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Liv Neely
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSWA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27705
I am passionate about working with individuals, couples, and polycules, offering support through the exploration of sexuality and gender, transitional life periods, and relationships.
Activist Lilla Watson expressed: “If you have come here to help me, you are wasting your time. But if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together.” This vision inspires my approach to therapy: one that is collaborative, open, and exploratory, kindled by mutual feelings of trust and safety. It also reflects my philosophy toward the healing process as one that is non-linear and rooted in both individual growth and collective care.
I am passionate about working with individuals, couples, and polycules, offering support through the exploration of sexuality and gender, transitional life periods, and relationships.
Activist Lilla Watson expressed: “If you have come here to help me, you are wasting your time. But if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together.” This vision inspires my approach to therapy: one that is collaborative, open, and exploratory, kindled by mutual feelings of trust and safety. It also reflects my philosophy toward the healing process as one that is non-linear and rooted in both individual growth and collective care.
(984) 400-5007 View (984) 400-5007
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Kyle Anne Gouchoe-Hanas
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27705
With humility and excitement, I offer my services as a partner in this exploration.
I strive to support my clients as they navigate anxiety, depression, learning differences, eating disorders, family trauma, identity exploration and many other challenges and transitions. Applying an intersectional lens to all the experiences and identities that shape our lives is also essential to my practice.
With humility and excitement, I offer my services as a partner in this exploration.
I strive to support my clients as they navigate anxiety, depression, learning differences, eating disorders, family trauma, identity exploration and many other challenges and transitions. Applying an intersectional lens to all the experiences and identities that shape our lives is also essential to my practice.
(919) 336-0906 View (919) 336-0906
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Sam Terry
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27705
Welcome! I'm so excited that you're here! I am a queer cisgender counselor based in Durham, NC, offering individual and couples therapy both in-person and virtually. Couples and partnerships that want to deepen their intimate dynamics & explore alternative relationship styles are my ideal clients. I enjoy work focused on improving communication in partnerships to help couples deepen their connection and effectiveness in sharing. I work with individuals with a variety of concerns, including depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, and the effects of growing up in a dysfunctional family.
Welcome! I'm so excited that you're here! I am a queer cisgender counselor based in Durham, NC, offering individual and couples therapy both in-person and virtually. Couples and partnerships that want to deepen their intimate dynamics & explore alternative relationship styles are my ideal clients. I enjoy work focused on improving communication in partnerships to help couples deepen their connection and effectiveness in sharing. I work with individuals with a variety of concerns, including depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, and the effects of growing up in a dysfunctional family.
(919) 635-4767 View (919) 635-4767
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Celynd Noel Malone
Counselor, MA, LCMHCA, TCT, CSAT-C, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27705
I (she/her) work with adults and couples from a variety of backgrounds on all things sex, gender, and religious trauma. Issues include including gender diversity and transgender care, sexual health, sex addiction, depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, grief and loss, and issues of specific concern to the LGBTQIA+, kink, and polyamory communities. I also have experience working with religious trauma. My ideal client is ready to do the deep work, because we're going to dive right in!
I (she/her) work with adults and couples from a variety of backgrounds on all things sex, gender, and religious trauma. Issues include including gender diversity and transgender care, sexual health, sex addiction, depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, grief and loss, and issues of specific concern to the LGBTQIA+, kink, and polyamory communities. I also have experience working with religious trauma. My ideal client is ready to do the deep work, because we're going to dive right in!
(919) 694-4293 View (919) 694-4293
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Nicole Vengrove Soffer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705
I believe that a supportive, therapeutic relationship can help to repair emotional traumas and lead you to a place of understanding and an ability to shape your future.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and provide psychotherapy to adolescents, young adults, and adults. My approach is warm and engaging, curious and authentic. I work collaboratively with my clients and maintain a compassionate and inviting stance. I continue to feel honored to engage in this work and bear witness to such courage and vulnerability. I practice from a relational, psychodynamic, and trauma-informed framework. This means that, together, we will think about how the experiences you have been through in your life have shaped who you are today and how you engage in the world.
I believe that a supportive, therapeutic relationship can help to repair emotional traumas and lead you to a place of understanding and an ability to shape your future.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and provide psychotherapy to adolescents, young adults, and adults. My approach is warm and engaging, curious and authentic. I work collaboratively with my clients and maintain a compassionate and inviting stance. I continue to feel honored to engage in this work and bear witness to such courage and vulnerability. I practice from a relational, psychodynamic, and trauma-informed framework. This means that, together, we will think about how the experiences you have been through in your life have shaped who you are today and how you engage in the world.
(919) 769-3122 View (919) 769-3122
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Insight Counseling Center, Pllc
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705
Each of our therapists are specialists - Teens, couples, trauma, eating disorders, transitions, ADHD, men's issues - we use proven/evidence based methods to address both mind and body to move our clients to integrated wellness.
