Colby Aurora Paumen
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
1 Endorsed
Let's Connect (320) 373-4439

Therapy can feel exhausting when you first have to explain your gender, neurodivergence, relationship structure, kink life, or connection to an anthropomorphic fandom before you can even get to what hurts. I work with LGBTQIA+, transgender, neurodivergent, kink/BDSM, and polyamory/ENM adults and partners who want therapy that is affirming, collaborative, and grounded in their actual lives. You may feel overwhelmed, disconnected, ashamed, stuck in relationship patterns, or unsure how to move forward without losing parts of yourself. Together, we can build self-trust, strengthen communication, and find ways forward that fit your life.
My approach is collaborative and consent-based. We may use narrative therapy, parts work, somatic grounding, mindfulness, communication skills, and emotion regulation strategies to help you understand patterns, reduce shame, and build choices that fit your life. I work at your pace and aim to create a space where you do not have to defend who you are.
Reaching out for therapy can feel vulnerable, especially if past care left you misunderstood, judged, or expected to explain yourself. You deserve a space where your full life is welcome and you can move at a pace that feels safe. If my approach feels like a fit, I invite you to reach out. We can start with a conversation and see whether it feels right.
Call or Email Colby Aurora Paumen now for a free 15 minute consultation - (320) 373-4439
Let's Connect (320) 373-4439

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $225
- Couple Sessions $225
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
American Express, Cash, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Venmo, VisaInsurance
- Medical Assistance
- Out of Network
Colby Aurora Paumen
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (320) 373-4439
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Supervised by Kalene (Minnesota / 3754) Colby Aurora Paumen
- In Practice for 2 years
- Attended National University (San Diego, CA), Master of Arts in Psychology, General Psychology, Graduated 2026
Education and Years In Practice
Colby Aurora Paumen
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (320) 373-4439
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Autism
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
- Transgender
Expertise
- LGBTQ+
- Polyamory & ENM
- Trauma and PTSD
Colby Aurora Paumen
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (320) 373-4439
Endorsement
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Culturally Sensitive
- Emotionally Focused
- Existential
- Feminist
- Gestalt
- Narrative
- Person-Centered
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused
Colby Aurora Paumen
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (320) 373-4439