Photo of Rebecca Vandermark, Counselor in Ontario, NY
Rebecca Vandermark
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Ontario, NY 14519  (Online Only)
Accepting clients in NY and FL. Therapy is a journey that begins with a single step. It is a world of possibilities and although difficult at times, the result can be rewarding, empowering, validating, and even life changing. Are you struggling setting boundaries or communicating effectively? Do you need help working through thoughts, emotions, or difficult times? Are substances getting in the way of you fully living your life? Has maintaining a balanced lifestyle been difficult? Does burnout seem to be looming? Or do you just want someone to talk through things with? Therapy can help. Let’s navigate this journey together!
Accepting clients in NY and FL. Therapy is a journey that begins with a single step. It is a world of possibilities and although difficult at times, the result can be rewarding, empowering, validating, and even life changing. Are you struggling setting boundaries or communicating effectively? Do you need help working through thoughts, emotions, or difficult times? Are substances getting in the way of you fully living your life? Has maintaining a balanced lifestyle been difficult? Does burnout seem to be looming? Or do you just want someone to talk through things with? Therapy can help. Let’s navigate this journey together!
(315) 758-5013 View (315) 758-5013

More Therapists Nearby

Photo of Meg Trenkler, Counselor in Ontario, NY
Meg Trenkler
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Webster, NY 14580
Waitlist for new clients
You are feeling STUCK, and a block keeps happening that keeps you from moving forward in life. You have lived so much life, but memories, shame, and those tough feelings come back to remind you more than you care to admit. Life has thrown you huge curveballs, and yet you can’t figure out why you struggle with everyday tasks as simple as making a clarity-filled decision. Not only that, but your body reminds you often of the stress it is under- even when you’ve done every coping skill you can think of. Breathing? Nope. Counting to ten? Forget it. You deserve to dig deeper. You deserve to rip off the band-aids.
You are feeling STUCK, and a block keeps happening that keeps you from moving forward in life. You have lived so much life, but memories, shame, and those tough feelings come back to remind you more than you care to admit. Life has thrown you huge curveballs, and yet you can’t figure out why you struggle with everyday tasks as simple as making a clarity-filled decision. Not only that, but your body reminds you often of the stress it is under- even when you’ve done every coping skill you can think of. Breathing? Nope. Counting to ten? Forget it. You deserve to dig deeper. You deserve to rip off the band-aids.
(585) 326-9698 View (585) 326-9698
Photo of Patricia Petrone - Whole Wellness Services, Counselor in Ontario, NY
Patricia Petrone - Whole Wellness Services
Counselor, LMHC, CMHIMP, NCC, MS, CNC
Verified Verified
Webster, NY 14580
I am dedicated to helping you through mental health, family, and couples issues with empathy and expertise. Your first session will always be offered within 7 days, and guiding you to your "best self" is my priority. As owner of practice Whole Wellness Services, I have designed a treatment team of experts that are solution focused and utilize evidence based practices while retaining a holistic philosophy. Individuals that come to us for therapy are looking for help with getting to a more joyful place and alleviating symptoms or behaviors that may be holding them back from doing so.
I am dedicated to helping you through mental health, family, and couples issues with empathy and expertise. Your first session will always be offered within 7 days, and guiding you to your "best self" is my priority. As owner of practice Whole Wellness Services, I have designed a treatment team of experts that are solution focused and utilize evidence based practices while retaining a holistic philosophy. Individuals that come to us for therapy are looking for help with getting to a more joyful place and alleviating symptoms or behaviors that may be holding them back from doing so.
(585) 524-0008 View (585) 524-0008
Photo of Jane Cottier, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Ontario, NY
Jane Cottier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Webster, NY 14580
At some point in most of our lives we go through challenging times in which we may feel lost, scared, lonely, anxious, or defeated. With me as your therapist, we work together to identify your best-fitting coping skills and build inner strength. We strive to uncover the barriers within that keep you from your best self and move you toward enjoying a rewarding sense of clarity. I recognize the difficulties individuals face as we begin to reach out and begin the healing process. I am motivated to walk with you at your pace to achieve the goals and aspirations that are most important to your personal growth and exploration.
