Couples Counseling Therapists in Glastonbury, CT

Richard L Duvall
Psychologist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033
I have 32 years experience as both a Psychologist and Marriage and Family Therapist in helping individuals, couples and families find more effective solutions in both short-term and longstanding difficulties.
I can best help you when you have felt challenged by life, relationships and stressors that many people face in their life. Have you found that despite various efforts to find solutions you're left dissatisfied? This happens because to achieve significant and lasting changes one must access the self-esteem that resides deep within us. Traditional methods of change fail to impact at this level. My longstanding experience and success using EMDR enables us to significantly improve your self-esteem while making life's challenges more manageable and resolutions achievable.
I have 32 years experience as both a Psychologist and Marriage and Family Therapist in helping individuals, couples and families find more effective solutions in both short-term and longstanding difficulties.
I can best help you when you have felt challenged by life, relationships and stressors that many people face in their life. Have you found that despite various efforts to find solutions you're left dissatisfied? This happens because to achieve significant and lasting changes one must access the self-esteem that resides deep within us. Traditional methods of change fail to impact at this level. My longstanding experience and success using EMDR enables us to significantly improve your self-esteem while making life's challenges more manageable and resolutions achievable.
(860) 253-2528 View (860) 253-2528
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Leslie Harmon
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, LADC-1
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033  (Online Only)
Hello There, It is my honor to have this opportunity to partner with you in navigating the many complex challenges in your life's journey. My philosophy is we each have the ability to empower our self to live our best life, achieving balance and stability. This is a process through honest self reflection, recognition of a need to make changes in our thinking and behaviors, and a willingness to take proactive steps to effect change, coupled with assistance, support and related tools.
Hello There, It is my honor to have this opportunity to partner with you in navigating the many complex challenges in your life's journey. My philosophy is we each have the ability to empower our self to live our best life, achieving balance and stability. This is a process through honest self reflection, recognition of a need to make changes in our thinking and behaviors, and a willingness to take proactive steps to effect change, coupled with assistance, support and related tools.
(860) 891-2040 View (860) 891-2040
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Julian Finnegan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Glastonbury, CT 06033  (Online Only)
The therapeutic relationship we will establish has to be based on trust and transparency.
Life comes at us in waves of change. Some are predictable and gentle, while others seem to come out of nowhere and knock us completely off balance. Fears may arise about our future, or past trauma might bubble to the surface of our awareness. Confusion, anxiety and depression are normal responses to shifting insights, losses and transitions in life. Relationships can become challenging to navigate, especially when the waves keep coming at us. I will join you right where you are at, to help you catch your breath and establish stable footing so you can forge a path toward wholeness and wellness.
The therapeutic relationship we will establish has to be based on trust and transparency.
Life comes at us in waves of change. Some are predictable and gentle, while others seem to come out of nowhere and knock us completely off balance. Fears may arise about our future, or past trauma might bubble to the surface of our awareness. Confusion, anxiety and depression are normal responses to shifting insights, losses and transitions in life. Relationships can become challenging to navigate, especially when the waves keep coming at us. I will join you right where you are at, to help you catch your breath and establish stable footing so you can forge a path toward wholeness and wellness.
(860) 792-4609 View (860) 792-4609
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Thomas Carlson
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033
I treat a wide array of presenting problems, including depression, anxiety, self-esteem issues, relationship conflicts, and substance use.
Unresolved emotional conflicts lie at the core of human suffering. For this reason, I take an emotion-focused approach to therapy that helps clients process and work through their underlying feelings, freeing them from symptomatic disturbances. This is done within an atmosphere of empathic respect for the individual.
I treat a wide array of presenting problems, including depression, anxiety, self-esteem issues, relationship conflicts, and substance use.
Unresolved emotional conflicts lie at the core of human suffering. For this reason, I take an emotion-focused approach to therapy that helps clients process and work through their underlying feelings, freeing them from symptomatic disturbances. This is done within an atmosphere of empathic respect for the individual.
(860) 782-0966 View (860) 782-0966
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Kristina Chomick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Glastonbury, CT 06033
I currently only have daytime availability. Change can be difficult and finding your way to therapy can be both scary and overwhelming. Together we can work to create change through a supportive and collaborative therapeutic relationship. Often times, we maintain cycles of behavior and relationships that create a feeling of imbalance, affecting our ability to face the difficulties that are thrown our way. We will work to increase insight into your thoughts and behaviors and find a path toward a positive future by utilizing strengths and supports that you already possess.
