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David J Mark
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Long Beach, NY 11561
I am passionate about working with couples.
Our primary goal in working together is guiding you toward a more happy, meaningful and fulfilling life. From work, to marriage, to social relationships, and raising children, you will learn effective emotion coaching skills that you will be able to apply across all areas of your life. My overarching approach includes chasing the good life not just looking at what's not working. Together we will increase positive emotions, engagement, meaning, and relationships in your life. I believe that good practice is based in scientifically supported interventions.
I am passionate about working with couples.
Our primary goal in working together is guiding you toward a more happy, meaningful and fulfilling life. From work, to marriage, to social relationships, and raising children, you will learn effective emotion coaching skills that you will be able to apply across all areas of your life. My overarching approach includes chasing the good life not just looking at what's not working. Together we will increase positive emotions, engagement, meaning, and relationships in your life. I believe that good practice is based in scientifically supported interventions.
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Positive Mindset Therapy, LCSW, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Long Beach, NY 11561  (Online Only)
If I were to win the lottery today, my commitment to being a therapist would remain unwavering. For me, it's not just a profession; it's my passion and calling. As Charles R. Swindoll wisely said, 'Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.' I see my role as equipping you with the tools necessary to navigate life's hurdles with resilience and grace. My approach is grounded in authenticity and proven effectiveness. I'm not just a therapist; I'm a real, genuine, down-to-earth human being with feelings and emotions. I tend to stand out from other therapists with my life experiences and my outlook on life!
If I were to win the lottery today, my commitment to being a therapist would remain unwavering. For me, it's not just a profession; it's my passion and calling. As Charles R. Swindoll wisely said, 'Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.' I see my role as equipping you with the tools necessary to navigate life's hurdles with resilience and grace. My approach is grounded in authenticity and proven effectiveness. I'm not just a therapist; I'm a real, genuine, down-to-earth human being with feelings and emotions. I tend to stand out from other therapists with my life experiences and my outlook on life!
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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.