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Andrew Hoffman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EdS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Livingston, NJ 07039
I am a sensitive, patient and intuitive therapist. Creating a non-judgemental and safe environment is essential to my work with clients. As a Marriage and Family therapist I specialize in couples as well as individuals and families. I help couples who feel that their emotional bond is suffering, as well as those considering marriage and wanting to make a responsible decision. I work with adolescents and adults struggling on a broad range of issues including low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, LGBTQ challenges, communication, and anger management. I am also helpful to families challenged by divorce or blending children from different households.
I am a sensitive, patient and intuitive therapist. Creating a non-judgemental and safe environment is essential to my work with clients. As a Marriage and Family therapist I specialize in couples as well as individuals and families. I help couples who feel that their emotional bond is suffering, as well as those considering marriage and wanting to make a responsible decision. I work with adolescents and adults struggling on a broad range of issues including low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, LGBTQ challenges, communication, and anger management. I am also helpful to families challenged by divorce or blending children from different households.
(973) 821-3203 View (973) 821-3203
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Jennifer Byron
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LAMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Livingston, NJ 07039  (Online Only)
I have experience working with couples, families and individuals of various backgrounds and ages.
Welcome! I am happy that you are taking this big step towards change and healing. I work directly with clients to achieve their goals. Maybe you’re looking for coping skills to manage life’s ups and downs or a safe space to be heard. I believe that you have the ability and resources to heal yourself and I am here to offer you support. Whether you are looking to foster healthier communication patterns within your family and relationships, I will be here to guide you and offer a new perspective as we go through this process together.
I have experience working with couples, families and individuals of various backgrounds and ages.
Welcome! I am happy that you are taking this big step towards change and healing. I work directly with clients to achieve their goals. Maybe you’re looking for coping skills to manage life’s ups and downs or a safe space to be heard. I believe that you have the ability and resources to heal yourself and I am here to offer you support. Whether you are looking to foster healthier communication patterns within your family and relationships, I will be here to guide you and offer a new perspective as we go through this process together.
(732) 561-1784 View (732) 561-1784
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Melissa Cramutolo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
Livingston, NJ 07039
I am trained in many trauma focused therapies that facilitate this deeper healing process - EMDR, Internal Family Systems, NARM, Somatic Experiencing-but above all consider myself to be a relational and relatable therapist who prioritizes the relationship with my clients as the primary healing agent.
Are you tired of experiencing the same patterns and want to heal at the root of your symptoms? I specialize in treating trauma, addictions, and self esteem issues - in particularly with women and teenagers. When my clients first come in, their lives are overrun by fear and insecurities. They carry around deep shame about who they are and never feel quite “good enough”. They want to be confident and heal the patterns that are holding them back but do not know where to start.
I am trained in many trauma focused therapies that facilitate this deeper healing process - EMDR, Internal Family Systems, NARM, Somatic Experiencing-but above all consider myself to be a relational and relatable therapist who prioritizes the relationship with my clients as the primary healing agent.
Are you tired of experiencing the same patterns and want to heal at the root of your symptoms? I specialize in treating trauma, addictions, and self esteem issues - in particularly with women and teenagers. When my clients first come in, their lives are overrun by fear and insecurities. They carry around deep shame about who they are and never feel quite “good enough”. They want to be confident and heal the patterns that are holding them back but do not know where to start.
(973) 604-0264 View (973) 604-0264
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Caneel Schipper
Counselor, LAC, NCC
Verified Verified
Livingston, NJ 07039
My ideal client is curious about themselves and the world and actively participates in the therapeutic process. I enjoy working with young adults and older adults, but I'm not limited to these populations. My ideal client is at a place of feeling "stuck" in their life. Whether that be a career transition, deciding on a college major, feeling lost in a relationship, or a new onset of symptoms. I am also comfortable with helping individuals unpack their past to understand their current habits. My ideal client wants to understand their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to develop self-awareness and self-compassion along the way.
My ideal client is curious about themselves and the world and actively participates in the therapeutic process. I enjoy working with young adults and older adults, but I'm not limited to these populations. My ideal client is at a place of feeling "stuck" in their life. Whether that be a career transition, deciding on a college major, feeling lost in a relationship, or a new onset of symptoms. I am also comfortable with helping individuals unpack their past to understand their current habits. My ideal client wants to understand their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to develop self-awareness and self-compassion along the way.
