Couples Counseling Therapists in 60467

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Sheila A Boender
Counselor, MA, LCPC, RPT-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60467
I have been in the Professional Counseling field over ten years and my passion is to help individuals achieve their fullest potential utilizing their internal and external resources, especially during times of life's trials. I believe no one should walk through life alone and I feel privileged to work with young children, adolescents, adults, couples and families at times of need. My hope is to open my practice to those in need of support due to life circumstances, walk with them and evaluate healthy coping strategies to persevere in Life.
I have been in the Professional Counseling field over ten years and my passion is to help individuals achieve their fullest potential utilizing their internal and external resources, especially during times of life's trials. I believe no one should walk through life alone and I feel privileged to work with young children, adolescents, adults, couples and families at times of need. My hope is to open my practice to those in need of support due to life circumstances, walk with them and evaluate healthy coping strategies to persevere in Life.
(708) 274-7221 View (708) 274-7221
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Huda Abuasi
Psychologist, PsyD , LCP
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
“Genuine”, “Direct,” “empathic,” “non-judgmental,” and “gentle” is how clients describe my approach. I believe that the key to establishing a therapeutic relationship is providing a safe and comfortable environment for the client. It is not easy for anyone to take the difficult first step and work on their issues. I congratulate you on making the choice to begin working on yourself in order to live a happier and more satisfying life. During this very important process I remain present with you showing you compassion and respect, as you embark on your special journey to a better and happier you.
“Genuine”, “Direct,” “empathic,” “non-judgmental,” and “gentle” is how clients describe my approach. I believe that the key to establishing a therapeutic relationship is providing a safe and comfortable environment for the client. It is not easy for anyone to take the difficult first step and work on their issues. I congratulate you on making the choice to begin working on yourself in order to live a happier and more satisfying life. During this very important process I remain present with you showing you compassion and respect, as you embark on your special journey to a better and happier you.
(708) 578-2711 View (708) 578-2711
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Mary Walker
Counselor, MA, LCPC, NCC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60467
When individuals or couples first come in to see me, they are often anxious, depressed or scared. They may feel confused or uncertain about the future. Coping skills that used to work "OK" no longer seem to be sufficient. Some people can point to a specific cause or event, but others find it difficult to identify or talk about underlying concerns - particularly if they have endured a trauma. Therapy offers a warm, safe and compassionate space for exploration of feelings that can be too difficult or too heavy to hold without support.
When individuals or couples first come in to see me, they are often anxious, depressed or scared. They may feel confused or uncertain about the future. Coping skills that used to work "OK" no longer seem to be sufficient. Some people can point to a specific cause or event, but others find it difficult to identify or talk about underlying concerns - particularly if they have endured a trauma. Therapy offers a warm, safe and compassionate space for exploration of feelings that can be too difficult or too heavy to hold without support.
(708) 813-2022 x701 View (708) 813-2022 x701
Dr. Julie Chicvara
Psychologist, PsyD, LCP
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
Because I feel the therapeutic relationship is the main catalyst to success in therapy, I strive to form a relational bond with my patients.
Hello! I am Dr. Julie Chicvara, PsyD, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Born and raised in the southwest suburbs, I have settled my own family in the same community and opened a private practice in the Orland/Mokena area. You can expect a warm welcome and a comfortable environment upon coming to my office. The first visit entails a structured interview where background information and presenting problems are noted. A weekly time will be agreed upon where we will meet to work on therapeutic goals and current stressors. Therapy sessions are less structured and are tailored to the individual.
Because I feel the therapeutic relationship is the main catalyst to success in therapy, I strive to form a relational bond with my patients.
Hello! I am Dr. Julie Chicvara, PsyD, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Born and raised in the southwest suburbs, I have settled my own family in the same community and opened a private practice in the Orland/Mokena area. You can expect a warm welcome and a comfortable environment upon coming to my office. The first visit entails a structured interview where background information and presenting problems are noted. A weekly time will be agreed upon where we will meet to work on therapeutic goals and current stressors. Therapy sessions are less structured and are tailored to the individual.
