Couples Counseling Therapists in Hawaii

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Therapeutic Eating, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kailua, HI 96734
Aloha, my name is Katie Trussell and I'm the creator of Therapeutic Eating. Nothing catastrophic has to warrant seeking a therapist, you get to be here just because. I work with individuals, couples/couples issues, and teens. I specialize in addiction, anxiety, depression and women's issues including lifestyle modifications. I help to bring comfort to the discomfort and cultivate safety where there's survival. I'll help you improve your self dialogue and hone honesty which is the root of recovery. I provide the attention & trust you deserve and encourage you toward cultivating long term contentment.
Aloha, my name is Katie Trussell and I'm the creator of Therapeutic Eating. Nothing catastrophic has to warrant seeking a therapist, you get to be here just because. I work with individuals, couples/couples issues, and teens. I specialize in addiction, anxiety, depression and women's issues including lifestyle modifications. I help to bring comfort to the discomfort and cultivate safety where there's survival. I'll help you improve your self dialogue and hone honesty which is the root of recovery. I provide the attention & trust you deserve and encourage you toward cultivating long term contentment.
(808) 215-5938 View (808) 215-5938
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Melissa Stevens
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Kapolei, HI 96707
I have found my style and approach are a good fit for young adults who may be dealing with the challenges of life transitions, relationship issues, communication, substance abuse, and struggles with their mental health.
Aloha and Welcome. My name is Melissa Stevens, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Mental Health counselor based in Hawaii. I also hold a certificate as a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor. My approach focuses on the individual, the strengths of the individual, and their goals. Together, we will work collaboratively and learn how to navigate and work through the struggles you have encountered in order to heal, gain strength, and move towards a healthier future. This provider resides in Hawaii.
I have found my style and approach are a good fit for young adults who may be dealing with the challenges of life transitions, relationship issues, communication, substance abuse, and struggles with their mental health.
Aloha and Welcome. My name is Melissa Stevens, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Mental Health counselor based in Hawaii. I also hold a certificate as a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor. My approach focuses on the individual, the strengths of the individual, and their goals. Together, we will work collaboratively and learn how to navigate and work through the struggles you have encountered in order to heal, gain strength, and move towards a healthier future. This provider resides in Hawaii.
(808) 460-6561 View (808) 460-6561
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Dr. Michael K. Quong
Psychologist, PsyD, MA, MSCJA
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96821
Your best days are yet to come! I can help. I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years’ experience. I work with adults, children, and families experiencing a variety of challenges including: anxiety, depression, ADHD, stages of grief, relationship issues, or adjusting to life changes and daily stressors.
Your best days are yet to come! I can help. I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years’ experience. I work with adults, children, and families experiencing a variety of challenges including: anxiety, depression, ADHD, stages of grief, relationship issues, or adjusting to life changes and daily stressors.
(808) 518-3479 View (808) 518-3479
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Catherine Long
Marriage & Family Therapist, EdD, LMFT, CSAC, ICADC
Verified Verified
Kapaa, HI 96746
My experiences include Domestic/Family Violence, Substance Abuse/Addiction, Relationship and Partner conflicts, Parental and Family challenges and Mediation for Custody and Visitation Plans.
We were brought into this world to have relationships and sometimes conflicts surface where we are unsure of how to respond or manage these situations. We all need support and a hand to guide us to healthier and more successful, peaceful experiences with ourselves, our family members, in our marriage or with our partner, and/or children.
My experiences include Domestic/Family Violence, Substance Abuse/Addiction, Relationship and Partner conflicts, Parental and Family challenges and Mediation for Custody and Visitation Plans.
We were brought into this world to have relationships and sometimes conflicts surface where we are unsure of how to respond or manage these situations. We all need support and a hand to guide us to healthier and more successful, peaceful experiences with ourselves, our family members, in our marriage or with our partner, and/or children.
