Codependency Therapists in Locust Grove, VA

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Christine I Graham
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Locust Grove, VA 22508
Counseling offers an opportunity to achieve greater balance and wellness in all areas of life. You need a safe place to explore and process your unique feelings and set of circumstances as well as work toward improved coping and increased support. I can help you manage stress, anxiety, depression and life transitions. I will walk alongside you through difficult seasons of life by providing a relational, non-judgmental and, if you desire, faith-based approach to counseling. It's my goal to help you achieve balance, feel calmer, and move forward in your healing journey.
Counseling offers an opportunity to achieve greater balance and wellness in all areas of life. You need a safe place to explore and process your unique feelings and set of circumstances as well as work toward improved coping and increased support. I can help you manage stress, anxiety, depression and life transitions. I will walk alongside you through difficult seasons of life by providing a relational, non-judgmental and, if you desire, faith-based approach to counseling. It's my goal to help you achieve balance, feel calmer, and move forward in your healing journey.
(540) 516-3537 View (540) 516-3537
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Sharon M Bixby
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Locust Grove, VA 22508  (Online Only)
Sharon offers several years of experience, the fluid use of evidence-based practice, and compassionate care to help you find the skills, resources and support systems you need to thrive. Together we will assess your mental health concerns based both on your current struggles and historical information. Your concerns about your behaviors, emotions, personality and relationships will be treated and improved. Various therapies are used with a focus on attachment relationships. Focus areas include, mood disorders, anxiety, personality, trauma/PTSD and grief & loss. We will work in partnership based on trust, respect & non-judgment.
Sharon offers several years of experience, the fluid use of evidence-based practice, and compassionate care to help you find the skills, resources and support systems you need to thrive. Together we will assess your mental health concerns based both on your current struggles and historical information. Your concerns about your behaviors, emotions, personality and relationships will be treated and improved. Various therapies are used with a focus on attachment relationships. Focus areas include, mood disorders, anxiety, personality, trauma/PTSD and grief & loss. We will work in partnership based on trust, respect & non-judgment.
(540) 386-0554 View (540) 386-0554

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Gianna Giuoco
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Culpeper, VA 22701  (Online Only)
Sometimes life brings you challenges that may wear you down and keep you standing still. You might be experiencing an array of emotions such as anxiety, fear, irrational thoughts, chronic pain, or low self-esteem that have become heavy and overwhelming. The negative emotions you are experiencing may be making your life difficult to maneuver. You may even be experiencing challenging life changes or transitions and need some support to help as you traverse the path. This is where the counseling process may help find the hope, strength, and the courage needed to motivate you to move in right direction and find harmony in your life.
Sometimes life brings you challenges that may wear you down and keep you standing still. You might be experiencing an array of emotions such as anxiety, fear, irrational thoughts, chronic pain, or low self-esteem that have become heavy and overwhelming. The negative emotions you are experiencing may be making your life difficult to maneuver. You may even be experiencing challenging life changes or transitions and need some support to help as you traverse the path. This is where the counseling process may help find the hope, strength, and the courage needed to motivate you to move in right direction and find harmony in your life.
(703) 691-5052 View (703) 691-5052
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Renate Scott
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Spotsylvania, VA 22553
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with experience working with adolescents and adults.. I have over 10 years’ experience working in variety of settings including residential, corrections, outpatient, and community-based. I specialize in treating depression, anxiety, trauma related issues, anger manager and other mental health aliments. I implement a Cognitive-Behavioral and Person-Centered approach when providing mental health services. I will identify interventions that are specific to the client needs and develop effective and realistic coping strategies.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with experience working with adolescents and adults.. I have over 10 years’ experience working in variety of settings including residential, corrections, outpatient, and community-based. I specialize in treating depression, anxiety, trauma related issues, anger manager and other mental health aliments. I implement a Cognitive-Behavioral and Person-Centered approach when providing mental health services. I will identify interventions that are specific to the client needs and develop effective and realistic coping strategies.
