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Brad Bannister
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Mebane, NC 27302
Waitlist for new clients
With a background in social work and clinical psychology, I have been providing mental health services for more than 20 years. I am trained in Interpersonal Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and various Trauma Specific practices and am experienced in providing therapy to individuals, couples and families. While I am able to see clients presenting with various concerns, my main areas of focus include anxiety, depression, chronic stress, trauma and dealing with life adjustments.
With a background in social work and clinical psychology, I have been providing mental health services for more than 20 years. I am trained in Interpersonal Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and various Trauma Specific practices and am experienced in providing therapy to individuals, couples and families. While I am able to see clients presenting with various concerns, my main areas of focus include anxiety, depression, chronic stress, trauma and dealing with life adjustments.
(984) 206-3585 View (984) 206-3585
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Insight Therapeutic and Wellness Solutions
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHCS, ACS, CCATP, NCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Burlington, NC 27215
We have clinicians who specialize in trauma, anxiety, substance use, couples counseling, and more.
On the outside, it appears you have a great life, but deep down, something is missing. You may feel anxious, guilty, overwhelmed, resentful, exhausted, or empty. You often do not think you're "good enough." Despite your achievements, you expected life to be more fulfilling. You're not living the life you dreamed of and need help figuring out where to begin. You can make a change starting today. You deserve to live a fulfilled and authentic life. We help people like you discover self-care strategies, slow down and reconnect with themselves,
We have clinicians who specialize in trauma, anxiety, substance use, couples counseling, and more.
On the outside, it appears you have a great life, but deep down, something is missing. You may feel anxious, guilty, overwhelmed, resentful, exhausted, or empty. You often do not think you're "good enough." Despite your achievements, you expected life to be more fulfilling. You're not living the life you dreamed of and need help figuring out where to begin. You can make a change starting today. You deserve to live a fulfilled and authentic life. We help people like you discover self-care strategies, slow down and reconnect with themselves,
(336) 792-6267 View (336) 792-6267
Photo of Karen Canada, Licensed Professional Counselor in Alamance County, NC
Karen Canada
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHCS, MS
Verified Verified
Burlington, NC 27215
Throughout my career, I have worked with a range of issues and diagnoses, including anxiety, depression, ADHD, marriage/family/relationship issues, specific phobias, post-traumatic stress disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, grief and loss, self-esteem, and much more.
Stress, anxiety and other difficult emotions may be a normal part of life, but they don't have to be in the driver's seat on life's journey. Through my 25+ years of experience as a counselor and my personal experience of having to reclaim the driver's seat from debilitating anxiety/depression, I have learned the truth behind Marcel Proust's claim that "The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes". It is my goal to help people gain new "eyes" through which to view current or past experiences.
Throughout my career, I have worked with a range of issues and diagnoses, including anxiety, depression, ADHD, marriage/family/relationship issues, specific phobias, post-traumatic stress disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, grief and loss, self-esteem, and much more.
Stress, anxiety and other difficult emotions may be a normal part of life, but they don't have to be in the driver's seat on life's journey. Through my 25+ years of experience as a counselor and my personal experience of having to reclaim the driver's seat from debilitating anxiety/depression, I have learned the truth behind Marcel Proust's claim that "The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes". It is my goal to help people gain new "eyes" through which to view current or past experiences.
(336) 505-4554 View (336) 505-4554
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Emily Basirico
Counselor, LCMHCA, NCC, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burlington, NC 27215
Waitlist for new clients
When I think of counseling, I envision all kinds of people who need all different kinds of support. I strive to be able to provide as many kinds of support as needed for my clients. People might want to explore their past, develop coping skills, learn how to respond to a certain life issue, find a listening ear, or have any other goal that will help them live their best life. My goal as a counselor is to help as many people as I can by promoting their wellness, in whatever way that looks like for that person, in a culturally responsive manner. My clinical interests include grief/loss, relationship issues, and life transitions.
When I think of counseling, I envision all kinds of people who need all different kinds of support. I strive to be able to provide as many kinds of support as needed for my clients. People might want to explore their past, develop coping skills, learn how to respond to a certain life issue, find a listening ear, or have any other goal that will help them live their best life. My goal as a counselor is to help as many people as I can by promoting their wellness, in whatever way that looks like for that person, in a culturally responsive manner. My clinical interests include grief/loss, relationship issues, and life transitions.
