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Yolonda M. Young-Adisa
Associate Clinical Social Worker, MSW, ASW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92591  (Online Only)
Welcome! Thank you for your interest in my commitment to trauma-informed and culturally relevant services. I believe in our shared ability to co-create meaning that will lead to greater insight, and ultimately positive changes in your life. Everything that shapes your perspective will be central to our work together. I work relationally by utilizing an intersectional culturally inclusive approach to address the complex realities of your relationship to race, gender, culture, neurodiversity, and sexuality. I value mindfulness as a therapeutic tool that enhances awareness, and ultimately positive change.​
Welcome! Thank you for your interest in my commitment to trauma-informed and culturally relevant services. I believe in our shared ability to co-create meaning that will lead to greater insight, and ultimately positive changes in your life. Everything that shapes your perspective will be central to our work together. I work relationally by utilizing an intersectional culturally inclusive approach to address the complex realities of your relationship to race, gender, culture, neurodiversity, and sexuality. I value mindfulness as a therapeutic tool that enhances awareness, and ultimately positive change.​
(510) 298-3964 View (510) 298-3964
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NLP Mastery - Self Mastery Aaron C. Barry
MTNLP, NLP, TLT, CLHP, ECBC
Verified Verified
Temecula, CA 92590
Intimate partner violence, Sexual Assault is a real problem. (7 out of 10) The shame and torture of the untold story. Crying when no one is looking. Wine, multiple partners, pills, hiding. Time isn’t being friendly. This ever looming weight in the distance. Unwanted outbursts. You can’t sit still unconsciously trying to fill this dark void. Swept under the rug by humiliation, hopeless and in despair, cold and without reprieve. Less than whole, desperate to know that there is an end that doesn’t end it all.
Intimate partner violence, Sexual Assault is a real problem. (7 out of 10) The shame and torture of the untold story. Crying when no one is looking. Wine, multiple partners, pills, hiding. Time isn’t being friendly. This ever looming weight in the distance. Unwanted outbursts. You can’t sit still unconsciously trying to fill this dark void. Swept under the rug by humiliation, hopeless and in despair, cold and without reprieve. Less than whole, desperate to know that there is an end that doesn’t end it all.
(951) 338-9659 View (951) 338-9659
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Jill Diamond
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Temecula, CA 92590
Discussing your relationship with food, eating behaviors and body are extremely private and sensitive topics and can leave you feeling especially vulnerable.
Welcome! Let's talk if obsessive, poor body image, eating disorders & disordered eating are holding you back from living a full, content life. I'd love for you to reach out if you need a specialist in identifying and finding solutions to issues blocking you from your best academic & professional performance such as poor concentration and sleep. You'll find me heimish - authentic, warm, and approachable. I offer a professional, respectful and laid back space to support you forward on your journey to building a life and relationships where you can finally breathe and live to your full, individual potential.
Discussing your relationship with food, eating behaviors and body are extremely private and sensitive topics and can leave you feeling especially vulnerable.
Welcome! Let's talk if obsessive, poor body image, eating disorders & disordered eating are holding you back from living a full, content life. I'd love for you to reach out if you need a specialist in identifying and finding solutions to issues blocking you from your best academic & professional performance such as poor concentration and sleep. You'll find me heimish - authentic, warm, and approachable. I offer a professional, respectful and laid back space to support you forward on your journey to building a life and relationships where you can finally breathe and live to your full, individual potential.
(951) 339-2485 View (951) 339-2485
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Tabitha M Chapman
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT, PCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92590  (Online Only)
Parents: Struggling to connect with your little TikTokkers or future Mars colonizers? Let’s transform your relationship with your littles.
In a world where daily headlines can feel more like plot twists in a sci-fi series, it's no wonder even the best of us find ourselves a bit lost in the shuffle. It’s 2024 – the year we've mastered TikTok dances and adapted to 'new normals,' and yet, here we are, still trying to untangle the headphone cords of our emotional well-being. But guess what? You’re not alone! I’m here, your friendly neighborhood therapist, skilled in empathy, experienced, and full of practical strategies to guide you back to a place of joy and balance. I specialize in parenting, working with victims of coercive control and people with everyday struggles.
Parents: Struggling to connect with your little TikTokkers or future Mars colonizers? Let’s transform your relationship with your littles.