(973) 434-5439 View (973) 434-5439
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Alexa Baliski
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Livingston, NJ 07039
Are you feeling stuck? Is it starting to impact the relationship with yourself or others? My clients are caring, well-intentioned, and often overextended individuals dealing with various responsibilities (career, education, relationships, health, friendship, family, financial stress, etc.) I help my clients establish healthy coping strategies for their stress and anxieties to restore their physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. My office is a safe space to be human. It's truly an honor to walk alongside my clients as they work through their challenges and embrace the aspects of life that are most important to them.
Are you feeling stuck? Is it starting to impact the relationship with yourself or others? My clients are caring, well-intentioned, and often overextended individuals dealing with various responsibilities (career, education, relationships, health, friendship, family, financial stress, etc.) I help my clients establish healthy coping strategies for their stress and anxieties to restore their physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. My office is a safe space to be human. It's truly an honor to walk alongside my clients as they work through their challenges and embrace the aspects of life that are most important to them.
(862) 420-9049 View (862) 420-9049
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Minze Huang
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Livingston, NJ 07039  (Online Only)
I specialize with issues of Anxiety, Depression, low self-esteem and relationship struggles.
You may feel lost and confused. You don’t know what happened exactly, but you know you are unhappy, and you want your life to get better. Maybe a lot of things make you worried; maybe you are stressed; maybe you want to achieve certain things, but you simply can’t (yet). Or you may come to therapy somehow knowing what you want.
I specialize with issues of Anxiety, Depression, low self-esteem and relationship struggles.
You may feel lost and confused. You don’t know what happened exactly, but you know you are unhappy, and you want your life to get better. Maybe a lot of things make you worried; maybe you are stressed; maybe you want to achieve certain things, but you simply can’t (yet). Or you may come to therapy somehow knowing what you want.
(862) 397-7676 View (862) 397-7676
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Shana Dastur
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Livingston, NJ 07039
Consider the messages you learned from your family growing up, and how those life lessons found their way into the way you view the world. How do they inform the way you see yourself? What is their impact on how you connect to others in relationships? In our work together we uncover deeply held beliefs about others and the world that may be causing us to repeat unhelpful patterns of behavior. Repeating these patterns can cause us to feel a myriad of negative feelings- confusion, frustration and loneliness. I aim to create a warm, empathic and caring relationship that allows you to feel heard and understood.
Consider the messages you learned from your family growing up, and how those life lessons found their way into the way you view the world. How do they inform the way you see yourself? What is their impact on how you connect to others in relationships? In our work together we uncover deeply held beliefs about others and the world that may be causing us to repeat unhelpful patterns of behavior. Repeating these patterns can cause us to feel a myriad of negative feelings- confusion, frustration and loneliness. I aim to create a warm, empathic and caring relationship that allows you to feel heard and understood.
(201) 508-9657 View (201) 508-9657
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Marguerite DeRosa
Art Therapist, ATR-BC, LPAT, LCAT, LAC
Verified Verified
Livingston, NJ 07039
Would you, your child, or your adolescent like to find more creative ways to express thoughts and feelings, which could improve self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-regulation and reduce stress, anxiety, and depression?
Would you, your child, or your adolescent like to find more creative ways to express thoughts and feelings, which could improve self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-regulation and reduce stress, anxiety, and depression?
(862) 386-3447 View (862) 386-3447
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Jeffrey Chang
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW, CCATP, CCTP
Verified Verified
Livingston, NJ 07039
I have a particular interest in working with veterans, diverse peoples of trauma, geriatrics, and integrated health care. The ideal client is full of surprises and motivated to explore the limits of their potential. S/he will cross-examine, wholeheartedly endorse, and bring into the open what has yet to be uncovered. S/he will personalize what they notice/receive and share candid feedback on how to keep existing or try out new habits. S/he will utilize the available time to make use of what's keeping them stuck.