(571) 620-5527 View (571) 620-5527
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Elizabeth Greene - Decoding Relationships, LLC
LPC Intern, MEd, LMHPe, RIC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spotsylvania, VA 22551  (Online Only)
As a combat veteran of the U.S. Army, I take pride and specialize in working with members of the military, veterans and their families. I also specialize in working with adults, couples, families and children. I have considerable experience in working with those experiencing symptoms of PTSD, stress, depression, anxiety, & mood disorders. Counseling may improve your physical, mental, spiritual well-being, as well as personal and professional relationships. My goal is to make the counseling process as welcoming as possible in a collaborative way that can serve to further uncover your mental & emotional challenges and strengths.
As a combat veteran of the U.S. Army, I take pride and specialize in working with members of the military, veterans and their families. I also specialize in working with adults, couples, families and children. I have considerable experience in working with those experiencing symptoms of PTSD, stress, depression, anxiety, & mood disorders. Counseling may improve your physical, mental, spiritual well-being, as well as personal and professional relationships. My goal is to make the counseling process as welcoming as possible in a collaborative way that can serve to further uncover your mental & emotional challenges and strengths.
(540) 215-7417 View (540) 215-7417
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Marie T Anderson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Spotsylvania, VA 22553
The hardest part about counseling is making that first call and setting the appointment - especially when you're struggling emotionally or relationally. I would like the opportunity to help you. I enjoy collaborating with individuals, couples and families in a confidential and respectful setting. You will gain meaningful insight, practical skills, and achieve positive growth. I am dedicated to helping clients improve the quality and satisfaction of their lives and relationships. I am passionate about healthy marriages and families and especially enjoys working with couples.
The hardest part about counseling is making that first call and setting the appointment - especially when you're struggling emotionally or relationally. I would like the opportunity to help you. I enjoy collaborating with individuals, couples and families in a confidential and respectful setting. You will gain meaningful insight, practical skills, and achieve positive growth. I am dedicated to helping clients improve the quality and satisfaction of their lives and relationships. I am passionate about healthy marriages and families and especially enjoys working with couples.
(540) 585-1198 View (540) 585-1198

Online Therapists

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Edie Brokaw
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAC
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20147  (Online Only)
For over 30 years, I have provided psychotherapy to adults. People from all walks of life need help at some point. Some are struggling with anxiety or depression or have experienced something traumatic and can't seem to move on from it. Others come because a relationship is in trouble and they need help to repair and restore it or they are seeking support to survive the break-up. Still others are dealing with issues of grief and loss, burnout, codependency, traumatic childhoods and addictions. With the pandemic, everything is heightened: our fears, our struggles, even our ability to be kind to ourselves and parent our children.
For over 30 years, I have provided psychotherapy to adults. People from all walks of life need help at some point. Some are struggling with anxiety or depression or have experienced something traumatic and can't seem to move on from it. Others come because a relationship is in trouble and they need help to repair and restore it or they are seeking support to survive the break-up. Still others are dealing with issues of grief and loss, burnout, codependency, traumatic childhoods and addictions. With the pandemic, everything is heightened: our fears, our struggles, even our ability to be kind to ourselves and parent our children.
(540) 212-2664 View (540) 212-2664
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Michelle Nelms
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC , LCPC
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20147
It is my pleasure to be able to offer in-person or Zoom video counseling for convenience and access to Christian Counseling. I am interested in working with those who have broken hearts, anyone affected by divorce, infidelity, narcissist victim, anxiety, perfectionism, codependency, childhood abuse and neglect, mother/father wounding, family dysfunction and those seeking spiritual growth. I enjoy identifying underlying causes of what keeps us stuck. I practice from a non-denominational Biblical worldview and utilize God’s Word in our sessions. It is my personal view that we look at the roots, not the symptoms to make a difference.
It is my pleasure to be able to offer in-person or Zoom video counseling for convenience and access to Christian Counseling. I am interested in working with those who have broken hearts, anyone affected by divorce, infidelity, narcissist victim, anxiety, perfectionism, codependency, childhood abuse and neglect, mother/father wounding, family dysfunction and those seeking spiritual growth. I enjoy identifying underlying causes of what keeps us stuck. I practice from a non-denominational Biblical worldview and utilize God’s Word in our sessions. It is my personal view that we look at the roots, not the symptoms to make a difference.