In a world where daily headlines can feel more like plot twists in a sci-fi series, it's no wonder even the best of us find ourselves a bit lost in the shuffle. It’s 2024 – the year we've mastered TikTok dances and adapted to 'new normals,' and yet, here we are, still trying to untangle the headphone cords of our emotional well-being. But guess what? You’re not alone! I’m here, your friendly neighborhood therapist, skilled in empathy, experienced, and full of practical strategies to guide you back to a place of joy and balance. I specialize in parenting, working with victims of coercive control and people with everyday struggles.
(951) 215-7212 View (951) 215-7212
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Lauren Thibodeau
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
Temecula, CA 92590
Lauren treats adults, couples, families, and adolescents, and is especially passionate in providing resources and care to the LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities. She works with various clients, and while trained in a range of treatment types, she strives to tailor her therapeutic approach to each person and their unique, individual needs.
Lauren treats adults, couples, families, and adolescents, and is especially passionate in providing resources and care to the LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities. She works with various clients, and while trained in a range of treatment types, she strives to tailor her therapeutic approach to each person and their unique, individual needs.
(657) 214-7701 View (657) 214-7701
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Gemma Holmes
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92590
While my work has primarily focused on youth, family, and couples, I also work with individuals of all ages and backgrounds.
In the 21st century, it is common knowledge that adolescence can be an extremely trying time filled with struggles of self-exploration, changing social norms, budding sexuality, and academic stressors. It can be a shock to learn of a time back before the 20th century where the concept of the teenage years did not exist and youth were expected to act and respond as adults as soon as signs of childhood waned. Fortunately, modern science and psychology in particular have been instrumental in recognizing and standing up for the unique needs of this essential growing period of milestones and distinctive struggles.
While my work has primarily focused on youth, family, and couples, I also work with individuals of all ages and backgrounds.
In the 21st century, it is common knowledge that adolescence can be an extremely trying time filled with struggles of self-exploration, changing social norms, budding sexuality, and academic stressors. It can be a shock to learn of a time back before the 20th century where the concept of the teenage years did not exist and youth were expected to act and respond as adults as soon as signs of childhood waned. Fortunately, modern science and psychology in particular have been instrumental in recognizing and standing up for the unique needs of this essential growing period of milestones and distinctive struggles.
(951) 338-6776 View (951) 338-6776
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Sue M. Bushrow
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92592  (Online Only)
With Couples I use Gottman or Emotionally Focused Therapy approach , helping to find relief and begin to thrive again.
Is life hard and your heart hurting ? Are you struggling ? Do you need relief? Has your family suffered from trauma, loss, change, or heartache? Are you a Veteran struggling? Is your marriage hard? Is your teenager struggling? Are you in professional ministry with no safe place to express the difficulties of ministry. Do you feel depressed after a major life event? I would love to help you or your family!
With Couples I use Gottman or Emotionally Focused Therapy approach , helping to find relief and begin to thrive again.
Is life hard and your heart hurting ? Are you struggling ? Do you need relief? Has your family suffered from trauma, loss, change, or heartache? Are you a Veteran struggling? Is your marriage hard? Is your teenager struggling? Are you in professional ministry with no safe place to express the difficulties of ministry. Do you feel depressed after a major life event? I would love to help you or your family!
(951) 305-4150 View (951) 305-4150
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Anxiety & Infidelity, Sylvia Ybarra MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92591
I have successfully treated individuals, couples and teenagers for the past 15 years.
MY APPROACH TO THERAPY IS TO PROVIDE AN OPEN AND NON-JUDGING ENVIRONMENT SO YOU CAN EXPRESS YOURSELF FREELY. Therapy needs to be customized to fit your needs. It may be phone counseling, group, individual or couples. You may be experiencing anxiety, infidelity, depression, sexual abuse, relationship issues or some other manifestation that's affecting your life. I believe we get better with people and become worse in isolation, so let's work together to bring you a better tomorrow. My substantial experience, non-judging stance and directness allows the process to work.
I have successfully treated individuals, couples and teenagers for the past 15 years.
MY APPROACH TO THERAPY IS TO PROVIDE AN OPEN AND NON-JUDGING ENVIRONMENT SO YOU CAN EXPRESS YOURSELF FREELY. Therapy needs to be customized to fit your needs. It may be phone counseling, group, individual or couples. You may be experiencing anxiety, infidelity, depression, sexual abuse, relationship issues or some other manifestation that's affecting your life. I believe we get better with people and become worse in isolation, so let's work together to bring you a better tomorrow. My substantial experience, non-judging stance and directness allows the process to work.
