Couples Counseling Therapists in Clinton, NJ

Whitney Pubylski-Yanofchick
Licensed Social Worker, MSW, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clinton, NJ 08809
Currently accepting new clients for in person sessions in Clinton or virtual counseling for clients all over NJ. Our team is compassionate, culturally competent and motivated to support our clients as they navigate life's challenges. I enjoy working with individuals and families, my clinical work is focused on perinatal mental health as well as supporting parents and couples. I have also enjoyed working with children and adults with disabilities and their support networks of families, parents, guardians and educators for many years.
Currently accepting new clients for in person sessions in Clinton or virtual counseling for clients all over NJ. Our team is compassionate, culturally competent and motivated to support our clients as they navigate life's challenges. I enjoy working with individuals and families, my clinical work is focused on perinatal mental health as well as supporting parents and couples. I have also enjoyed working with children and adults with disabilities and their support networks of families, parents, guardians and educators for many years.
(908) 460-8959 View (908) 460-8959
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Lori Rayner-Grossi
Psychologist, EdD
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809
For more than twenty five years, I have been honored to share this journey with couples, families, and individuals of all ages and backgrounds.
We are all more alike than we are different. We grow into ourselves as a result of our relationships and our experiences. We want to live our best lives with a sense of meaning, purpose and belonging. Yet, for many, the challenges of everyday life; work, school, family, relationships, decisions about what to do or what direction to take, feel overwhelming and unmanageable. Therapy is a collaborative process; a journey toward increased understanding and insight.
For more than twenty five years, I have been honored to share this journey with couples, families, and individuals of all ages and backgrounds.
We are all more alike than we are different. We grow into ourselves as a result of our relationships and our experiences. We want to live our best lives with a sense of meaning, purpose and belonging. Yet, for many, the challenges of everyday life; work, school, family, relationships, decisions about what to do or what direction to take, feel overwhelming and unmanageable. Therapy is a collaborative process; a journey toward increased understanding and insight.
(908) 344-3606 View (908) 344-3606
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Marsha Morris
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist practicing in Clinton, NJ with over 25 years of experience helping people who have been suffering and struggling with depression, anxiety, relationship problems, loss, and major life change issues. If you are looking for help because you feel overwhelmed and usual ways of managing struggles seem not to work, I can help you by listening carefully and thoughtfully to your problems and struggles and then help you find better ways to manage your life and these issues. The goal of our work together is to reduce anxiety and emotional pain and to live a more joyful and productive life.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist practicing in Clinton, NJ with over 25 years of experience helping people who have been suffering and struggling with depression, anxiety, relationship problems, loss, and major life change issues. If you are looking for help because you feel overwhelmed and usual ways of managing struggles seem not to work, I can help you by listening carefully and thoughtfully to your problems and struggles and then help you find better ways to manage your life and these issues. The goal of our work together is to reduce anxiety and emotional pain and to live a more joyful and productive life.
(908) 287-1107 View (908) 287-1107
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Paige D Kleinfeldt, LCSW, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clinton, NJ 08809
I also specialize in addressing a variety of family and couples’ issues such as communication, parenting/co-parenting, blended family dynamics, health concerns, life transitions, etc.
The past few years have been extremely difficult for so many and may have caused or exacerbated emotional health issues. It’s normal to feel stuck, lost or a need to recover lost parts of you. I can help you if you feel weighed down or drained of energy, feel depressed or have anxious thoughts, or lack enjoyment in your life like you use too. I know it can be hard to take the first step and ask for help, however, a new transition and transformation for your life is just around the corner. My professional focus is to work with individuals to help them find a greater sense of self and purpose in the midst of life's hardships.
I also specialize in addressing a variety of family and couples’ issues such as communication, parenting/co-parenting, blended family dynamics, health concerns, life transitions, etc.
The past few years have been extremely difficult for so many and may have caused or exacerbated emotional health issues. It’s normal to feel stuck, lost or a need to recover lost parts of you. I can help you if you feel weighed down or drained of energy, feel depressed or have anxious thoughts, or lack enjoyment in your life like you use too. I know it can be hard to take the first step and ask for help, however, a new transition and transformation for your life is just around the corner. My professional focus is to work with individuals to help them find a greater sense of self and purpose in the midst of life's hardships.