At some point in most of our lives we go through challenging times in which we may feel lost, scared, lonely, anxious, or defeated. With me as your therapist, we work together to identify your best-fitting coping skills and build inner strength. We strive to uncover the barriers within that keep you from your best self and move you toward enjoying a rewarding sense of clarity. I recognize the difficulties individuals face as we begin to reach out and begin the healing process. I am motivated to walk with you at your pace to achieve the goals and aspirations that are most important to your personal growth and exploration.
(585) 312-3585 View (585) 312-3585
Photo of Patricia Petrone - Whole Wellness Therapy Services, Counselor in Ontario, NY
Patricia Petrone - Whole Wellness Therapy Services
Counselor, LMHC, CMHIMP, NCC, MS, CNC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Webster, NY 14580
Welcome! I am dedicated to helping you through personal, family, and health difficulties with empathy and expertise. At WHOLE, guiding you to your "best self" is our absolute priority. My style of mentoring is client centered and solution focused, giving my clients the opportunity to explore their struggles, find their strengths, and get what they want out of life. We can't wait to offer you hope for the future that can change your life and health long term. Call 585-524-0008 to book your first session within 7 days!
Welcome! I am dedicated to helping you through personal, family, and health difficulties with empathy and expertise. At WHOLE, guiding you to your "best self" is our absolute priority. My style of mentoring is client centered and solution focused, giving my clients the opportunity to explore their struggles, find their strengths, and get what they want out of life. We can't wait to offer you hope for the future that can change your life and health long term. Call 585-524-0008 to book your first session within 7 days!
(585) 524-0008 View (585) 524-0008

Online Therapists

Photo of Mackenzie Davitt, Counselor in Ontario, NY
Mackenzie Davitt
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618  (Online Only)
Find peace and balance from within. I will work with you during whatever life situations you are struggling with, including relationships, codependency, anxiety, depression, procrastination, transitions, family concerns, addictions, and trauma. Maybe you are wanting to move on from a significant loss, ready to heal from emotional pain, looking for greater satisfaction in your relationships or in need of more balance in your life. I honor your process at all times and together we will embark on the journey to wholehearted healing.
Find peace and balance from within. I will work with you during whatever life situations you are struggling with, including relationships, codependency, anxiety, depression, procrastination, transitions, family concerns, addictions, and trauma. Maybe you are wanting to move on from a significant loss, ready to heal from emotional pain, looking for greater satisfaction in your relationships or in need of more balance in your life. I honor your process at all times and together we will embark on the journey to wholehearted healing.
(585) 401-7555 View (585) 401-7555
Photo of Denise McIntosh, Drug & Alcohol Counselor in Ontario, NY
Denise McIntosh
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MSW, CASAC-2
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14614
Waitlist for new clients
At Arise & Shine Counseling, I firmly believe that not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced. It is my hope that our partnership will reinforce the understanding that asking for help is a symbol of strength. I will partner with you and guide you through the barriers of depression, anxiety, trauma, codependency, and relationship challenges.
At Arise & Shine Counseling, I firmly believe that not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced. It is my hope that our partnership will reinforce the understanding that asking for help is a symbol of strength. I will partner with you and guide you through the barriers of depression, anxiety, trauma, codependency, and relationship challenges.
(585) 302-2565 View (585) 302-2565
Photo of Matthew McKenna, Marriage & Family Therapist in Ontario, NY
Matthew McKenna
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14610  (Online Only)
Therapy can feel broad and overwhelming. To simplify our approach, we'll seek acceptance and control of adversities that seem to dictate your life. Whatever stressors weigh on you, we'll troubleshoot what hasn't been working and process new tools to put in place. It is my responsibility to adapt to your preferences and ways of learning. I'll provide a space for you that can range from open discussion and exploration, to structured activities and weekly goals. Additionally, these steps are flexible and can be done in a matter of time that fits what you hope to achieve. All possible with individual, couples, and/or family therapy.