(951) 852-1870 View (951) 852-1870
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Michelle Kelley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Temecula, CA 92590
Welcome! My name is Michelle Kelley and I am a LCSW providing individual, family, and couples therapy in the Temecula Valley. I have extensive experience working with families and adults. I often treat trauma with a focus on childhood experiences and how they affect individuals throughout the life span. Through modalities like EMDR, CBT, and DBT I work collaboratively with my clients to aid in management of depression, anxiety, PTSD, and other symptoms. If you are looking to address current struggles, past experiences, or are wanting to improve your relationships and life satisfaction please feel free to contact me.
Welcome! My name is Michelle Kelley and I am a LCSW providing individual, family, and couples therapy in the Temecula Valley. I have extensive experience working with families and adults. I often treat trauma with a focus on childhood experiences and how they affect individuals throughout the life span. Through modalities like EMDR, CBT, and DBT I work collaboratively with my clients to aid in management of depression, anxiety, PTSD, and other symptoms. If you are looking to address current struggles, past experiences, or are wanting to improve your relationships and life satisfaction please feel free to contact me.
(951) 397-2349 View (951) 397-2349
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Sonia Halim
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, EMDR , CSAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92590
I can do group, individual or couples therapy.
Hi. First, I want to congratulate you for taking the initiative to start a new journey in your life. This chapter of your life, may be a difficult one. However, by you being here, you are demonstrating that you are ready for a change. Making the decision to get counseling support is not easy. I work with substance abuse and recovery, marriage and family, relationship issues, domestic violence recovery, trauma, abuse, recovery through movement, exercise, sports and activity and identity concerns. I offer a safe space for my clients to talk openly & honestly to me about whatever your concerns are.
I can do group, individual or couples therapy.
Hi. First, I want to congratulate you for taking the initiative to start a new journey in your life. This chapter of your life, may be a difficult one. However, by you being here, you are demonstrating that you are ready for a change. Making the decision to get counseling support is not easy. I work with substance abuse and recovery, marriage and family, relationship issues, domestic violence recovery, trauma, abuse, recovery through movement, exercise, sports and activity and identity concerns. I offer a safe space for my clients to talk openly & honestly to me about whatever your concerns are.
(951) 934-0059 View (951) 934-0059
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Piernas Marriage & Family Therapy Inc.
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92590
You are exhausted. You and your partner have the same arguments over and over again, without any resolution. Sometimes you forget what it is you are even arguing about. You wish that you and your partner could magically improve your communication and get back to a time and space when you loved talking to each other or just being in the same room together. You look at your partner almost daily and wonder how you got to this place and  what it will take to return to “the good times”. You miss laughing at each other’s jokes, holding hands, and sharing intimate moments.
You are exhausted. You and your partner have the same arguments over and over again, without any resolution. Sometimes you forget what it is you are even arguing about. You wish that you and your partner could magically improve your communication and get back to a time and space when you loved talking to each other or just being in the same room together. You look at your partner almost daily and wonder how you got to this place and  what it will take to return to “the good times”. You miss laughing at each other’s jokes, holding hands, and sharing intimate moments.
(951) 338-6898 View (951) 338-6898
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Tiffani Taft
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92590
I tried to stop, but I can't! My pornography use/sexual behavior is getting in the way of my relationship - Aren't I enough? Doesn't he love me? I am in so much pain, hurting because my partner watches porn or sexually acts out in our relationship.
I am grateful that you have made the step to create a happier, healthier life. Life can become unmanageable, stressful and chaotic when you haven't dealt with the difficulties of your past or situations that suddenly come up that knock you off your foundation. Healing and change is a process which is most productive when we work together toward common goals. Allow me to guide, support, encourage, educate and find yourself again or develop who you want to become. You are greater than your pain and stronger than you think you are.
I tried to stop, but I can't! My pornography use/sexual behavior is getting in the way of my relationship - Aren't I enough? Doesn't he love me? I am in so much pain, hurting because my partner watches porn or sexually acts out in our relationship.
