Sexual Addiction Therapists in Longmont, CO
Being the “default parent” or holding it all together can feel overwhelming and isolating. I specialize in supporting women—especially moms—who feel stretched thin, exhausted, or unsure of who they are beyond their roles. In our work, you’ll find a space that’s compassionate, nonjudgmental, and tailored to you—whether you’re navigating anxiety, grief, relationship stress, or the constant pressure to do it all. Therapy with me is grounded in connection and flexibility: sometimes that looks like laughter, sometimes like tears, and often a mix of both.
Being the “default parent” or holding it all together can feel overwhelming and isolating. I specialize in supporting women—especially moms—who feel stretched thin, exhausted, or unsure of who they are beyond their roles. In our work, you’ll find a space that’s compassionate, nonjudgmental, and tailored to you—whether you’re navigating anxiety, grief, relationship stress, or the constant pressure to do it all. Therapy with me is grounded in connection and flexibility: sometimes that looks like laughter, sometimes like tears, and often a mix of both.
Sex Addiction is a black hole. Getting help via a therapeutic relationship where the client can be heard, accepted, empathized with and helped to feel safe is a path to freedom from this addiction. Tools for growth, new strength, a greater life balance, connection and clarity are used. I have a passion for coming alongside individuals who are seeking to overcome compulsive porn/sexual behaviors, carving a path to that freedom and walking alongside them on that special journey. My greatest satisfaction is from seeing an individual attain their life goals through a special therapeutic relationship. The first 30 minute consult is free.
Sex Addiction is a black hole. Getting help via a therapeutic relationship where the client can be heard, accepted, empathized with and helped to feel safe is a path to freedom from this addiction. Tools for growth, new strength, a greater life balance, connection and clarity are used. I have a passion for coming alongside individuals who are seeking to overcome compulsive porn/sexual behaviors, carving a path to that freedom and walking alongside them on that special journey. My greatest satisfaction is from seeing an individual attain their life goals through a special therapeutic relationship. The first 30 minute consult is free.
Now accepting new clients!
In an increasingly fractured world, it's easy to lose connection with the self and the world around us, leaving us struggling with intimacy, lack of purpose, limiting beliefs, or relationship issues with our loved ones. As a therapist at one of the nation's leading intensive treatment centers for intimacy disorders, I have helped hundreds of clients from across the country struggling with relationships, trauma, addiction, compulsive sexual behaviors, self-worth, relationship crisis, and sexual reintegration. I know that long-term healing is possible for those willing to take the next step.
Now accepting new clients!
In an increasingly fractured world, it's easy to lose connection with the self and the world around us, leaving us struggling with intimacy, lack of purpose, limiting beliefs, or relationship issues with our loved ones. As a therapist at one of the nation's leading intensive treatment centers for intimacy disorders, I have helped hundreds of clients from across the country struggling with relationships, trauma, addiction, compulsive sexual behaviors, self-worth, relationship crisis, and sexual reintegration. I know that long-term healing is possible for those willing to take the next step.
You're a high-achieving man—partner, father, or professional—struggling silently with emotional disconnection, sexual dissatisfaction, porn or sex addiction, or the aftermath of infidelity. You've been called “too nice,” “checked out,” or emotionally unavailable. Underneath, you long for clarity, masculine integrity, and meaningful connection. You may have tried therapy before, but it felt too soft or generic. You’re not here for surface-level change. You want depth, truth, and transformation. I specialize in helping men like you find direction, heal shame, and reclaim inner strength.
You're a high-achieving man—partner, father, or professional—struggling silently with emotional disconnection, sexual dissatisfaction, porn or sex addiction, or the aftermath of infidelity. You've been called “too nice,” “checked out,” or emotionally unavailable. Underneath, you long for clarity, masculine integrity, and meaningful connection. You may have tried therapy before, but it felt too soft or generic. You’re not here for surface-level change. You want depth, truth, and transformation. I specialize in helping men like you find direction, heal shame, and reclaim inner strength.
Life can sometimes feel like it’s happening to us—especially when we’re caught in the grip of trauma, depression, anxiety, or obsessive thoughts. My passion as a therapist is helping people take back control, break free from the past, and step into a life that feels more whole and purposeful.
Whether you’re navigating the echoes of past trauma, struggling with
constant anxiety, or fighting against obsessive thoughts that won’t let go, I’m here to help you find peace, healing, and the tools you need to reclaim your life. I believe therapy should be more than just a space to talk—it should be a dynamic partnership.