(908) 396-6027 View (908) 396-6027
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Gwen Blake Birch Tree Therapeutic Arts
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdS, LPC, MFT, ICST, SAC, SAC,CZT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Clinton, NJ 08809
In sessions, we identify incongruences in your life and increase your ability to grow and clear anxiety, trauma, loss, and relationship struggles.
I offer appointments (8am - 8pm) in my new office space (and online)! Creating and clearing space to change unfamiliar and familiar stress is a really big part of therapeutic healing. These struggles often cause avoidance, overthinking, big emotions, or unhelpful habits and attitudes, which tend to cycle and leave you to feel unresolved. Becoming clear about struggles, then learning new ways to cope creates room for amazing change in your today; unraveling confusion, gaining clarity and moving toward to a more, meaningful, congruent and focused life. Individuals (child-adults), couples, and families are welcome!
In sessions, we identify incongruences in your life and increase your ability to grow and clear anxiety, trauma, loss, and relationship struggles.
I offer appointments (8am - 8pm) in my new office space (and online)! Creating and clearing space to change unfamiliar and familiar stress is a really big part of therapeutic healing. These struggles often cause avoidance, overthinking, big emotions, or unhelpful habits and attitudes, which tend to cycle and leave you to feel unresolved. Becoming clear about struggles, then learning new ways to cope creates room for amazing change in your today; unraveling confusion, gaining clarity and moving toward to a more, meaningful, congruent and focused life. Individuals (child-adults), couples, and families are welcome!
(908) 838-4184 View (908) 838-4184
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Melissa Von Der Heide
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Clinton, NJ 08809
Thank you so much for visiting my page. Unfortunately at this time, I am unable to accept new clients. Counseling is not for the broken, it's for the breathing- Josh Shipp. I work with children, adolescents, couples, and families and approach therapy from a systems perspective. Therapy is client centered but a collaborative approach is used to help you meet your goals. I have created an environment that provides comfort and allows you to speak freely about your concerns while helping you to come to a place of peace and a better understanding of yourself.
Thank you so much for visiting my page. Unfortunately at this time, I am unable to accept new clients. Counseling is not for the broken, it's for the breathing- Josh Shipp. I work with children, adolescents, couples, and families and approach therapy from a systems perspective. Therapy is client centered but a collaborative approach is used to help you meet your goals. I have created an environment that provides comfort and allows you to speak freely about your concerns while helping you to come to a place of peace and a better understanding of yourself.
(908) 546-1355 View (908) 546-1355
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Margie Negri Christian Family Counseling
Pastoral Counselor, MA, LCPastC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clinton, NJ 08809
By using an integrated approach to counseling that combines temperament theory, scientific knowledge, and Biblical truth, I create a non-judgmental and safe place for families, couples, and individuals to share their issues and fears with the goal of attaining healing and hope.
I am a Christian Counselor with training in individual, marriage and family counseling. I am also a Licensed Temperament Therapist. My main goal is to move clients toward greater emotional and spiritual health by understanding the power and depth of God's love for them and His desire to assist them. I rely on the Holy Spirit to help my clients find forgiveness for the past, strength and comfort for the present, and hope for the future by trusting the Lord to meet needs and heal emotional wounds.
By using an integrated approach to counseling that combines temperament theory, scientific knowledge, and Biblical truth, I create a non-judgmental and safe place for families, couples, and individuals to share their issues and fears with the goal of attaining healing and hope.
I am a Christian Counselor with training in individual, marriage and family counseling. I am also a Licensed Temperament Therapist. My main goal is to move clients toward greater emotional and spiritual health by understanding the power and depth of God's love for them and His desire to assist them. I rely on the Holy Spirit to help my clients find forgiveness for the past, strength and comfort for the present, and hope for the future by trusting the Lord to meet needs and heal emotional wounds.
(908) 280-0194 View (908) 280-0194
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Nancy L. Douglass
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LCADC, NCC
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809  (Online Only)
Our therapists specialize in stress management, anxiety, mood disorders, substance use, grief, trauma, relationship issues, self-esteem, and corporate coaching.