I am grateful that you have made the step to create a happier, healthier life. Life can become unmanageable, stressful and chaotic when you haven't dealt with the difficulties of your past or situations that suddenly come up that knock you off your foundation. Healing and change is a process which is most productive when we work together toward common goals. Allow me to guide, support, encourage, educate and find yourself again or develop who you want to become. You are greater than your pain and stronger than you think you are.
(951) 547-0026 View (951) 547-0026
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Rebecca Heisler
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92591
Life is relationship. People come to therapy because their relationships seem strained: You feel misunderstood by your partner, fights increasing, the distance between you growing. You're not on the same page parenting the kids. There are fewer "good times." You feel alone. You crave a renewing, loving relationship, more family harmony. Perhaps you have not succeeded in creating the fulfilling relationship you desire and suffer in its absence, flying solo- anxious, depressed, bored. Can't relax, overwhelmed by your job. The therapeutic work we do together can help you overcome these challenges, building more satisfying, loving relationships, a better fitting life.
Life is relationship. People come to therapy because their relationships seem strained: You feel misunderstood by your partner, fights increasing, the distance between you growing. You're not on the same page parenting the kids. There are fewer "good times." You feel alone. You crave a renewing, loving relationship, more family harmony. Perhaps you have not succeeded in creating the fulfilling relationship you desire and suffer in its absence, flying solo- anxious, depressed, bored. Can't relax, overwhelmed by your job. The therapeutic work we do together can help you overcome these challenges, building more satisfying, loving relationships, a better fitting life.
(619) 383-1957 View (619) 383-1957
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Catherine Lester
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Temecula, CA 92590  (Online Only)
I work with adults and couples.
The world can be a difficult place to navigate with ever changing emotions. Asking for help is hard but asking for help from a stranger is even harder. I am here to help and not judge your life or experiences in life. I am here to help you develop new healthy coping skills and habits in a world that’s chaotic. . I have experience working with a range of difficulties such as addictions, severe mental illness, and sexual issues individually or as a couple. I am currently doing telehealth and accept clients in California
I work with adults and couples.
The world can be a difficult place to navigate with ever changing emotions. Asking for help is hard but asking for help from a stranger is even harder. I am here to help and not judge your life or experiences in life. I am here to help you develop new healthy coping skills and habits in a world that’s chaotic. . I have experience working with a range of difficulties such as addictions, severe mental illness, and sexual issues individually or as a couple. I am currently doing telehealth and accept clients in California
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David Thurman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LAADC, ICAADC, DBTC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92590
If you are experiencing depression, anxiety, grief, loss, relationship problems, and or stress, then therapy can help you discover new ways to cope and manage these issues. Together we define your core values and use mindfulness techniques to build self-esteem, confidence, hope, resiliency, and a sense of belonging. Our partnership means we take a solution-focused approach in a warm, safe environment. I would love to help you find a life that is authentically you through safe exploration that provides insight and awareness for lasting change in your life.
If you are experiencing depression, anxiety, grief, loss, relationship problems, and or stress, then therapy can help you discover new ways to cope and manage these issues. Together we define your core values and use mindfulness techniques to build self-esteem, confidence, hope, resiliency, and a sense of belonging. Our partnership means we take a solution-focused approach in a warm, safe environment. I would love to help you find a life that is authentically you through safe exploration that provides insight and awareness for lasting change in your life.
(951) 397-0960 View (951) 397-0960
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Broussard Marriage & Family Therapy INC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Temecula, CA 92590
Our mission is to provide compassionate care that focuses on client's individual needs. Treating each client like a person. We help individuals, couples & families with issues such as job/school stress, trauma, divorce, goal setting, assessments and diagnosis. Our specialty is YOU! Whatever the issue, we will listen to you and understand your point of view. Then we can work together to find the right solution that is best for you. We do offer Free Consultations with an Associate. Get in immediately with an Associate MFT or be on the waitlist for Susan.
Our mission is to provide compassionate care that focuses on client's individual needs. Treating each client like a person. We help individuals, couples & families with issues such as job/school stress, trauma, divorce, goal setting, assessments and diagnosis. Our specialty is YOU! Whatever the issue, we will listen to you and understand your point of view. Then we can work together to find the right solution that is best for you. We do offer Free Consultations with an Associate. Get in immediately with an Associate MFT or be on the waitlist for Susan.
