. Whether it's depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts, understanding yourself better, repetitive destructive patterns or addictions, I believe a supportive and empathic approach is crucial. I also believe that understanding what led us to our struggles is helpful in making the changes we want.
I specialize in individual and couples psychoanalysis and psychoanalytic psychotherapy.
Are you looking for insight with something in your life that you are not satisfied with?Maybe I can help. I have worked with many different issues in the 20 years that I have been in practice. I hold a great deal of respect for those who are open to working on whatever problems bring them in. Whether it's depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts, understanding yourself better, repetitive destructive patterns or addictions, I believe a supportive and empathic approach is crucial. I also believe that understanding what led us to our struggles is helpful in making the changes we want.
(619) 717-8930 View (619) 717-8930
Photo of Sex Addiction San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PH.D., Psychologist in La Jolla, CA
Sex Addiction San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PH.D.
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FAACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
A therapeutic relationship with Dr.
"Escorts-Pornography-Happy Endings-Hook-Ups-Web Cam Sex- Internet Sex-Betrayal-Addiction-FBSM -Infidelity-Extra-Marital Affairs" Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of sex behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally. Controversy exists among professionals as to whether the syndrome should be considered sexual addiction, sexual compulsion, hypersexual or possibly a symptom of another mental disorder. Whatever the name, the problem is the same, which includes behavior that is out of control and negatively affecting various aspects of an individual’s life!"
A therapeutic relationship with Dr.
"Escorts-Pornography-Happy Endings-Hook-Ups-Web Cam Sex- Internet Sex-Betrayal-Addiction-FBSM -Infidelity-Extra-Marital Affairs" Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of sex behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally. Controversy exists among professionals as to whether the syndrome should be considered sexual addiction, sexual compulsion, hypersexual or possibly a symptom of another mental disorder. Whatever the name, the problem is the same, which includes behavior that is out of control and negatively affecting various aspects of an individual’s life!"
(858) 299-1951 View (858) 299-1951
Photo of Steven D Solomon, Psychologist in La Jolla, CA
Steven D Solomon
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
I continue working with many individuals in distress, but due to folks learning about my success with couples, more and more couples desperate for help in their marriages seek me out.
For many years I worked almost exclusively with individuals, helping them overcome depression, anxiety and other issues and maladies that were ruining their lives. Then, about 25 years ago, after hearing so many horror stories from couples about their previous couples therapy experiences, I decided to specialize in working with couples and completed advanced couples therapy training. I help couples heal and rebuild their relationship, creating the intimate, loving and happy relationship that they have been yearning for but could not previously achieve, the relationship in which both partners feel safe, respected and fully loved.
I continue working with many individuals in distress, but due to folks learning about my success with couples, more and more couples desperate for help in their marriages seek me out.
For many years I worked almost exclusively with individuals, helping them overcome depression, anxiety and other issues and maladies that were ruining their lives. Then, about 25 years ago, after hearing so many horror stories from couples about their previous couples therapy experiences, I decided to specialize in working with couples and completed advanced couples therapy training. I help couples heal and rebuild their relationship, creating the intimate, loving and happy relationship that they have been yearning for but could not previously achieve, the relationship in which both partners feel safe, respected and fully loved.
(619) 378-4225 View (619) 378-4225
Photo of Patricia Ann Judd, Psychologist in La Jolla, CA
Patricia Ann Judd
Psychologist, PhD, MSW
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
After practicing, studying and teaching psychotherapy for 40 years at the UC San Diego Department of Psychiatry I have integrated many different approaches to helping my patients. The most important aspect of psychotherapy is the relationship formed through an empathic understanding of the core issues and what caused them followed by a plan of action. Therapy is a collaborative process of discovery. Change comes about through understanding oneself better, learning new skills and effective ways of communicating with others. Each person's journey is unique.
After practicing, studying and teaching psychotherapy for 40 years at the UC San Diego Department of Psychiatry I have integrated many different approaches to helping my patients. The most important aspect of psychotherapy is the relationship formed through an empathic understanding of the core issues and what caused them followed by a plan of action. Therapy is a collaborative process of discovery. Change comes about through understanding oneself better, learning new skills and effective ways of communicating with others. Each person's journey is unique.