Life can sometimes feel like it’s happening to us—especially when we’re caught in the grip of trauma, depression, anxiety, or obsessive thoughts. My passion as a therapist is helping people take back control, break free from the past, and step into a life that feels more whole and purposeful.
Whether you’re navigating the echoes of past trauma, struggling with
constant anxiety, or fighting against obsessive thoughts that won’t let go, I’m here to help you find peace, healing, and the tools you need to reclaim your life. I believe therapy should be more than just a space to talk—it should be a dynamic partnership.
Wendy Conquest
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAT-S, IBP, EMDR
2 Endorsed
Longmont, CO 80501
I specialize in treating infidelity including pornography usage interfering with intimacy and relationships. Currently I am seeing couples who have already been working through the discovery of sex addiction and betrayal trauma, have both done some work and healing and are now ready to move to the next stage of healing. I offer 1/2 day, full day and weekend immersions tailored to the couples needs. In addition I work with sex/porn addicts who are in all stages of recovery. I run a men's group for males who have at least 6 months of sobriety. Visit www.wendyconquest.com
I specialize in treating infidelity including pornography usage interfering with intimacy and relationships. Currently I am seeing couples who have already been working through the discovery of sex addiction and betrayal trauma, have both done some work and healing and are now ready to move to the next stage of healing. I offer 1/2 day, full day and weekend immersions tailored to the couples needs. In addition I work with sex/porn addicts who are in all stages of recovery. I run a men's group for males who have at least 6 months of sobriety. Visit www.wendyconquest.com
Flatirons Counseling Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSMFT, CSAT, MDiv, IITAP
Serves Area
I have received advanced specialized training in therapies subsequent to my academic training including, but not limited to, Sexual Addiction and EMDR.
I am, first and foremost, a highly trained Christian Therapist. For over thirty years I have worked with couples, individuals, and families helping put an anchor back into their lives. As a Marriage and Family Therapist who is licensed in both Colorado and California, I have two Masters degrees: a Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Masters of Divinity (a three-year ministerial academic training) both earned from Fuller Seminary in Pasadena, California that has been coined “The Princeton of the West”. I use a "systems" approach to marriage and family therapy which means I view each person as part of a whole.
I have received advanced specialized training in therapies subsequent to my academic training including, but not limited to, Sexual Addiction and EMDR.
I am, first and foremost, a highly trained Christian Therapist. For over thirty years I have worked with couples, individuals, and families helping put an anchor back into their lives. As a Marriage and Family Therapist who is licensed in both Colorado and California, I have two Masters degrees: a Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Masters of Divinity (a three-year ministerial academic training) both earned from Fuller Seminary in Pasadena, California that has been coined “The Princeton of the West”. I use a "systems" approach to marriage and family therapy which means I view each person as part of a whole.
My clients want to become their best selves. To work with their issues directly to enable themselves to be fully present and expressed in the world. I want clients who want to know how they themselves work. I love to use psycho-education to help the client be their own best advocate for themselves.
My clients want to become their best selves. To work with their issues directly to enable themselves to be fully present and expressed in the world. I want clients who want to know how they themselves work. I love to use psycho-education to help the client be their own best advocate for themselves.
This may be the first time you have begun to confront the challenges which exist in your life. If so, I applaud you because you have just taken the first step on the road to healing and recovery. Whether you've done this before or not, the early steps are not easy but I am confident you will find the journey is worth the risk. Maybe it's time for you to take the next step. I would love to hear from you so I can join you on this important journey.
This may be the first time you have begun to confront the challenges which exist in your life. If so, I applaud you because you have just taken the first step on the road to healing and recovery. Whether you've done this before or not, the early steps are not easy but I am confident you will find the journey is worth the risk. Maybe it's time for you to take the next step. I would love to hear from you so I can join you on this important journey.
My ideal client is someone who knows that something is wrong but is having difficulty making it right; someone who may know that they cannot control negative thoughts and behaviors and feel "stuck" in their current situation; someone who needs tools and help to make their life better. My ideal client may know what their goals are but don't know how to achieve them or someone who is struggling to define their goals. In short, my ideal client is anyone who wants to begin or continue to improve their lives. Call, text or e-mail me to schedule a free 30 minute consultation so that you can decide if I can help.
My ideal client is someone who knows that something is wrong but is having difficulty making it right; someone who may know that they cannot control negative thoughts and behaviors and feel "stuck" in their current situation; someone who needs tools and help to make their life better. My ideal client may know what their goals are but don't know how to achieve them or someone who is struggling to define their goals. In short, my ideal client is anyone who wants to begin or continue to improve their lives. Call, text or e-mail me to schedule a free 30 minute consultation so that you can decide if I can help.