(708) 317-9435 View (708) 317-9435
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Barbara A Smurzynski
Counselor, LCPC, CT/RTC
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
I am Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, a Board Certified Coach and Choice Theory Reality Therapy Certified. Since 2009, I have had the honor and privilege to be entrusted with helping a wide range of clients navigate critical life transitions and mental health issues. I work with individuals, couples, teenagers, families, and groups. Special interests include working with interpersonal issues, anxiety, depression, self-harming, grief and loss, spirituality, parenting, stress management, and life transitions.
I am Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, a Board Certified Coach and Choice Theory Reality Therapy Certified. Since 2009, I have had the honor and privilege to be entrusted with helping a wide range of clients navigate critical life transitions and mental health issues. I work with individuals, couples, teenagers, families, and groups. Special interests include working with interpersonal issues, anxiety, depression, self-harming, grief and loss, spirituality, parenting, stress management, and life transitions.
(708) 578-8135 View (708) 578-8135
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Jeanne Weber-McGuire
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467  (Online Only)
I believe the most essential part of the therapeutic process is the relationship between client and therapist.
Reaching out for help during our vulnerable moments can be overwhelming and intimidating. Sometimes we can convince ourselves that we should figure it out on our own or that things aren't bad enough to need help and we can find ourselves reluctant to take that next step. Regardless of where you are on your healing journey, I will meet you there and join beside you to work through the things that feel unbearable and impossible to overcome on your own.
I believe the most essential part of the therapeutic process is the relationship between client and therapist.
Reaching out for help during our vulnerable moments can be overwhelming and intimidating. Sometimes we can convince ourselves that we should figure it out on our own or that things aren't bad enough to need help and we can find ourselves reluctant to take that next step. Regardless of where you are on your healing journey, I will meet you there and join beside you to work through the things that feel unbearable and impossible to overcome on your own.
(708) 265-3301 View (708) 265-3301
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Dr. Erica Ray
Counselor, PsyD, LCPC
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
Do you feel like you don't know what else to do? Are you at your wits end with your children, spouse or just feeling hopeless? I want you to know that it's NEVER too late to work on a problem and things are never too far gone if you're willing to try. Everyone deserves to have peace of mind and I have dedicated myself to helping ensure that end. My background includes individual, family and couples, LGBTQ affirmative, school assistance, and treatment of depression, anxiety, behavior disorders, and grief/loss. Email any questions if that's easier or just give us a call! Licensed in Illinois and Georgia with various virtual sessions.
Do you feel like you don't know what else to do? Are you at your wits end with your children, spouse or just feeling hopeless? I want you to know that it's NEVER too late to work on a problem and things are never too far gone if you're willing to try. Everyone deserves to have peace of mind and I have dedicated myself to helping ensure that end. My background includes individual, family and couples, LGBTQ affirmative, school assistance, and treatment of depression, anxiety, behavior disorders, and grief/loss. Email any questions if that's easier or just give us a call! Licensed in Illinois and Georgia with various virtual sessions.
(708) 669-0249 View (708) 669-0249
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Dana L. Hall
Counselor, MA, LCPC, DBT, TF-CBT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60467
Do you often feel weighed down by feelings of anxiety or depression? If you find it difficult to manage these overwhelming emotions know you are not alone. You do not have to suffer while trying to ‘figure things out.’ Together, we will work on strategies that allow you to address the root causes of these challenges and build ways to cope that give you your life back. You'll have a partner in this process; send a message and schedule a consultation today. *Accepting telehealth clients. (Don't worry, my software is very user friendly and allows you to have session in the comfort of your own home.)
Do you often feel weighed down by feelings of anxiety or depression? If you find it difficult to manage these overwhelming emotions know you are not alone. You do not have to suffer while trying to ‘figure things out.’ Together, we will work on strategies that allow you to address the root causes of these challenges and build ways to cope that give you your life back. You'll have a partner in this process; send a message and schedule a consultation today. *Accepting telehealth clients. (Don't worry, my software is very user friendly and allows you to have session in the comfort of your own home.)
(708) 315-2066 View (708) 315-2066
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Ruaa S Jaber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60467
I also work with couples to help navigate relationship challenges.
Life can often feel like an uphill battle, struggling to meet the many demands before us that can easily drain our energy and our joy. I have witnessed firsthand in both my professional and my personal life the ways in which life struggles can affect our mental health, and how mental health struggles can impact our ability to manage daily stressors and relationships. Seeking therapy can be a difficult step to take. I see therapy as a tool, among many, to support and create the change you desire for your life. I love guiding my clients as they learn to highlight their strengths, welcome new perspectives, and learn new ways to cope.