(858) 500-3142 View (858) 500-3142
Photo of Martha Diamond, Psychologist in La Jolla, CA
Martha Diamond
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
I work with children, adolescents, adults and couples who struggle with stressful life events, problems in relationships, or the internal confusion that arises when we feel disconnected from ourselves and therefore others.
Self-awareness and understanding of our internal needs and motivations is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves and the ones we love. Our experiences as children are woven into our adult selves, and interact with our temperaments, life circumstances and connections with others. When these threads get tangled, psychotherapy can help us understand why and guide us in either untying the knots, or learning to accept them as part of the beauty of the fabric of who we are.
I work with children, adolescents, adults and couples who struggle with stressful life events, problems in relationships, or the internal confusion that arises when we feel disconnected from ourselves and therefore others.
Self-awareness and understanding of our internal needs and motivations is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves and the ones we love. Our experiences as children are woven into our adult selves, and interact with our temperaments, life circumstances and connections with others. When these threads get tangled, psychotherapy can help us understand why and guide us in either untying the knots, or learning to accept them as part of the beauty of the fabric of who we are.
(858) 914-4223 View (858) 914-4223
Photo of Nancy (Locke) Capers, Marriage & Family Therapist in La Jolla, CA
Nancy (Locke) Capers
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Depressed? Anxious? Not quite feeling your best self? When we're having relationship problems, sometimes we just can't untangle them on our own. It's not uncommon to feel inadequate, or like you can't adapt to circumstances. I provide a safe environment for you to examine what's happening in your life. Through insight, behavioral changes, and emotional awareness we will explore your issues. I've been working with individuals and couples for well over 30 years. I specialize in working with stepfamilies/stepparents. Give me a call.
Depressed? Anxious? Not quite feeling your best self? When we're having relationship problems, sometimes we just can't untangle them on our own. It's not uncommon to feel inadequate, or like you can't adapt to circumstances. I provide a safe environment for you to examine what's happening in your life. Through insight, behavioral changes, and emotional awareness we will explore your issues. I've been working with individuals and couples for well over 30 years. I specialize in working with stepfamilies/stepparents. Give me a call.
(858) 367-3923 View (858) 367-3923
Photo of Mary Elizabeth Karlan, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in La Jolla, CA
Mary Elizabeth Karlan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
I am a clinical social worker with advanced training in family therapy at the Ackerman Institute for the Family in NYC. My theoretical approach when working with my clients is drawn from a eclectic framework which includes, narrative, cognitive behavioral, structural,gestalt,strategic, and problem solving. I specialize in working with blended families, adolescents, single parents, and couples. Personally, I am a mother and step-mother of nine children. I have a private practice in New York and California. I am licensed in NY, CA, CT, Fl, and MA. I am currently accepting new clients.
I am a clinical social worker with advanced training in family therapy at the Ackerman Institute for the Family in NYC. My theoretical approach when working with my clients is drawn from a eclectic framework which includes, narrative, cognitive behavioral, structural,gestalt,strategic, and problem solving. I specialize in working with blended families, adolescents, single parents, and couples. Personally, I am a mother and step-mother of nine children. I have a private practice in New York and California. I am licensed in NY, CA, CT, Fl, and MA. I am currently accepting new clients.
(619) 789-6813 View (619) 789-6813
Photo of Deisy Cristina Boscán, Psychologist in La Jolla, CA
Deisy Cristina Boscán
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
Play therapy is an important component of the specialized child psychoanalytic training process that enables me to develop a relationship with the child.
As a psychoanalyst I believe that an individual's feelings and behaviors are motivated by a variety of unconscious factors often resulting in people feeling stuck. Psychoanalysis helps individuals finally break these habits by understanding their root causes and enable significant changes at the very core of one's emotional responses. Using these experiences, the analyst helps the patient work on a deeply unconscious level to eliminate unproductive and destructive patterns. This opens the patient to new, fresh and genuine experiences and solutions in their lives. This process is achievable through empathy and respect.
Play therapy is an important component of the specialized child psychoanalytic training process that enables me to develop a relationship with the child.
As a psychoanalyst I believe that an individual's feelings and behaviors are motivated by a variety of unconscious factors often resulting in people feeling stuck. Psychoanalysis helps individuals finally break these habits by understanding their root causes and enable significant changes at the very core of one's emotional responses. Using these experiences, the analyst helps the patient work on a deeply unconscious level to eliminate unproductive and destructive patterns. This opens the patient to new, fresh and genuine experiences and solutions in their lives. This process is achievable through empathy and respect.
