Couples Counseling Therapists in Hawaii

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Kokua MHW Group
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96813
Our philosophy for treatment rests on the belief that the therapeutic relationship is the preeminent vehicle for a corrective emotional experience. We approach our work as both facilitators and partners who will guide you through areas of struggle and explore solutions to work through the challenging moments and empower healing.
Our philosophy for treatment rests on the belief that the therapeutic relationship is the preeminent vehicle for a corrective emotional experience. We approach our work as both facilitators and partners who will guide you through areas of struggle and explore solutions to work through the challenging moments and empower healing.
(808) 201-1078 View (808) 201-1078
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Scott Whelchel - Ascend Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Kahului, HI 96732
I strive to provide comprehensive psychotherapy services to Maui and surrounding neighbor islands. I am a highly trained Marriage and Family Therapist who is goal oriented, flexible, responsive, and empathetic. I use proven, science-based best practices, incorporated with solution-focused, positive psychology methods to identify, highlight, and build upon the strengths my clients already inherently possess in order to address their needs, goals and desires. I am honored to treat all people regardless of ethnicity, gender, age, or sexual orientation. I offer individual, couples, family therapy, and combinations thereof.
I strive to provide comprehensive psychotherapy services to Maui and surrounding neighbor islands. I am a highly trained Marriage and Family Therapist who is goal oriented, flexible, responsive, and empathetic. I use proven, science-based best practices, incorporated with solution-focused, positive psychology methods to identify, highlight, and build upon the strengths my clients already inherently possess in order to address their needs, goals and desires. I am honored to treat all people regardless of ethnicity, gender, age, or sexual orientation. I offer individual, couples, family therapy, and combinations thereof.
(808) 427-0110 View (808) 427-0110
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Gary Norman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wahiawa, HI 96786
Aloha! I'm Gary I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and I've been practicing therapy for over 25 years. I am committed to partnering with you on your path to healing and growth. You know yourself better than anyone else on this planet. You know your strengths (yes, we all have them) and your limitations (yes, we all have them). We have all been challenged while living in this world. I provide a trusting environment and build our therapeutic relationship by unpacking your situation at a pace comfortable to you.
Aloha! I'm Gary I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and I've been practicing therapy for over 25 years. I am committed to partnering with you on your path to healing and growth. You know yourself better than anyone else on this planet. You know your strengths (yes, we all have them) and your limitations (yes, we all have them). We have all been challenged while living in this world. I provide a trusting environment and build our therapeutic relationship by unpacking your situation at a pace comfortable to you.
(808) 215-6796 View (808) 215-6796
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Rosey Strong
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
Hilo, HI 96720  (Online Only)
Hello! (: My practice is geared towards a holistic view of who you are. Our thoughts, feelings, actions and past events all come into play in our current lives. Sometimes they are difficult to handle alone. Are you ready to start the work and truly heal yourself? Our Clinicians use a mixture of movement, inner child work, memory retrieval, journaling, meditation, and other techniques to truly understand and heal the individual Self. We also have extensive experience working with children, families, couples and difficult behaviors in youth. We work to support what is needed in the family or individually.
Hello! (: My practice is geared towards a holistic view of who you are. Our thoughts, feelings, actions and past events all come into play in our current lives. Sometimes they are difficult to handle alone. Are you ready to start the work and truly heal yourself? Our Clinicians use a mixture of movement, inner child work, memory retrieval, journaling, meditation, and other techniques to truly understand and heal the individual Self. We also have extensive experience working with children, families, couples and difficult behaviors in youth. We work to support what is needed in the family or individually.
(808) 353-5750 View (808) 353-5750
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Satoko Miki-O'Donovan
Counselor, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Makawao, HI 96768
With couples, I work on strengthening their bond by applying EFT which is an attachment-based therapy.
Are you feeling like losing a sense of direction or are stuck? Many things change in life and it can be extremely difficult to feel adequately in control during the transition. Take a moment now to consider the positive impact counseling can have - no matter where you are in your journey - and that you don't have to be altogether depleted to benefit from it. Counseling is a dynamic, educational process that teaches you tools to help you feel more healthy and balanced. Remember, it's healthy to seek help for yourself. Actually, it's a sign of strength to take care of your needs!
With couples, I work on strengthening their bond by applying EFT which is an attachment-based therapy.
Are you feeling like losing a sense of direction or are stuck? Many things change in life and it can be extremely difficult to feel adequately in control during the transition. Take a moment now to consider the positive impact counseling can have - no matter where you are in your journey - and that you don't have to be altogether depleted to benefit from it. Counseling is a dynamic, educational process that teaches you tools to help you feel more healthy and balanced. Remember, it's healthy to seek help for yourself. Actually, it's a sign of strength to take care of your needs!