(336) 649-4133 View (336) 649-4133
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Grace Counseling and Wellness
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Burlington, NC 27215  (Online Only)
We support couples who want a better relationship.
**Now Accepting New Clients** Our Team offers counseling and encouragement to Couples, Adults and Teens who are experiencing the universal trials of life. Maybe you have felt stuck or overwhelmed by the day-to-day stress that life brings, or have found that your relationship is not going how you thought it would. If this sounds familiar, you are not alone! Counseling can be a catalyst for positive change in your life and relationships.
We support couples who want a better relationship.
**Now Accepting New Clients** Our Team offers counseling and encouragement to Couples, Adults and Teens who are experiencing the universal trials of life. Maybe you have felt stuck or overwhelmed by the day-to-day stress that life brings, or have found that your relationship is not going how you thought it would. If this sounds familiar, you are not alone! Counseling can be a catalyst for positive change in your life and relationships.
(336) 804-8463 View (336) 804-8463
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Lauren King
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burlington, NC 27215
Waitlist for new clients
I enjoy working with a variety of presenting concerns and work with individuals, teens, adults, couples, and families.
Hello! My name is Lauren and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate. Life is a confusing journey we are all on. Everyone needs some help along the way and am grateful for the opportunity I have to be there for my clients as they navigate life's challenges. I help walk alongside my clients to help support and challenge them to grow into the people they desire to be. I strive to create a calm, safe, and collaborative environment when working with clients to help create an individualized treatment plan to best support working towards my client’s goals.
I enjoy working with a variety of presenting concerns and work with individuals, teens, adults, couples, and families.
Hello! My name is Lauren and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate. Life is a confusing journey we are all on. Everyone needs some help along the way and am grateful for the opportunity I have to be there for my clients as they navigate life's challenges. I help walk alongside my clients to help support and challenge them to grow into the people they desire to be. I strive to create a calm, safe, and collaborative environment when working with clients to help create an individualized treatment plan to best support working towards my client’s goals.
(336) 920-8454 View (336) 920-8454
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Gary B. Bailey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CEAP
Verified Verified
Burlington, NC 27217
Waitlist for new clients
I am an EQi- 2.0 certified professional who employs EMDR, and cognitive/behavioral techniques to offer clients concrete tools to address challenges. My research interests include emotional intelligence, enhancing relationship communication in both professional and personal circumstances. Additionally, I can assist with conflict resolution, and empowerment of individuals to achieve their full potential, both professionally and personally.
I am an EQi- 2.0 certified professional who employs EMDR, and cognitive/behavioral techniques to offer clients concrete tools to address challenges. My research interests include emotional intelligence, enhancing relationship communication in both professional and personal circumstances. Additionally, I can assist with conflict resolution, and empowerment of individuals to achieve their full potential, both professionally and personally.
(336) 310-1975 View (336) 310-1975
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Brenda Moore
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Graham, NC 27253  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, difficulty in relationships, low self-worth? Counseling can help you learn tools and coping skills to increase your ability to take back control of your emotions and feelings. Through working with me, you'll learn about communication skills, mindfulness techniques, ways to reduce anxiety and panic attacks. I work with adults - individuals and couples - to help you find ways to build a more positive and productive life.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, difficulty in relationships, low self-worth? Counseling can help you learn tools and coping skills to increase your ability to take back control of your emotions and feelings. Through working with me, you'll learn about communication skills, mindfulness techniques, ways to reduce anxiety and panic attacks. I work with adults - individuals and couples - to help you find ways to build a more positive and productive life.
(336) 849-5847 View (336) 849-5847
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Courtney Blackledge
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Mebane, NC 27302  (Online Only)
I work with couples and individual adults.
Life is hard. Intense emotions, life transitions, difficulty with relationships, mental health concerns, trauma, rejection and loneliness; are only a few of the things we can struggle with at any given time. But you don’t have to deal with these issues alone. Counseling can serve as a place for you to process past hurts and life changes, identify unhelpful relationship patterns, find new coping skills and resources for strong emotions or mental health issues, or provide yourself with the ultimate self-care by setting an hour aside to reflect on where you are, where you want to go, and what obstacles are in the way of your goals.
