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Sallee Kay Decker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457  (Online Only)
Whether you are navigating a difficult transition in your life, dealing with overwhelm, relationship issues, cycles of anxiety and depression, or working through trauma, I will meet you where you are in your life at this moment with open ears and provide you with a safe space to share your story.
I am a down-to-earth, quirky, holistic clinical social worker that uses evidence-based techniques in innovative and creative ways to provide compassionate, empathetic, person-centered care. I am here to help you reach your goals through a personalized process. Together, we can work to come up with a plan that feels right to you to help you work through your concerns and issues and back to a balanced place in your life.
Whether you are navigating a difficult transition in your life, dealing with overwhelm, relationship issues, cycles of anxiety and depression, or working through trauma, I will meet you where you are in your life at this moment with open ears and provide you with a safe space to share your story.
I am a down-to-earth, quirky, holistic clinical social worker that uses evidence-based techniques in innovative and creative ways to provide compassionate, empathetic, person-centered care. I am here to help you reach your goals through a personalized process. Together, we can work to come up with a plan that feels right to you to help you work through your concerns and issues and back to a balanced place in your life.
(860) 854-3204 View (860) 854-3204
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Beth Breck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CEAP, SAP
Verified Verified
Guilford, CT 06437
Are you looking for an experienced therapist? I work with a range of issues. Behavioral problems, work/ family balance, grief, marital/ relationship issues, family therapy, parent-child, infidelity, sexual issues, alcohol/ drug abuse, domestic violence, depression, anxiety/ panic, emotional/ mental disorders, financial difficulties, life transitions, loss, PTSD, anger management and issues within judicial systems. Acknowledge the problem...Experience the solution. I love my work and problem solving with clients. My work strives to achieve a healthy lifestyle for my clients. I help clients achieve their behavioral goals within the brief compass of six to ten sessions.
Are you looking for an experienced therapist? I work with a range of issues. Behavioral problems, work/ family balance, grief, marital/ relationship issues, family therapy, parent-child, infidelity, sexual issues, alcohol/ drug abuse, domestic violence, depression, anxiety/ panic, emotional/ mental disorders, financial difficulties, life transitions, loss, PTSD, anger management and issues within judicial systems. Acknowledge the problem...Experience the solution. I love my work and problem solving with clients. My work strives to achieve a healthy lifestyle for my clients. I help clients achieve their behavioral goals within the brief compass of six to ten sessions.
(475) 224-4670 View (475) 224-4670
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Harita Seiderer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middletown, CT 06457  (Online Only)
Additionally, I specialize in Couples/Family Conflict Management, through Couples/Family Work, especially in couples going through separation/divorce.
**ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS** I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 18 years of experience in the Mental Health field. I have served all populations throughout the years, from young children to elderly, with all different types of challenges. I am certified in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and utilize an eclectic approach in my therapeutic interventions. I believe each individual is the expert of themselves and their lives. My job is primarily to guide you, utilizing a collaborative manner, into finding a place where you no longer feel stuck and ultimately feel happier and more content in your life.
Additionally, I specialize in Couples/Family Conflict Management, through Couples/Family Work, especially in couples going through separation/divorce.
**ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS** I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 18 years of experience in the Mental Health field. I have served all populations throughout the years, from young children to elderly, with all different types of challenges. I am certified in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and utilize an eclectic approach in my therapeutic interventions. I believe each individual is the expert of themselves and their lives. My job is primarily to guide you, utilizing a collaborative manner, into finding a place where you no longer feel stuck and ultimately feel happier and more content in your life.
(860) 421-6161 View (860) 421-6161
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Kathleen Watanabe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LADC
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457
TELETHERAPY AVAILABLE - AS A LICENSED CLINICAL SOCIAL WORKER I STRIVE TO PROVIDE A CONFIDENTIAL AND SAFE ENVIRONMENT IN WHICH INDIVIDUALS ARE FREE TO GROW AT THEIR OWN PACE. I WORK WITH INDIVIDUALS AND COUPLES TO RESOLVE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS, REDUCE ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION AND ADDRESS TRAUMA. I HAVE A SUB SPECIALTY OF TREATING SUBSTANCE USE DISORDERS AND THE FAMILIES THAT ARE AFFECTED.