Gage Papierski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Longmont, CO 80501
Waitlist for new clients
Gage is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a passion for the healing process. Gage Specializes in Trauma, Anxiety and Depression, Addiction, Grief and Loss, Men’s issues, and relationships. Gage’s style of therapy is eclectic blending Narrative Therapy, Poly-Vagal Theory, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. Gage really focuses on the relationship through humor, curiosity and playfulness. In Gage’s free time he enjoys CrossFit, music, and spending time with his family and friends.
Gage is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a passion for the healing process. Gage Specializes in Trauma, Anxiety and Depression, Addiction, Grief and Loss, Men’s issues, and relationships. Gage’s style of therapy is eclectic blending Narrative Therapy, Poly-Vagal Theory, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. Gage really focuses on the relationship through humor, curiosity and playfulness. In Gage’s free time he enjoys CrossFit, music, and spending time with his family and friends.
Lucia Cordeiro Drever. Sex Couples
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, PhD, LPCC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Creativity, aliveness, ease, passion and playfulness are all inherent experiences of being human. I am passionate about helping others live a life that feels alive and soothing. With a compassionate presence and non-judgmental perspective, I co-create an environment for clients to explore hard emotions and life experiences so that they can be more spacious, confident, strong and joyful. Sexual abuse, early childhood trauma, compulsive eating and relationships are areas I specialize in. I am a multicultural and trauma informed counselor who speaks English, Spanish and Portuguese fluently. I also offer psychedelic-assisted therapy.
Creativity, aliveness, ease, passion and playfulness are all inherent experiences of being human. I am passionate about helping others live a life that feels alive and soothing. With a compassionate presence and non-judgmental perspective, I co-create an environment for clients to explore hard emotions and life experiences so that they can be more spacious, confident, strong and joyful. Sexual abuse, early childhood trauma, compulsive eating and relationships are areas I specialize in. I am a multicultural and trauma informed counselor who speaks English, Spanish and Portuguese fluently. I also offer psychedelic-assisted therapy.
You're looking for help with something that feels beyond manageable. You have been trying to live and breathe but the hard keeps taking your breath and life and vitality away. People just don't get it, do they? I am here to get it. I am here to get you and help you get through this. I welcome you here: your raw, unfiltered, real self.
You're looking for help with something that feels beyond manageable. You have been trying to live and breathe but the hard keeps taking your breath and life and vitality away. People just don't get it, do they? I am here to get it. I am here to get you and help you get through this. I welcome you here: your raw, unfiltered, real self.
Broken relationships, painful losses, deep rejection, and unspeakable harm can leave lasting unrest and pain in your life. I believe healing is possible—along with renewed connection, restored hope, and an awakening of the deep longings of your heart, even when your past experiences suggest otherwise. I view counseling as a pathway toward greater wholeness, vulnerability, and the courage to take meaningful risks in pursuit of a fuller life. While I practice within the same professional and ethical framework as other clinicians, my work is shaped by a Christian worldview that informs my understanding of healing and growth.
Broken relationships, painful losses, deep rejection, and unspeakable harm can leave lasting unrest and pain in your life. I believe healing is possible—along with renewed connection, restored hope, and an awakening of the deep longings of your heart, even when your past experiences suggest otherwise. I view counseling as a pathway toward greater wholeness, vulnerability, and the courage to take meaningful risks in pursuit of a fuller life. While I practice within the same professional and ethical framework as other clinicians, my work is shaped by a Christian worldview that informs my understanding of healing and growth.
Things have got to change. Why else would you be here, searching through this site? It's frustrating to feel held back by anxiety and depression, knowing that you want things to be different but not knowing how to make the change. It's time to shift things from struggle to a success story. My direct and humorous style will help you gain insight into your own mind, so you can kick that anxiety and depression out of the drivers seat and be the awesome YOU that, deep down, you know you really are. If it seems like you just can't get out of your own way, we are going to work very well together. You can be the achiever you know you are!
Things have got to change. Why else would you be here, searching through this site? It's frustrating to feel held back by anxiety and depression, knowing that you want things to be different but not knowing how to make the change. It's time to shift things from struggle to a success story. My direct and humorous style will help you gain insight into your own mind, so you can kick that anxiety and depression out of the drivers seat and be the awesome YOU that, deep down, you know you really are. If it seems like you just can't get out of your own way, we are going to work very well together. You can be the achiever you know you are!