Therapy can feel broad and overwhelming. To simplify our approach, we'll seek acceptance and control of adversities that seem to dictate your life. Whatever stressors weigh on you, we'll troubleshoot what hasn't been working and process new tools to put in place. It is my responsibility to adapt to your preferences and ways of learning. I'll provide a space for you that can range from open discussion and exploration, to structured activities and weekly goals. Additionally, these steps are flexible and can be done in a matter of time that fits what you hope to achieve. All possible with individual, couples, and/or family therapy.
(585) 636-3419 View (585) 636-3419
Photo of Maria Tia Holden, Psychologist in Ontario, NY
Maria Tia Holden
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850
Everyone functions uniquely, at times experiencing depression, anxiety, insecurities, doubt, and grief. I help people around these issues, as well as introversion, high-functioning Asperger's, bipolar, OCD, and social awkwardness...relationship issues, self-esteem, living with narcissists, identity. We can decide how to deal with life's changes, challenges, and transitions. We will focus compassionately on emotions, thoughts, behaviors, and relationships to examine patterns and slowly change them. Our ability to observe and use our will to change are the most powerful tools we possess to bring about changes we desire.
Everyone functions uniquely, at times experiencing depression, anxiety, insecurities, doubt, and grief. I help people around these issues, as well as introversion, high-functioning Asperger's, bipolar, OCD, and social awkwardness...relationship issues, self-esteem, living with narcissists, identity. We can decide how to deal with life's changes, challenges, and transitions. We will focus compassionately on emotions, thoughts, behaviors, and relationships to examine patterns and slowly change them. Our ability to observe and use our will to change are the most powerful tools we possess to bring about changes we desire.
(607) 800-4692 View (607) 800-4692
Photo of Sha'tara Monee White, Counselor in Ontario, NY
Sha'tara Monee White
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14225  (Online Only)
Counseling can be challenging and anxiety-provoking, but also rewarding. We will work collaboratively to create a safe space for you, that allows you to feel motivated, freed, and emotionally competent within yourself. My goal is to assist you with being resilient during challenging times. My authentic and genuine intention is for you to feel safe to express yourself, and to reassure you that throughout your mental health journey, I am here to support you. I accept you as you are. We together can break the stigma. You matter, and your mental health matters. You don’t have to struggle alone or in silence. Take the steps to heal.
Counseling can be challenging and anxiety-provoking, but also rewarding. We will work collaboratively to create a safe space for you, that allows you to feel motivated, freed, and emotionally competent within yourself. My goal is to assist you with being resilient during challenging times. My authentic and genuine intention is for you to feel safe to express yourself, and to reassure you that throughout your mental health journey, I am here to support you. I accept you as you are. We together can break the stigma. You matter, and your mental health matters. You don’t have to struggle alone or in silence. Take the steps to heal.
(716) 320-9425 View (716) 320-9425
Photo of Lisa M Balderman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Ontario, NY
Lisa M Balderman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Elma, NY 14059  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Psychotherapy provides an environment where you can learn about yourself and create change in your life. I work to provide a safe, comfortable, non-judgmental and confidential environment for my clients to begin to achieve their goals and to regain a sense of satisfaction with their lives. In addition to my physical office space located in a suburb of Buffalo, NY I offer teletherapy to clients all over NYS, and Florida through a secure HIPPA compliant platform.
Psychotherapy provides an environment where you can learn about yourself and create change in your life. I work to provide a safe, comfortable, non-judgmental and confidential environment for my clients to begin to achieve their goals and to regain a sense of satisfaction with their lives. In addition to my physical office space located in a suburb of Buffalo, NY I offer teletherapy to clients all over NYS, and Florida through a secure HIPPA compliant platform.
(716) 517-4316 View (716) 517-4316
Photo of Zachery Sargent, Counselor in Ontario, NY
Zachery Sargent
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Hilton, NY 14468
A solution of the past can be the downfall of your present as well. I believe that in order to truly help someone; one must first seek to understand and then to be understood. Treat yourself as if you are someone worth being helped. To succeed in doing so, one must gain a deeper level of self-awareness through connecting the unconscious patterns of today, to the past traumatic events we have experienced. Understanding that the external world is a direct reflection of what is happening in the internal world, your perception can be a deciding factor to a new reality. Your life is what you choose it to be.