Modern life can be overwhelming and juggling the many demanding obligations in our days leaves us depleted. However, you don't have to go at it alone. We work with clients ages 16 and up to address their specific needs.
Each of our therapists are specialists - Teens, couples, trauma, eating disorders, transitions, ADHD, men's issues - we use proven/evidence based methods to address both mind and body to move our clients to integrated wellness.
Modern life can be overwhelming and juggling the many demanding obligations in our days leaves us depleted. However, you don't have to go at it alone. We work with clients ages 16 and up to address their specific needs.
(919) 739-3690 View (919) 739-3690
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Aurellia Anderson Thompson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA, MDiv
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705
Anderson Thompson Counseling offers a safe space for clients to explore their lives and the challenges they face which keep them from living their most peace-filled lives. Aurellia Anderson Thompson offers a client-centered therapeutic approach to treatment of depression, anxiety, spiritual distress, complex grief, career crossroads, and relationship conflicts. Client Specialties: Death & Dying, Faith-Based, Clergy Families
Anderson Thompson Counseling offers a safe space for clients to explore their lives and the challenges they face which keep them from living their most peace-filled lives. Aurellia Anderson Thompson offers a client-centered therapeutic approach to treatment of depression, anxiety, spiritual distress, complex grief, career crossroads, and relationship conflicts. Client Specialties: Death & Dying, Faith-Based, Clergy Families
(919) 873-4610 View (919) 873-4610
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Matt Slotkin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, JD
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705
I rely upon a relationally-focused psychodynamic approach for individuals, couples and families in treatment of (in part): anxiety and stress; depression; trauma; relationship problems; loss, grief and life transitions; addictions and codependency; anger; perfectionism; and, low self esteem.
My therapeutic style is warm, genuine, accepting and collaborative.
I rely upon a relationally-focused psychodynamic approach for individuals, couples and families in treatment of (in part): anxiety and stress; depression; trauma; relationship problems; loss, grief and life transitions; addictions and codependency; anger; perfectionism; and, low self esteem.
My therapeutic style is warm, genuine, accepting and collaborative.
(984) 459-7444 View (984) 459-7444
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Matthew Varley
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705
I enjoy meeting diverse individuals, couples, and groups who are working on personal and relational challenges in psychotherapy.
People often consult with me to cope with challenges, gain insights, and make meaningful changes in their personal lives and relationships. Forming a collaborative relationship with every client is central to my work. Grounded in person-centered, existential, and mindfulness-based practice, I am especially interested in the feelings and values influencing human behavior and the ongoing process of finding meaning in life. Most of my clients prefer longer-term, depth-oriented work.
I enjoy meeting diverse individuals, couples, and groups who are working on personal and relational challenges in psychotherapy.
People often consult with me to cope with challenges, gain insights, and make meaningful changes in their personal lives and relationships. Forming a collaborative relationship with every client is central to my work. Grounded in person-centered, existential, and mindfulness-based practice, I am especially interested in the feelings and values influencing human behavior and the ongoing process of finding meaning in life. Most of my clients prefer longer-term, depth-oriented work.
(919) 646-9663 View (919) 646-9663
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Beth Newton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27705
I help busy adults and couples find their connection day in and day out.
Emotions and relationships are hard. But, why? Your brain wants you to protect yourself/selves from "threats" in ways that cause problems and suffering for you or your relationship. Your self-protection is always running in the background. I help you feel better by helping you understand your protection and how to overcome it. You work to be more in touch with your desires and needs; while lowering worry and stress. I'm an individual and couples therapist who knows how to guide you toward new patterns of relating. I welcome all races, sexual orientations and expression, and religions in my practice.
I help busy adults and couples find their connection day in and day out.
Emotions and relationships are hard. But, why? Your brain wants you to protect yourself/selves from "threats" in ways that cause problems and suffering for you or your relationship. Your self-protection is always running in the background. I help you feel better by helping you understand your protection and how to overcome it. You work to be more in touch with your desires and needs; while lowering worry and stress. I'm an individual and couples therapist who knows how to guide you toward new patterns of relating. I welcome all races, sexual orientations and expression, and religions in my practice.
(919) 432-5244 View (919) 432-5244
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Donna Boni
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCAS, C-PD, CCTP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27705
Your life may not be what you want it to be. You may be struggling with addiction, depression, anxiety, past or present trauma. You need someone to talk to, who will listen, not judge, who wants to help you find a way to a better life. I subscribe to the wise words of Viktor Frankl: "When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves." Let me help you meet that challenge. I strive to create a trusting relationship with my clients, which is the foundation that allows a successful outcome. I have extensive training in trauma and the symptoms that often result from these experiences.
