Couples Counseling Therapists in 10601

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Grace Addow-Langlais
Counselor, LPC, LMHC, MSEd, MPA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
White Plains, NY 10601  (Online Only)
Perhaps you're feeling down or anxious - maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. SHIFT Your Journey Mental Health Counseling, is a licensed mental health private practice based in Connecticut (CT) and New York (NY). Our team of dedicated therapists aim to provide a safe and affirming space for communities of color to heal, grow and thrive. Our approach to care is holistic, evidence-based and culturally responsive. This means we explore your full self (background, culture, generational history, etc.), not just your mental health condition/situation.
Perhaps you're feeling down or anxious - maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. SHIFT Your Journey Mental Health Counseling, is a licensed mental health private practice based in Connecticut (CT) and New York (NY). Our team of dedicated therapists aim to provide a safe and affirming space for communities of color to heal, grow and thrive. Our approach to care is holistic, evidence-based and culturally responsive. This means we explore your full self (background, culture, generational history, etc.), not just your mental health condition/situation.
(914) 708-3348 View (914) 708-3348
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Kelly Flood
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
White Plains, NY 10601
I have experience working with anxiety, depression, obsessive compulsive disorder, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder, relationship issues, life transitions, trauma, and developmental disabilities.
No matter what you are going through, you deserve to feel supported and heard. By fostering a trusting and non judgemental atmosphere, we can work through your challenges and stressors together in order to get you on track to living a more fulfilling and joyous life. Through the use of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and other evidence-based practices, we will empower you to heal, grow, and thrive in your day-to-day life. Your wellbeing is my top priority, so come as you are and take the first step in working towards becoming the best version of yourself.
I have experience working with anxiety, depression, obsessive compulsive disorder, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder, relationship issues, life transitions, trauma, and developmental disabilities.
No matter what you are going through, you deserve to feel supported and heard. By fostering a trusting and non judgemental atmosphere, we can work through your challenges and stressors together in order to get you on track to living a more fulfilling and joyous life. Through the use of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and other evidence-based practices, we will empower you to heal, grow, and thrive in your day-to-day life. Your wellbeing is my top priority, so come as you are and take the first step in working towards becoming the best version of yourself.
(914) 415-6370 View (914) 415-6370
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Ranjana Hari
Pre-Licensed Professional, PsyD, NCSP
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
These approaches are highly effective in treating anxiety, depression, trauma/PTSD, OCD, relationship issues, and low self-esteem.
I'm a dedicated psychotherapist with an extensive and diverse background, spanning private practice, schools, college clinics, foster care, and hospitals, including acute care. With a passion for treating individuals of all ages, I specialize in harnessing the power of evidence-based therapies to create long-lasting positive change, focusing on the core of issues, rather than surface change. I take pride in fostering a safe, warm, and compassionate environment that embraces the unique perspectives of clients from diverse backgrounds. Even the most resistant patients find themselves engaged in the therapeutic process under my care.
These approaches are highly effective in treating anxiety, depression, trauma/PTSD, OCD, relationship issues, and low self-esteem.
I'm a dedicated psychotherapist with an extensive and diverse background, spanning private practice, schools, college clinics, foster care, and hospitals, including acute care. With a passion for treating individuals of all ages, I specialize in harnessing the power of evidence-based therapies to create long-lasting positive change, focusing on the core of issues, rather than surface change. I take pride in fostering a safe, warm, and compassionate environment that embraces the unique perspectives of clients from diverse backgrounds. Even the most resistant patients find themselves engaged in the therapeutic process under my care.
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Michaela D'Urso
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
Michaela is a passionate Cognitive Behavioral therapist (which is the most effective, researched, and validated therapy to date). She will work with you to identify and change overly negative thinking and unhelpful behaviors that interfere with your mood, reaching your goals, or hampering interpersonal relationships. She works with those struggling with depression, anxiety, worry, phobias, stress, body image issues, performance anxiety, defiant behavior in children, relationship struggles, and work/school issues.
Michaela is a passionate Cognitive Behavioral therapist (which is the most effective, researched, and validated therapy to date). She will work with you to identify and change overly negative thinking and unhelpful behaviors that interfere with your mood, reaching your goals, or hampering interpersonal relationships. She works with those struggling with depression, anxiety, worry, phobias, stress, body image issues, performance anxiety, defiant behavior in children, relationship struggles, and work/school issues.