I also work with couples to help navigate relationship challenges.
Life can often feel like an uphill battle, struggling to meet the many demands before us that can easily drain our energy and our joy. I have witnessed firsthand in both my professional and my personal life the ways in which life struggles can affect our mental health, and how mental health struggles can impact our ability to manage daily stressors and relationships. Seeking therapy can be a difficult step to take. I see therapy as a tool, among many, to support and create the change you desire for your life. I love guiding my clients as they learn to highlight their strengths, welcome new perspectives, and learn new ways to cope.
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Tyhilya (Ty) Kunisha McCullum
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
I specialize in working with children, teens, young adults, couples, and families.
Sometimes bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us. I believe that coming to therapy is a huge step towards a path of enlightenment and empowerment.
I specialize in working with children, teens, young adults, couples, and families.
Sometimes bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us. I believe that coming to therapy is a huge step towards a path of enlightenment and empowerment.
(309) 271-1659 View (309) 271-1659
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Jazmin S Davis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60467
Jazmin is a Licensed Social Worker who received her Master's degree in Social Work from Valdosta State University. She enjoys working with a diverse population, with clients of all ages, couples, and families. Jazmin's work history is extensive. She has worked in various settings, including Inpatient/Hospital work, Residential Treatment Centers, School Social Work, and parenting. Specifically, her parenting role has reinforced the importance of family well-being, parent-child interaction, and appropriate behaviors based on the stages of development.
Jazmin is a Licensed Social Worker who received her Master's degree in Social Work from Valdosta State University. She enjoys working with a diverse population, with clients of all ages, couples, and families. Jazmin's work history is extensive. She has worked in various settings, including Inpatient/Hospital work, Residential Treatment Centers, School Social Work, and parenting. Specifically, her parenting role has reinforced the importance of family well-being, parent-child interaction, and appropriate behaviors based on the stages of development.
(708) 847-7297 x712 View (708) 847-7297 x712
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Lindsey Watts
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
Clients have described my therapeutic approach as characterized by authenticity, warmth, empathy, and a forward-thinking perspective, complemented by a sense of humor. I firmly believe that the foundation of successful therapy lies in cultivating a strong and trusting therapist-client relationship. My professional journey encompasses diverse experiences, ranging from working with individuals in residential treatment centers to supporting Division 1 college athletes. I have a particular interest in addressing complex trauma, eating disorders, self-harm, and substance use. Additionally, I am a staunch LGBTQ+ ally.
Clients have described my therapeutic approach as characterized by authenticity, warmth, empathy, and a forward-thinking perspective, complemented by a sense of humor. I firmly believe that the foundation of successful therapy lies in cultivating a strong and trusting therapist-client relationship. My professional journey encompasses diverse experiences, ranging from working with individuals in residential treatment centers to supporting Division 1 college athletes. I have a particular interest in addressing complex trauma, eating disorders, self-harm, and substance use. Additionally, I am a staunch LGBTQ+ ally.
(708) 726-9464 View (708) 726-9464
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Jamie Simmert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, LSW
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
I’m a compassionate therapist, experienced working with individuals, families, and couples, providing guidance/support in their journey to create meaningful lives and better relationships.
We’ve all experienced times when we just feel stuck, going through the motions of life rather than actually living our best lives. Anxiety, depression, addiction, low self-esteem, past trauma or many other issues can impact your ability to live a full and happy life and have healthy family and other relationships. Therapy is a powerful medium that can provide many tools and strategies to help you navigate all of these challenges and many more. I enjoy working with child/adolescent, adult, and geriatric populations using a variety of therapeutic techniques including CBT, DBT, 12-Step, Trauma-Informed, and Family Systems Therapy.
I’m a compassionate therapist, experienced working with individuals, families, and couples, providing guidance/support in their journey to create meaningful lives and better relationships.
We’ve all experienced times when we just feel stuck, going through the motions of life rather than actually living our best lives. Anxiety, depression, addiction, low self-esteem, past trauma or many other issues can impact your ability to live a full and happy life and have healthy family and other relationships. Therapy is a powerful medium that can provide many tools and strategies to help you navigate all of these challenges and many more. I enjoy working with child/adolescent, adult, and geriatric populations using a variety of therapeutic techniques including CBT, DBT, 12-Step, Trauma-Informed, and Family Systems Therapy.