(808) 518-4950 View (808) 518-4950
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Jennifer Kirkland
Psychologist, LCP
Verified Verified
Wailuku, HI 96793
Hi, this is Jennifer Kirkland, Ph.D. I am a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of clinical experience. I partner with each person I work with to create a space of warmth and acceptance so we can work together to create for you a better life. I use a strength-based approach and embrace issues of identity and diversity in the process. I use positive, narrative techniques and evidence-based methods as the foundations for change.
Hi, this is Jennifer Kirkland, Ph.D. I am a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of clinical experience. I partner with each person I work with to create a space of warmth and acceptance so we can work together to create for you a better life. I use a strength-based approach and embrace issues of identity and diversity in the process. I use positive, narrative techniques and evidence-based methods as the foundations for change.
(808) 731-1427 View (808) 731-1427
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Dr. Danielle Zandbergen
Counselor, LMHC, LPC, PhD
Verified Verified
Hilo, HI 96720  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Whether you are seeking ways to strengthen your relationship to self or others, or experience growth in your development and well-being, I am here to help you navigate these issues and more. I specialize in adolescent and adult therapy with an emphasis on anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationship and identity concerns. I have worked in school-based settings, child welfare, foster and adoptive care, residential care, and private practice. I work primarily with individuals, but also enjoy working with couples whether it be premarital or marital counseling.
Whether you are seeking ways to strengthen your relationship to self or others, or experience growth in your development and well-being, I am here to help you navigate these issues and more. I specialize in adolescent and adult therapy with an emphasis on anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationship and identity concerns. I have worked in school-based settings, child welfare, foster and adoptive care, residential care, and private practice. I work primarily with individuals, but also enjoy working with couples whether it be premarital or marital counseling.
(808) 649-3454 View (808) 649-3454
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Karla Kim-Gomes
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Waipahu, HI 96797
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and enjoy working with individuals, couples and families.
We all experience challenging and sometimes overwhelming periods in life. While turning to friends, family, or faith is often helpful in navigating life's paths, we also benefit from a trained ear that can listen from the outside. Therapy is a safe place for exploration; a journey towards more fulfilling relationships, a greater sense of emotional, mental & spiritual well-being as well as increased self-esteem. Our work together will provide you with the support, guidance and the tools you will need to reach your goals.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and enjoy working with individuals, couples and families.
We all experience challenging and sometimes overwhelming periods in life. While turning to friends, family, or faith is often helpful in navigating life's paths, we also benefit from a trained ear that can listen from the outside. Therapy is a safe place for exploration; a journey towards more fulfilling relationships, a greater sense of emotional, mental & spiritual well-being as well as increased self-esteem. Our work together will provide you with the support, guidance and the tools you will need to reach your goals.
(808) 495-0154 View (808) 495-0154
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Christina Lu
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96813
"As one of the clinical psychologists at Hawaii Counseling and Wellness Center, Dr. Lu works with clients of all ages, through individual, couples, and family therapy. Depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues are among her clinical specialties. Dr. Lu has training in couples and family as well as emotion focused models. Dr. Lu utilizes an integrative approach to therapy that incorporates relational, cognitive behavioral, and strength based methods actively tailored to the individual, couple, or family."
"As one of the clinical psychologists at Hawaii Counseling and Wellness Center, Dr. Lu works with clients of all ages, through individual, couples, and family therapy. Depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues are among her clinical specialties. Dr. Lu has training in couples and family as well as emotion focused models. Dr. Lu utilizes an integrative approach to therapy that incorporates relational, cognitive behavioral, and strength based methods actively tailored to the individual, couple, or family."
(808) 369-9869 View (808) 369-9869
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Jillian Lommori
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT
Verified Verified
Kihei, HI 96753  (Online Only)
I believe that a safe, supportive and strong therapeutic relationship is vital to creating meaningful change. If you are interested in scheduling a consultation to see if we might be a good fit, I'd love to connect with you. Please feel free to call or email. For more information about me and my practice, please visit my website at the link below.
I believe that a safe, supportive and strong therapeutic relationship is vital to creating meaningful change. If you are interested in scheduling a consultation to see if we might be a good fit, I'd love to connect with you. Please feel free to call or email. For more information about me and my practice, please visit my website at the link below.
(808) 855-6596 View (808) 855-6596
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Cassandra J Castillo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Kailua Kona, HI 96740
Hello! My name is Cassandra "Cassie" Castillo and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who's goal is to create a space where you can feel heard and validated. I use a person-centered approach that looks at you as a whole person. I believe healing starts first and foremost with yourself. Using collaboration within the therapeutic relationship, my approach helps to guide you to becoming more aware of the best version that you can be.