(808) 419-7258 View (808) 419-7258
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Heavenly Counsel
MA, LMHC, LPC, IMFT, CSAC
Verified Verified
Waipahu, HI 96797
Contact me to begin that collaborative regenerative relationship.
Do you find yourself burdened with repetitive thoughts of “Why can’t I escape my past?” or you can’t seem to escape the guilt or shame associated with a past traumatic event? Do you find it nearly impossible to find peace? These very things rob us daily from experiencing joy, confidence, happiness, peace, and healthy relationships. Relationships are my passion, especially those concerning individuals suffering from issues related to communication, addiction, sexual abuse, loss of identity, intimacy, marriage/divorce, depression, and broken trust. Each individual, in my opinion, is unique and my approach is tailored case specific.
Contact me to begin that collaborative regenerative relationship.
Do you find yourself burdened with repetitive thoughts of “Why can’t I escape my past?” or you can’t seem to escape the guilt or shame associated with a past traumatic event? Do you find it nearly impossible to find peace? These very things rob us daily from experiencing joy, confidence, happiness, peace, and healthy relationships. Relationships are my passion, especially those concerning individuals suffering from issues related to communication, addiction, sexual abuse, loss of identity, intimacy, marriage/divorce, depression, and broken trust. Each individual, in my opinion, is unique and my approach is tailored case specific.
(808) 698-7862 View (808) 698-7862
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Angeliz Lee
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Wailuku, HI 96793
I also work with families and couples.
My name is Angeliz Lee, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the states of Hawaii, Texas, and Florida with 15 years of experience. I work mostly from a Solution-focused and Cognitive Behavioral therapy approach to help you achieve your goals. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming what is challenging you. My approach to therapy depends on my clients and what they are coming to therapy for. I mostly work from a solution-focused approach and a Cognitive Behavioral approach.
I also work with families and couples.
My name is Angeliz Lee, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the states of Hawaii, Texas, and Florida with 15 years of experience. I work mostly from a Solution-focused and Cognitive Behavioral therapy approach to help you achieve your goals. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming what is challenging you. My approach to therapy depends on my clients and what they are coming to therapy for. I mostly work from a solution-focused approach and a Cognitive Behavioral approach.
(808) 201-4177 View (808) 201-4177
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Laurie Ann Sanford
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96817  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
it is an honor to work helping individuals and couples' to access their intrinsic growth potential.
Aloha my name is Laurie Sanford. I have worked as a clinician for over 30 years, 15 of which has been as a clinical psychologist.I have been priviledged to teach in a doctoral clinical psychology program as well as to provide in-training psychotherapy to psychiatry residents at Tripler Army Medical Center. I specialize in individual and couples' therapy. My work is informed by training at the Stone Center at Wellesley College and at Harvard Medical School, where I was supervised by Trauma expert, Dr. Judith Herman. I have practices in San Diego California and Honolulu Hawaii.
it is an honor to work helping individuals and couples' to access their intrinsic growth potential.
Aloha my name is Laurie Sanford. I have worked as a clinician for over 30 years, 15 of which has been as a clinical psychologist.I have been priviledged to teach in a doctoral clinical psychology program as well as to provide in-training psychotherapy to psychiatry residents at Tripler Army Medical Center. I specialize in individual and couples' therapy. My work is informed by training at the Stone Center at Wellesley College and at Harvard Medical School, where I was supervised by Trauma expert, Dr. Judith Herman. I have practices in San Diego California and Honolulu Hawaii.
(808) 561-4752 View (808) 561-4752
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Jenna S. Chang
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Kapolei, HI 96709  (Online Only)
Aloha! It is my firm belief for everyone to find the right therapist that fits them in order to be comfortable and empowered to be their best version of self. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I have worked with individuals, couples and families of all ages, genders and cultures. I am committed to supporting my clients with managing their emotions, overcoming their challenges, and self-discovery to who they want to be. Three words that describe my therapeutic style are compassionate, eclectic and authentic. I bring my presence as a therapist to create a safe and non-judgmental environment where you can express yourself.
