Couples Counseling Therapists in Shelby, NC
LDH Counseling and Consulting, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
I look forward to assisting you with developing the skills to live a more abundant life while implementing the tools that you already have! Life can be hard at times and with the right coping skills, life can be more manageable to those experiencing depression, grief, anxiety, substance use, and other mental health issues. Working with those who have experienced relationship issues, such as infidelity, abuse (domestic, verbal and/ or physical) can learn how to become a survivor instead of a victim. I know that building a healthy therapeutic relationship is the first step in the therapy process in a non-judgmental environment.
I look forward to assisting you with developing the skills to live a more abundant life while implementing the tools that you already have! Life can be hard at times and with the right coping skills, life can be more manageable to those experiencing depression, grief, anxiety, substance use, and other mental health issues. Working with those who have experienced relationship issues, such as infidelity, abuse (domestic, verbal and/ or physical) can learn how to become a survivor instead of a victim. I know that building a healthy therapeutic relationship is the first step in the therapy process in a non-judgmental environment.
Matthew S. Beal
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MACO, NCC, LCMHC, LCPC, MDiv
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28152 (Online Only)
You just need a willingness to engage in the therapeutic relationship.
Whether your needs seem small or overwhelming, if you are thinking about counseling, congratulations! Every step requires courage, and I respect yours. We all need quality counseling at times, and I would be honored to walk with you on your healing journey. My goals are to help you identify what human flourishing means for you, to help you gain insight into what keeps you from living that fully, to help you develop the tools you need to move into that flourishing, and to do so in a safe, supportive space. Also, I offer teletherapy with a generous sliding scale fee structure to make your flourishing as accessible as possible!
You just need a willingness to engage in the therapeutic relationship.
Whether your needs seem small or overwhelming, if you are thinking about counseling, congratulations! Every step requires courage, and I respect yours. We all need quality counseling at times, and I would be honored to walk with you on your healing journey. My goals are to help you identify what human flourishing means for you, to help you gain insight into what keeps you from living that fully, to help you develop the tools you need to move into that flourishing, and to do so in a safe, supportive space. Also, I offer teletherapy with a generous sliding scale fee structure to make your flourishing as accessible as possible!
Susan Shull Bowling
Counselor, MA, MDiv, EdS, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
My experiences include engaging with individuals (children and adults), couples and groups who are experiencing depression, anxiety, relational struggles, grief, and those seeking clarity for a specific perspective in order to gain peace in their life.
The ideal client for me would be a child, adult, couple, family or group that desires an inner peace that is lacking in their life. This client has a great degree of motivation with the understanding that their wellbeing is achievable. As a Christian counselor, relying on the Holy Spirit is imperative in being able to help clients.
My experiences include engaging with individuals (children and adults), couples and groups who are experiencing depression, anxiety, relational struggles, grief, and those seeking clarity for a specific perspective in order to gain peace in their life.
The ideal client for me would be a child, adult, couple, family or group that desires an inner peace that is lacking in their life. This client has a great degree of motivation with the understanding that their wellbeing is achievable. As a Christian counselor, relying on the Holy Spirit is imperative in being able to help clients.
Robin Marie Weaver
Counselor, MA, NCC, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
Together, we will partner to identify strengths, reframe irrational thoughts, and implement positive behavioral changes.
If you are struggling with a difficult season of life, need to make important decisions, or want to grow and change, establishing a therapeutic relationship can help. Through interactive counseling sessions, you can process thoughts and feelings that are hindering your quality of life. Be encouraged and believe that even in the darkest situations, restoration can occur. You are not your problems. You are a person who matters that can live with meaning and purpose.
Together, we will partner to identify strengths, reframe irrational thoughts, and implement positive behavioral changes.
If you are struggling with a difficult season of life, need to make important decisions, or want to grow and change, establishing a therapeutic relationship can help. Through interactive counseling sessions, you can process thoughts and feelings that are hindering your quality of life. Be encouraged and believe that even in the darkest situations, restoration can occur. You are not your problems. You are a person who matters that can live with meaning and purpose.
Mary Beth Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shelby, NC 28150
I work with couples and families to help them find peace and stability in their relationships.
Do you find yourself tired of having other people's worldviews and judgments imposed upon you? Do you feel that no matter how hard you try, nothing you do is ever enough? It is my goal to provide a safe space where clients can truly be themselves without fear of judgment. As a result, I do not believe in a one size fits all approach to therapy. I work to tailor each session to fit the needs of the person/persons in front of me.
