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Vermeda Fred
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, MFA
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98225
I work with children, adolescents, young adults, couples & families.
Whenever you think of talking with someone, thoroughly explaining everything from how you feel today, or how you have felt for years, or to the choices you are facing, or how your body and sense of yourself alters things, and you wonder, how do I find that "right" person to talk to? You have found them. Adolescent or adult, individual or a couple, call me for a free consultation, and let's see where to go from here!
I work with children, adolescents, young adults, couples & families.
Whenever you think of talking with someone, thoroughly explaining everything from how you feel today, or how you have felt for years, or to the choices you are facing, or how your body and sense of yourself alters things, and you wonder, how do I find that "right" person to talk to? You have found them. Adolescent or adult, individual or a couple, call me for a free consultation, and let's see where to go from here!
(360) 800-4531 View (360) 800-4531
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Damian Cade
Counselor, CC
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98226
Couples working with me have the opportunity to incorporate partner dancing into the therapeutic process.
I believe that play and joy are profoundly healing. Perhaps you’ve already tried talk therapy, and are hungering for something more. I combine talk therapy with exercises that spark movement, play, and creativity. Whether you’re facing upheavals in personal or professional life or emotions that seem overwhelming, I’m confident that together we can create a space big enough to welcome in those feelings and experiences. By working with me, you will fine-tune your awareness, and develop skillful (and playful!) uses of your attention that nourishes yourself and those around you.
Couples working with me have the opportunity to incorporate partner dancing into the therapeutic process.
I believe that play and joy are profoundly healing. Perhaps you’ve already tried talk therapy, and are hungering for something more. I combine talk therapy with exercises that spark movement, play, and creativity. Whether you’re facing upheavals in personal or professional life or emotions that seem overwhelming, I’m confident that together we can create a space big enough to welcome in those feelings and experiences. By working with me, you will fine-tune your awareness, and develop skillful (and playful!) uses of your attention that nourishes yourself and those around you.
(360) 594-3864 View (360) 594-3864
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Tim Raymond
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98226  (Online Only)
Now accepting new patients! My practice includes working with individuals, couples, and families. For individual therapy, I see adolescents age 13 and up as well as adults. Are you looking to improve relationships or gain better insight into your behaviors? Would you like to improve your resiliency and overall happiness? I offer a judgement-free and collaborative space where we can tackle the challenges you face together. I work to address the whole person by first focusing on fundamental needs, before progressing to higher-level needs like love, belonging, and self-esteem.
Now accepting new patients! My practice includes working with individuals, couples, and families. For individual therapy, I see adolescents age 13 and up as well as adults. Are you looking to improve relationships or gain better insight into your behaviors? Would you like to improve your resiliency and overall happiness? I offer a judgement-free and collaborative space where we can tackle the challenges you face together. I work to address the whole person by first focusing on fundamental needs, before progressing to higher-level needs like love, belonging, and self-esteem.
(360) 223-6031 View (360) 223-6031
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Keith E Poynter
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98225
My focus is on creating a trusting relationship with clients that provides the safety needed to take emotional risks so they can arrive at new personal insights, be free of restrictive thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors that block maturation of the wise and deeper self.
I utilize a therapeutic approach that emphasizes training received in Contemplative/Mindfulness Psychology, Cognitive Behavior, Gestalt Therapy, & Emotional Focused Therapy. My approach evolved out of several years of working within the Adventure Therapy field supporting people in awakening to a deeper relationship with themselves & community through engagement with external world/nature. I have extensive experience serving youth, men in transitional life phases, couples struggling with communication, & families in conflict. I look to assist clients in understanding their mental/emotional self via a direct empathetic approach.
My focus is on creating a trusting relationship with clients that provides the safety needed to take emotional risks so they can arrive at new personal insights, be free of restrictive thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors that block maturation of the wise and deeper self.