TELETHERAPY AVAILABLE - AS A LICENSED CLINICAL SOCIAL WORKER I STRIVE TO PROVIDE A CONFIDENTIAL AND SAFE ENVIRONMENT IN WHICH INDIVIDUALS ARE FREE TO GROW AT THEIR OWN PACE. I WORK WITH INDIVIDUALS AND COUPLES TO RESOLVE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS, REDUCE ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION AND ADDRESS TRAUMA. I HAVE A SUB SPECIALTY OF TREATING SUBSTANCE USE DISORDERS AND THE FAMILIES THAT ARE AFFECTED.
(860) 317-2815 View (860) 317-2815
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Suzanne Roberts
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Portland, CT 06480
I have been a therapist for 26+ years treating numerous psychological issues & age groups. My clinical focus/expertise includes: eating disorders, anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, relationship issues, severe trauma & grief/loss. My primary treatment approach utilizes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (changing your thought response). My job isn't to fix but to assist you with learning positive/realistic coping skills, focusing on your strengths and offering constructive feedback to reduce the level of interference your struggles/beliefs have on you with an emphasis on acceptance, validation and empowerment at every stage of therapy.
I have been a therapist for 26+ years treating numerous psychological issues & age groups. My clinical focus/expertise includes: eating disorders, anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, relationship issues, severe trauma & grief/loss. My primary treatment approach utilizes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (changing your thought response). My job isn't to fix but to assist you with learning positive/realistic coping skills, focusing on your strengths and offering constructive feedback to reduce the level of interference your struggles/beliefs have on you with an emphasis on acceptance, validation and empowerment at every stage of therapy.
(860) 598-4824 View (860) 598-4824
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Bardwell Behavioral
Counselor, LPC, LMHC, LCMHC, TPMC, CEDS-C
Verified Verified
Meriden, CT 06450  (Online Only)
Understanding we are all in different "stages of change", we utilize an eclectic approach to guide you through your own process at your own pace. It is absolutely an honor and our passion to treat those who struggle with mental health issues such as Eating Disorders, Substance Use, trauma, depression, anxiety, family conflict, relationship issues and associated disorders. We employ an individualized approach to therapy in order to empower people to change their lives. In the wise words of Maya Angelou, "My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, humor, and style."
Understanding we are all in different "stages of change", we utilize an eclectic approach to guide you through your own process at your own pace. It is absolutely an honor and our passion to treat those who struggle with mental health issues such as Eating Disorders, Substance Use, trauma, depression, anxiety, family conflict, relationship issues and associated disorders. We employ an individualized approach to therapy in order to empower people to change their lives. In the wise words of Maya Angelou, "My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, humor, and style."
(860) 300-2307 View (860) 300-2307
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Sursatie D Chetram-Frazier Phd
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LPC
Verified Verified
Meriden, CT 06450
Radiance Counseling Center (RCC) specializes in therapeutic services for Individuals, Couples and Groups, as well as Clinical Assessments and Virtual Therapy. We accept Medicare, Medicaid, Private Insurance, Private and Public Funding, Governmental Agencies, Cash and Credit Cards. We offer flexible, individualized hours for our clients.
Radiance Counseling Center (RCC) specializes in therapeutic services for Individuals, Couples and Groups, as well as Clinical Assessments and Virtual Therapy. We accept Medicare, Medicaid, Private Insurance, Private and Public Funding, Governmental Agencies, Cash and Credit Cards. We offer flexible, individualized hours for our clients.
(860) 331-8486 View (860) 331-8486
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Christopher Lodi
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wallingford, CT 06492
Have you found yourself tackling issues with middle age, being an elder-in a youth oriented culture, chronic health issues, divorce or relationship troubles? You are not alone! Issues such as these can cause feelings of depression and anxiety, hopelessness and frustration. You just want to feel better, more like yourself. I can help. I have 31 years of experience practicing psychotherapy and counseling, and helping people work through these issues to create a new positive and healthy life.