I have a particular interest in working with veterans, diverse peoples of trauma, geriatrics, and integrated health care. The ideal client is full of surprises and motivated to explore the limits of their potential. S/he will cross-examine, wholeheartedly endorse, and bring into the open what has yet to be uncovered. S/he will personalize what they notice/receive and share candid feedback on how to keep existing or try out new habits. S/he will utilize the available time to make use of what's keeping them stuck.
(973) 834-6376 View (973) 834-6376

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Photo of Stacey Klein, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Livingston, NJ
Stacey Klein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Glen Ridge, NJ 07028  (Online Only)
Soul loss is what we go through when our early wounds and traumas restrict our energy and impede our ability to live freely and joyfully. I can help you retrieve your lost energy and rewire old patterns, so you can more fully embody who you were meant to be. Pain is often an invitation to learn more about our feelings so we can evolve and expand. I use a mind-body approach (somatic experiencing/ gestalt) with a relational lens (psychodynamic/ attachment/ Jungian) and energy healing. If you feel stuck after years of talk therapy, I can help. I see children, adolescents, adults, couples & families online only at the moment.
Soul loss is what we go through when our early wounds and traumas restrict our energy and impede our ability to live freely and joyfully. I can help you retrieve your lost energy and rewire old patterns, so you can more fully embody who you were meant to be. Pain is often an invitation to learn more about our feelings so we can evolve and expand. I use a mind-body approach (somatic experiencing/ gestalt) with a relational lens (psychodynamic/ attachment/ Jungian) and energy healing. If you feel stuck after years of talk therapy, I can help. I see children, adolescents, adults, couples & families online only at the moment.
(646) 553-5771 View (646) 553-5771
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Rae Dumont Family Consults, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07043
Waitlist for new clients
I am a Licensed Family Therapist with over 35 years of experience, and prior experience as a pediatrician. Over time, I developed various ways to help people solve problems, together. I work with couples, or whole families, and with children and adolescents. I have a strong belief that even painful or difficult things can be addressed constructively. I have a variety of methods to reach that goal. I utilize experiential, narrative, structural, constructivist, or insight oriented approaches, individually tailored to each situation. I have a special fondness for teenagers. My connection to children informs my approach to parenting.
I am a Licensed Family Therapist with over 35 years of experience, and prior experience as a pediatrician. Over time, I developed various ways to help people solve problems, together. I work with couples, or whole families, and with children and adolescents. I have a strong belief that even painful or difficult things can be addressed constructively. I have a variety of methods to reach that goal. I utilize experiential, narrative, structural, constructivist, or insight oriented approaches, individually tailored to each situation. I have a special fondness for teenagers. My connection to children informs my approach to parenting.
(207) 517-4258 View (207) 517-4258
Photo of Reimagined Mind Counseling & Consultation, Licensed Professional Counselor in Livingston, NJ
Reimagined Mind Counseling & Consultation
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Roseland, NJ 07068  (Online Only)
Reimagined Mind is a mindfully crafted teletherapy and wellness consulting practice with a mission to inspire lifestyles of wellness. We are a trauma-informed and mindfulness-based team of dynamic professionals who each have unique specialization areas. Our services include working with individuals, families, and couples seeking outpatient mental health care through traditional talk therapy and alternative therapies such as yoga, meditation, nutrition, life coaching and ecotherapy. In addition to our clinical practice, we consult with schools and companies looking to enhance their overall organizational health.
Reimagined Mind is a mindfully crafted teletherapy and wellness consulting practice with a mission to inspire lifestyles of wellness. We are a trauma-informed and mindfulness-based team of dynamic professionals who each have unique specialization areas. Our services include working with individuals, families, and couples seeking outpatient mental health care through traditional talk therapy and alternative therapies such as yoga, meditation, nutrition, life coaching and ecotherapy. In addition to our clinical practice, we consult with schools and companies looking to enhance their overall organizational health.
(973) 354-5865 View (973) 354-5865
Photo of Chris Starpoli, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Livingston, NJ
Chris Starpoli
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07043
My clinical expertise includes trauma/PTSD, relationship issues, addictions, couples therapy, depression, anxiety and personality disorders.
Daily life has become challenging trying to balance our families, relationships, careers and goals. You may be feeling overwhelmed, experiencing anxiety that won’t allow you to move forward and you just can’t seem to get out of your own head. Perhaps you feel ready to take the steps to improve your quality of life, but you don’t know where to start. My goal as a therapist is to provide a safe space where we can openly discuss any obstacles and recognize patterns that may be holding you back. I now offer Telemental health sessions using a confidential computer platform so you can be in the comfort of your own home.