I utilize a therapeutic approach that emphasizes training received in Contemplative/Mindfulness Psychology, Cognitive Behavior, Gestalt Therapy, & Emotional Focused Therapy. My approach evolved out of several years of working within the Adventure Therapy field supporting people in awakening to a deeper relationship with themselves & community through engagement with external world/nature. I have extensive experience serving youth, men in transitional life phases, couples struggling with communication, & families in conflict. I look to assist clients in understanding their mental/emotional self via a direct empathetic approach.
(360) 526-8037 View (360) 526-8037
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Rule and Associates, Child/Family Specialists
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98225
We offer private parent coaching, adoptions support, couples therapy, infertility support, divorce and blended family support- all with a warm, nonjudgmental approach and a strong background in research based practice.
We offer a full spectrum of parenting and family support for all types of families. We believe that healthy families create strong communities and with the right support, families, children and their communities can thrive. Parenting and marriage doesn’t come with an instruction book, but our experienced and professional, outcomes-based support professionals can be by your side to meet you right where you are at on your journey. We have a diverse, but small group of licensed mental health professionals and family support specialists to help you every step of the way.
We offer private parent coaching, adoptions support, couples therapy, infertility support, divorce and blended family support- all with a warm, nonjudgmental approach and a strong background in research based practice.
We offer a full spectrum of parenting and family support for all types of families. We believe that healthy families create strong communities and with the right support, families, children and their communities can thrive. Parenting and marriage doesn’t come with an instruction book, but our experienced and professional, outcomes-based support professionals can be by your side to meet you right where you are at on your journey. We have a diverse, but small group of licensed mental health professionals and family support specialists to help you every step of the way.
(360) 734-0615 View (360) 734-0615
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Peter Kane
Counselor, CC
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98225
Peter Kane has been in private practice and has been teaching relationship workshops internationally for over 30 years. He utilizes a variety of experiential approaches and has an eclectic approach to general counseling. Peter has a unique gift in helping people to not only understand what is really going on in their life and relationships, but also to create the space (and the tools) to transform the issues his clients face. Peter is the author of "The Monogamy Challenge: Creating and Keeping Intimacy" a deep look at how to resolve conflict, and keep relationships alive and thriving.
Peter Kane has been in private practice and has been teaching relationship workshops internationally for over 30 years. He utilizes a variety of experiential approaches and has an eclectic approach to general counseling. Peter has a unique gift in helping people to not only understand what is really going on in their life and relationships, but also to create the space (and the tools) to transform the issues his clients face. Peter is the author of "The Monogamy Challenge: Creating and Keeping Intimacy" a deep look at how to resolve conflict, and keep relationships alive and thriving.
(425) 440-3174 View (425) 440-3174
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David Bradshaw
Counselor, MS, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98229  (Online Only)
I'm David Bradshaw, I am from Washington State, and I currently live in Birch Bay WA. I was born in 1990, I'm an avid reader, I also enjoy Chess, Meditation, Backpacking, Hunting, and Boxing. I'm a bit of a nerd as well, and I build my own desktop computers. I would say the Pasayten Wilderness Area is one of my happy places. I practice Adlerian Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I work with clients aged 12 and up, including adults and couples. I am also a Clinical Supervisor and can train new counselors helping them earn hours toward their licensure.
I'm David Bradshaw, I am from Washington State, and I currently live in Birch Bay WA. I was born in 1990, I'm an avid reader, I also enjoy Chess, Meditation, Backpacking, Hunting, and Boxing. I'm a bit of a nerd as well, and I build my own desktop computers. I would say the Pasayten Wilderness Area is one of my happy places. I practice Adlerian Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I work with clients aged 12 and up, including adults and couples. I am also a Clinical Supervisor and can train new counselors helping them earn hours toward their licensure.
(360) 227-5914 View (360) 227-5914
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Rinatta Paries
Counselor, MA, CMHA, MFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98225  (Online Only)
I have been helping couples, individuals, and families with relationship-related issues for the last 30 years as a Relationship Coach and now for 5 years as a therapist.