Have you found yourself tackling issues with middle age, being an elder-in a youth oriented culture, chronic health issues, divorce or relationship troubles? You are not alone! Issues such as these can cause feelings of depression and anxiety, hopelessness and frustration. You just want to feel better, more like yourself. I can help. I have 31 years of experience practicing psychotherapy and counseling, and helping people work through these issues to create a new positive and healthy life.
(203) 819-8297 View (203) 819-8297
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Adolescent & Family Counseling Center, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Meriden, CT 06450
A multi-modality approach: Therapy: Individual, Couples, Family, and Group; Courses; Workshops; Programs; and Presentations.
I am Linda Rosenfield, LCSW, Intake Coordinator. Our goal & service mark since 1980: "Helping You Solve Life's Problems". Clients have ability & answers within themselves; our role is to help you see alternatives and have self-confidence to make healthy changes. I'm proud of our clients and our success in helping them to heal & grow. CT licensed clinicians with varied backgrounds, skills, degrees, & expertise: ADHD; Anger Management; Anxiety; Behavior problems; Couples'; Depression; Early childhood; Educational; Grief; Hypnotherapy; Medical Issues; Parenting; PTSD; Sex Abuse/Incest Survivors; Stress Management; Smoke-ending; & more!
A multi-modality approach: Therapy: Individual, Couples, Family, and Group; Courses; Workshops; Programs; and Presentations.
I am Linda Rosenfield, LCSW, Intake Coordinator. Our goal & service mark since 1980: "Helping You Solve Life's Problems". Clients have ability & answers within themselves; our role is to help you see alternatives and have self-confidence to make healthy changes. I'm proud of our clients and our success in helping them to heal & grow. CT licensed clinicians with varied backgrounds, skills, degrees, & expertise: ADHD; Anger Management; Anxiety; Behavior problems; Couples'; Depression; Early childhood; Educational; Grief; Hypnotherapy; Medical Issues; Parenting; PTSD; Sex Abuse/Incest Survivors; Stress Management; Smoke-ending; & more!
(203) 212-9073 View (203) 212-9073
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Carey A. O'Neill
Psychologist, PsyD, CGP, CCHt
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wallingford, CT 06492
I understand that people seek therapy for a variety of reasons. You may want to address conflict in a relationship; you may no longer be able to manage or tolerate your symptoms; you may want to find meaning and fulfillment in your life; or you may want to gain a deeper understanding of yourself in the world. Whatever your goal, it helps to have a caring individual who will listen and guide you through this process.
I understand that people seek therapy for a variety of reasons. You may want to address conflict in a relationship; you may no longer be able to manage or tolerate your symptoms; you may want to find meaning and fulfillment in your life; or you may want to gain a deeper understanding of yourself in the world. Whatever your goal, it helps to have a caring individual who will listen and guide you through this process.
(860) 406-5043 View (860) 406-5043
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Stephanie Krulewitz
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, LADC
Verified Verified
Wallingford, CT 06492  (Online Only)
My clients tell me that the most surprising part of therapy is seeking help for one problem, and uncovering other symptoms or life events that contribute, usurp, or impact the original problem in ways they never knew. Therapy is exactly that. It starts with one thought or concern and moves toward resolution using rapport, trust, and open communication between the therapist and the client. Together we work to identify areas needing change, learning and practicing skills to get you there, celebrating the wins (every little one), supporting the misses, and finally providing you with the tools to meet your goals.
My clients tell me that the most surprising part of therapy is seeking help for one problem, and uncovering other symptoms or life events that contribute, usurp, or impact the original problem in ways they never knew. Therapy is exactly that. It starts with one thought or concern and moves toward resolution using rapport, trust, and open communication between the therapist and the client. Together we work to identify areas needing change, learning and practicing skills to get you there, celebrating the wins (every little one), supporting the misses, and finally providing you with the tools to meet your goals.
(860) 345-5814 View (860) 345-5814
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Kim Lynn Abram
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Meriden, CT 06450
*currently accepting new clients for day time appointments* Have you experienced trauma that has left you feeling a lack of control, depressed, anxious, overwhelmed, misunderstood, or incapable of actively engaging with your environment? Therapy should assist you in regaining a sense of control and allow you to develop the skills to reengage with your environment in a positive and hopeful manner. My goal is to provide a safe space to process your thoughts and learn effective skills to work through the memories and images you may experience on a daily basis.