At Stress Management Counseling, we want to assist you in significantly reducing and managing the stressors in your life, and help you develop the tools to restore happiness, satisfaction, and balance in all areas of your life. We will focus on your personal strengths to help you reach your desired goals. You can expect to take away valuable insights, strategies, and renewed hope from each and every session. HOURS: M-F 9-9 by appointment.
Our therapists specialize in stress management, anxiety, mood disorders, substance use, grief, trauma, relationship issues, self-esteem, and corporate coaching.
At Stress Management Counseling, we want to assist you in significantly reducing and managing the stressors in your life, and help you develop the tools to restore happiness, satisfaction, and balance in all areas of your life. We will focus on your personal strengths to help you reach your desired goals. You can expect to take away valuable insights, strategies, and renewed hope from each and every session. HOURS: M-F 9-9 by appointment.
(908) 219-6132 View (908) 219-6132
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Alan J. Giordano, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809
I have over 30 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families from diverse backgrounds and a range of presenting issues. I have been successful in treating adolescents and adults for depression, anxiety, stress management, marital and relationship difficulties, anger management, and Attention Deficit Disorder. My philosophy is that people are often resistant to change as the change is unknown. I help them explore what that change would look and feel like and how it could improve their lives if they do decide to make those changes.
I have over 30 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families from diverse backgrounds and a range of presenting issues. I have been successful in treating adolescents and adults for depression, anxiety, stress management, marital and relationship difficulties, anger management, and Attention Deficit Disorder. My philosophy is that people are often resistant to change as the change is unknown. I help them explore what that change would look and feel like and how it could improve their lives if they do decide to make those changes.
(908) 339-6671 View (908) 339-6671
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Roger W Plantikow
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809
Psychotherapy helps individuals, couples, and families work through painful and pressing difficulties. For some the difficulties are depression, anxiety, loss of sense of self or direction. For others, there is a failed relationship or one endangered by betrayal(s) or years of inadequate communication. I believe therapy must be focused, fair, and safe. Our success will depend on the quality of our working relationship. If we work together, I will make a serious commitment to your well being.
Psychotherapy helps individuals, couples, and families work through painful and pressing difficulties. For some the difficulties are depression, anxiety, loss of sense of self or direction. For others, there is a failed relationship or one endangered by betrayal(s) or years of inadequate communication. I believe therapy must be focused, fair, and safe. Our success will depend on the quality of our working relationship. If we work together, I will make a serious commitment to your well being.
(973) 671-8014 View (973) 671-8014
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Gwen Susan Bloom
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clinton, NJ 08809
I have been a Clinical Social Worker since 1985. During the last 30 years, I have had the opportunity to work in many clinical settings, in both the public and private sector specializing in adolescence, adults, couples and families. Additionally, I have worked in inpatient, outpatient, partial hospitalization, in-home, nursing home and school settings. I have been trained in DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) and implemented a DBT track at a therapeutic High School for Ed teens,. At this juncture, my focus is private practice and to continue specializing in DBT and traditional psychotherapy with teens, adults, couples and families.
I have been a Clinical Social Worker since 1985. During the last 30 years, I have had the opportunity to work in many clinical settings, in both the public and private sector specializing in adolescence, adults, couples and families. Additionally, I have worked in inpatient, outpatient, partial hospitalization, in-home, nursing home and school settings. I have been trained in DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) and implemented a DBT track at a therapeutic High School for Ed teens,. At this juncture, my focus is private practice and to continue specializing in DBT and traditional psychotherapy with teens, adults, couples and families.
(732) 588-8206 View (732) 588-8206
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Ruth Altamura-Roll
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809
When life is painful and overwhelming, I will listen. If you are struggling with addictions, I can help. When your relationship feels broken, I will give you tools. And if your self-esteem is hurting, I can provide skills to grow. Often childhood or adult trauma challenges your beliefs and you struggle with depression or anxiety. I practice Holistic methods focusing on Emotions, Belief Systems, Relationships, Health and Spirituality. Counseling is safe and confidential for women, men, couples and adolescents who are dealing with addictions, eating disorders, depression, anxiety, OCD, grief, anger, incest, infidelity, women's issues, and PTSD.