Struggling with your relationship or marriage? Suffering over a painful breakup? Having trouble finding the right partner? Suffering from pain of an affair? Feeling stressed about what is happening with your teen or want to connect more with your young adult? Relationship-related situations such as these are solvable with therapy! As your therapist, I will help you navigate your way through painful situations and move towards creating lifelong, loving relationships, rich in connection and communication. Along the way, you will find yourself releasing trauma, feeling better, functioning better, and creating a life you love.
I have been helping couples, individuals, and families with relationship-related issues for the last 30 years as a Relationship Coach and now for 5 years as a therapist.
Struggling with your relationship or marriage? Suffering over a painful breakup? Having trouble finding the right partner? Suffering from pain of an affair? Feeling stressed about what is happening with your teen or want to connect more with your young adult? Relationship-related situations such as these are solvable with therapy! As your therapist, I will help you navigate your way through painful situations and move towards creating lifelong, loving relationships, rich in connection and communication. Along the way, you will find yourself releasing trauma, feeling better, functioning better, and creating a life you love.
(360) 776-7076 View (360) 776-7076
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Sears Taylor
Counselor, MA, MBA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98229
I’m very experienced with trauma and can resolve its effects very quickly I also am very effective with addiction problems
I’m very experienced with trauma and can resolve its effects very quickly I also am very effective with addiction problems
(360) 526-0074 View (360) 526-0074
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Joshua Talbert
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98225
I believe you hold the answers to the challenges that bring you to counseling. It is my job to support you finding them. I aim to work with acceptance, respect, and trust - allowing our work to be guided by you. In session, I listen both for what is said, as well as process – the often unspoken patterns and strategies of relating. I see mental health and well-being as a sense of wholeness. In this state, the many parts of ourselves are in agreement. I firmly believe that even the most disturbing or distressing experiences are potentials for growth and learning.
I believe you hold the answers to the challenges that bring you to counseling. It is my job to support you finding them. I aim to work with acceptance, respect, and trust - allowing our work to be guided by you. In session, I listen both for what is said, as well as process – the often unspoken patterns and strategies of relating. I see mental health and well-being as a sense of wholeness. In this state, the many parts of ourselves are in agreement. I firmly believe that even the most disturbing or distressing experiences are potentials for growth and learning.
(833) 970-1465 View (833) 970-1465

Online Therapists

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Mohamed Abdelaziz
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Kirkland, WA 98033
We both bring our backgrounds and histories into the relationship.
I work with folks who are dealing with a wide range of challenges. I can help you navigate the impact of trauma on your daily life as you work to integrate lessons from the past and find hope for the future. Anxiety and depression can be debilitating constraints leaving you feeling stuck, together we can work to understand their underlying causes and find effective ways to help you reconnect to your values and a renewed sense of agency. My hope is that our work can guide you towards reconnection, an enriched relationship with yourself, an invigorating relationship with others and an intentional connection to your present moment.
We both bring our backgrounds and histories into the relationship.
I work with folks who are dealing with a wide range of challenges. I can help you navigate the impact of trauma on your daily life as you work to integrate lessons from the past and find hope for the future. Anxiety and depression can be debilitating constraints leaving you feeling stuck, together we can work to understand their underlying causes and find effective ways to help you reconnect to your values and a renewed sense of agency. My hope is that our work can guide you towards reconnection, an enriched relationship with yourself, an invigorating relationship with others and an intentional connection to your present moment.
(425) 264-8684 View (425) 264-8684
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Paul Clark LaFond
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, MEd, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lynnwood, WA 98036
I am passionately committed to helping you with issues of loss, sadness, anger, anxiety, depression, addiction, PTSD, trauma, and relationship problems. I am comfortable working with preteens, teens, young and older adults, couples, and families. I offer you a warm, safe nonjudgmental space in which you and I can work together to discover tools which will enable you to build more authentic joyful connections and intimacy with yourself and within your interpersonal relationships. I draw from a wide variety of theories, techniques, and approaches that will enable you to move deliberately and comfortably towards your goals.