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Elizabeth A Bussian
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
White Plains, NY 10601
My experience includes working with individuals suffering with Depression, Anxiety, Relationship Issues, and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
As a solution-focused therapist, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential. While we can't change difficult situations of the past, we can work together to better understand and resolve challenges in your life. By applying complementary therapy approaches and techniques, we will unearth long-standing behavior patterns or negative perceptions that may be holding you back from experiencing a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
My experience includes working with individuals suffering with Depression, Anxiety, Relationship Issues, and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
As a solution-focused therapist, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential. While we can't change difficult situations of the past, we can work together to better understand and resolve challenges in your life. By applying complementary therapy approaches and techniques, we will unearth long-standing behavior patterns or negative perceptions that may be holding you back from experiencing a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
(845) 412-9234 View (845) 412-9234
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Carla Lisio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, R
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
I work with individuals, couples and families seeking change. You may be challenged by anxiety, depression, trauma, loss, difficulties in relationships or the stressors of life transitions, such as divorce or changes in your career. Like all transitions, moving through stages of adolescence, into college and onto adulthood can bring stress, uncertainty and confusion but also tremendous growth. Our work together will seek to promote self-awareness and desired change.
I work with individuals, couples and families seeking change. You may be challenged by anxiety, depression, trauma, loss, difficulties in relationships or the stressors of life transitions, such as divorce or changes in your career. Like all transitions, moving through stages of adolescence, into college and onto adulthood can bring stress, uncertainty and confusion but also tremendous growth. Our work together will seek to promote self-awareness and desired change.
(914) 888-2120 View (914) 888-2120
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Jessica Aron
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
White Plains, NY 10601  (Online Only)
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the level of stress in your life? Would you like to learn helpful skills to improve your mood? Do you want to change your relationship with food and your body? If so, I am here to help. I am dedicated to providing high-quality therapy delivered with compassion and expertise. We will work closely to develop a personalized plan aimed at helping you make positive changes in a timely manner. My focus is to help you build upon your strengths, gain new skills, and achieve the personal growth you seek.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the level of stress in your life? Would you like to learn helpful skills to improve your mood? Do you want to change your relationship with food and your body? If so, I am here to help. I am dedicated to providing high-quality therapy delivered with compassion and expertise. We will work closely to develop a personalized plan aimed at helping you make positive changes in a timely manner. My focus is to help you build upon your strengths, gain new skills, and achieve the personal growth you seek.
(845) 251-4225 View (845) 251-4225
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Jason Duncan
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
Beyond treating individuals, I provide couples and family therapy.
I am a psychologist providing therapy and assessment services for children through adults. I have extensive clinical experience and am an expert Cognitive Behavioral Therapist. I’ve been trained by top therapy institutes, am a board member for well accomplished CBT organizations, and run the official podcast for the national CBT organization. I strive to regularly advance my knowledge and provide leading scientific treatments. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, panic, OCD, trauma, stress, insomnia, ADHD, defiance, and work/school issues. Many of my clients lead busy lives; therefore, I offer evening appointments.
Beyond treating individuals, I provide couples and family therapy.
I am a psychologist providing therapy and assessment services for children through adults. I have extensive clinical experience and am an expert Cognitive Behavioral Therapist. I’ve been trained by top therapy institutes, am a board member for well accomplished CBT organizations, and run the official podcast for the national CBT organization. I strive to regularly advance my knowledge and provide leading scientific treatments. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, panic, OCD, trauma, stress, insomnia, ADHD, defiance, and work/school issues. Many of my clients lead busy lives; therefore, I offer evening appointments.
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Ramona Segreti
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
For many of us, there comes a time when something in our life feels out of balance, out of control. Perhaps it's our marriage or partnership, a family relationship, a job, our health. As a psychotherapist, I feel my goal is not to provide you with answers or advice, but to help you understand yourself, your world, and your place in it.
For many of us, there comes a time when something in our life feels out of balance, out of control. Perhaps it's our marriage or partnership, a family relationship, a job, our health. As a psychotherapist, I feel my goal is not to provide you with answers or advice, but to help you understand yourself, your world, and your place in it.
