Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today

5 Endorsed

San Diego, CA 92108

(619) 724-5175

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Life can feel overwhelming, especially when relationships feel disconnected or past experiences continue to impact the present. My ideal client is a couple longing to rebuild a secure, loving connection or an individual carrying the weight of trauma, anxiety, or stress. They want to feel heard, understood, and supported as they navigate these challenges. You don’t have to navigate this alone. Together, we’ll create a path forward that fosters healing, resilience, and connection. Reach out to schedule an appointment—I’d love to support you on your journey.

I help individuals and couples heal and build secure relationships using EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and an attachment-based approach. With mindfulness and self-compassion, we’ll break unhelpful patterns and foster deeper connection. Whether you're seeking trauma recovery, relationship support, or clinician consultation. Let’s create lasting change!

Therapy is a healing and empowering journey, and you don’t have to navigate it alone. I provide a warm, supportive space to help you heal from trauma, strengthen relationships, and break unhelpful patterns. Together, we’ll foster resilience, connection, and growth. If you're ready to take the next step, I’d love to support you.

Call or Email Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio now for a free 15 minute consultation - (619) 724-5175

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Asencio Family Therapy

San Diego, CA 92108

(619) 724-5175

Chappell Therapy

San Diego, CA 92108

I offer online video sessions, Tuesday - Thursday, with early morning, afternoon and limited evening spots. Licensed in CA, NY, and FL.

I specialize in Relationship Issues, Marital and Premarital and Anxiety

$210 Per Session

I see individuals, couples and families

Let's Connect (619) 724-5175

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Asencio Family Therapy

San Diego, CA 92108

(619) 724-5175

Chappell Therapy

San Diego, CA 92108

I offer online video sessions, Tuesday - Thursday, with early morning, afternoon and limited evening spots. Licensed in CA, NY, and FL.

I specialize in Relationship Issues, Marital and Premarital and Anxiety

$210 Per Session

I see individuals, couples and families

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $210
Couple Sessions $225
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Out of Network

As an out-of-network provider, I'll provide a monthly superbill you can submit for potential reimbursement. Clients are responsible for the full fee. I'm happy to walk you through the process and answer any questions to make things easier.

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 724-5175

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 724-5175

Qualifications

Marriage & Family Therapist: Nicole Asencio

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 99795 Nicole Asencio

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 19 years

Attended Alliant International University , PsyD, Graduated 2017

Additional Credentials

License: New York State Education Department Division of Professional Licensing Services 002121 / 2023

Certificate from AAMFT 108373 / 2003

With over 18 years of experience, I support individuals and couples in building stronger, more secure connections. I'm licensed in CA, NY, & FL, and a Certified EMDR Therapist as well as trained in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help guide meaningful, lasting change.

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 724-5175

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 724-5175

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Relationship Issues
Marital and Premarital
Anxiety

Expertise

Attachment
Body Image
Child
Coping Skills
Depression
Dual Diagnosis
Family Conflict
Grief
Infidelity
LGBTQ+
Life Transitions
Mood Disorders
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Parenting
Peer Relationships
Racial Identity
Self Esteem
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Sexual Abuse
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Veterans

I help individuals and couples heal from trauma, anxiety, and disconnection using EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and an attachment-based approach. Treatment focuses on understanding patterns, building self-compassion, and creating lasting change. Clients often leave feeling more connected, grounded, and empowered.

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 724-5175

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 724-5175

5 Endorsements

Jill Weldum

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CCPT

NIcole and I worked together at the beginning of her career and much more recently. Nicole's ability to bring her natural compassion and caring in combination with her tremendous skills honed over years and excellent training make her a great therapist.

Tim Baima Individual, Couple, & Family Therapy Inc

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT

Aisling Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA

Dr. Jason N Linder & Associates

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Nicole is competent, caring, professional, well-trained, and very supportive to clients! We've collaborated on cases over years, and I've known her since 2011.

Jenelle Deilgat

Marriage & Family Therapist

I had the pleasure of working with Nicole early in our careers. Her kind, compassionate presence and thoughtful approach create a safe, supportive space where clients feel seen and understood.

Client Focus

Age

Toddler ,

Teen ,

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

HIV / AIDS Allied ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Single Parent ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Black and African American ,

Hispanic and Latino

I also speak

Spanish

Age

Toddler ,

Teen ,

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

HIV / AIDS Allied ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Single Parent ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Black and African American ,

Hispanic and Latino

I also speak

Spanish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Attachment-based
Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
Culturally Sensitive
EMDR
Emotionally Focused
Exposure Response Prevention (ERP)
Family Systems
Gentle Parenting
Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
Multicultural
Narrative
Play Therapy
Prolonged Exposure Therapy
Relational
Trauma Focused

I use EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and an attachment-based, trauma-informed approach. Sessions are collaborative and supportive, with a focus on mindfulness, self-compassion, and insight. Together, we'll work to gently shift patterns, foster healing, and build deeper connection.

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 724-5175

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 724-5175

Location

Primary Location

Asencio Family Therapy

San Diego, CA 92108

(619) 724-5175

Email us

Website

Additional Location

Chappell Therapy

San Diego, CA 92108

(619) 724-5175

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

Neighborhoods

I offer online video sessions, Tuesday - Thursday, with early morning, afternoon and limited evening spots. Licensed in CA, NY, and FL.

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Call for a free consultation now - (619) 724-5175

I offer online video sessions, Tuesday - Thursday, with early morning, afternoon and limited evening spots. Licensed in CA, NY, and FL.

Couples & Trauma Therapist - Dr. Nicole Asencio

Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT

Call for a free consultation now - (619) 724-5175

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