I work with couples and individual adults.
Life is hard. Intense emotions, life transitions, difficulty with relationships, mental health concerns, trauma, rejection and loneliness; are only a few of the things we can struggle with at any given time. But you don’t have to deal with these issues alone. Counseling can serve as a place for you to process past hurts and life changes, identify unhelpful relationship patterns, find new coping skills and resources for strong emotions or mental health issues, or provide yourself with the ultimate self-care by setting an hour aside to reflect on where you are, where you want to go, and what obstacles are in the way of your goals.
(910) 543-3245 View (910) 543-3245
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1 Alliance Counseling & Pyschotherapy Services
Licensed Professional Counselor, JD , MEd, CCCJs, LPC, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burlington, NC 27215
My experience spans disorders, populations and modes of treatment from working with chronically mentally ill to individuals dealing with anxiety, substance abuse, depression, mood disorders, to people wanting to improve communication, coping with loss and trauma, helping couples dealing with relationship issues, developing family and interpersonal relationships to career transitions.
I am passionate about my work and believe in the healing benefits of psychotherapy. I view therapy as a process through which we explore the issues that confront you, place them in a context and develop strategies for change. Engaging in this process not only do we learn new ways of coping or getting "unstuck" but we also develop a more genuine relationship with ourselves, others and the world in general. I am authentic and direct but a considerate therapist who will work with you and assist in empowering you to move forward in meeting your goals with care, compassion and a sense of humor.
My experience spans disorders, populations and modes of treatment from working with chronically mentally ill to individuals dealing with anxiety, substance abuse, depression, mood disorders, to people wanting to improve communication, coping with loss and trauma, helping couples dealing with relationship issues, developing family and interpersonal relationships to career transitions.
I am passionate about my work and believe in the healing benefits of psychotherapy. I view therapy as a process through which we explore the issues that confront you, place them in a context and develop strategies for change. Engaging in this process not only do we learn new ways of coping or getting "unstuck" but we also develop a more genuine relationship with ourselves, others and the world in general. I am authentic and direct but a considerate therapist who will work with you and assist in empowering you to move forward in meeting your goals with care, compassion and a sense of humor.
(678) 726-5675 View (678) 726-5675
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Elizabeth M. Atkinson
Licensed Professional Counselor, BS, MACC, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Elon, NC 27244
Are you ready to give yourself permission to be the 'Adult' you have always wanted to be? Adulting is a choice. Permission to enjoy your life! Permission to be content! Walk in Faith! Taking Life on Life's Terms. I work with individuals/couples to find new ways to open up to a life of peace/joy. Women who can't get past their relationships with their mothers, children who are overwhelmed and families who just need help/direction. Experience with Group work on Sobriety Lifestyles Issue, Coping Skills, Mindfulness & Codependency. Depression and Anxiety can improve with increased self-awareness.
Are you ready to give yourself permission to be the 'Adult' you have always wanted to be? Adulting is a choice. Permission to enjoy your life! Permission to be content! Walk in Faith! Taking Life on Life's Terms. I work with individuals/couples to find new ways to open up to a life of peace/joy. Women who can't get past their relationships with their mothers, children who are overwhelmed and families who just need help/direction. Experience with Group work on Sobriety Lifestyles Issue, Coping Skills, Mindfulness & Codependency. Depression and Anxiety can improve with increased self-awareness.
(336) 554-7425 View (336) 554-7425
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Vanessa York
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Burlington, NC 27215
I have experience counseling adolescents, women, families, and couples regarding stress, anxiety, depression, communication, trauma, grief, career, and marital counseling.
When life leaves you feeling stressed, overwhelmed, and hurt, you do not have to go through it alone.Therapy can help you heal and find peace. I want to help you bring about change in those areas in life that you are struggling with and guide you to a healthier way to live. It is my desire to minister and counsel with a holistic mindset; mind, heart, body & soul.
I have experience counseling adolescents, women, families, and couples regarding stress, anxiety, depression, communication, trauma, grief, career, and marital counseling.
When life leaves you feeling stressed, overwhelmed, and hurt, you do not have to go through it alone.Therapy can help you heal and find peace. I want to help you bring about change in those areas in life that you are struggling with and guide you to a healthier way to live. It is my desire to minister and counsel with a holistic mindset; mind, heart, body & soul.