I currently only have daytime availability. Change can be difficult and finding your way to therapy can be both scary and overwhelming. Together we can work to create change through a supportive and collaborative therapeutic relationship. Often times, we maintain cycles of behavior and relationships that create a feeling of imbalance, affecting our ability to face the difficulties that are thrown our way. We will work to increase insight into your thoughts and behaviors and find a path toward a positive future by utilizing strengths and supports that you already possess.
(860) 785-2135 View (860) 785-2135
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Ilene Grueneberg
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Glastonbury, CT 06033  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
My model rests strongly on the therapeutic relationship as the foundation with the use of interventions specific to the client(s) .
I enjoy working with people of all ages. The broad range of developmental challenges invites me to creatively collaborate to address whatever may be impeding the ability to fully engage in and enjoy life. Whether it is a difficult transition, a temporary stressor, a "sensitive" temperament, a current or historic trauma or whatever internal or external disruption, finding ways to optimize how one approaches and copes is my primary focus.
My model rests strongly on the therapeutic relationship as the foundation with the use of interventions specific to the client(s) .
I enjoy working with people of all ages. The broad range of developmental challenges invites me to creatively collaborate to address whatever may be impeding the ability to fully engage in and enjoy life. Whether it is a difficult transition, a temporary stressor, a "sensitive" temperament, a current or historic trauma or whatever internal or external disruption, finding ways to optimize how one approaches and copes is my primary focus.
(959) 207-2387 x13 View (959) 207-2387 x13
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Rebecca Ruitto
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033
I enjoy working with women and couples who struggle with: Feelings of anxiety, trauma experiences and symptoms making it hard for you to navigate life the way you want to, couples feeling disconnected and struggling with communication & women struggling during the pregnancy and postpartum period.
Hello, I am so excited that you found your way here! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of CT. I primarily work with women and couples struggling with anxiety, trauma, life stressors, and communication. My therapy style is genuine, empathetic, and real. I want to get to know you and for this to be the space you feel inspired to own who you are. I want therapy to be the space you feel comfortable, seen, and safe. I’ll hold the space for the hard and sometimes awkward stuff; and encourage you to seek your full potential.
I enjoy working with women and couples who struggle with: Feelings of anxiety, trauma experiences and symptoms making it hard for you to navigate life the way you want to, couples feeling disconnected and struggling with communication & women struggling during the pregnancy and postpartum period.
Hello, I am so excited that you found your way here! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of CT. I primarily work with women and couples struggling with anxiety, trauma, life stressors, and communication. My therapy style is genuine, empathetic, and real. I want to get to know you and for this to be the space you feel inspired to own who you are. I want therapy to be the space you feel comfortable, seen, and safe. I’ll hold the space for the hard and sometimes awkward stuff; and encourage you to seek your full potential.
(203) 884-0954 View (203) 884-0954
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Coreen Rogers
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Glastonbury, CT 06033  (Online Only)
There are times we may feel overwhelmed and burdened by life's challenges. Whether you are struggling with depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties or stress from a current situation, therapy can be extremely helpful. I seek to provide a safe, supportive, non-judgmental environment to promote personal growth and self exploration.
There are times we may feel overwhelmed and burdened by life's challenges. Whether you are struggling with depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties or stress from a current situation, therapy can be extremely helpful. I seek to provide a safe, supportive, non-judgmental environment to promote personal growth and self exploration.
(860) 968-0132 View (860) 968-0132
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Dana Wilcox
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFT-A, ERYT500
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Glastonbury, CT 06033
I have clinical experience working with first responders, couples, anger management, and adults with anxiety related struggles.
I believe building a healthy connection with yourself is the springboard to living a more fulfilling life and can enhance your ability to form deeper relationships. It is so important to do our own personal work, but I always wonder how much deeper we could go if we were able to share our growth with others? What would be different if we were able to be honest with our loved ones, share in our joy, or set healthy boundaries? I am passionate about helping people better understand themselves so that they can show up in their relationships more centered and grounded.
I have clinical experience working with first responders, couples, anger management, and adults with anxiety related struggles.