(708) 315-2734 View (708) 315-2734
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Sheila Foulkes
Counselor, MS, LSW
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
Sometimes life is is hard, especially when our emotions keep us from living the peaceful life we want. Many people come to therapy seeking help with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, life transitions, and in some cases, trauma recovery. Whether you’re taking your first steps toward self-improvement and wellness, or have been on your journey for a while, therapy can help you figure out what you need to achieve your goals. I enjoy working with adults who are navigating a variety of life challenges by providing a safe and non-judgmental environment to support you on your journey to make meaningful life changes.
Sometimes life is is hard, especially when our emotions keep us from living the peaceful life we want. Many people come to therapy seeking help with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, life transitions, and in some cases, trauma recovery. Whether you’re taking your first steps toward self-improvement and wellness, or have been on your journey for a while, therapy can help you figure out what you need to achieve your goals. I enjoy working with adults who are navigating a variety of life challenges by providing a safe and non-judgmental environment to support you on your journey to make meaningful life changes.
(708) 627-9705 View (708) 627-9705
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Karin Madsen-Lagacy
Psychologist, PsyD, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60467
My ultimate goal is to ensure a positive therapeutic relationship with each and every one of my clients.
I admire the courage it takes to ask for help and hope to provide you with tools to change your life to what you want it to be. I believe that people face many challenges in their lives. I believe that with perseverance and with focus many challenges can be overcome. I am a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in eating disorders, self-injury, self esteem issues, anxiety disorders, and depression. I believe that you are the expert on your own life and I strive to help you navigate your unique situation with more adaptive coping skills and general sense of fulfillment.
My ultimate goal is to ensure a positive therapeutic relationship with each and every one of my clients.
I admire the courage it takes to ask for help and hope to provide you with tools to change your life to what you want it to be. I believe that people face many challenges in their lives. I believe that with perseverance and with focus many challenges can be overcome. I am a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in eating disorders, self-injury, self esteem issues, anxiety disorders, and depression. I believe that you are the expert on your own life and I strive to help you navigate your unique situation with more adaptive coping skills and general sense of fulfillment.
(630) 478-8593 View (630) 478-8593
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Dr. Lamese Abdelhamid
Pre-Licensed Professional, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60467  (Online Only)
I value my relationship with my clients as it enhances the therapeutic experience, while recognizing the importance of an individuals previous experiences.
You might be feeling overwhelmed and I wonder what it would be like for you to have someone share that space with you, rather than carrying the load on your own. I truly believe that the healing process requires both the therapist and the client to collaborate and create a blueprint that is specific to each individual’s goals and needs. Therapy is not a one size fits all and it is my intention to ensure that I see you, I am with you, and I believe in your ability to commit to your wellbeing.
I value my relationship with my clients as it enhances the therapeutic experience, while recognizing the importance of an individuals previous experiences.
You might be feeling overwhelmed and I wonder what it would be like for you to have someone share that space with you, rather than carrying the load on your own. I truly believe that the healing process requires both the therapist and the client to collaborate and create a blueprint that is specific to each individual’s goals and needs. Therapy is not a one size fits all and it is my intention to ensure that I see you, I am with you, and I believe in your ability to commit to your wellbeing.
(773) 692-0905 View (773) 692-0905
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Lynn Panepinto
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP-II, EMDR
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
I have extensive experience working with individuals, couples, and families with issues such as mood/anxiety disorders, trauma, PTSD, stress, eating disorders, marriage/couples/relationship issues, family conflict, among others.
If you’re struggling with difficult emotions, relationship/family issues, trauma, uncomfortable life transitions, or feeling stuck and overwhelmed, help is available. My passion is working with clients to develop self-awareness, inner strength, and coping skills so that true and lasting healing occurs. I believe that your overall sense of well-being and overall health includes mental and emotional wellness. My hope is that therapy will help you experience greater self-acceptance, understanding, and an ability to achieve your goals and increase your emotional wellness.
I have extensive experience working with individuals, couples, and families with issues such as mood/anxiety disorders, trauma, PTSD, stress, eating disorders, marriage/couples/relationship issues, family conflict, among others.