When life is painful and overwhelming, I will listen. If you are struggling with addictions, I can help. When your relationship feels broken, I will give you tools. And if your self-esteem is hurting, I can provide skills to grow. Often childhood or adult trauma challenges your beliefs and you struggle with depression or anxiety. I practice Holistic methods focusing on Emotions, Belief Systems, Relationships, Health and Spirituality. Counseling is safe and confidential for women, men, couples and adolescents who are dealing with addictions, eating disorders, depression, anxiety, OCD, grief, anger, incest, infidelity, women's issues, and PTSD.
(908) 962-7250 View (908) 962-7250
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Valerie Rosen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809  (Online Only)
It is my honor to partner with you in uncovering who you were meant to be as you move towards living a free & inspired life!.
Greetings! It is a fundamental part of the human condition to have hope and a purpose in our lives, work, & relationships. Too often, these dimensions of our existence go overlooked and untouched in favor of addressing mental-emotional well-being through the lens of a medical model which emphasizes pathology and the need to consult with an expert to solve our problems. I am here to encourage you in this: You can learn to be the expert in your own life! My role is to journey with you towards this realization, so that you can ultimately stand on this truth. To do this, we will work together to help you establish a central life Hope.
It is my honor to partner with you in uncovering who you were meant to be as you move towards living a free & inspired life!.
Greetings! It is a fundamental part of the human condition to have hope and a purpose in our lives, work, & relationships. Too often, these dimensions of our existence go overlooked and untouched in favor of addressing mental-emotional well-being through the lens of a medical model which emphasizes pathology and the need to consult with an expert to solve our problems. I am here to encourage you in this: You can learn to be the expert in your own life! My role is to journey with you towards this realization, so that you can ultimately stand on this truth. To do this, we will work together to help you establish a central life Hope.
(908) 751-1228 View (908) 751-1228
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Charles R Kimble
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, MEd
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809  (Online Only)
I work with clients to help them understand their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and to find new ways of coping with life's difficulties. I have experience helping individuals and couples address issues with anxiety, anger, depression, addictions, marital conflict, affairs, and loss. With a compassionate and non-judgmental approach, I work to create a safe and supportive environment for clients to explore their challenges and work toward their goals. I understand that each person is complex and unique, and I tailor my approach to meet the individual needs of each client.
I work with clients to help them understand their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and to find new ways of coping with life's difficulties. I have experience helping individuals and couples address issues with anxiety, anger, depression, addictions, marital conflict, affairs, and loss. With a compassionate and non-judgmental approach, I work to create a safe and supportive environment for clients to explore their challenges and work toward their goals. I understand that each person is complex and unique, and I tailor my approach to meet the individual needs of each client.
(908) 495-7266 View (908) 495-7266
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Caroline Swantkoski
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809  (Online Only)
I am a licensed marriage and family therapist trained in perinatal mental health with experience treating individuals, couples, and families navigating relationship issues, adjustment issues, stress, transitions, depression, and anxiety.
Are you struggling with the transition to parenthood? Do you feel overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, and/or depressed? Are you worrying a lot or having a hard time sleeping? Do you feel like you are just not yourself? Whether you are just thinking about starting a family, trying to concieve, pregnant, struggling with grief/loss related to infertility, miscarriage, a difficult birth experience, or adjusting to your new life postpartum; your mental health is important. With help, you can and will feel better.
I am a licensed marriage and family therapist trained in perinatal mental health with experience treating individuals, couples, and families navigating relationship issues, adjustment issues, stress, transitions, depression, and anxiety.
Are you struggling with the transition to parenthood? Do you feel overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, and/or depressed? Are you worrying a lot or having a hard time sleeping? Do you feel like you are just not yourself? Whether you are just thinking about starting a family, trying to concieve, pregnant, struggling with grief/loss related to infertility, miscarriage, a difficult birth experience, or adjusting to your new life postpartum; your mental health is important. With help, you can and will feel better.