*currently accepting new clients for day time appointments* Have you experienced trauma that has left you feeling a lack of control, depressed, anxious, overwhelmed, misunderstood, or incapable of actively engaging with your environment? Therapy should assist you in regaining a sense of control and allow you to develop the skills to reengage with your environment in a positive and hopeful manner. My goal is to provide a safe space to process your thoughts and learn effective skills to work through the memories and images you may experience on a daily basis.
(860) 492-0503 View (860) 492-0503
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Anne V Schipani
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Higganum, CT 06441  (Online Only)
I specialize in using an integrative, mind-body-spirit approach to help individuals get back in touch with their own inner source of wisdom, creativity, and empowerment. Reconnecting with the deeper parts of yourself is often the key to overcoming challenges and moving forward again. Therapy offers a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore what is troubling you, as well as ways to heal and grow that reflect the potential of your True Self. I am passionate about seeing my clients use this process to make positive changes and create the life they want.
I specialize in using an integrative, mind-body-spirit approach to help individuals get back in touch with their own inner source of wisdom, creativity, and empowerment. Reconnecting with the deeper parts of yourself is often the key to overcoming challenges and moving forward again. Therapy offers a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore what is troubling you, as well as ways to heal and grow that reflect the potential of your True Self. I am passionate about seeing my clients use this process to make positive changes and create the life they want.
(860) 497-4241 View (860) 497-4241
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Strong Minds, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middletown, CT 06457
My name is Katelynn Bento, I am a licensed professional counselor and I am the owner of Strong Minds, LLC. My hours are flexible, but they will be Monday-Friday. During your initial visit we will spend some time getting to know one another and what your goals are for treatment. I have 6 years’ experience working in mental health predominantly in the hospital setting. I have a lot of experience working with trauma, anxiety, depression, binge eating disorders, gender identity issues, addiction, and mood disorders.
My name is Katelynn Bento, I am a licensed professional counselor and I am the owner of Strong Minds, LLC. My hours are flexible, but they will be Monday-Friday. During your initial visit we will spend some time getting to know one another and what your goals are for treatment. I have 6 years’ experience working in mental health predominantly in the hospital setting. I have a lot of experience working with trauma, anxiety, depression, binge eating disorders, gender identity issues, addiction, and mood disorders.
(860) 385-6434 View (860) 385-6434
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Alternative Therapy LLC, A Professional Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, NCC, CHT
Verified Verified
Meriden, CT 06450
Our aim is to provide alternative and creative services in a supportive manner that provides long term measurable outcomes. Our clinical team is an experienced provider of Individual, Family, and Group Work. Services are provided by a Bilingual Spanish English multi-disciplinary, multi cultural team.
Our aim is to provide alternative and creative services in a supportive manner that provides long term measurable outcomes. Our clinical team is an experienced provider of Individual, Family, and Group Work. Services are provided by a Bilingual Spanish English multi-disciplinary, multi cultural team.
(203) 712-0074 View (203) 712-0074
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Kathleen DeMino
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW, LADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Guilford, CT 06437
Making an informed choice in selection of your therapist is your first step in achieving your goals. In the field for 25+ years, I am licensed both as a Clinical Social Worker and a Drug and Alcohol Counselor with post-graduate training in Marriage and Family Therapy. As a Substance Abuse Counselor, I am flexible and work with persons seeking abstinence as well as those working toward harm reduction. Certified as a School Social Worker to work with children with special needs, I can assist in navigating the Educational System and can collaborate with family and school around issues impacting performance or socialization with peer.
Making an informed choice in selection of your therapist is your first step in achieving your goals. In the field for 25+ years, I am licensed both as a Clinical Social Worker and a Drug and Alcohol Counselor with post-graduate training in Marriage and Family Therapy. As a Substance Abuse Counselor, I am flexible and work with persons seeking abstinence as well as those working toward harm reduction. Certified as a School Social Worker to work with children with special needs, I can assist in navigating the Educational System and can collaborate with family and school around issues impacting performance or socialization with peer.