(571) 200-7234 View (571) 200-7234
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Danielle Thompson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Richmond, VA 23228  (Online Only)
I have assisted clients with anxiety, ADHD, depression, low self-esteem, codependency, relationship issues, intrusive thoughts, life transitions and adjustments, self-advocacy, parenting, and spiritual confusion.
I am dually licensed in VA & NY. I am also passionate about providing counseling and guidance to clients in times of crisis and emotional instability. I take an integrative approach to the treatment process and am invested in each client's journey. My specialties include spiritual identity formation, emotional fitness & improving interpersonal relationships. I will come alongside you with effective listening, empathy, compassion, genuineness and tailored solutions for your unique situation.
I have assisted clients with anxiety, ADHD, depression, low self-esteem, codependency, relationship issues, intrusive thoughts, life transitions and adjustments, self-advocacy, parenting, and spiritual confusion.
I am dually licensed in VA & NY. I am also passionate about providing counseling and guidance to clients in times of crisis and emotional instability. I take an integrative approach to the treatment process and am invested in each client's journey. My specialties include spiritual identity formation, emotional fitness & improving interpersonal relationships. I will come alongside you with effective listening, empathy, compassion, genuineness and tailored solutions for your unique situation.
(804) 369-8828 View (804) 369-8828
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Carolyn Carver Sharff
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Midlothian, VA 23113
I enjoy working with people with substance abuse problems, codependency and with symptoms of depression and anxiety, trauma histories and chronic pain.
Whether you have been thinking about therapy for a while or have recently gone through a difficult time, being in therapy is a good resource to resolve concerns. I have helped many people experiencing high levels of stress , feelings of depression and anxiety or who have turned to substance abuse/addiction. Often coping skills that were once effective no longer work and we become frustrated and isolate ourselves. It can be difficult to get through the day. I have worked with many people like yourself and helped them talk about their concerns and grow by identifying their strengths and helping them resolve their concerns.
I enjoy working with people with substance abuse problems, codependency and with symptoms of depression and anxiety, trauma histories and chronic pain.
Whether you have been thinking about therapy for a while or have recently gone through a difficult time, being in therapy is a good resource to resolve concerns. I have helped many people experiencing high levels of stress , feelings of depression and anxiety or who have turned to substance abuse/addiction. Often coping skills that were once effective no longer work and we become frustrated and isolate ourselves. It can be difficult to get through the day. I have worked with many people like yourself and helped them talk about their concerns and grow by identifying their strengths and helping them resolve their concerns.
(804) 415-8638 View (804) 415-8638
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Leslie B. Jones
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Reston, VA 20191
I have been in the counseling field for over 30 years! I specialize in trauma therapy and relational issues. I have extensive experience with anxiety and depressive disorders, codependency, and women's issues. I encourage clients to use their strengths to combat sabotaging beliefs & find new ways of coping and grounding. I provide a customized treatment approach for the unique needs of each client. I integrate traditional & current therapy techniques to help clients make lasting, positive changes. My clients report greater confidence, restored relationships, increased emotional support from within, and more happiness.
I have been in the counseling field for over 30 years! I specialize in trauma therapy and relational issues. I have extensive experience with anxiety and depressive disorders, codependency, and women's issues. I encourage clients to use their strengths to combat sabotaging beliefs & find new ways of coping and grounding. I provide a customized treatment approach for the unique needs of each client. I integrate traditional & current therapy techniques to help clients make lasting, positive changes. My clients report greater confidence, restored relationships, increased emotional support from within, and more happiness.
(571) 339-3051 View (571) 339-3051
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Cynthia Diane Stroud
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Herndon, VA 20170
Years of experience with helping clients with anxiety, depression, PTSD, OCD, Bipolar, loss and grief, stress, relationships, separation & divorce, LGBT, ACOA, Codependency, postpartum depression, etc.
A Licensed Professional Therapist holding a Master’s Degree in Social Work from Virginia Commonwealth University and a BA in Psychology. Experienced providing therapy for over 25 years helping all individuals with a variety of concerns and issues. Telehealth and/or phone sessions available, flexible hours. Compassion and empathy to all clients at all times meeting each person wherever they are in their journey of healing. I believe that everyone is capable of change, and by giving you my best, we will work together bring out the best in you!