(914) 288-6205 View (914) 288-6205
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Pamela Duncan
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
I work with individuals, couples, families and groups.
As a New York State licensed clinical psychologist for over 25 years, I offer a private, safe, supportive, healing environment for individuals, couples, families, professionals and groups. I am inspired by the resilience, strength and courage of the clients I work with everyday and it is my goal & commitment to help my clients to grow and live their "best lives". I believe in the importance of self awareness, insight and reflection to understand our relationships with others. I treat a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, school performance, grief, psychological evaluations and relationship issues.
I work with individuals, couples, families and groups.
As a New York State licensed clinical psychologist for over 25 years, I offer a private, safe, supportive, healing environment for individuals, couples, families, professionals and groups. I am inspired by the resilience, strength and courage of the clients I work with everyday and it is my goal & commitment to help my clients to grow and live their "best lives". I believe in the importance of self awareness, insight and reflection to understand our relationships with others. I treat a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, school performance, grief, psychological evaluations and relationship issues.
(914) 318-8025 View (914) 318-8025
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Roseanna S Ramraj
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
As a therapist, I aim to create a safe, stable, friendly, and explorative environment free of judgment. I have extensive experience working with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, substance use disorder, relationship challenges, and grief. We can explore nearly any thought or feeling you have and find deep, meaningful insight.
As a therapist, I aim to create a safe, stable, friendly, and explorative environment free of judgment. I have extensive experience working with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, substance use disorder, relationship challenges, and grief. We can explore nearly any thought or feeling you have and find deep, meaningful insight.
(845) 539-1636 View (845) 539-1636
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Carlyle Tiesha Henry
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP, MSEd
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601  (Online Only)
Understanding and empathy have been my strong suit and I make sure every one of my clients have a space where we work collaboratively to find healthier coping skills and to resolve issues revolving around self-esteem, peer relations, parenting, stress, anxiety, depression, and relationship issues.
During my career I have had the privilege of working with ages across the lifespan ranging from infancy to the geriatic population. I've enjoyed working with everyone I've come across. I have experience working with a multitude of populations, such as culturally diverse minorities, LGBTQIA+, and so much more. Understanding and empathy have been my strong suit and I make sure every one of my clients have a space where they are able to share their inner thoughts, goals, and concerns. I have experience using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, using aspects of Feminist Theory, and I tend to take a Person-Centered approach to therapy.
Understanding and empathy have been my strong suit and I make sure every one of my clients have a space where we work collaboratively to find healthier coping skills and to resolve issues revolving around self-esteem, peer relations, parenting, stress, anxiety, depression, and relationship issues.
During my career I have had the privilege of working with ages across the lifespan ranging from infancy to the geriatic population. I've enjoyed working with everyone I've come across. I have experience working with a multitude of populations, such as culturally diverse minorities, LGBTQIA+, and so much more. Understanding and empathy have been my strong suit and I make sure every one of my clients have a space where they are able to share their inner thoughts, goals, and concerns. I have experience using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, using aspects of Feminist Theory, and I tend to take a Person-Centered approach to therapy.
(845) 409-0867 View (845) 409-0867
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Guadalupe Vidal
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601  (Online Only)
I have experience providing individual, couples, and family therapy to helping clients struggling with issues such as depression, anxiety, PTSD, and crisis situations.
Coming from a proud Mexican background, there is a special interest in working with clients who have experienced cultural and linguistic barriers to accessing mental health care. I see therapy as a way to heal and grow. A place that you feel safe and with emotional support to begin the path that you always wanted but needed support in getting to that point.
I have experience providing individual, couples, and family therapy to helping clients struggling with issues such as depression, anxiety, PTSD, and crisis situations.
Coming from a proud Mexican background, there is a special interest in working with clients who have experienced cultural and linguistic barriers to accessing mental health care. I see therapy as a way to heal and grow. A place that you feel safe and with emotional support to begin the path that you always wanted but needed support in getting to that point.
(845) 393-9114 View (845) 393-9114
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Andrea Deutsch
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
Through exploration of present and past experiences in the context of a safe therapeutic relationship, I help people develop an awareness and understanding of their lives, let go of painful experiences, achieve more satisfying ways of managing challenging situations, and find more gratifying choices and directions in their lives.