(203) 605-5813 View (203) 605-5813
Linda D Vono
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Guilford, CT 06437
I believe that it takes tremendous courage and a leap of faith to enter therapy. I respect that individuals are complex beings and strive to work in very collaborative ways to combine an individual's expertise on themselves and their experiences along with their strengths with my expertise on evidenced based interventions. My goal is to provide services tailored to each person's needs and presenting problems using a combination of mindfulness and acceptance strategies, effective behavioral interventions and skill building to help people feel and do better, reduce suffering and be able to live their most meaningful and best lives.
I believe that it takes tremendous courage and a leap of faith to enter therapy. I respect that individuals are complex beings and strive to work in very collaborative ways to combine an individual's expertise on themselves and their experiences along with their strengths with my expertise on evidenced based interventions. My goal is to provide services tailored to each person's needs and presenting problems using a combination of mindfulness and acceptance strategies, effective behavioral interventions and skill building to help people feel and do better, reduce suffering and be able to live their most meaningful and best lives.
(203) 815-1976 View (203) 815-1976
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Dr. Awilda Lugo Mendez
DNP, FNP, APRN
Verified Verified
Meriden, CT 06450  (Online Only)
Hablo Español! I am a bilingual and biliterate, English and Spanish speaker nurse practitioner offering psychiatric medication management through telehealth services. My goal is to collaborate both with my patients and mental health care providers to offset the mental health care need. My practice Renewed Health and Wellness LLC offers culturally competent care, in a safe, relaxing and healing environment, where clients can be their authentic selves and receive care that is tailored to their needs.
Hablo Español! I am a bilingual and biliterate, English and Spanish speaker nurse practitioner offering psychiatric medication management through telehealth services. My goal is to collaborate both with my patients and mental health care providers to offset the mental health care need. My practice Renewed Health and Wellness LLC offers culturally competent care, in a safe, relaxing and healing environment, where clients can be their authentic selves and receive care that is tailored to their needs.
(475) 244-9063 View (475) 244-9063
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Rameya Shanmugavelayutham
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Meriden, CT 06450
I believe therapy can be a catalyst for important changes we want to make in our lives. I work with folx who experience symptoms of anxiety, depression, ADHD ; people who want to improve their relationships and those who just want to learn more about themselves while building a more pleasurable and purposeful life. Many of my clients seek to enhance their sense of self by unpacking their experience of trauma in the context of varying identities, neurodiversities, family structures, and/or immigration experiences. I also work with children and their families who have experienced stress, life disruptions and trauma.
I believe therapy can be a catalyst for important changes we want to make in our lives. I work with folx who experience symptoms of anxiety, depression, ADHD ; people who want to improve their relationships and those who just want to learn more about themselves while building a more pleasurable and purposeful life. Many of my clients seek to enhance their sense of self by unpacking their experience of trauma in the context of varying identities, neurodiversities, family structures, and/or immigration experiences. I also work with children and their families who have experienced stress, life disruptions and trauma.
(860) 281-1133 x5 View (860) 281-1133 x5

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Annahaven Behavioral Health Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BSW, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
North Haven, CT 06473
Couples, family and therapeutic support groups are also provided from a multicultural, friendly and professional staff.
I enjoy working with all types of individuals to help them cope with life's challenges. Oftentimes, seeking an outside opinion or perspective can be extremely helpful for the individual see their difficulties in a different light. Whether you are an adult working through a stressful time or a parent of a disobedient, struggling or challenging child or adolescent, together we can find the techniques that work best for you or for your child. I utilize a variety of approaches in my work based on an individualized assessment and treatment plan.
Couples, family and therapeutic support groups are also provided from a multicultural, friendly and professional staff.
I enjoy working with all types of individuals to help them cope with life's challenges. Oftentimes, seeking an outside opinion or perspective can be extremely helpful for the individual see their difficulties in a different light. Whether you are an adult working through a stressful time or a parent of a disobedient, struggling or challenging child or adolescent, together we can find the techniques that work best for you or for your child. I utilize a variety of approaches in my work based on an individualized assessment and treatment plan.
(203) 493-0104 View (203) 493-0104

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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.