Aloha! It is my firm belief for everyone to find the right therapist that fits them in order to be comfortable and empowered to be their best version of self. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I have worked with individuals, couples and families of all ages, genders and cultures. I am committed to supporting my clients with managing their emotions, overcoming their challenges, and self-discovery to who they want to be. Three words that describe my therapeutic style are compassionate, eclectic and authentic. I bring my presence as a therapist to create a safe and non-judgmental environment where you can express yourself.
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Mimi M Chough
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kailua, HI 96734  (Online Only)
I have been helping couples and families find ways to bring calm, relaxation and even FUN back into their lives. Every family is unique and I will help you find your authentic and genuine connection by communicating and interacting in new ways that express your individuality. Through regaining trust and opening up communication families are reducing stress and depression and finding their way back together ... I'd like to show you how. Depression and anxiety are on the rise and can be making a big impact on how your marriage. Learning how to manage stressors and reduce fighting is a game changer, let's get started !
I have been helping couples and families find ways to bring calm, relaxation and even FUN back into their lives. Every family is unique and I will help you find your authentic and genuine connection by communicating and interacting in new ways that express your individuality. Through regaining trust and opening up communication families are reducing stress and depression and finding their way back together ... I'd like to show you how. Depression and anxiety are on the rise and can be making a big impact on how your marriage. Learning how to manage stressors and reduce fighting is a game changer, let's get started !
(808) 353-4850 View (808) 353-4850
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Teresa Lathrop
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96816
I have lived and worked in Hawaii for over 30 years, first working on Kauai, and for the past 25 years on Oahu. I am the first clinically licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State. I specialize in relationship counseling, but have significant experience and expertise in helping those with depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, and parent-adolescent issues. I see individuals, couples, and families in treatment. I am a teacher and supervisor of those studying to become marriage and family therapists. I teach Marriage and Family Therapy at the University of Hawaii.
I have lived and worked in Hawaii for over 30 years, first working on Kauai, and for the past 25 years on Oahu. I am the first clinically licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State. I specialize in relationship counseling, but have significant experience and expertise in helping those with depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, and parent-adolescent issues. I see individuals, couples, and families in treatment. I am a teacher and supervisor of those studying to become marriage and family therapists. I teach Marriage and Family Therapy at the University of Hawaii.
(808) 495-0192 View (808) 495-0192
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Melinda Timmons
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96816  (Online Only)
I am excited to meet new clients and support the growth and stability of individuals, couples and families.
Compassionate and skilled guidance for those struggling to cope with the many stresses of life including: Anxiety, Depression, Difficulty in relationships and Career changes. Twenty years of experience working with Hawaii families and individuals, as well as Foreign Service and Active duty populations. Find ease and connection with family psychotherapy—to include include adult siblings and parents. I am treatment plan driven. My approach is creative and solution-focused based on the needs and goals of each individual or family.
I am excited to meet new clients and support the growth and stability of individuals, couples and families.
Compassionate and skilled guidance for those struggling to cope with the many stresses of life including: Anxiety, Depression, Difficulty in relationships and Career changes. Twenty years of experience working with Hawaii families and individuals, as well as Foreign Service and Active duty populations. Find ease and connection with family psychotherapy—to include include adult siblings and parents. I am treatment plan driven. My approach is creative and solution-focused based on the needs and goals of each individual or family.
(808) 201-2130 View (808) 201-2130
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Jason Hew
LMHC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96816  (Online Only)
Stress, anxiety, relationship conflicts; the list of life's challenges goes on. I will work with you to identify the root of these trials and discover solutions and strategies to navigate the world in a healthy way.
Stress, anxiety, relationship conflicts; the list of life's challenges goes on. I will work with you to identify the root of these trials and discover solutions and strategies to navigate the world in a healthy way.