I am passionately committed to helping you with issues of loss, sadness, anger, anxiety, depression, addiction, PTSD, trauma, and relationship problems. I am comfortable working with preteens, teens, young and older adults, couples, and families. I offer you a warm, safe nonjudgmental space in which you and I can work together to discover tools which will enable you to build more authentic joyful connections and intimacy with yourself and within your interpersonal relationships. I draw from a wide variety of theories, techniques, and approaches that will enable you to move deliberately and comfortably towards your goals.
(360) 207-2554 View (360) 207-2554
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Gallio Marzano
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Renton, WA 98057  (Online Only)
I enjoy working with adults and teens (and the parents of), as well as couples, families, and individuals. Helping others overcome their current difficulties and function better in their life and relationships is my goal. Life can be difficult at times for all of us. I'm good at listening to your concerns, offering support and compassion, and then working with you to find ways to sit with and work through the feelings you're having. Together, we can find a pathway toward enjoying life again.
I enjoy working with adults and teens (and the parents of), as well as couples, families, and individuals. Helping others overcome their current difficulties and function better in their life and relationships is my goal. Life can be difficult at times for all of us. I'm good at listening to your concerns, offering support and compassion, and then working with you to find ways to sit with and work through the feelings you're having. Together, we can find a pathway toward enjoying life again.
(206) 593-3268 View (206) 593-3268
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Jaime Moss
Counselor, LMHC, SUDP
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98104
Life not quite what you expected? Come in and we can turn it around together. I have training and experience with a variety of issues including substance and non-substance addictions, deafness and hearing loss, relationship problems, depression, anxiety, adjusting to life changes, grief and loss, divorce, identifying and evolving toward life goals. Intimacy, improving self-esteem, self-confidence, and ability to communicate are often areas that people chose to work on. Sharing your life with another can be joyful and difficult. Therapy is a neutral place to explore the relationship.
Life not quite what you expected? Come in and we can turn it around together. I have training and experience with a variety of issues including substance and non-substance addictions, deafness and hearing loss, relationship problems, depression, anxiety, adjusting to life changes, grief and loss, divorce, identifying and evolving toward life goals. Intimacy, improving self-esteem, self-confidence, and ability to communicate are often areas that people chose to work on. Sharing your life with another can be joyful and difficult. Therapy is a neutral place to explore the relationship.
(206) 278-3439 View (206) 278-3439
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Robynn Frey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Silverdale, WA 98383
Life can be hard! Having someone who listens and cares during a difficult time can make all the difference. My commitment to you is to build a strong relationship while offering the tools needed to meet your individual or family goals. I offer a client-centered, solution-focused approach to help guide you and support your needs. With strategies and approaches appropriate for all ages, I offer a non judgmental and safe environment, to help you/or your family achieve your goals. It would be an honor to be a support on your way to a healthy and rewarding journey!
Life can be hard! Having someone who listens and cares during a difficult time can make all the difference. My commitment to you is to build a strong relationship while offering the tools needed to meet your individual or family goals. I offer a client-centered, solution-focused approach to help guide you and support your needs. With strategies and approaches appropriate for all ages, I offer a non judgmental and safe environment, to help you/or your family achieve your goals. It would be an honor to be a support on your way to a healthy and rewarding journey!
(360) 526-8377 View (360) 526-8377
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D. Michael Louderback
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98109
It is the intimate opportunity to get into relationship with psychic organization, pain, and suffering with the hope of understanding and overcoming these issues with greater freedom.
We are all alive and trying to learn something about living; we live the way that we feel. We do this automatically (and whether we know it or not) in relationship: in relating to our self and to others. Therefore, my philosophy is everything is emotional and relational and mindful; everything matters.
It is the intimate opportunity to get into relationship with psychic organization, pain, and suffering with the hope of understanding and overcoming these issues with greater freedom.