Deborah Rutt PhD, LCSW is a one-of-a kind psychotherapist steeped in both Western and Eastern approaches to change. She helps clients identify their unique strengths, with increased awareness, and practical tools for personal transformation to live with greater emotional health and well-being. With a doctorate in relationship communication and change, Deborah specializes in working with couples and relationships of any kind. She is known for incorporating the work of Brené Brown, Dr Joe Dispenza into change solutions, as well as integrating neural optimization, and intuitive heart readings energy work in sessions.
Deborah Rutt PhD, LCSW is a one-of-a kind psychotherapist steeped in both Western and Eastern approaches to change. She helps clients identify their unique strengths, with increased awareness, and practical tools for personal transformation to live with greater emotional health and well-being. With a doctorate in relationship communication and change, Deborah specializes in working with couples and relationships of any kind. She is known for incorporating the work of Brené Brown, Dr Joe Dispenza into change solutions, as well as integrating neural optimization, and intuitive heart readings energy work in sessions.
I work with individuals, couples, and families navigating life transitions and relationship challenges. I work toward offering relief from depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use, women’s issues, and attachment or relational difficulties. Using my specialties in experiential therapy, EMDR, cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, and body-focused approaches, I help clients understand their emotions, process past experiences, improve relationships, and cope with stress. Together, we work toward greater self-awareness, healthier connections, and more balanced, fulfilling, and meaningful lives.
I work with individuals, couples, and families navigating life transitions and relationship challenges. I work toward offering relief from depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use, women’s issues, and attachment or relational difficulties. Using my specialties in experiential therapy, EMDR, cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, and body-focused approaches, I help clients understand their emotions, process past experiences, improve relationships, and cope with stress. Together, we work toward greater self-awareness, healthier connections, and more balanced, fulfilling, and meaningful lives.
Wanting change? I am a licensed professional counselor, trauma healing wilderness therapist, coach, and men's group facilitator. I believe we have 1 life to live. My passion is helping you discover your way to live as fully and happily as possible. It is important to me that you experience progress, so I work hard with you wherever you are at in your struggles. My approach is both sensitive but masculine so that you feel safe and unpressured while bravely examining your inner blocks. Together we create action plans that help you apply your insights and get the most out of our work together. We go as deep as you feel ready to go.
Wanting change? I am a licensed professional counselor, trauma healing wilderness therapist, coach, and men's group facilitator. I believe we have 1 life to live. My passion is helping you discover your way to live as fully and happily as possible. It is important to me that you experience progress, so I work hard with you wherever you are at in your struggles. My approach is both sensitive but masculine so that you feel safe and unpressured while bravely examining your inner blocks. Together we create action plans that help you apply your insights and get the most out of our work together. We go as deep as you feel ready to go.
I help families reclaim their strength and connection when facing anxiety, OCD, and relational challenges. These struggles don’t just affect individuals—they impact entire family systems. My Family Consultation Services provide evidence-based tools like Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), the SPACE program (Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions), and Family Well-Being Consultations to break unhealthy cycles, build resilience, and foster meaningful growth. Together, we’ll create a path forward that empowers your family to thrive.
I help families reclaim their strength and connection when facing anxiety, OCD, and relational challenges. These struggles don’t just affect individuals—they impact entire family systems. My Family Consultation Services provide evidence-based tools like Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), the SPACE program (Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions), and Family Well-Being Consultations to break unhealthy cycles, build resilience, and foster meaningful growth. Together, we’ll create a path forward that empowers your family to thrive.
I know that children and teens have strengths along with concerning risk factors that may need attention. If you or your family members are experiencing difficulty with your relationships because of communication and problem-solving problems, please consider evidence-based individual or episodic family therapy. Research shows lasting results when parents and youth learn ways to enhance one another's relational skill-building together. I specialize in helping clients find ways to work through risks such as substance abuse, aggression, anxiety, mood swings, trauma, loss and grief, and school issues.
I know that children and teens have strengths along with concerning risk factors that may need attention. If you or your family members are experiencing difficulty with your relationships because of communication and problem-solving problems, please consider evidence-based individual or episodic family therapy. Research shows lasting results when parents and youth learn ways to enhance one another's relational skill-building together. I specialize in helping clients find ways to work through risks such as substance abuse, aggression, anxiety, mood swings, trauma, loss and grief, and school issues.
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Sexual Addiction Therapists
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.
What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.
How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.
What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.