Hello! My name is Cassandra "Cassie" Castillo and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who's goal is to create a space where you can feel heard and validated. I use a person-centered approach that looks at you as a whole person. I believe healing starts first and foremost with yourself. Using collaboration within the therapeutic relationship, my approach helps to guide you to becoming more aware of the best version that you can be.
(516) 973-0768 View (516) 973-0768
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Cherezade Aanya
MA
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96821  (Online Only)
Women have a complex and multi-layered relationship to their bodies - layers of shaming and conditioning around our body image, self-worth, sexuality, pleasure, menstruation, menopause, pregnancy, ageing, motherhood, and so much more. Women also carry immense pain within their wombs related to infertility, pregnancy loss through miscarriage and abortion, sexual violation and assault, medical procedures, and through internalized misogyny- all of which have a great impact on our body, minds, and souls. Feeling safe, vital, and connected to both yourself and others is your birthright. Deeply loving your body and womanhood is possible.
Women have a complex and multi-layered relationship to their bodies - layers of shaming and conditioning around our body image, self-worth, sexuality, pleasure, menstruation, menopause, pregnancy, ageing, motherhood, and so much more. Women also carry immense pain within their wombs related to infertility, pregnancy loss through miscarriage and abortion, sexual violation and assault, medical procedures, and through internalized misogyny- all of which have a great impact on our body, minds, and souls. Feeling safe, vital, and connected to both yourself and others is your birthright. Deeply loving your body and womanhood is possible.
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Teresa Torres-Johnson
Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Kaneohe, HI 96744
My name is Teresa Torres-Johnson, I have over thirteen years of experience working with issues such as anxiety disorder, substance abuse, addiction, PTSD, autism, LGBTQIA+, stress, and couples counseling. I was a teacher for some years and worked with counseling adolescents to geriatrics. In my years of experience, I worked with ages 11 years to 70 years old. I worked with adolescents in the school system and military personnel dealing with PTSD, addiction, and relationship issues. I have worked with the LGBTQIA community dealing with family and community issues.
My name is Teresa Torres-Johnson, I have over thirteen years of experience working with issues such as anxiety disorder, substance abuse, addiction, PTSD, autism, LGBTQIA+, stress, and couples counseling. I was a teacher for some years and worked with counseling adolescents to geriatrics. In my years of experience, I worked with ages 11 years to 70 years old. I worked with adolescents in the school system and military personnel dealing with PTSD, addiction, and relationship issues. I have worked with the LGBTQIA community dealing with family and community issues.
(808) 563-4842 View (808) 563-4842
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Kim Haebo Soito
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96815  (Online Only)
I practice teaching and supporting individuals to have a healthy relationship with themselves as well as others.
I specialize in supporting clients' who struggle with issues surrounding lack of self-esteem, trust issues, and purpose in life. I will genuinely listen to them and hear their concerns. I will work with the clients to gain an understanding of their goals and will help find solutions for their concerns.
I practice teaching and supporting individuals to have a healthy relationship with themselves as well as others.
I specialize in supporting clients' who struggle with issues surrounding lack of self-esteem, trust issues, and purpose in life. I will genuinely listen to them and hear their concerns. I will work with the clients to gain an understanding of their goals and will help find solutions for their concerns.
(808) 670-1312 View (808) 670-1312
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Maita Marks
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAC
Verified Verified
Aiea, HI 96701
I completed Levels 1-3 of Gottman Method for couples.
Aloha! My approach in therapy is client-centred and collaborative. I treat my clients with utmost respect and without judgment. I believe in the strengths of the clients and validate those strengths to help him or her navigate through life able to manage their emotions and thought processes. I am here to guide and assist clients to make their own informed decisions and empower them.
I completed Levels 1-3 of Gottman Method for couples.
Aloha! My approach in therapy is client-centred and collaborative. I treat my clients with utmost respect and without judgment. I believe in the strengths of the clients and validate those strengths to help him or her navigate through life able to manage their emotions and thought processes. I am here to guide and assist clients to make their own informed decisions and empower them.
(808) 862-2822 View (808) 862-2822
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Renee E Rokero
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96814
Ready to split? Are you stuck in relationship ambivalence and just can't decide whether to stay or leave? Want to learn how to live and love with purpose? Before you breakup, divorce or go your separate way, try my unique program called Individual/Couples Counseling and Relationship Boot Camp. Most relationships or marriages need help and an immediate shot in the arm. It could be seen as your last shot to mending a broken connection or as relationship maintenance. Are you ready to experience a new sense of well-being, dignity and empowerment? If so, I can help you.