Your life may not be what you want it to be. You may be struggling with addiction, depression, anxiety, past or present trauma. You need someone to talk to, who will listen, not judge, who wants to help you find a way to a better life. I subscribe to the wise words of Viktor Frankl: "When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves." Let me help you meet that challenge. I strive to create a trusting relationship with my clients, which is the foundation that allows a successful outcome. I have extensive training in trauma and the symptoms that often result from these experiences.
(919) 759-5784 View (919) 759-5784
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Jennifer C Franklin
Psychologist, PhD, MACP
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705
Waitlist for new clients
I work best with adult individuals and couples who wish to address any of the following: anxiety; mind-body issues like IBS, chronic pain, back pain, etc; stress and trauma; relationship difficulties, life transitions, cultural differences, or spiritual issues; and depression. Therapy is individualized, determined by each client's personal needs, interests, and goals. My aim is to support and guide each person through his or her own unique journey towards greater health, wellness, wholeness, peace, satisfaction, and fulfillment. My work is guided by a holistic, mindfulness-based approach, resulting in gradual yet sustainable change.
I work best with adult individuals and couples who wish to address any of the following: anxiety; mind-body issues like IBS, chronic pain, back pain, etc; stress and trauma; relationship difficulties, life transitions, cultural differences, or spiritual issues; and depression. Therapy is individualized, determined by each client's personal needs, interests, and goals. My aim is to support and guide each person through his or her own unique journey towards greater health, wellness, wholeness, peace, satisfaction, and fulfillment. My work is guided by a holistic, mindfulness-based approach, resulting in gradual yet sustainable change.
(310) 421-2756 View (310) 421-2756
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Mildred Harris
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CSSW, CCS
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705  (Online Only)
I believe that the therapeutic relationship can help you grow, heal, and cope with the challenges of life. You don't have to put it off anymore. I help children, teens, adults, couples and families find relief from anxiety, stress and worry so they can find more peace and joy in their relationships and their lives. With counseling, each conversation is an opportunity to understand yourself better, develop relationships, laugh more often, feel optimistic, incorporating solution-focused strategies that can make a difference everyday.
I believe that the therapeutic relationship can help you grow, heal, and cope with the challenges of life. You don't have to put it off anymore. I help children, teens, adults, couples and families find relief from anxiety, stress and worry so they can find more peace and joy in their relationships and their lives. With counseling, each conversation is an opportunity to understand yourself better, develop relationships, laugh more often, feel optimistic, incorporating solution-focused strategies that can make a difference everyday.
(919) 887-7787 View (919) 887-7787
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Nelly Amariglio
Psychologist, PhD, HSP-P
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705
I specialize in providing evidence-based therapeutic modalities to individuals, couples, dyads and families who seek support around mood-related issues (anxiety, depression), trauma, relational challenges, emotional regulation and adaptation to life events and life transitions.
My passion centers on the ways in which early relationships, life experiences and cultural contexts shape our worldviews and impact our choices, coping and performance. I also focus on the interplay between the mind and the physical body, and the ways we can use this connection to increase well-being and overall functioning. Over the past 15 years I have worked in various academic medical institutions and hospitals (UCLA, CHLA), using research-based interventions to guide individuals (children, youth and adults), couples and families in working towards agency, personal growth, positive change, insight, and adaptation to life events.
I specialize in providing evidence-based therapeutic modalities to individuals, couples, dyads and families who seek support around mood-related issues (anxiety, depression), trauma, relational challenges, emotional regulation and adaptation to life events and life transitions.
My passion centers on the ways in which early relationships, life experiences and cultural contexts shape our worldviews and impact our choices, coping and performance. I also focus on the interplay between the mind and the physical body, and the ways we can use this connection to increase well-being and overall functioning. Over the past 15 years I have worked in various academic medical institutions and hospitals (UCLA, CHLA), using research-based interventions to guide individuals (children, youth and adults), couples and families in working towards agency, personal growth, positive change, insight, and adaptation to life events.
(984) 369-9078 View (984) 369-9078
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Christine Houghton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MDiv
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27705
I consider it a profound honor to witness human beings' capacity to become more authentic, liberated versions of themselves. My experience is that healing and transformation take place only in relationship, and that the therapist-client relationship provides a unique opportunity for connection, reflection, and change. I help clients co-create a space where they can process the heavy burdens that seem to be getting in the way- grief or loss, low self-esteem, ambivalence about what is next, or pain from broken relationships.
I consider it a profound honor to witness human beings' capacity to become more authentic, liberated versions of themselves. My experience is that healing and transformation take place only in relationship, and that the therapist-client relationship provides a unique opportunity for connection, reflection, and change. I help clients co-create a space where they can process the heavy burdens that seem to be getting in the way- grief or loss, low self-esteem, ambivalence about what is next, or pain from broken relationships.