Years of experience with helping clients with anxiety, depression, PTSD, OCD, Bipolar, loss and grief, stress, relationships, separation & divorce, LGBT, ACOA, Codependency, postpartum depression, etc.
A Licensed Professional Therapist holding a Master’s Degree in Social Work from Virginia Commonwealth University and a BA in Psychology. Experienced providing therapy for over 25 years helping all individuals with a variety of concerns and issues. Telehealth and/or phone sessions available, flexible hours. Compassion and empathy to all clients at all times meeting each person wherever they are in their journey of healing. I believe that everyone is capable of change, and by giving you my best, we will work together bring out the best in you!
(571) 380-7652 View (571) 380-7652
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Jill Changizi-Kerr
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sterling, VA 20166  (Online Only)
If you are struggling with life transitions, grief/loss, relationship problems, parenting or caregiving stress, aging issues, terminal illness, infertility, mood concerns, substance use/codependency issues, career distress, self-esteem issues, or other adjustment concerns, I will be delighted to support you as your therapist. I've counseled in settings including hospice, detention centers, private practice, and community mental health centers. I'm also an author who researched/wrote collaboratively with many multicultural experts to publish the textbook "The Handbook for Multicultural Counseling."
If you are struggling with life transitions, grief/loss, relationship problems, parenting or caregiving stress, aging issues, terminal illness, infertility, mood concerns, substance use/codependency issues, career distress, self-esteem issues, or other adjustment concerns, I will be delighted to support you as your therapist. I've counseled in settings including hospice, detention centers, private practice, and community mental health centers. I'm also an author who researched/wrote collaboratively with many multicultural experts to publish the textbook "The Handbook for Multicultural Counseling."
(571) 526-0243 View (571) 526-0243
Photo of Anita Dean, Licensed Professional Counselor in Locust Grove, VA
Anita Dean
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MEd
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22911  (Online Only)
My specialties include: Depression, Postpartum Depression, Anxiety, Women's Issues, Adult Children of Alcoholics, Codependency, Low Self-esteem, Relationship Issues, and more.
I do not have a specific "ideal" client, but I most enjoy working with, and have the most experience with, women from ages 18 to 65. Their issues could be depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship issues, and more(see list below). They are looking for someone who will listen with full attention, interest and compassion. They want someone who is very supportive, who makes them feel very safe and accepted, just as they are. They are looking for a real human being they can relate to. Someone who will remember what is going on with them, who truly cares and cheers them on, who makes them laugh and gives them hope.
My specialties include: Depression, Postpartum Depression, Anxiety, Women's Issues, Adult Children of Alcoholics, Codependency, Low Self-esteem, Relationship Issues, and more.
I do not have a specific "ideal" client, but I most enjoy working with, and have the most experience with, women from ages 18 to 65. Their issues could be depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship issues, and more(see list below). They are looking for someone who will listen with full attention, interest and compassion. They want someone who is very supportive, who makes them feel very safe and accepted, just as they are. They are looking for a real human being they can relate to. Someone who will remember what is going on with them, who truly cares and cheers them on, who makes them laugh and gives them hope.
(434) 722-3175 View (434) 722-3175
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Kerrian McKay
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Manassas, VA 20112
I coach women and adolescent girls 16+ who struggle with people pleasing, fixer syndrome, and perfectionism to build emotional wellness skills to tackle unhealthy relationships that trigger anxiety and depression. I teach research based skills to help you overcome cycles of toxic relationships, family drama, codependency, rescue syndrome, self-doubt, and burn out. I understand the stress of feeling consumed by life and overbearing relationships. I can relate to life feeling too much, relationships feeling burdensome and overwhelmingly exhausting, wanting to leave everything, everyone behind and disappear. I'm here to support you.
I coach women and adolescent girls 16+ who struggle with people pleasing, fixer syndrome, and perfectionism to build emotional wellness skills to tackle unhealthy relationships that trigger anxiety and depression. I teach research based skills to help you overcome cycles of toxic relationships, family drama, codependency, rescue syndrome, self-doubt, and burn out. I understand the stress of feeling consumed by life and overbearing relationships. I can relate to life feeling too much, relationships feeling burdensome and overwhelmingly exhausting, wanting to leave everything, everyone behind and disappear. I'm here to support you.