(732) 781-0987 View (732) 781-0987
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Nadyne Busichio
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Clinton, NJ 08809
Have you just found out that your partner has been cheating? Maybe you’re unsure if the relationship is worth fighting for. Are you thinking of leaving after discovering your partner’s infidelity? When an affair is discovered, couples are overcome by feelings of betrayal. If you are having difficulty trusting your partner and are not sure if the relationship can heal after the affair, now is the time to connect with someone who can help. Working together, we will develop a plan to help you heal and rebuild trust. Continue reading to learn how booking a couples therapy session today is the best decision for your marriage.
Have you just found out that your partner has been cheating? Maybe you’re unsure if the relationship is worth fighting for. Are you thinking of leaving after discovering your partner’s infidelity? When an affair is discovered, couples are overcome by feelings of betrayal. If you are having difficulty trusting your partner and are not sure if the relationship can heal after the affair, now is the time to connect with someone who can help. Working together, we will develop a plan to help you heal and rebuild trust. Continue reading to learn how booking a couples therapy session today is the best decision for your marriage.
(908) 916-3758 View (908) 916-3758
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Alchemy Integrative Wellness
Counselor, LMHC, ATR-BC, RYT
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809
Experience tranquility and contentment after our sessions. I am dedicated to enhancing your happiness and fulfillment in life by drawing upon a diverse blend of personal, educational, and professional expertise. As your holistically centered therapist, I leverage a variety of theories and clinical approaches to tailor a customized treatment plan that swiftly addresses a multitude of issues, ensuring your rapid healing and growth.
Experience tranquility and contentment after our sessions. I am dedicated to enhancing your happiness and fulfillment in life by drawing upon a diverse blend of personal, educational, and professional expertise. As your holistically centered therapist, I leverage a variety of theories and clinical approaches to tailor a customized treatment plan that swiftly addresses a multitude of issues, ensuring your rapid healing and growth.
(908) 224-5551 View (908) 224-5551
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Raymond Terranova
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clinton, NJ 08809
A person may enter therapy when they feel they can no longer effectively manage aspects of their life. Although it can be difficult to ask for help, this is where therapy begins. Once committed to this idea, choosing the right therapist is the next step. Finding a good therapeutic match is crucial to solving one’s problems.
A person may enter therapy when they feel they can no longer effectively manage aspects of their life. Although it can be difficult to ask for help, this is where therapy begins. Once committed to this idea, choosing the right therapist is the next step. Finding a good therapeutic match is crucial to solving one’s problems.
(908) 349-1293 View (908) 349-1293
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Fuel The Joy, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809
Fuel the Joy counseling services will guide you in creating the life that you want and the relationships you desire. Through researched based therapeutic interventions and positive psychology framework you will set the gear shift for the high gear of your life. Our goal in each session will be to have you walking away with a different perspective and a tool to activate change in your life. If you are motivated to make positive changes and need a guide to challenge old patterns that are holding you back, give me a call. We can work together to achieve your goals.
Fuel the Joy counseling services will guide you in creating the life that you want and the relationships you desire. Through researched based therapeutic interventions and positive psychology framework you will set the gear shift for the high gear of your life. Our goal in each session will be to have you walking away with a different perspective and a tool to activate change in your life. If you are motivated to make positive changes and need a guide to challenge old patterns that are holding you back, give me a call. We can work together to achieve your goals.
(908) 498-7258 View (908) 498-7258
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Bobbie Lynn Edwards LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MEd, NCC
Verified Verified
Clinton, NJ 08809
I have been in healthcare as a mental health professional for over 35 years. As an integrative psychotherapist I combine both science and a broad spectrum of spiritual philosophies and practices. I assist by providing guidance and direction to those who seek healing. I work with you putting the pieces of the puzzle together helping you towards relief and ultimately peace. The combination of the traditional psychotherapeutic clinically based training and the multiple spiritual models of thought and various ideologies together are extremely successful and offer hope in healing.
I have been in healthcare as a mental health professional for over 35 years. As an integrative psychotherapist I combine both science and a broad spectrum of spiritual philosophies and practices. I assist by providing guidance and direction to those who seek healing. I work with you putting the pieces of the puzzle together helping you towards relief and ultimately peace. The combination of the traditional psychotherapeutic clinically based training and the multiple spiritual models of thought and various ideologies together are extremely successful and offer hope in healing.
(908) 251-9032 View (908) 251-9032
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.