If you’re struggling with difficult emotions, relationship/family issues, trauma, uncomfortable life transitions, or feeling stuck and overwhelmed, help is available. My passion is working with clients to develop self-awareness, inner strength, and coping skills so that true and lasting healing occurs. I believe that your overall sense of well-being and overall health includes mental and emotional wellness. My hope is that therapy will help you experience greater self-acceptance, understanding, and an ability to achieve your goals and increase your emotional wellness.
(708) 316-9132 View (708) 316-9132
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Dr. Amy Suszko Brown
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
My practice specializes in treating individuals, couples, and families offering a wide variety of specialities and approaches to treatment that is tailored to your needs.
Anxiety, depression, health issues, stress, relationship issues, grief, worry, loneliness, and feeling completely overwhelmed can be a struggle. Life is challenging, and it can be difficult to know where to begin. Making changes to your life is a big step and you do not have to do it alone. Therapy is a collaborative conversation designed to better understand you and your life. Whether you are experiencing a temporary disruption due to a life stressor, or are constantly feeling overwhelmed, therapy can help you achieve the sense of well-being everyone is entitled.
My practice specializes in treating individuals, couples, and families offering a wide variety of specialities and approaches to treatment that is tailored to your needs.
Anxiety, depression, health issues, stress, relationship issues, grief, worry, loneliness, and feeling completely overwhelmed can be a struggle. Life is challenging, and it can be difficult to know where to begin. Making changes to your life is a big step and you do not have to do it alone. Therapy is a collaborative conversation designed to better understand you and your life. Whether you are experiencing a temporary disruption due to a life stressor, or are constantly feeling overwhelmed, therapy can help you achieve the sense of well-being everyone is entitled.
(708) 955-8070 View (708) 955-8070
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Guy E Oberrwise
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Orland Park, IL 60467
I have extensive clinical experience in treating adolescents, adults, families and couples. I specialize in the treatment of mood and anxiety disorders, eating disorders and substance abuse. I improve my patient's lives by implementing evidenced-based treatment approaches such as Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Cognitive Behavior Therapy in combination with a supportive, skill based approach to decrease symptoms and provide a brighter future for their lives. I also provide Exposure Response Prevention Therapy for OCD and am certified to treat Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors such as hair pulling, skin picking, and nail biting.
I have extensive clinical experience in treating adolescents, adults, families and couples. I specialize in the treatment of mood and anxiety disorders, eating disorders and substance abuse. I improve my patient's lives by implementing evidenced-based treatment approaches such as Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Cognitive Behavior Therapy in combination with a supportive, skill based approach to decrease symptoms and provide a brighter future for their lives. I also provide Exposure Response Prevention Therapy for OCD and am certified to treat Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors such as hair pulling, skin picking, and nail biting.
(708) 512-7278 View (708) 512-7278
Photo of Melissa Baranowski, Licensed Professional Counselor in 60467, IL
Melissa Baranowski
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orland Park, IL 60467
I have extensive experience working with adolescents and adults with a variety of issues, including mood and anxiety disorders, trauma, PTSD, stress, eating disorders, marriage/couples/relationship issues, family conflict, among others.
Do you sometimes feel like you’re disconnected, or feel like you don’t belong? Are you finding yourself overwhelmed by feelings of anxiety? Or perhaps relationship struggles or past traumas are not allowing you to live the life you want. You are not alone. Therapy is a powerful medium that can provide many tools and strategies to help you navigate all of these challenges and more. I pride myself on being open and accepting of everyone and have been fortunate to work with clients from all walks of life.
I have extensive experience working with adolescents and adults with a variety of issues, including mood and anxiety disorders, trauma, PTSD, stress, eating disorders, marriage/couples/relationship issues, family conflict, among others.
Do you sometimes feel like you’re disconnected, or feel like you don’t belong? Are you finding yourself overwhelmed by feelings of anxiety? Or perhaps relationship struggles or past traumas are not allowing you to live the life you want. You are not alone. Therapy is a powerful medium that can provide many tools and strategies to help you navigate all of these challenges and more. I pride myself on being open and accepting of everyone and have been fortunate to work with clients from all walks of life.
(708) 419-3644 View (708) 419-3644

Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.