(808) 556-6562 View (808) 556-6562
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West Maui Counseling Center
Psychologist, PsyD, ABPP, MSCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lahaina, HI 96761
West Maui Counseling Center realizes the value of integrating principles found in the practice of medicine, mental health counseling, experiential education, alternative and complimentary wellness, and professional psychological services to promote the growth and development of happy, healthy, human beings. We have a passion for helping children, adolescents, adults, couples and families find new and innovative ways of relating to one another that promote positive change, emotional healing, and overall psychological and physical wellbeing.
West Maui Counseling Center realizes the value of integrating principles found in the practice of medicine, mental health counseling, experiential education, alternative and complimentary wellness, and professional psychological services to promote the growth and development of happy, healthy, human beings. We have a passion for helping children, adolescents, adults, couples and families find new and innovative ways of relating to one another that promote positive change, emotional healing, and overall psychological and physical wellbeing.
(808) 427-2205 View (808) 427-2205
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Natasha Shanahan Henley
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Aiea, HI 96701  (Online Only)
I strive to help people find balance between their intra-personal, couples, family, and cultural identities.
People come for therapy to seek help for many different reasons. Some are dealing with issues at work or school. Others are struggling with complicated relationships with romantic partners, spouses, or family members and hope to enhance these relationships. Some of us may be looking for couples therapy that feels comfortable for both partners. There are also those who have insomnia and want to come up with reasonable solutions. Regardless of the issue(s)-at-hand, people come for help with overcoming obstacles and promoting growth. I am here to help.
I strive to help people find balance between their intra-personal, couples, family, and cultural identities.
People come for therapy to seek help for many different reasons. Some are dealing with issues at work or school. Others are struggling with complicated relationships with romantic partners, spouses, or family members and hope to enhance these relationships. Some of us may be looking for couples therapy that feels comfortable for both partners. There are also those who have insomnia and want to come up with reasonable solutions. Regardless of the issue(s)-at-hand, people come for help with overcoming obstacles and promoting growth. I am here to help.
(808) 369-9385 View (808) 369-9385
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Anne Toyofuku • Mauli Ola Therapy Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kaneohe, HI 96744  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with various obstacles and in need of support? Do you find yourself using unhealthy coping skills? It would be my honor to help you learn new ways of coping and to gain insight into making life feel more manageable. Through our journey and collaboration, we will work on overcoming past and current challenges while also learning how to live authentically. I specialize in Depression, Anxiety, Coping Skills, Trauma, Life Transitions, Relationship Issues, Behavioral Issues, Insomnia, and Eating Disorders. I provide individual and couples therapy.
Are you struggling with various obstacles and in need of support? Do you find yourself using unhealthy coping skills? It would be my honor to help you learn new ways of coping and to gain insight into making life feel more manageable. Through our journey and collaboration, we will work on overcoming past and current challenges while also learning how to live authentically. I specialize in Depression, Anxiety, Coping Skills, Trauma, Life Transitions, Relationship Issues, Behavioral Issues, Insomnia, and Eating Disorders. I provide individual and couples therapy.
(808) 353-4261 View (808) 353-4261
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Laura Moidel Acevedo
Counselor, MACP, LMHC
Verified Verified
Hilo, HI 96720
I also have extensive training and experience in working with couples.
I have particular compassion and knowledge for those with transgender and sexual orientation issues and with survivors of sexual abuse and sexual assault. I am familiar with the social stigma and trauma that can result from being a person with these issues and have helped many overcome the resulting emotional and psychological distress.
I also have extensive training and experience in working with couples.
I have particular compassion and knowledge for those with transgender and sexual orientation issues and with survivors of sexual abuse and sexual assault. I am familiar with the social stigma and trauma that can result from being a person with these issues and have helped many overcome the resulting emotional and psychological distress.