I believe building a healthy connection with yourself is the springboard to living a more fulfilling life and can enhance your ability to form deeper relationships. It is so important to do our own personal work, but I always wonder how much deeper we could go if we were able to share our growth with others? What would be different if we were able to be honest with our loved ones, share in our joy, or set healthy boundaries? I am passionate about helping people better understand themselves so that they can show up in their relationships more centered and grounded.
(860) 598-8173 View (860) 598-8173
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Alaina Fusco
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033  (Online Only)
My areas of expertise are in working with adult individuals and couples, treating a wide variety of issues including navigating conflict and communication issues, boundary setting, and anxiety.
Life is constantly filled with adjustments. These adjustments often create more stress and problems for us than we’re used to, and sometimes we need a little help finding the way through. My goal when working with you is to help you find, create and access the resources within yourself to solve and manage these life problems more easily. The goal is not to be in therapy forever. Instead, come to learn more about yourself, gain the insight needed to make real lasting change, and improve your emotional well-being and relationships in your life.
My areas of expertise are in working with adult individuals and couples, treating a wide variety of issues including navigating conflict and communication issues, boundary setting, and anxiety.
Life is constantly filled with adjustments. These adjustments often create more stress and problems for us than we’re used to, and sometimes we need a little help finding the way through. My goal when working with you is to help you find, create and access the resources within yourself to solve and manage these life problems more easily. The goal is not to be in therapy forever. Instead, come to learn more about yourself, gain the insight needed to make real lasting change, and improve your emotional well-being and relationships in your life.
(860) 321-8373 View (860) 321-8373
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Leigh Anne Mehldau, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033
With an engaging, dynamic & empathetic approach, I can help you more effectively manage anxiety, depression, trauma issues, or relationship/family conflicts that effect daily functioning. Loss, infertility & parenting a child with a learning/physical impairment can be overwhelming and feel endlessly frustrating for many people. Together, we can work toward healing, thriving, and achieving a higher quality of life. Working toward a healthy life balance is challenging, yet rewarding for my clients with an accepting & interactive approach. If you'd like, my certified emotional support dog, Colby, is available to help too!
With an engaging, dynamic & empathetic approach, I can help you more effectively manage anxiety, depression, trauma issues, or relationship/family conflicts that effect daily functioning. Loss, infertility & parenting a child with a learning/physical impairment can be overwhelming and feel endlessly frustrating for many people. Together, we can work toward healing, thriving, and achieving a higher quality of life. Working toward a healthy life balance is challenging, yet rewarding for my clients with an accepting & interactive approach. If you'd like, my certified emotional support dog, Colby, is available to help too!
(860) 558-9595 View (860) 558-9595
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Mary Anne Lisa Costerella
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, CAC, LADC
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033
I provide individual, couples, and groups with addiction-focused treatment.
I understand that 'alcohol and other drugs'...(cocaine, marijuana, opiates/painkillers, etc.) as well as relationships, money, food, work, technology, sex, etc. are merely dysfunctional band-aids to avoid the pain of inner woundedness. My therapeutic approach offers a deeper awareness of symptomatic addictions by providing the client with the 'space' and permission to explore the self-damage from these harmful 'toxins' and then learn the practice of thought and feeling detoxification. I can support my clients with 20+ years of relapse prevention therapy and techniques to replace the obsessive thinking with positive and self-affirming behaviors.
I provide individual, couples, and groups with addiction-focused treatment.
I understand that 'alcohol and other drugs'...(cocaine, marijuana, opiates/painkillers, etc.) as well as relationships, money, food, work, technology, sex, etc. are merely dysfunctional band-aids to avoid the pain of inner woundedness. My therapeutic approach offers a deeper awareness of symptomatic addictions by providing the client with the 'space' and permission to explore the self-damage from these harmful 'toxins' and then learn the practice of thought and feeling detoxification. I can support my clients with 20+ years of relapse prevention therapy and techniques to replace the obsessive thinking with positive and self-affirming behaviors.
(860) 322-5467 View (860) 322-5467
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Roxanne Stepnowski
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033
I work with individuals, couples, families, and groups who are struggling with various issues, such as depression, anxiety, relationship problems, grief/loss, and coping with life transitions.
I work with individuals, couples, families, and groups who are struggling with various issues, such as depression, anxiety, relationship problems, grief/loss, and coping with life transitions.