A solution of the past can be the downfall of your present as well. I believe that in order to truly help someone; one must first seek to understand and then to be understood. Treat yourself as if you are someone worth being helped. To succeed in doing so, one must gain a deeper level of self-awareness through connecting the unconscious patterns of today, to the past traumatic events we have experienced. Understanding that the external world is a direct reflection of what is happening in the internal world, your perception can be a deciding factor to a new reality. Your life is what you choose it to be.
(585) 636-3486 View (585) 636-3486
Photo of Monica K Whalen, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Ontario, NY
Monica K Whalen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618
Living in “survival mode?” Asking “what is my purpose in life?” Feeling stuck, overwhelmed by fear, facing a transition in your life? Life doesn't always turn out the way we plan, and can make us feel all kinds of emotions. It's ok to not feel ok. We all struggle with life sometimes. You don't have to have a mental health disorder to seek a professional. It is healthy to seek out someone who can provide a guiding hand, an objective ear to listen, and to provide answers to your questions. I can help you learn to listen to your body, quiet your mind, and follow your heart to find peace within your soul. As we get older, we sometimes
Living in “survival mode?” Asking “what is my purpose in life?” Feeling stuck, overwhelmed by fear, facing a transition in your life? Life doesn't always turn out the way we plan, and can make us feel all kinds of emotions. It's ok to not feel ok. We all struggle with life sometimes. You don't have to have a mental health disorder to seek a professional. It is healthy to seek out someone who can provide a guiding hand, an objective ear to listen, and to provide answers to your questions. I can help you learn to listen to your body, quiet your mind, and follow your heart to find peace within your soul. As we get older, we sometimes
(585) 407-1408 View (585) 407-1408
Photo of Agnes Timberger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Ontario, NY
Agnes Timberger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, CSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10025  (Online Only)
I specialize working with adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, past or present disturbing experiences, helping them thrive, grow, develop coping skills in life transitions, improve relationships with family, adult children, friends, bosses, coworkers. I am a seasoned (30+ years) therapist who provides a compassionate, non judgmental, understanding, Christian ear attentive to your struggles and uses research proven, evidence based wholistic methods, CBT, solution focused, motivational positive self talk.
I specialize working with adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, past or present disturbing experiences, helping them thrive, grow, develop coping skills in life transitions, improve relationships with family, adult children, friends, bosses, coworkers. I am a seasoned (30+ years) therapist who provides a compassionate, non judgmental, understanding, Christian ear attentive to your struggles and uses research proven, evidence based wholistic methods, CBT, solution focused, motivational positive self talk.
(845) 690-4842 View (845) 690-4842
Photo of Danielle Luz Matias, Counselor in Ontario, NY
Danielle Luz Matias
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14624
The goal of my practice is to improve the quality of life of my clients and assist them reach their full potential and personal goals. Specializing in family and couple therapy. I also specialize in depression and anxiety. The ideal client will be dedicated to their own treatment and have a strong desire to feel better. Together with my client we work as a team to achieve the therapeutic goals and make life worth living and enjoying. I have been working in a mental health for over a decade and it's my greatest passion in life.
The goal of my practice is to improve the quality of life of my clients and assist them reach their full potential and personal goals. Specializing in family and couple therapy. I also specialize in depression and anxiety. The ideal client will be dedicated to their own treatment and have a strong desire to feel better. Together with my client we work as a team to achieve the therapeutic goals and make life worth living and enjoying. I have been working in a mental health for over a decade and it's my greatest passion in life.
(646) 204-2295 View (646) 204-2295
Photo of Dr. Sharon Marie Zaffarese-Dippold, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Ontario, NY
Dr. Sharon Marie Zaffarese-Dippold
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW-R, LCSW
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850  (Online Only)
We are never alone and sometimes we just need another to join with us on this journey of life. I am happy to join and help you learn, create and achieve the goals you desire. Regardless of your emotional struggle, I can help you. I offer ADD/ADHD assessments/treatments for adults & children. I treat all symptoms including addiction struggles. I offer Phone and Video Sessions via telehealth.
We are never alone and sometimes we just need another to join with us on this journey of life. I am happy to join and help you learn, create and achieve the goals you desire. Regardless of your emotional struggle, I can help you. I offer ADD/ADHD assessments/treatments for adults & children. I treat all symptoms including addiction struggles. I offer Phone and Video Sessions via telehealth.