(808) 419-7277 View (808) 419-7277
Kapolei Counseling Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMHC
Verified Verified
Kapolei, HI 96707
Amygrace is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Kapolei Counseling Center with 7+ years working with Military members, Veterans and their spouses, adolescents, couples, young adults, LGBTQ+, and middle aged men and women. She specializes in relationship issues, career counseling, coping skills and transition counseling (personal or career transitions).
Amygrace is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Kapolei Counseling Center with 7+ years working with Military members, Veterans and their spouses, adolescents, couples, young adults, LGBTQ+, and middle aged men and women. She specializes in relationship issues, career counseling, coping skills and transition counseling (personal or career transitions).
(808) 272-5355 View (808) 272-5355
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Jennifer Stevens
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
Kapaa, HI 96746
Waitlist for new clients
Aloha, I value the diversity of healthy relationships and recognize their importance in both individual and family life cycle development. I also understand how painful conflicted relationships in the here and now or from the past can be. I integrate traditional and contemporary psychotherapy to assist adults, children, couples and families in addressing the challenges they face. Using a strength-based framework, I work compassionately with clients to find individualized solutions to life's most personal and difficult problems.
Aloha, I value the diversity of healthy relationships and recognize their importance in both individual and family life cycle development. I also understand how painful conflicted relationships in the here and now or from the past can be. I integrate traditional and contemporary psychotherapy to assist adults, children, couples and families in addressing the challenges they face. Using a strength-based framework, I work compassionately with clients to find individualized solutions to life's most personal and difficult problems.
(808) 378-7992 View (808) 378-7992
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Mariana Ferrari-Elzaurdia
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
Princeville, HI 96722
I am licensed to diagnose and treat mental and emotional disorders within the context of marriage, couples and family systems.
Most of us experience times when we need help to deal with problems and issues that cause us emotional distress. If you are having a problem or dilemma that is making you feel overwhelmed, you may benefit from the assistance of an experienced, trained professional. Mental health professionals offer the caring and expert assistance that people need during stressful times. As a Marriage and Family Therapist the focus of my work is to understand my clients' symptoms and interaction patterns within their existing environment. I am trained to work with people focusing on how they relate to others.
I am licensed to diagnose and treat mental and emotional disorders within the context of marriage, couples and family systems.
Most of us experience times when we need help to deal with problems and issues that cause us emotional distress. If you are having a problem or dilemma that is making you feel overwhelmed, you may benefit from the assistance of an experienced, trained professional. Mental health professionals offer the caring and expert assistance that people need during stressful times. As a Marriage and Family Therapist the focus of my work is to understand my clients' symptoms and interaction patterns within their existing environment. I am trained to work with people focusing on how they relate to others.
(808) 784-7907 View (808) 784-7907
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Erin Kilbury
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96822  (Online Only)
I welcome work with couples, teens, families, and adults.
Many of us weren't handed a complete toolbox for navigating life's challenges or didn't have models for maintaining satisfying relationships. When it comes to emotional disorders and relational issues people often delay getting the help they deserve. This can perpetuate or prolong painful experiences such as depression, anxiety, and loneliness and relationships can become gridlocked with perpetual issues. Therapy can help us develop the skills to live an anti-depressant life, cope with (even reduce) anxiety, process regrettable events, cultivate meaningful relationships, resolve triggers that impede our goals, and much more.
I welcome work with couples, teens, families, and adults.
Many of us weren't handed a complete toolbox for navigating life's challenges or didn't have models for maintaining satisfying relationships. When it comes to emotional disorders and relational issues people often delay getting the help they deserve. This can perpetuate or prolong painful experiences such as depression, anxiety, and loneliness and relationships can become gridlocked with perpetual issues. Therapy can help us develop the skills to live an anti-depressant life, cope with (even reduce) anxiety, process regrettable events, cultivate meaningful relationships, resolve triggers that impede our goals, and much more.
(808) 556-8216 View (808) 556-8216
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.