I work with couples and families to help them find peace and stability in their relationships.
Do you find yourself tired of having other people's worldviews and judgments imposed upon you? Do you feel that no matter how hard you try, nothing you do is ever enough? It is my goal to provide a safe space where clients can truly be themselves without fear of judgment. As a result, I do not believe in a one size fits all approach to therapy. I work to tailor each session to fit the needs of the person/persons in front of me.
Andrew M Woods
Counselor, LCMHC, MA, EdS, MDiv, NCC
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150 (Online Only)
Accessibility to counseling, therapeutic relationship, and motivation are important factors associated with positive outcomes in counseling.
An important element I bring into counseling is a holistic understanding of you and your system. Through this, we discover dynamic ways to affect the issues in which you desire to see positive and enduring change. Furthermore, I practice a balanced approach. One side of counseling is more hands-on advising that involves practical and effective life skills. On the other side, counselors are neutral collaborators that facilitate self-exploration, depth, and healing. Through scholarly research and personal practice, I strive to bring both elements into my counseling relationships to achieve quick and lasting systemic change.
Accessibility to counseling, therapeutic relationship, and motivation are important factors associated with positive outcomes in counseling.
An important element I bring into counseling is a holistic understanding of you and your system. Through this, we discover dynamic ways to affect the issues in which you desire to see positive and enduring change. Furthermore, I practice a balanced approach. One side of counseling is more hands-on advising that involves practical and effective life skills. On the other side, counselors are neutral collaborators that facilitate self-exploration, depth, and healing. Through scholarly research and personal practice, I strive to bring both elements into my counseling relationships to achieve quick and lasting systemic change.
Toni Nicholson Jones
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Shelby, NC 28150
Some life experiences can leave us confused, afraid, angry, and longing for joy. Supporting individuals of all ages, couples or families trying to navigate a path back to joy is a privilege like no other. I provide honest encouragement and practical education to those who are seeking positive changes.
Some life experiences can leave us confused, afraid, angry, and longing for joy. Supporting individuals of all ages, couples or families trying to navigate a path back to joy is a privilege like no other. I provide honest encouragement and practical education to those who are seeking positive changes.
Michele C. Blackman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Shelby, NC 28150
I offer therapy services to all individuals, couples, and families. I also offer parenting classes and anger management. I believe in tailoring treatment to fit the needs of the individual client. For this reason I don't use the same therapeutic approach with every client. Every person is unique and I believe it is important to recognize this. In addition to traditional therapy I also offer "Relationship Checkups". These checkups consist of two sessions designed for couples to attend once a year. The checkup is to provide maintenance, prevention and intervention to keep your relationship strong throughout the year.
I offer therapy services to all individuals, couples, and families. I also offer parenting classes and anger management. I believe in tailoring treatment to fit the needs of the individual client. For this reason I don't use the same therapeutic approach with every client. Every person is unique and I believe it is important to recognize this. In addition to traditional therapy I also offer "Relationship Checkups". These checkups consist of two sessions designed for couples to attend once a year. The checkup is to provide maintenance, prevention and intervention to keep your relationship strong throughout the year.
Sarah Philbeck
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LCMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Shelby, NC 28150
Waitlist for new clients
I believe that the therapeutic relationship is partnership and it requires both the client and the therapist to work together to find what works.
Many of us desire a sense of calm, connection, and well-being. Yet life circumstances and even parts of ourselves can prevent us from having these experiences in our day to day lives. Providing a safe and non-judgmental place to explore your struggles and emotional pain is essential to my practice. I feel honored to support those who desire to grow and heal.
I believe that the therapeutic relationship is partnership and it requires both the client and the therapist to work together to find what works.
Many of us desire a sense of calm, connection, and well-being. Yet life circumstances and even parts of ourselves can prevent us from having these experiences in our day to day lives. Providing a safe and non-judgmental place to explore your struggles and emotional pain is essential to my practice. I feel honored to support those who desire to grow and heal.
Gary W. McFarland
Pastoral Counselor, DMin, LMFT, LPCS, CFBPPC
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
I have been in practice since 1984. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and families on a variety of issues. Among these are marital and family issues, relationship issues, depression and anxiety, spiritual concerns, life phase problems, and work difficulties. I believe in the value of the individual, and consider therapy a partnership between myself and my clients, with the goal of a more balanced, fulfilling life for my clients.