(951) 899-0932 View (951) 899-0932
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Caralie Jodlowski
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92592  (Online Only)
If you are looking to connect with yourself and others more deeply and feel confident in the decisions you make in your life, then I’m here to come along side and help you reach those goals. My approach to the therapy process is collaborative so that together we can work to accomplish your goals. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, low mood, past trauma, relationship issues, or a life transition, we can work together to uncover underlying emotions that have been buried by protective mechanisms and navigate the blind spots so that you can gain clarity and calmness in your self and in your relationships.
If you are looking to connect with yourself and others more deeply and feel confident in the decisions you make in your life, then I’m here to come along side and help you reach those goals. My approach to the therapy process is collaborative so that together we can work to accomplish your goals. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, low mood, past trauma, relationship issues, or a life transition, we can work together to uncover underlying emotions that have been buried by protective mechanisms and navigate the blind spots so that you can gain clarity and calmness in your self and in your relationships.
(619) 272-6485 View (619) 272-6485
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Rocio Anaya
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Temecula, CA 92592
I work with individuals, adults, teens, children age 11 and up and couples.
Welcome! Do you find yourself grappling with life? Are you looking for a therapist that holds you accountable, is direct, honest and intuitive? Do you find yourself in the same patterns, feeling stuck, desiring clarity on which direction to take? If you're looking for therapy to be transformative, I may be a good fit. I am a depth psychotherapist. I help guide and shed light on the parts of the self that have been hidden in the subconscious, parts of which are often difficult to surface alone. I believe that every person holds inner knowledge of what they need, or untapped intuition. I help people find it and learn to use it.
I work with individuals, adults, teens, children age 11 and up and couples.
Welcome! Do you find yourself grappling with life? Are you looking for a therapist that holds you accountable, is direct, honest and intuitive? Do you find yourself in the same patterns, feeling stuck, desiring clarity on which direction to take? If you're looking for therapy to be transformative, I may be a good fit. I am a depth psychotherapist. I help guide and shed light on the parts of the self that have been hidden in the subconscious, parts of which are often difficult to surface alone. I believe that every person holds inner knowledge of what they need, or untapped intuition. I help people find it and learn to use it.
(909) 310-8035 View (909) 310-8035
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Susy Alanis
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
Temecula, CA 92592  (Online Only)
I provide counseling services to individual, couples, and families.
Are you overwhelmed by negative thought, or feeling depressed or anxious? No matter how hard you try, your life just doesn’t seem like it use too. Even on a good day, when everything is going well, you still have those feelings that you are unable to shake off. Waking up telling yourself today will be a new day, just to find yourself with those unpleasant feelings and not understanding why you keep doing the things you do, and unable to recognize the person you have become. So weather it is wanting better connections with loved ones, to better yourself or to heal from the pain of your past, I would like to help you
I provide counseling services to individual, couples, and families.
Are you overwhelmed by negative thought, or feeling depressed or anxious? No matter how hard you try, your life just doesn’t seem like it use too. Even on a good day, when everything is going well, you still have those feelings that you are unable to shake off. Waking up telling yourself today will be a new day, just to find yourself with those unpleasant feelings and not understanding why you keep doing the things you do, and unable to recognize the person you have become. So weather it is wanting better connections with loved ones, to better yourself or to heal from the pain of your past, I would like to help you
(909) 352-4469 View (909) 352-4469
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Cathryn Leff PhD LMFT Couples Communication Expert
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Temecula, CA 92591
Do you feel like you’re not being heard by your partner? Or not appreciated? Is there an issue surrounding a lack of faithfulness, money, being a parent, the in-laws, or work? Or maybe you’d both just love to connect on a deeper level? Maybe you and your spouse or partner haven't learned how to communicate honestly or with respect...and there has been a betrayal of trust – You live like roommates rather than lovers – You feel isolated and alone – You are together only because of your children...and you want something more, much more!
Do you feel like you’re not being heard by your partner? Or not appreciated? Is there an issue surrounding a lack of faithfulness, money, being a parent, the in-laws, or work? Or maybe you’d both just love to connect on a deeper level? Maybe you and your spouse or partner haven't learned how to communicate honestly or with respect...and there has been a betrayal of trust – You live like roommates rather than lovers – You feel isolated and alone – You are together only because of your children...and you want something more, much more!
(951) 566-4044 View (951) 566-4044
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.