My clinical expertise includes trauma/PTSD, relationship issues, addictions, couples therapy, depression, anxiety and personality disorders.
Daily life has become challenging trying to balance our families, relationships, careers and goals. You may be feeling overwhelmed, experiencing anxiety that won’t allow you to move forward and you just can’t seem to get out of your own head. Perhaps you feel ready to take the steps to improve your quality of life, but you don’t know where to start. My goal as a therapist is to provide a safe space where we can openly discuss any obstacles and recognize patterns that may be holding you back. I now offer Telemental health sessions using a confidential computer platform so you can be in the comfort of your own home.
(201) 528-1964 View (201) 528-1964
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Couples Therapy: Resolution Counseling Ctr
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bloomfield, NJ 07003
You want your committed relationship to work, you want to communicate more effectively, and you want to enjoy life with your spouse or partner. Our team of therapists specialize in Gottman Method couples counseling, an approach that distills decades of relationship research into practical strategies that promote healing and connection. Our approach starts with a thorough assessment and customized treatment plan that will equip you and your partner to move in a better direction. We are LGBTQ-affirming. View openings and request your first appointment: www.resolutioncc.com/team
You want your committed relationship to work, you want to communicate more effectively, and you want to enjoy life with your spouse or partner. Our team of therapists specialize in Gottman Method couples counseling, an approach that distills decades of relationship research into practical strategies that promote healing and connection. Our approach starts with a thorough assessment and customized treatment plan that will equip you and your partner to move in a better direction. We are LGBTQ-affirming. View openings and request your first appointment: www.resolutioncc.com/team
(201) 793-8899 View (201) 793-8899
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Bijal Patel
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
Are you looking to make a shift? I am licensed Marriage and Family Therapist working with individuals, couples, families, and groups. I believe therapy can be seen as a process of unpacking. Things often go unsaid, which can manifest into various effects on the body, such as anxiety. Although staying with your emotions can be difficult, it can often be the pathway to healing. My clinical experience has allowed me to gain a deeper understanding of the impact of our environment and relationships, as well as the positive shifts that can take place when offered supportive and validating resources.
Are you looking to make a shift? I am licensed Marriage and Family Therapist working with individuals, couples, families, and groups. I believe therapy can be seen as a process of unpacking. Things often go unsaid, which can manifest into various effects on the body, such as anxiety. Although staying with your emotions can be difficult, it can often be the pathway to healing. My clinical experience has allowed me to gain a deeper understanding of the impact of our environment and relationships, as well as the positive shifts that can take place when offered supportive and validating resources.
(856) 776-7265 View (856) 776-7265
Photo of Erica Tait, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Livingston, NJ
Erica Tait
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
In our work together, we will deepen our relationship to our emotions, to our bodies, intuition and ultimately, our Self.
A profound near-death experience sparked my search for meaning and purpose in life, and has inspired me to guide others on their own journey toward healing and transformation. I specialize in working with the highly-sensitive person–those who feel everything strongly, but may be unsure of how to manage those emotions. Anxiety, self-doubt, perfectionism, and relationship issues are just some of what we can experience when we are out of alignment with our True Self. We may turn to all sorts of distractions, unhealthy relationships or addictions, to cope with what is fundamentally a feeling of discomfort within our own skin.
In our work together, we will deepen our relationship to our emotions, to our bodies, intuition and ultimately, our Self.
A profound near-death experience sparked my search for meaning and purpose in life, and has inspired me to guide others on their own journey toward healing and transformation. I specialize in working with the highly-sensitive person–those who feel everything strongly, but may be unsure of how to manage those emotions. Anxiety, self-doubt, perfectionism, and relationship issues are just some of what we can experience when we are out of alignment with our True Self. We may turn to all sorts of distractions, unhealthy relationships or addictions, to cope with what is fundamentally a feeling of discomfort within our own skin.