(336) 652-3076 View (336) 652-3076
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Carla McNeil
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Burlington, NC 27215  (Online Only)
Are you dealing with depression? Is anxiety keeping you from reaching your full potential? Is anger getting in the way of relationships? Are you in the need for an unbiased third party for couples counseling? I also specialize in acute trauma and ADHD. I work with children, adolescents and adults. Life is all about change whether we want it or not. Life can be difficult at many phases. I will assist you in discovering your strengths and supports and how to use them to solve problems in your life. Are you ready to focus on the solution?
Are you dealing with depression? Is anxiety keeping you from reaching your full potential? Is anger getting in the way of relationships? Are you in the need for an unbiased third party for couples counseling? I also specialize in acute trauma and ADHD. I work with children, adolescents and adults. Life is all about change whether we want it or not. Life can be difficult at many phases. I will assist you in discovering your strengths and supports and how to use them to solve problems in your life. Are you ready to focus on the solution?
(336) 221-3298 View (336) 221-3298
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Beth Colomb Kincaid
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MEd, NCC, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Burlington, NC 27215
I strive to provide a private, informal and comfortable office setting where my clients can expect to be treated with respect and dignity while facing life's challenges. I work with children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples. Some of my interests include: Self esteem, career/work, aging, stress and anger management, women's issues, eating disorders, addiction, conduct disorders, obsessive compulsive disorders, life coaching, assertiveness training, parenting and relationship skills, marital, pre-marital or divorce issues, depression, anxiety, grief/loss, dependency; emotional, sexual and physical abuse, trauma and ADHD.
I strive to provide a private, informal and comfortable office setting where my clients can expect to be treated with respect and dignity while facing life's challenges. I work with children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples. Some of my interests include: Self esteem, career/work, aging, stress and anger management, women's issues, eating disorders, addiction, conduct disorders, obsessive compulsive disorders, life coaching, assertiveness training, parenting and relationship skills, marital, pre-marital or divorce issues, depression, anxiety, grief/loss, dependency; emotional, sexual and physical abuse, trauma and ADHD.
(336) 396-2139 View (336) 396-2139
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Dortch Mann
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Burlington, NC 27215
I'm particularly interested in helping individuals and couples build resilience and effectiveness in addressing the challenges of change.
We are currently in very stressful times. In our work together, you will be preparing to navigate through difficult challenges. We will build up your resilience. Resilience allows us to accept the difficulty of the situation and bolsters our belief that we can grow into the people we need to be to meet the challenge. Whether you're a young adult headed for autonomy, a parent supporting a young person's growth, a couple embarking on a life together or needing to remember "why" you're a couple, or an individual ready to "rethink, re-orient, and re-evaluate", this is your opportunity to prepare for the journey.
I'm particularly interested in helping individuals and couples build resilience and effectiveness in addressing the challenges of change.
We are currently in very stressful times. In our work together, you will be preparing to navigate through difficult challenges. We will build up your resilience. Resilience allows us to accept the difficulty of the situation and bolsters our belief that we can grow into the people we need to be to meet the challenge. Whether you're a young adult headed for autonomy, a parent supporting a young person's growth, a couple embarking on a life together or needing to remember "why" you're a couple, or an individual ready to "rethink, re-orient, and re-evaluate", this is your opportunity to prepare for the journey.
(336) 485-4629 View (336) 485-4629
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Imani Brown
Counselor, MS, LCMHC-A
Verified Verified
Burlington, NC 27215  (Online Only)
Do you feel like you have to appear to have it all together when inside you are struggling? You may feel lonely and misunderstood. When you look in the mirror you may not recognize the person looking back at you. Going through the motions of everyday life feels exhausting. You’ve been running on autopilot and are headed toward burnout. Relationships may be harder to maintain as well as the relationship with yourself.
Do you feel like you have to appear to have it all together when inside you are struggling? You may feel lonely and misunderstood. When you look in the mirror you may not recognize the person looking back at you. Going through the motions of everyday life feels exhausting. You’ve been running on autopilot and are headed toward burnout. Relationships may be harder to maintain as well as the relationship with yourself.