(814) 240-0352 View (814) 240-0352
Photo of Paul Cartone, Counselor in Ontario, NY
Paul Cartone
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
You are a gift. A miracle. You were born a champion! You were born and brought into this world in pure love. As we experience our life, things happen that cause us to shift from that pure love to emotional discord. As a result, we grow apart from our true self, that pure love. For some, emotional disturbances or conditions develop such as anxiety, depression, anger, negative thinking or self-doubt. I have 25 years experience working with children, adolescents and adults using traditional therapy and cutting edge non-traditional techniques that will help you get you to your goal.
You are a gift. A miracle. You were born a champion! You were born and brought into this world in pure love. As we experience our life, things happen that cause us to shift from that pure love to emotional discord. As a result, we grow apart from our true self, that pure love. For some, emotional disturbances or conditions develop such as anxiety, depression, anger, negative thinking or self-doubt. I have 25 years experience working with children, adolescents and adults using traditional therapy and cutting edge non-traditional techniques that will help you get you to your goal.
(716) 245-7499 View (716) 245-7499
Photo of Karen Hubbard, LMHC, Counselor in Ontario, NY
Karen Hubbard, LMHC
Counselor, MS, LMHC, PMH-C
Verified Verified
Dansville, NY 14437  (Online Only)
Welcome! In a tough spot? My approach with clients is engaging and interactive; I am invested in the collaborative process, which I believe is inherent to the therapeutic relationship. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental environment finding balance between active listening, empathy, support, and behavioral interventions. I will help you identify and better understand choices, ways of thinking about situations, and behavioral patterns that may be getting in the way of living your life to the fullest. We will focus on thought patterns, symptom reduction, improvement in mood and functioning and improved ways of relating to other.
Welcome! In a tough spot? My approach with clients is engaging and interactive; I am invested in the collaborative process, which I believe is inherent to the therapeutic relationship. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental environment finding balance between active listening, empathy, support, and behavioral interventions. I will help you identify and better understand choices, ways of thinking about situations, and behavioral patterns that may be getting in the way of living your life to the fullest. We will focus on thought patterns, symptom reduction, improvement in mood and functioning and improved ways of relating to other.
(585) 229-6503 View (585) 229-6503
Photo of Rachel McGriff, Licensed Professional Counselor in Ontario, NY
Rachel McGriff
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LMHC, CAS
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14623  (Online Only)
The toughest part about therapy is showing up. To continue to show up for yourself might be even tougher. If therapy were easy, everyone would do it. Taking that first step for yourself, is the most powerful thing that you can do and you should give yourself all the credit for being able to do it.
The toughest part about therapy is showing up. To continue to show up for yourself might be even tougher. If therapy were easy, everyone would do it. Taking that first step for yourself, is the most powerful thing that you can do and you should give yourself all the credit for being able to do it.
(585) 513-2619 View (585) 513-2619
Photo of Susan Hart Presley, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Ontario, NY
Susan Hart Presley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Syracuse, NY 13206  (Online Only)
I treat anxiety, depression, narcissism, couples, adults and more with science and care. I focus on comfort, precision and thoroughness to strengthen the dynamics and boundaries of life, event and issue strategies. Learn specific skills and understand how education, career, boundaries and justice combine to express themselves into human behavior and thought. All ages, experiences, education and careers, individual, marriage, family, career, sport, and court. Decades as a therapist, teacher, coach, and in investigation and research. Best performance outcomes in a diversity of settings and factors. CBT if desired. Private.
I treat anxiety, depression, narcissism, couples, adults and more with science and care. I focus on comfort, precision and thoroughness to strengthen the dynamics and boundaries of life, event and issue strategies. Learn specific skills and understand how education, career, boundaries and justice combine to express themselves into human behavior and thought. All ages, experiences, education and careers, individual, marriage, family, career, sport, and court. Decades as a therapist, teacher, coach, and in investigation and research. Best performance outcomes in a diversity of settings and factors. CBT if desired. Private.
(315) 302-1750 View (315) 302-1750

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Codependency Therapists

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.