(860) 317-2869 View (860) 317-2869
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Carmen I Santos
Psychologist, MA, PsyD
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033
I treat the full spectrum of mental health issues: Depressive Disorders including Post Partum Depression, Anxiety, Panic Attacks, Eating Disorders, relationship issues, Anger/Stress Management Psychological, Sexual, Physical Trauma,Grief and loss, Life/Career Transitions, Drug and Alcohol Assessments, Relapse Prevention Work, Domestic Violence, Adult Learning Disorders and Attention Problems,Elder Care Issues.
About Dr. Santos: I have been in practice in Connecticut for over 30 years. I have worked in out-patient and in-patient settings, a college counseling center and with a number of employee assistance programs. I have a breath of knowledge that is quite diverse, covering the full spectrum of mental health issues. My commitment is to provide a highly professional, confidential service in an environment that is safe and promotes personal growth and healing for any number of emotional and other mental health difficulties. I am bilingual-bicultural in Spanish and English. I see individuals, couples and families.
I treat the full spectrum of mental health issues: Depressive Disorders including Post Partum Depression, Anxiety, Panic Attacks, Eating Disorders, relationship issues, Anger/Stress Management Psychological, Sexual, Physical Trauma,Grief and loss, Life/Career Transitions, Drug and Alcohol Assessments, Relapse Prevention Work, Domestic Violence, Adult Learning Disorders and Attention Problems,Elder Care Issues.
About Dr. Santos: I have been in practice in Connecticut for over 30 years. I have worked in out-patient and in-patient settings, a college counseling center and with a number of employee assistance programs. I have a breath of knowledge that is quite diverse, covering the full spectrum of mental health issues. My commitment is to provide a highly professional, confidential service in an environment that is safe and promotes personal growth and healing for any number of emotional and other mental health difficulties. I am bilingual-bicultural in Spanish and English. I see individuals, couples and families.
(860) 265-4734 View (860) 265-4734
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James M Conti
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033
WANT TO HELP YOUR RELATIONSHIP? Come to the GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT COUPLES WORKSHOP! This workshop is for you if: * You want to improve communication in your relationship. *want passion and compassion back * wondering if your relationship can be saved. *solve ongoing topics and "get on the same page" *You simply want to be heard! You will learn to: * Develop effective new communication skills using the "Imago Dialogue". * Resolve conflicts with respect. * Recreate passion and intimacy. * Discover emotional healing and deeper connection in your relationship. * Experience empathy, satisfaction and joyfulness with your partner.
WANT TO HELP YOUR RELATIONSHIP? Come to the GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT COUPLES WORKSHOP! This workshop is for you if: * You want to improve communication in your relationship. *want passion and compassion back * wondering if your relationship can be saved. *solve ongoing topics and "get on the same page" *You simply want to be heard! You will learn to: * Develop effective new communication skills using the "Imago Dialogue". * Resolve conflicts with respect. * Recreate passion and intimacy. * Discover emotional healing and deeper connection in your relationship. * Experience empathy, satisfaction and joyfulness with your partner.
(860) 484-3916 View (860) 484-3916
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Rachel Genesky
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033  (Online Only)
trauma, interpersonal relationship problems, impulse control disorders, life transitions, chronic stress, school or legal problems, as well as many other areas.
Welcome! I’m a licensed social worker accepting new clients. I provide therapy services to children, adolescents, and adults. I also provide adolescent and young adult substance use services, including supportive services to their parents and/or caregivers. I currently provide all services through a telehealth based platform. I have experienced providing services to those with co-occurring MH and substance use disorders, depression, anxiety, grief and loss,
trauma, interpersonal relationship problems, impulse control disorders, life transitions, chronic stress, school or legal problems, as well as many other areas.
Welcome! I’m a licensed social worker accepting new clients. I provide therapy services to children, adolescents, and adults. I also provide adolescent and young adult substance use services, including supportive services to their parents and/or caregivers. I currently provide all services through a telehealth based platform. I have experienced providing services to those with co-occurring MH and substance use disorders, depression, anxiety, grief and loss,
(860) 968-0310 View (860) 968-0310
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Kaitlin Smith - Glimmers Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Glastonbury, CT 06033
Waitlist for new clients
Waitlist available! There are many reasons to seek therapy, each individual has different experiences, struggles, and goals. I’m here to support you in identifying and addressing your specific needs. Therapy can seem intimidating, but my gentle and supportive approach ensures that you feel heard, understood, and respected. The therapeutic relationship allows space for self-reflection while also helping to ground and validate your experiences. My favorite clients to work with are those that are seeking to take control of their life and to face it with a new sense of calm and confidence.