If you are feeling bad about yourself and aspects of your life, therapy can help improve your self-esteem, mood, and the quality of your life. I work with adults and adolescents who are struggling with a wide range of issues. Some are confused and unhappy about their relationships or troubled by their performance at work or school. Others come into therapy because of a crisis in their lives, such as illness, divorce, or the loss of a loved one. I also see people who are having trouble adjusting to a life transition, like going away to college or becoming a parent. Still others are bothered by events from the past. Whatever the issue, feeling overwhelmed, anxious, depressed and/or angry are common.
Through exploration of present and past experiences in the context of a safe therapeutic relationship, I help people develop an awareness and understanding of their lives, let go of painful experiences, achieve more satisfying ways of managing challenging situations, and find more gratifying choices and directions in their lives.
If you are feeling bad about yourself and aspects of your life, therapy can help improve your self-esteem, mood, and the quality of your life. I work with adults and adolescents who are struggling with a wide range of issues. Some are confused and unhappy about their relationships or troubled by their performance at work or school. Others come into therapy because of a crisis in their lives, such as illness, divorce, or the loss of a loved one. I also see people who are having trouble adjusting to a life transition, like going away to college or becoming a parent. Still others are bothered by events from the past. Whatever the issue, feeling overwhelmed, anxious, depressed and/or angry are common.
(914) 295-0649 View (914) 295-0649
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Matthew J. Young
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
White Plains, NY 10601
Are you feeling overwhelmed by your current life circumstances? Does your life's purpose seem derailed at the moment? Are you feeling alone, where it seems that no one understands what you are going through? Perhaps there is a relationship that is causing you a significant amount of stress. Would you be interested in developing your strengths in order to better cope with your suffering and achieve your goals? I have my doctorate in psychology and specialize in the assessment and treatment of both children and adults struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, and adjustment to life stressors.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by your current life circumstances? Does your life's purpose seem derailed at the moment? Are you feeling alone, where it seems that no one understands what you are going through? Perhaps there is a relationship that is causing you a significant amount of stress. Would you be interested in developing your strengths in order to better cope with your suffering and achieve your goals? I have my doctorate in psychology and specialize in the assessment and treatment of both children and adults struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, and adjustment to life stressors.
(954) 800-6473 View (954) 800-6473
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Andrea L Labis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
With over 25 years of private practice experience, I offer individual, couples,family, and group rpsychotherapy. My expertise includes: Complex Child Custody and Divorce Proceedings, Parent Coordonation, Parent Coaching, Eating Disorders, Bariatric Surgery, Pain Management, Child/Adolescent School Difficulties, Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Complicated Grief, and Infertility. In addition to having a post-graduate Certificate in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy, I have studied Ayurveda, meditation, mind-body therapy, and other mindful practices. A warm place, a safe space, and a great deal of empathy (with a dose of laughter) help to bring light into the darkest places. I appreciate your strengths!
With over 25 years of private practice experience, I offer individual, couples,family, and group rpsychotherapy. My expertise includes: Complex Child Custody and Divorce Proceedings, Parent Coordonation, Parent Coaching, Eating Disorders, Bariatric Surgery, Pain Management, Child/Adolescent School Difficulties, Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Complicated Grief, and Infertility. In addition to having a post-graduate Certificate in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy, I have studied Ayurveda, meditation, mind-body therapy, and other mindful practices. A warm place, a safe space, and a great deal of empathy (with a dose of laughter) help to bring light into the darkest places. I appreciate your strengths!
(914) 840-5929 View (914) 840-5929
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Jason Greif
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
White Plains, NY 10601  (Online Only)
If you're feeling stuck or are having difficulty focusing, I can help you. I've worked successfully with older adolescents, adults, and couples struggling with (among other things) anxiety, depression, issues around sexuality, and relationship difficulties. Therapy is an opportunity to share your innermost thoughts and feelings in a safe space. I offer a warm and supportive environment where you can express and explore ideas openly and honestly. I am active in therapy and will challenge you with constructive feedback when appropriate. Therapy may entail examining patterns in your life that block you from feeling fulfilled.
If you're feeling stuck or are having difficulty focusing, I can help you. I've worked successfully with older adolescents, adults, and couples struggling with (among other things) anxiety, depression, issues around sexuality, and relationship difficulties. Therapy is an opportunity to share your innermost thoughts and feelings in a safe space. I offer a warm and supportive environment where you can express and explore ideas openly and honestly. I am active in therapy and will challenge you with constructive feedback when appropriate. Therapy may entail examining patterns in your life that block you from feeling fulfilled.