(619) 304-4638 View (619) 304-4638
Photo of Stamatia Daroglou, Psychologist in La Jolla, CA
Stamatia Daroglou
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Dr. Daroglou is a licensed psychologist. She has worked in the mental health field for over two decades and has been licensed as a psychologist in California since 2005. She offers psychotherapy for individuals and couples. She has offices in La Jolla and Central San Diego for face-to-face appointments and also offers Tele-Health. Visit our website at: https://www.sdpsychology.org/
Dr. Daroglou is a licensed psychologist. She has worked in the mental health field for over two decades and has been licensed as a psychologist in California since 2005. She offers psychotherapy for individuals and couples. She has offices in La Jolla and Central San Diego for face-to-face appointments and also offers Tele-Health. Visit our website at: https://www.sdpsychology.org/
(858) 295-3823 View (858) 295-3823
Photo of Jeannine Ray, Psychologist in La Jolla, CA
Jeannine Ray
Psychologist, LCP
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
I use holistic and eclectic approaches with flexible, consistent interventions customized for the individual, and believe a good relationship between a therapist and client is key to the process of therapy.
Hello- my name is Jeannine Ray. I have 18 years of experience working with individuals and families as a family therapist and behavior analyst. I completed my Ph.D. and hold a doctorate in Health Psychology and Behavioral Medicine and am a licensed clinical psychologist in the state of California. I have a master’s degree in counseling psychology and hold a license as an Independent Marriage and Family Therapist in Ohio and as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California.
I use holistic and eclectic approaches with flexible, consistent interventions customized for the individual, and believe a good relationship between a therapist and client is key to the process of therapy.
Hello- my name is Jeannine Ray. I have 18 years of experience working with individuals and families as a family therapist and behavior analyst. I completed my Ph.D. and hold a doctorate in Health Psychology and Behavioral Medicine and am a licensed clinical psychologist in the state of California. I have a master’s degree in counseling psychology and hold a license as an Independent Marriage and Family Therapist in Ohio and as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California.
(858) 723-0583 View (858) 723-0583
Photo of Dr. Julie Manoogian, Psychologist in La Jolla, CA
Dr. Julie Manoogian
Psychologist, PsyD, MSW
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
I specialize in individual and couples psychotherapy and I also provide clinical hypnosis. EMDR and Pain Reprocessing Therapy are offered by other providers in my group. Please visit Lajollapsychologists.com. I have over 18 years of experience in the mental health field and I have worked in multiple settings, including college counseling centers and an inpatient residential treatment facility. I am particularly interested in the treatment of trauma, relationship challenges, postpartum health, emotion regulation, anxiety, stress, and depression. I specialize in working with marginalized populations and welcome all genders.
I specialize in individual and couples psychotherapy and I also provide clinical hypnosis. EMDR and Pain Reprocessing Therapy are offered by other providers in my group. Please visit Lajollapsychologists.com. I have over 18 years of experience in the mental health field and I have worked in multiple settings, including college counseling centers and an inpatient residential treatment facility. I am particularly interested in the treatment of trauma, relationship challenges, postpartum health, emotion regulation, anxiety, stress, and depression. I specialize in working with marginalized populations and welcome all genders.
(619) 367-9098 View (619) 367-9098
Photo of Grecia Meyreles, Psychological Associate in La Jolla, CA
Grecia Meyreles
Psychological Associate, MS
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Psychotherapy can be a challenging process and allowing ourselves to be vulnerable is not always easy. Quite frankly, establishing a therapeutic relationship with a stranger can be scary! This is why as a psychologist I strive to create a collaborative, safe, and supportive space for patients. My approach to the therapeutic process is integrative, identifying interventions tailored to benefit the patient’s well-being and working on the therapeutic goals established. I am a in the final year of my doctoral program in Clinical Psychology and possess a master of science degree in Clinical Psychology.
Psychotherapy can be a challenging process and allowing ourselves to be vulnerable is not always easy. Quite frankly, establishing a therapeutic relationship with a stranger can be scary! This is why as a psychologist I strive to create a collaborative, safe, and supportive space for patients. My approach to the therapeutic process is integrative, identifying interventions tailored to benefit the patient’s well-being and working on the therapeutic goals established. I am a in the final year of my doctoral program in Clinical Psychology and possess a master of science degree in Clinical Psychology.