We are all alive and trying to learn something about living; we live the way that we feel. We do this automatically (and whether we know it or not) in relationship: in relating to our self and to others. Therefore, my philosophy is everything is emotional and relational and mindful; everything matters.
(206) 580-8338 View (206) 580-8338
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Aloha Counseling LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Owner
Verified Verified
Bothell, WA 98011
Do you struggle with anxiety? Do you suspect you have ADHD? Are you dealing with a recent loss? Relationship Struggles? Therapy is here to help you navigate all of this. There is hope and we can help. Make an appointment today with one of our therapists to learn tools for coping with life's challenges.
Do you struggle with anxiety? Do you suspect you have ADHD? Are you dealing with a recent loss? Relationship Struggles? Therapy is here to help you navigate all of this. There is hope and we can help. Make an appointment today with one of our therapists to learn tools for coping with life's challenges.
(602) 610-1876 View (602) 610-1876
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Sunbreak Psychological Services - Mark Pilger
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Edmonds, WA 98020
I provide psychotherapy and counseling services to adults, adolescents, and couples. In the framework of authentic therapeutic dialogue and connection, I honor the strengths and uniqueness of each client in the context of their life experience, and work to support them in creating the change they seek. My approach is client centered and flexible to best meet the needs of each client and their particular situation while being largely informed by an integration of Gestalt and mindfulness, as well as humanistic and attachment perspectives.
I provide psychotherapy and counseling services to adults, adolescents, and couples. In the framework of authentic therapeutic dialogue and connection, I honor the strengths and uniqueness of each client in the context of their life experience, and work to support them in creating the change they seek. My approach is client centered and flexible to best meet the needs of each client and their particular situation while being largely informed by an integration of Gestalt and mindfulness, as well as humanistic and attachment perspectives.
(425) 403-7760 View (425) 403-7760
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Astrid Davidson
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Redmond, WA 98052
I have over twenty years of experience working with trauma, abuse, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, adult children of alcoholics, self-esteem issues, and personality disorders.
Your immediate concerns and goals are my primary interest. I see therapy as a process of self-discovery, self-understanding, and reaching a more fulfilling lifestyle. I provide a personal and caring approach that can help you put your life into perspective, give you the strength to cope with life's challenges and ultimately help you maintain happy and healthy relationships with the ones you love. We explore how you can grow and develop to generate rewarding relationships, self-care, self-esteem, and work satisfaction.
I have over twenty years of experience working with trauma, abuse, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, adult children of alcoholics, self-esteem issues, and personality disorders.
Your immediate concerns and goals are my primary interest. I see therapy as a process of self-discovery, self-understanding, and reaching a more fulfilling lifestyle. I provide a personal and caring approach that can help you put your life into perspective, give you the strength to cope with life's challenges and ultimately help you maintain happy and healthy relationships with the ones you love. We explore how you can grow and develop to generate rewarding relationships, self-care, self-esteem, and work satisfaction.
(425) 558-4890 View (425) 558-4890
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Ryan Miller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSWAIC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98104
You may be trapped by events, relationships, or stories from the past. Perhaps you wish to alleviate the suffering you hold. Or you might find yourself seeking to cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and others. Life is filled with a range of experiences that influence the way we see the world and make meaning of the past. Rooted at the core of every experience is human relationship; relationships reflect pieces of ourselves and shape the complex beings we become. Fragments of our relationships become part of us, influencing and guiding our choices.
You may be trapped by events, relationships, or stories from the past. Perhaps you wish to alleviate the suffering you hold. Or you might find yourself seeking to cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and others. Life is filled with a range of experiences that influence the way we see the world and make meaning of the past. Rooted at the core of every experience is human relationship; relationships reflect pieces of ourselves and shape the complex beings we become. Fragments of our relationships become part of us, influencing and guiding our choices.
(206) 752-4173 View (206) 752-4173
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.