I have been in practice since 1984. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and families on a variety of issues. Among these are marital and family issues, relationship issues, depression and anxiety, spiritual concerns, life phase problems, and work difficulties. I believe in the value of the individual, and consider therapy a partnership between myself and my clients, with the goal of a more balanced, fulfilling life for my clients.
Sarah Currie
Counselor, PhD, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
Hello and welcome. I’m Sarah, a therapist committed to guiding you through life’s challenges, be it grief, relationship issues, depression, anxiety, or life transitions. Your journey towards healing and self-discovery is a courageous step. You are ready to be curious about yourself, to cultivate self-awareness, and begin the fulfilling work of becoming more whole and healed. Together, we can unlock the freedom and new paths that await you on the other side of this process.
Hello and welcome. I’m Sarah, a therapist committed to guiding you through life’s challenges, be it grief, relationship issues, depression, anxiety, or life transitions. Your journey towards healing and self-discovery is a courageous step. You are ready to be curious about yourself, to cultivate self-awareness, and begin the fulfilling work of becoming more whole and healed. Together, we can unlock the freedom and new paths that await you on the other side of this process.
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Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
I am a Christian Counselor and recognize that people come to counseling for a variety of reasons including personal problems, relationship struggles, spiritual issues, and addictions. I want to hear your story and walk with you towards healing and hope. An important part of this process is developing a relationship of trust and safety. I am committed to providing professional care and counsel that is marked by compassion and is free from judgment.
I am a Christian Counselor and recognize that people come to counseling for a variety of reasons including personal problems, relationship struggles, spiritual issues, and addictions. I want to hear your story and walk with you towards healing and hope. An important part of this process is developing a relationship of trust and safety. I am committed to providing professional care and counsel that is marked by compassion and is free from judgment.
Joseph Lefcoski
Psychological Associate, LPA-HSP, MA
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
Experience, experience, experience. As a psychologist with over 35 years serving adults, children, adolescents, couples, and families, I understand that "well begun is half done" which points to the importance of respecting each individual's unique starting point in therapy. I have a distinct health orientation based in science which suggests that most emotional distress is ultimately stress-related. Therefore, emotional balance and well-being is inherently available to most individuals. Ultimately, most of us find that quality emotional work pays off.
Experience, experience, experience. As a psychologist with over 35 years serving adults, children, adolescents, couples, and families, I understand that "well begun is half done" which points to the importance of respecting each individual's unique starting point in therapy. I have a distinct health orientation based in science which suggests that most emotional distress is ultimately stress-related. Therefore, emotional balance and well-being is inherently available to most individuals. Ultimately, most of us find that quality emotional work pays off.
Donna Renee Adams
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
My ideal client would be anyone who would be interested in aspiring to be all that they were made to be. I would like to help you be intentional about your mental health and your relationships. I can help you learn ways to deal with your anxiety, depression and process any grief that you may be going through. I would like to work with you to help you have a better marriage or to be a more intentional parent. I have enjoyed working with teenagers for years and I also enjoy working with all aged adults. If you find yourself in some kind of struggle and do not know what to do give me a call or email and let's see if I can help.
My ideal client would be anyone who would be interested in aspiring to be all that they were made to be. I would like to help you be intentional about your mental health and your relationships. I can help you learn ways to deal with your anxiety, depression and process any grief that you may be going through. I would like to work with you to help you have a better marriage or to be a more intentional parent. I have enjoyed working with teenagers for years and I also enjoy working with all aged adults. If you find yourself in some kind of struggle and do not know what to do give me a call or email and let's see if I can help.
Jim Snyder
Counselor, MS, MA, LCMHC, LCMHCS, CSAT-C
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
I enjoy helping men, women, their marriages, and their families. While I specialize in individual and marriages, I do provide counseling to all who pass through our doors. Sometimes women need a male's perspective on things, while kids may need an outside adult figure to get a different perspective or role model. I also specialize in helping men overcome masculine passivity, pornography addiction and sexual integrity.
I enjoy helping men, women, their marriages, and their families. While I specialize in individual and marriages, I do provide counseling to all who pass through our doors. Sometimes women need a male's perspective on things, while kids may need an outside adult figure to get a different perspective or role model. I also specialize in helping men overcome masculine passivity, pornography addiction and sexual integrity.