(201) 485-5089 View (201) 485-5089
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Tamara Rosenberg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MBA
Verified Verified
Maplewood, NJ 07040
I'm a compassionate and creative psychotherapist in private practice in Maplewood and Jersey City, NJ. I use an eclectic approach to healing using mind, body, and heart connections. I believe in the ability for all of us to heal and grow from a place of self acceptance and compassion. I help my clients define their goals for therapy and we create a plan together in a safe and calming environment. My areas of experience include trauma, childhood abuse, anxiety, depression, grief and loss, and relationship issues. I enjoy working with individuals and couples.
I'm a compassionate and creative psychotherapist in private practice in Maplewood and Jersey City, NJ. I use an eclectic approach to healing using mind, body, and heart connections. I believe in the ability for all of us to heal and grow from a place of self acceptance and compassion. I help my clients define their goals for therapy and we create a plan together in a safe and calming environment. My areas of experience include trauma, childhood abuse, anxiety, depression, grief and loss, and relationship issues. I enjoy working with individuals and couples.
(908) 460-1496 View (908) 460-1496
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Dr. Tanya Llewellyn
Pre-Licensed Professional, PhD, PsyD
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
I am also experienced in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples, an evidence-based model for helping couples interrupt negative emotional cycles and strengthen attachment bonds.
My practice is rooted in a core belief in the power and purpose of all human emotions. Our emotions are some of our most important tools for navigating the world. As children, we learn to adapt to our environments by finding resourceful ways of managing emotions that don’t feel safe. But sometimes, as adults, the same strategies that protected us in the past can actually contribute to our feeling stuck, empty, out of control, hopeless, or alone. I practice a kind of therapy called Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), which helps clients heal from emotional pain and recover their innate sense of agency and vitality.
I am also experienced in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples, an evidence-based model for helping couples interrupt negative emotional cycles and strengthen attachment bonds.
My practice is rooted in a core belief in the power and purpose of all human emotions. Our emotions are some of our most important tools for navigating the world. As children, we learn to adapt to our environments by finding resourceful ways of managing emotions that don’t feel safe. But sometimes, as adults, the same strategies that protected us in the past can actually contribute to our feeling stuck, empty, out of control, hopeless, or alone. I practice a kind of therapy called Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), which helps clients heal from emotional pain and recover their innate sense of agency and vitality.
(332) 239-6191 View (332) 239-6191
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Angelika Burdzy: Couples Adults Teens Kids
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Bloomfield, NJ 07003
Angelika specializes in stress management, anger management, impulse control, family conflict, depression, anxiety, and grief work. With couples, Angelika uses the Gottman Method to improve communication, understand conflict, and increase emotional connection. In her work with adults and teens, she utilizes cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness-based therapy and strength-based approaches. With children, a mix of play therapy and parenting strategies are used. See if she's accepting new clients and book online at www.resolutioncc.com/team
Angelika specializes in stress management, anger management, impulse control, family conflict, depression, anxiety, and grief work. With couples, Angelika uses the Gottman Method to improve communication, understand conflict, and increase emotional connection. In her work with adults and teens, she utilizes cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness-based therapy and strength-based approaches. With children, a mix of play therapy and parenting strategies are used. See if she's accepting new clients and book online at www.resolutioncc.com/team
(973) 798-9508 View (973) 798-9508
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Maria Ruiz De Toro
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
I assist clients who want to improve their love relationship and communication issues, and develop a healthy connection with their bodies.
As the founder of Insightful Mental Health Counseling, I offer clinical services to treat different mental health needs such as depression, anxiety, psychosomatic illness, psychological aspects of autoimmune issues, trauma, relationships and ADHD related issues. If you are struggling with these issues, I can assist you in understanding and managing your emotions and symptoms. I can help you advocate for yourself and develop a life plan to achieve your professional, personal and academic goals.
I assist clients who want to improve their love relationship and communication issues, and develop a healthy connection with their bodies.
As the founder of Insightful Mental Health Counseling, I offer clinical services to treat different mental health needs such as depression, anxiety, psychosomatic illness, psychological aspects of autoimmune issues, trauma, relationships and ADHD related issues. If you are struggling with these issues, I can assist you in understanding and managing your emotions and symptoms. I can help you advocate for yourself and develop a life plan to achieve your professional, personal and academic goals.
(347) 380-7569 View (347) 380-7569
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.