(858) 667-7752 View (858) 667-7752
Photo of Valorie M. Adrio, Marriage & Family Therapist in La Jolla, CA
Valorie M. Adrio
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, ATR-BC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
I am a level II Gottman Method Couples Therapist and use this along with feminist and Bowenian family therapy.
With over 30 years of experience, I help clients to begin again, try something new, transform their relationships, increase their sense of well-being, and heal emotional pain. As a culturally sensitive, growth-oriented, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I create safe, affirming, non-judgemental relationships quickly with individuals and couples from many backgrounds, painful histories, faiths, cultures, and sexual orientations. I enjoy working with couples in traditional marriages or in non-traditional relationships. I am currently seeing clients by telehealth only.
I am a level II Gottman Method Couples Therapist and use this along with feminist and Bowenian family therapy.
With over 30 years of experience, I help clients to begin again, try something new, transform their relationships, increase their sense of well-being, and heal emotional pain. As a culturally sensitive, growth-oriented, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I create safe, affirming, non-judgemental relationships quickly with individuals and couples from many backgrounds, painful histories, faiths, cultures, and sexual orientations. I enjoy working with couples in traditional marriages or in non-traditional relationships. I am currently seeing clients by telehealth only.
(858) 212-0257 View (858) 212-0257
Photo of Irene Saunders, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in La Jolla, CA
Irene Saunders
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037  (Online Only)
Most everything you value flows from the relationship you have with yourself. Discover all that transforms when you live in a way that reflects compassion toward yourself, and a deeper connection with your emotions, truth and dreams. I am a warm, genuinely caring and intuitive therapist. People I see often say that they feel safe and at ease with me, and deeply understood. Prior to a private practice, I provided therapy at the Departments of Psychiatry at UCSD and Rady Children's Hospital, and at Scripps, and trained other therapists. I use a blend of approaches to therapy and healing, and can offer tools tailored to your needs.
Most everything you value flows from the relationship you have with yourself. Discover all that transforms when you live in a way that reflects compassion toward yourself, and a deeper connection with your emotions, truth and dreams. I am a warm, genuinely caring and intuitive therapist. People I see often say that they feel safe and at ease with me, and deeply understood. Prior to a private practice, I provided therapy at the Departments of Psychiatry at UCSD and Rady Children's Hospital, and at Scripps, and trained other therapists. I use a blend of approaches to therapy and healing, and can offer tools tailored to your needs.
(858) 914-4625 View (858) 914-4625
Ellen Jacobs
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
What is commonly referred to as "mental health" is not an absolute. During my 40 years of practice, I've come to think of psychotherapy/counseling as a combination of external focus (how we manage or cope in the world) and internal focus (what needs to be healed se we feel better about who we are). I would like to help you with either/both. My practice includes work with individuals as well as couples.
What is commonly referred to as "mental health" is not an absolute. During my 40 years of practice, I've come to think of psychotherapy/counseling as a combination of external focus (how we manage or cope in the world) and internal focus (what needs to be healed se we feel better about who we are). I would like to help you with either/both. My practice includes work with individuals as well as couples.
(858) 367-9408 View (858) 367-9408
Photo of Joan Salat, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in La Jolla, CA
Joan Salat
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, BCD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037  (Online Only)
Do you ever ask yourself, "My partner and I are successful in so many ways, why does our relationship feel so painfully disconnected?" Allow me to guide you in restoring the connection you once enjoyed together. Damaged trust, anger, infidelity, money problems, lack of sex, intimacy and affection are among the problems that can erode a relationship. I will provide you with tools that will help you move towards rebuilding trust, closeness and integrity in the relationship. I will also teach you how to effectively get what you want from your partner and the relationship. About 50% of my practice is couples, 50% is individual therapy.
Do you ever ask yourself, "My partner and I are successful in so many ways, why does our relationship feel so painfully disconnected?" Allow me to guide you in restoring the connection you once enjoyed together. Damaged trust, anger, infidelity, money problems, lack of sex, intimacy and affection are among the problems that can erode a relationship. I will provide you with tools that will help you move towards rebuilding trust, closeness and integrity in the relationship. I will also teach you how to effectively get what you want from your partner and the relationship. About 50% of my practice is couples, 50% is individual therapy.