Waitlist available! There are many reasons to seek therapy, each individual has different experiences, struggles, and goals. I’m here to support you in identifying and addressing your specific needs. Therapy can seem intimidating, but my gentle and supportive approach ensures that you feel heard, understood, and respected. The therapeutic relationship allows space for self-reflection while also helping to ground and validate your experiences. My favorite clients to work with are those that are seeking to take control of their life and to face it with a new sense of calm and confidence.
(860) 926-3435 View (860) 926-3435
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Mandy Lynn Phillips
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033
What keeps you from experiencing joy and love fully and living your life with ease and contentment? As a Marriage and Family Therapist for 12 years providing individual, couples and family therapy I have worked with many people with a variety of needs, and I am ready to take the next steps with you.
Emotional well-being much like physical health is a journey. It is a process that takes both time and effort. What you gain from your effort is entirely up to you, but it helps to have the right support! I believe you are the director of your life’s purpose and your potential for health and wholeness can be limitless! I believe our hurts, our traumas, our personal judgments of ourselves, and the judgments we internalize from others are things that disconnect us from our inner self, and our ability to heal, realize our potential and shine our light fully can be challenging. What holds you back or disconnects you from your inner self?
What keeps you from experiencing joy and love fully and living your life with ease and contentment? As a Marriage and Family Therapist for 12 years providing individual, couples and family therapy I have worked with many people with a variety of needs, and I am ready to take the next steps with you.
Emotional well-being much like physical health is a journey. It is a process that takes both time and effort. What you gain from your effort is entirely up to you, but it helps to have the right support! I believe you are the director of your life’s purpose and your potential for health and wholeness can be limitless! I believe our hurts, our traumas, our personal judgments of ourselves, and the judgments we internalize from others are things that disconnect us from our inner self, and our ability to heal, realize our potential and shine our light fully can be challenging. What holds you back or disconnects you from your inner self?
(860) 590-3193 View (860) 590-3193
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Erica Thrall
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Glastonbury, CT 06033
Home-life feeling like a hot mess? Struggling as a parent or stepparent? Sick of the same problems coming up over and over again in your relationship? Or, maybe you're just overwhelmed with balancing the stress of kids and life. You're looking for someone to listen, to support you and to help you find a different way to bring peace back into your home and life. As a licensed marriage and family therapist, I work to help couples, teens, and adults reduce conflict and stress, and find a different path forward.
Home-life feeling like a hot mess? Struggling as a parent or stepparent? Sick of the same problems coming up over and over again in your relationship? Or, maybe you're just overwhelmed with balancing the stress of kids and life. You're looking for someone to listen, to support you and to help you find a different way to bring peace back into your home and life. As a licensed marriage and family therapist, I work to help couples, teens, and adults reduce conflict and stress, and find a different path forward.
(860) 530-6387 View (860) 530-6387
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Meghan McDowell-Vyse Lcsw
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Glastonbury, CT 06033  (Online Only)
By cultivating a therapeutic relationship, individuals, couples, and families improve self-awareness and enhance the quality of their relationships.
Do you find yourself feeling anxious and overloaded? Do you strive to find balance but there are too many things to juggle? Does everything feel chaotic or do you snap at the slightest things? Do you appear like you have it together but on the inside you are struggling to nurture, to understand, and to accept yourself? Do you wonder whether you are good enough? Do you feel sadness, guilt, and shame? If any of these thoughts and feelings sound like you, it is time to take care of yourself. Calling a therapist can be scary. You are unsure you will be able to find someone that you can connect with and trust. But you deserve it.
By cultivating a therapeutic relationship, individuals, couples, and families improve self-awareness and enhance the quality of their relationships.
Do you find yourself feeling anxious and overloaded? Do you strive to find balance but there are too many things to juggle? Does everything feel chaotic or do you snap at the slightest things? Do you appear like you have it together but on the inside you are struggling to nurture, to understand, and to accept yourself? Do you wonder whether you are good enough? Do you feel sadness, guilt, and shame? If any of these thoughts and feelings sound like you, it is time to take care of yourself. Calling a therapist can be scary. You are unsure you will be able to find someone that you can connect with and trust. But you deserve it.
(959) 208-4837 x38 View (959) 208-4837 x38

Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.