(984) 230-4776 View (984) 230-4776
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Brittany Weber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27705
Waitlist for new clients
You are at your threshold and something has to give. Maybe you have been struggling for years, or maybe you have new stress that feels unmanageable. You've tried changing your diet, journaling, talking it out, and nothing seems to change. It may seem as though things will never be different in your life or your relationship. But, after years of experience working with others just like you, here is the truth: lasting change is possible. My clients come to me because they want a shift and are seeking support as they turn onto a new path. Together, we will explore your thoughts and feelings, using a goal-oriented, intentional approach.
You are at your threshold and something has to give. Maybe you have been struggling for years, or maybe you have new stress that feels unmanageable. You've tried changing your diet, journaling, talking it out, and nothing seems to change. It may seem as though things will never be different in your life or your relationship. But, after years of experience working with others just like you, here is the truth: lasting change is possible. My clients come to me because they want a shift and are seeking support as they turn onto a new path. Together, we will explore your thoughts and feelings, using a goal-oriented, intentional approach.
(504) 226-8048 View (504) 226-8048
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Jonah Woodsong Leslie
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, LCMHCA, MS
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705  (Online Only)
You’re feeling disconnected from yourself or the people around you. Maybe you’re feeling stuck in life and can’t find the energy to change things up. Or maybe you’re overwhelmed by thoughts or feelings that push you around or keep you from doing what you want to be doing. I'd like to help out. Clients often come to see me for help with different forms of anxiety and depression, relationship difficulties, navigating a major transition or wanting to explore their identity. I also support individuals and relationship partners in traditional and non-traditional relationships, and specialize in helping people navigating polyamory.
You’re feeling disconnected from yourself or the people around you. Maybe you’re feeling stuck in life and can’t find the energy to change things up. Or maybe you’re overwhelmed by thoughts or feelings that push you around or keep you from doing what you want to be doing. I'd like to help out. Clients often come to see me for help with different forms of anxiety and depression, relationship difficulties, navigating a major transition or wanting to explore their identity. I also support individuals and relationship partners in traditional and non-traditional relationships, and specialize in helping people navigating polyamory.
(919) 642-4785 View (919) 642-4785
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Kimberly Blackshear
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705
I am clinical social worker. I am interested in providing individual, couples and family therapy. I use a strength-based, solution focused approach to my work to ensure my clients get real-time solutions for real-life challenges. My goal is to create a supportive environment for clients to be their true selves while working toward growth and wellness.
I am clinical social worker. I am interested in providing individual, couples and family therapy. I use a strength-based, solution focused approach to my work to ensure my clients get real-time solutions for real-life challenges. My goal is to create a supportive environment for clients to be their true selves while working toward growth and wellness.
(984) 266-3782 View (984) 266-3782
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Micheale Collie
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CSI
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705
I welcome clients to my practice who are struggling with many of life's challenges, including substance use and addiction, anxiety, grief and loss, life transitions, family and relationship stress, and trauma. I believe no problem is too big or too small for therapy. You may identify as a high achiever who is used to getting things done and possibly caring for others. Who holds space for you?
I welcome clients to my practice who are struggling with many of life's challenges, including substance use and addiction, anxiety, grief and loss, life transitions, family and relationship stress, and trauma. I believe no problem is too big or too small for therapy. You may identify as a high achiever who is used to getting things done and possibly caring for others. Who holds space for you?
(919) 815-6384 View (919) 815-6384
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Sophia Dorton Caudle
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LCMHC-S, CSAT-S, CST, CTCT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27705
I specialize in relationship & intimacy issues, sex and porn addiction, partners of addicts, couples counseling, substance abuse, trauma, depression, anxiety, and compulsive behaviors.
In my clinical practice, I work with adults regarding a wide range of life's emotional and behavioral challenges, and provide services in the areas of trauma, attachment, sex addiction, love addiction, internet and pornography addiction, sex therapy, couples therapy, problematic compulsive behaviors, grief/loss, and more. I offer a highly personalized approach and utilize research based and effective techniques tailored to each of my clients' individual needs to support their personal growth and overall peace and well-being.
I specialize in relationship & intimacy issues, sex and porn addiction, partners of addicts, couples counseling, substance abuse, trauma, depression, anxiety, and compulsive behaviors.
In my clinical practice, I work with adults regarding a wide range of life's emotional and behavioral challenges, and provide services in the areas of trauma, attachment, sex addiction, love addiction, internet and pornography addiction, sex therapy, couples therapy, problematic compulsive behaviors, grief/loss, and more. I offer a highly personalized approach and utilize research based and effective techniques tailored to each of my clients' individual needs to support their personal growth and overall peace and well-being.
(919) 382-0288 View (919) 382-0288
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.