Ready to split? Are you stuck in relationship ambivalence and just can't decide whether to stay or leave? Want to learn how to live and love with purpose? Before you breakup, divorce or go your separate way, try my unique program called Individual/Couples Counseling and Relationship Boot Camp. Most relationships or marriages need help and an immediate shot in the arm. It could be seen as your last shot to mending a broken connection or as relationship maintenance. Are you ready to experience a new sense of well-being, dignity and empowerment? If so, I can help you.
(808) 282-9045 View (808) 282-9045
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Sissi Tran
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Kailua, HI 96734
I provide a culturally sensitive, safe, and supportive environment for children, adolescents, individuals, couples and families to address issues related to grief, loss, anxiety, depression, communication, relationships, spiritual direction, child behavior, or parenting concerns.
Do you feel overwhelmed by the changes in your life? Are you at a point where you are trying so hard but still feel stuck? With over 10 years of practice as a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, my passion is to collaborate with my clients to discover effective coping strategies, move from a place of dissatisfaction or unhappiness in their life and arrive at a place of overall wellness with hope, joy, peace, and purpose.
I provide a culturally sensitive, safe, and supportive environment for children, adolescents, individuals, couples and families to address issues related to grief, loss, anxiety, depression, communication, relationships, spiritual direction, child behavior, or parenting concerns.
Do you feel overwhelmed by the changes in your life? Are you at a point where you are trying so hard but still feel stuck? With over 10 years of practice as a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, my passion is to collaborate with my clients to discover effective coping strategies, move from a place of dissatisfaction or unhappiness in their life and arrive at a place of overall wellness with hope, joy, peace, and purpose.
(661) 797-4829 View (661) 797-4829
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Ki Eun Jeon
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC, LPCC
Verified Verified
Kailua Kona, HI 96740
한국어를 아주 잘함  (Fluent in Korean). One of my greatest strengths as a counselor is my ability to always hold hope for my clients as I walk alongside them in the process of their healing. I use a humanistic approach to create a safe environment built upon warmth, acceptance, and respect, free of judgment. My clients find that they are able to trust in our therapeutic relationship and appreciate my ability to be present, reflect genuine care, and truly listen.
한국어를 아주 잘함  (Fluent in Korean). One of my greatest strengths as a counselor is my ability to always hold hope for my clients as I walk alongside them in the process of their healing. I use a humanistic approach to create a safe environment built upon warmth, acceptance, and respect, free of judgment. My clients find that they are able to trust in our therapeutic relationship and appreciate my ability to be present, reflect genuine care, and truly listen.
(808) 862-6726 View (808) 862-6726
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Heidi Lahl
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, MFTC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96819  (Online Only)
I believe that we all deserve a safe space to process our experiences, and my primary goal is to provide you that space. I provide a person-centered approach that emphasizes helping my clients build self-compassion, as I believe that it is only from a place of self-compassion that we can feel grounded within ourselves enough to develop a compassionate relationship with others around us. My approach is warm, down-to-earth, trauma informed, and practical, and I believe that we are all on a healing journey and see myself as a fellow traveler. It is an honor to walk by your side.
I believe that we all deserve a safe space to process our experiences, and my primary goal is to provide you that space. I provide a person-centered approach that emphasizes helping my clients build self-compassion, as I believe that it is only from a place of self-compassion that we can feel grounded within ourselves enough to develop a compassionate relationship with others around us. My approach is warm, down-to-earth, trauma informed, and practical, and I believe that we are all on a healing journey and see myself as a fellow traveler. It is an honor to walk by your side.
(808) 201-4650 View (808) 201-4650
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Carol l Nowak
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Kaneohe, HI 96744  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in working with adults, adolescents, and children in individual, couples and family therapy. I primarily use a psychodynamic, interpersonal, and family systems approach. Having been in practice for more than 25 years, I have a well rounded and broad background of experience which includes working with all types of clients of all ages with many varying presenting issues. Clients who are best suited for my practice want to become more aware of their issues as they relate to the underlying patterns and dynamics that replicate again and again and cause dysfunction in their lives.
I specialize in working with adults, adolescents, and children in individual, couples and family therapy. I primarily use a psychodynamic, interpersonal, and family systems approach. Having been in practice for more than 25 years, I have a well rounded and broad background of experience which includes working with all types of clients of all ages with many varying presenting issues. Clients who are best suited for my practice want to become more aware of their issues as they relate to the underlying patterns and dynamics that replicate again and again and cause dysfunction in their lives.
(808) 664-4929 View (808) 664-4929
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.