Linda Shaffer
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, EdS, LCAS, MAC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Shelby, NC 28150
Addiction is heart breaking for the patient and their loved ones. We can decide on an avenue for treatment which may be a referral to medical detoxification or inpatient substance abuse centers. If we work together on an outpatient bases, while you stay at home, my clients are willing to dive into the difficult work of changing ideas, behaviors and results in their lives. Engaging in therapy asks that you be willing to take risks and change ideas as well as your actions. I will guide you through the process of exploring your personal goals and the barriers to reaching these goals without the use of mind/mood altering substances.
Addiction is heart breaking for the patient and their loved ones. We can decide on an avenue for treatment which may be a referral to medical detoxification or inpatient substance abuse centers. If we work together on an outpatient bases, while you stay at home, my clients are willing to dive into the difficult work of changing ideas, behaviors and results in their lives. Engaging in therapy asks that you be willing to take risks and change ideas as well as your actions. I will guide you through the process of exploring your personal goals and the barriers to reaching these goals without the use of mind/mood altering substances.
Dimayquoaye Smith
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, ThD, LCAS , SAP
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28151
Hello, My name is Dr. Dimayquoaye Smith, and I have a history of working with men and women in a homeless shelter setting. In addition, I have experince working with adolescents in Addiction, Clients in the criminal justice system, and adults and children who struggle with psychiatric problems such as unresolved grief, trauma, depression, and anxiety complicated by issues of Addiction.
Hello, My name is Dr. Dimayquoaye Smith, and I have a history of working with men and women in a homeless shelter setting. In addition, I have experince working with adolescents in Addiction, Clients in the criminal justice system, and adults and children who struggle with psychiatric problems such as unresolved grief, trauma, depression, and anxiety complicated by issues of Addiction.
Carolyn Little Linder
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CCS
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28152 (Online Only)
We live in very stressful times and I believe we all need help at some point in our life. Things can happen in life that are out of our control and we need help getting our life back on track and feeling normal again. Sometimes we need to know its ok to not be ok. It's ok to seek professional help, whether its because of addiction, family dysfunction, mood disorders, or just someone to talk to. The goal at the end of the day is to feel like you have a sense of purpose, meaning, and direction in life. There is no such thing as a perfect life but you can give yourself permission to stop surviving and start living again.
We live in very stressful times and I believe we all need help at some point in our life. Things can happen in life that are out of our control and we need help getting our life back on track and feeling normal again. Sometimes we need to know its ok to not be ok. It's ok to seek professional help, whether its because of addiction, family dysfunction, mood disorders, or just someone to talk to. The goal at the end of the day is to feel like you have a sense of purpose, meaning, and direction in life. There is no such thing as a perfect life but you can give yourself permission to stop surviving and start living again.
Garrison Counseling Services
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28152
Welcome! Part of the reason you’ve found you’re way here might involve overwhelming anxiety, stress from relationships or school, lack of boundaries, wanting to increase or better your communication skills, work through new transitions or changes in major life “things”, or doing the deeper dives into trauma. We can explore these things together; work on your healing and feeling more like “you”, and allowing me to support you along the way.
Welcome! Part of the reason you’ve found you’re way here might involve overwhelming anxiety, stress from relationships or school, lack of boundaries, wanting to increase or better your communication skills, work through new transitions or changes in major life “things”, or doing the deeper dives into trauma. We can explore these things together; work on your healing and feeling more like “you”, and allowing me to support you along the way.
Arise Emotion and Mental Health, PLLC
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shelby, NC 28152 (Online Only)
In todays world sometimes we need someone to just listen and care about how we are doing. I would love to be that for you. Come into a no-judgement zone and relax as we work together toward a healthier you. Relax, Breath, and Arise renewed. As a Christian counselor we can focus on a spiritual solution; while taking in every day issues learning healthy coping strategies, self-care, Self-worth, and autonomy with healthy boundaries. Come let us Arise!
In todays world sometimes we need someone to just listen and care about how we are doing. I would love to be that for you. Come into a no-judgement zone and relax as we work together toward a healthier you. Relax, Breath, and Arise renewed. As a Christian counselor we can focus on a spiritual solution; while taking in every day issues learning healthy coping strategies, self-care, Self-worth, and autonomy with healthy boundaries. Come let us Arise!
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Couples Counseling Therapists
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.