(336) 948-9709 View (336) 948-9709
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Tovon Hamilton
Counselor, NCC, LCMHCA, LCASA
Verified Verified
Mebane, NC 27302
A renewed mind can change your life! Deciding to seek therapy can be life changing. Counseling should be an experience that allows you to think of your life and circumstances in a way that promotes positive changes. Choosing me as your counselor, I will be your partner dedicated to providing unconditional positive regard, and empathetic listening, to guide you on your journey of lasting change for a brighter, and happier future.
A renewed mind can change your life! Deciding to seek therapy can be life changing. Counseling should be an experience that allows you to think of your life and circumstances in a way that promotes positive changes. Choosing me as your counselor, I will be your partner dedicated to providing unconditional positive regard, and empathetic listening, to guide you on your journey of lasting change for a brighter, and happier future.
(919) 429-8656 View (919) 429-8656
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Ciera M. Stewart
Counselor, MS, LCMHC-A, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burlington, NC 27215
Waitlist for new clients
I have experience working with individuals, couples and families struggling with childhood trauma, family/relationship conflict, boundaries, communication issues, grief and life transitions.
What’s stopping you from being free? Yes, I know, everything happens for a reason but how you grow from that anxiety, that depression, or family conflict you have and are experiencing is completely up to you. Now is the time to move from just existing to truly living. Sometimes in life, because of hardships that we face or people that we are connected to, we lose focus on being the best version of ourselves, but through therapy we can explore that process. I would love to be a part of your journey to total healing.
I have experience working with individuals, couples and families struggling with childhood trauma, family/relationship conflict, boundaries, communication issues, grief and life transitions.
What’s stopping you from being free? Yes, I know, everything happens for a reason but how you grow from that anxiety, that depression, or family conflict you have and are experiencing is completely up to you. Now is the time to move from just existing to truly living. Sometimes in life, because of hardships that we face or people that we are connected to, we lose focus on being the best version of ourselves, but through therapy we can explore that process. I would love to be a part of your journey to total healing.
(336) 396-7650 View (336) 396-7650
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Kristin Hammond
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Burlington, NC 27215
Hello! It's great to meet you! My name is Kristin Hammond, and I am a licensed clinical social worker with over 23 years of clinical experience working with adults, couples, and some adolescence. I work with many issues, including anxiety, health anxiety, panic, depression, life stressors, family dysfunction, relationship issues, self-esteem, and other emotional and behavioral issues. I mainly draw from Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Holistic, Mindfulness-Based (MBCT), Solution Focused Brief (SFBT), and Supportive therapies. I believe one of the biggest keys to success in treatment is having a connection with your therapist.
Hello! It's great to meet you! My name is Kristin Hammond, and I am a licensed clinical social worker with over 23 years of clinical experience working with adults, couples, and some adolescence. I work with many issues, including anxiety, health anxiety, panic, depression, life stressors, family dysfunction, relationship issues, self-esteem, and other emotional and behavioral issues. I mainly draw from Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Holistic, Mindfulness-Based (MBCT), Solution Focused Brief (SFBT), and Supportive therapies. I believe one of the biggest keys to success in treatment is having a connection with your therapist.
(336) 999-6951 View (336) 999-6951
Photo of Katherine R Pettaway in Alamance County, NC
Katherine R Pettaway
MS, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burlington, NC 27215
I look forward to having the opportunity to build a healthy therapeutic relationship that results in the growth and healing that you are seeking.
Effective conflict resolution has been a repetitive attribute that I have continued to strengthen within the last 20+ years. I always strive to find an efficient and effective way to resolve conflict so that all parties affected can walk away with a little more clarity and understanding as well as with the desire to want to bring resolution to the issue or issues at hand. I pride myself on treating people the way I want to be treated as well as listening thoroughly with empathy, compassion and an open-mind.
I look forward to having the opportunity to build a healthy therapeutic relationship that results in the growth and healing that you are seeking.
Effective conflict resolution has been a repetitive attribute that I have continued to strengthen within the last 20+ years. I always strive to find an efficient and effective way to resolve conflict so that all parties affected can walk away with a little more clarity and understanding as well as with the desire to want to bring resolution to the issue or issues at hand. I pride myself on treating people the way I want to be treated as well as listening thoroughly with empathy, compassion and an open-mind.
(919) 343-5311 View (919) 343-5311

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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.