(858) 386-4822 View (858) 386-4822
Photo of Yvonne Venger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in La Jolla, CA
Yvonne Venger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
My goal as a psychotherapist is to work with my clients to help them heal from their pain, make positive changes in their lives, and improve their sense of well-being. My background includes working with people of all ages and backgrounds, and extensive experience treating anxiety, depression, adjustment difficulties, stress management, life transitions, school stress, relationship issues, pre and post-partum concerns, and caregiver stress. I provide individual, couples, family and group therapy.
My goal as a psychotherapist is to work with my clients to help them heal from their pain, make positive changes in their lives, and improve their sense of well-being. My background includes working with people of all ages and backgrounds, and extensive experience treating anxiety, depression, adjustment difficulties, stress management, life transitions, school stress, relationship issues, pre and post-partum concerns, and caregiver stress. I provide individual, couples, family and group therapy.
(858) 450-9112 View (858) 450-9112
Photo of Hawley Winter, Marriage & Family Therapist in La Jolla, CA
Hawley Winter
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CEDS, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Depending on client needs, I use several therapeutic modalities and work with adults, adolescents, families, couples, and groups.
My approach is highly collaborative with goals of improving insight and awareness of self-defeating patterns to allow for meaningful shifts in how clients relate to others, behave in the world and feel about themselves. I am passionate about healing attachment and relational issues and also specialize in treating eating disorders as a Certified Eating Disorders Specialist. I work with anxiety, depression and difficulties in coping as well. I believe in integrative health and, when appropriate, encourage clients to create a team of collaborating professionals to assist them in reaching their personal and health goals.
Depending on client needs, I use several therapeutic modalities and work with adults, adolescents, families, couples, and groups.
My approach is highly collaborative with goals of improving insight and awareness of self-defeating patterns to allow for meaningful shifts in how clients relate to others, behave in the world and feel about themselves. I am passionate about healing attachment and relational issues and also specialize in treating eating disorders as a Certified Eating Disorders Specialist. I work with anxiety, depression and difficulties in coping as well. I believe in integrative health and, when appropriate, encourage clients to create a team of collaborating professionals to assist them in reaching their personal and health goals.
(858) 217-4973 View (858) 217-4973
Photo of Marlane Y Agriesti, Marriage & Family Therapist in La Jolla, CA
Marlane Y Agriesti
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Are you going through a major life transition? Have you been through emotional, physical, relationship or family trauma? Are you struggling with limiting or destructive relationship patterns, feeling anxious, experience panic, or struggle with self-esteem? Would you like to explore more creative approaches to the problems you face? I work especially well with people of all ages in search of healthier relationships, deep personal change and greater self-awareness. If you want to create a more balanced and fruitful life and claim your authentic voice and way in the world, I can help you navigate that journey with safety and trust.
Are you going through a major life transition? Have you been through emotional, physical, relationship or family trauma? Are you struggling with limiting or destructive relationship patterns, feeling anxious, experience panic, or struggle with self-esteem? Would you like to explore more creative approaches to the problems you face? I work especially well with people of all ages in search of healthier relationships, deep personal change and greater self-awareness. If you want to create a more balanced and fruitful life and claim your authentic voice and way in the world, I can help you navigate that journey with safety and trust.
(858) 358-7790 View (858) 358-7790
Photo of Isabel Cazarez, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in La Jolla, CA
Isabel Cazarez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037  (Online Only)
I work with people who have or are experiencing depression, anxiety, substance abuse, generational trauma, traumatic experiences, domestic violence, and relationship issues among many other challenges. I have over 10 years of experience in the human services field assisting people to overcome adversities and empowering people to live a life worth living. I have worked via a person-centered approach and I utilize evidence-based approaches to increase positive outcomes.
I work with people who have or are experiencing depression, anxiety, substance abuse, generational trauma, traumatic experiences, domestic violence, and relationship issues among many other challenges. I have over 10 years of experience in the human services field assisting people to overcome adversities and empowering people to live a life worth living. I have worked via a person-centered approach and I utilize evidence-based approaches to increase positive outcomes.
(858) 330-6418 View (858) 330-6418
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.