(571) 701-1594 View (571) 701-1594
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Khara Randall
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CSAC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Williamsburg, VA 23185  (Online Only)
Addictions, life changes and mood disorders can feel difficult and overwhelming when dealt with alone. As a therapist with both inpatient and outpatient experience, we can work together to begin to cope with life stressors. I specialize in working with substance abuse and eating disorders and working towards a Certified Eating Disorder Specialist certification. I have experience with mood disorders, anxiety, depression, codependency and life transitions.
Addictions, life changes and mood disorders can feel difficult and overwhelming when dealt with alone. As a therapist with both inpatient and outpatient experience, we can work together to begin to cope with life stressors. I specialize in working with substance abuse and eating disorders and working towards a Certified Eating Disorder Specialist certification. I have experience with mood disorders, anxiety, depression, codependency and life transitions.
(757) 703-4540 View (757) 703-4540
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Mara Gray
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fredericksburg, VA 22401  (Online Only)
While I enjoy working with diverse client populations, I have found my skills lie especially in working with individuals dealing with life adjustments, relationship and codependency difficulties, anxiety and depression.
While I enjoy working with diverse client populations, I have found my skills lie especially in working with individuals dealing with life adjustments, relationship and codependency difficulties, anxiety and depression.
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Obsidian Therapy Group
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Colonial Heights, VA 23834  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
My specialties include Christian counseling, marriage and family issues, codependency, grief, and trauma.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor who has over 20 years of experience as a mental health provider. I currently serve as the Executive Director of a non-profit community outpatient mental health clinic. I also do a lot of behavioral health consulting and teaching as an adjunct instructor at the colleges in the area. In addition, I provide clinical mental health supervision to private agencies, counseling interns and those seeking professional licensure within the state.
My specialties include Christian counseling, marriage and family issues, codependency, grief, and trauma.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor who has over 20 years of experience as a mental health provider. I currently serve as the Executive Director of a non-profit community outpatient mental health clinic. I also do a lot of behavioral health consulting and teaching as an adjunct instructor at the colleges in the area. In addition, I provide clinical mental health supervision to private agencies, counseling interns and those seeking professional licensure within the state.
(804) 655-4927 View (804) 655-4927
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Ashley Conzel
Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Arlington, VA 22216  (Online Only)
I specialize in trauma, codependency and familial enmeshment, and Borderline Personality Disorder.
I see clients who have historically experienced unstable relationships and find themselves in uncomfortable relationship dynamics. I work with clients to provide information about trauma responses and replace self-sabotaging behaviors with adaptive coping strategies. My skillset is in working with people who have symptoms of personality disorders and those who have had difficulty safely expressing their emotions in the past. When people gain insight into their emotions and behaviors, positive changes occur.
I specialize in trauma, codependency and familial enmeshment, and Borderline Personality Disorder.
I see clients who have historically experienced unstable relationships and find themselves in uncomfortable relationship dynamics. I work with clients to provide information about trauma responses and replace self-sabotaging behaviors with adaptive coping strategies. My skillset is in working with people who have symptoms of personality disorders and those who have had difficulty safely expressing their emotions in the past. When people gain insight into their emotions and behaviors, positive changes occur.
(703) 420-5412 View (703) 420-5412
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Kimbely Williams
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MSW, CSAC
Verified Verified
Glen Allen, VA 23060
Provide codependency & support counseling to spouse & family members.
Are you experiencing feelings of hopelessness, shame and guilt? Struggling with anxiety and depressive symptoms associated with life's circumstances? Do you want a new start and need support without being judged by your past? Having an innate passion for people, I believe that your best self develops after experiencing life's challenges. I will meet you where you are, and from a Christian perspective if requested, will provide you with the tools necessary to find your purpose from the power within you.
Provide codependency & support counseling to spouse & family members.
Are you experiencing feelings of hopelessness, shame and guilt? Struggling with anxiety and depressive symptoms associated with life's circumstances? Do you want a new start and need support without being judged by your past? Having an innate passion for people, I believe that your best self develops after experiencing life's challenges. I will meet you where you are, and from a Christian perspective if requested, will provide you with the tools necessary to find your purpose from the power within you.
(804) 944-8730 View (804) 944-8730

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Codependency Therapists

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.