(917) 909-4184 View (917) 909-4184
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Clorinda Bulfamante
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
Within therapy, I am committed to developing a strong therapeutic relationship by creating a space that feels warm and supportive.
I am a clinical psychologist providing therapy and assessment services in Scarsdale and Greenwich. I treat various conditions, such as depression, anxiety, behavioral problems, social anxiety, and school/work issues. I also focus on life transitions, whether that be a recent move, transition from college, changes in family dynamics, or changes in significant relationships. Furthermore, I have extensive experience in conducting psychological assessments. Therapeutically, I focus on developing teens and adults, where as I provide assessments for all ages.
Within therapy, I am committed to developing a strong therapeutic relationship by creating a space that feels warm and supportive.
I am a clinical psychologist providing therapy and assessment services in Scarsdale and Greenwich. I treat various conditions, such as depression, anxiety, behavioral problems, social anxiety, and school/work issues. I also focus on life transitions, whether that be a recent move, transition from college, changes in family dynamics, or changes in significant relationships. Furthermore, I have extensive experience in conducting psychological assessments. Therapeutically, I focus on developing teens and adults, where as I provide assessments for all ages.
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Dodrie Escoffery
MS ED, MPA, MHC-LP
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601  (Online Only)
My specialties include ADHD/executive functioning, anxiety, relationship/couples counseling, family dynamics, career coaching, work/life balance, depression and self-esteem.
As a black male and a Jamaican immigrant, I understand the unique challenges that marginalized communities face in accessing mental health services. I prioritize a safe and non-judgemental therapy space for BIPOC and LGBTQ+ clients to explore their identities and experiences, without fear of judgment or discrimination.
My specialties include ADHD/executive functioning, anxiety, relationship/couples counseling, family dynamics, career coaching, work/life balance, depression and self-esteem.
As a black male and a Jamaican immigrant, I understand the unique challenges that marginalized communities face in accessing mental health services. I prioritize a safe and non-judgemental therapy space for BIPOC and LGBTQ+ clients to explore their identities and experiences, without fear of judgment or discrimination.
(347) 952-7884 View (347) 952-7884
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Dr. M's Therapy-n-More
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601
Specializing in the treatment of anxiety-based disorders/OCD, fears & phobias, Adult AD(H)D, self-esteem issues, and interpersonal/relationship difficulties, sessions will offer insight and understanding (-do you question WHY we do WHAT we do?), and target implementation and execution of adaptive behaviors in "real-life" situations.
Tired of analyzing, re-analyzing and over-analyzing, but never getting anywhere? Feeling anxious, stressed, overwhelmed? Do you find yourself constantly resorting to the "quick fix" and/or negative patterns of behavior? My practice offers a unique blend of PSYCHOTHERAPY & COACHING where enhanced insight/self-awareness are accompanied by an "action plan." -Designed for the "do-ers," -versus those who prefer to "talk about doing," my practice promotes forward movement through the development of greater self-esteem/self-confidence, enhanced coping skills, improved problem-solving strategies, and a core belief that one CAN achieve stated personal, relationship & career-based goals.
Specializing in the treatment of anxiety-based disorders/OCD, fears & phobias, Adult AD(H)D, self-esteem issues, and interpersonal/relationship difficulties, sessions will offer insight and understanding (-do you question WHY we do WHAT we do?), and target implementation and execution of adaptive behaviors in "real-life" situations.
Tired of analyzing, re-analyzing and over-analyzing, but never getting anywhere? Feeling anxious, stressed, overwhelmed? Do you find yourself constantly resorting to the "quick fix" and/or negative patterns of behavior? My practice offers a unique blend of PSYCHOTHERAPY & COACHING where enhanced insight/self-awareness are accompanied by an "action plan." -Designed for the "do-ers," -versus those who prefer to "talk about doing," my practice promotes forward movement through the development of greater self-esteem/self-confidence, enhanced coping skills, improved problem-solving strategies, and a core belief that one CAN achieve stated personal, relationship & career-based goals.
(917) 746-1781 View (917) 746-1781
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.