Codependency Therapists in Lafayette, CO
My work begins with the simple belief that every person—and every relationship, both within and between us—has an innate movement toward growth and healing. In therapy, I create a space where individuals and partners can soften their defenses, tend to the protective strategies that once kept them safe, and begin to meet themselves and one another with greater ease and openness, especially in moments of pain or conflict.
My work begins with the simple belief that every person—and every relationship, both within and between us—has an innate movement toward growth and healing. In therapy, I create a space where individuals and partners can soften their defenses, tend to the protective strategies that once kept them safe, and begin to meet themselves and one another with greater ease and openness, especially in moments of pain or conflict.
Gretchen Stecher, MA, LPC - Soul Shine,
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
2 Endorsed
Lafayette, CO 80026
I take Kaiser! You've done a bunch of personal growth work. You know the relief of being with those who listen from the heart and help you explore the shadow. Those who stay present with you as you gently press into and navigate the discomfort, where the healing lies.
Another layer of old patterns has emerged. You can feel it nudging you, sometimes in a big way. It’s time to lean into the next step. You want to deepen your internal connection, trust yourself and meet your world with full integrity, giving from your heart, your truth. It’s a bold act of love and demonstration of strength to get what you need to be the change.
I take Kaiser! You've done a bunch of personal growth work. You know the relief of being with those who listen from the heart and help you explore the shadow. Those who stay present with you as you gently press into and navigate the discomfort, where the healing lies.
Another layer of old patterns has emerged. You can feel it nudging you, sometimes in a big way. It’s time to lean into the next step. You want to deepen your internal connection, trust yourself and meet your world with full integrity, giving from your heart, your truth. It’s a bold act of love and demonstration of strength to get what you need to be the change.
Psychotherapy can help you to transform your life! In a safe and supportive therapeutic environment, you'll learn how to break old patterns that keep you stuck, so that you can experience happiness, joy, and success in your life. By addressing the emotional issues that keep you from having a healthy relationship with yourself and others, you will develop self-acceptance, self-love and positive self-esteem. With consistent encouragement and support, you can overcome your problems, and heal emotionally inside so that you can reach your personal goals. Please visit my web-sites at denvertherapy.net and bouldertherapy.net
Psychotherapy can help you to transform your life! In a safe and supportive therapeutic environment, you'll learn how to break old patterns that keep you stuck, so that you can experience happiness, joy, and success in your life. By addressing the emotional issues that keep you from having a healthy relationship with yourself and others, you will develop self-acceptance, self-love and positive self-esteem. With consistent encouragement and support, you can overcome your problems, and heal emotionally inside so that you can reach your personal goals. Please visit my web-sites at denvertherapy.net and bouldertherapy.net
As a Somatic Counselor, I work from an understanding of how our thoughts and emotions are necessarily intertwined with our body - internally with brain wiring and externally through behaviors that communicate when words do not. My focus is challenging emotional states and helping adults, partners, and families resolve what the resulting behaviors may be trying to communicate. Specifically, I work with anxiety/ptsd, depression, anger, health crises/fear of death or abandonment, low self-esteem, and grief. Together we choose methods that feel like a fit to meet your circumstance. Ultimately, the goal is empowerment.
As a Somatic Counselor, I work from an understanding of how our thoughts and emotions are necessarily intertwined with our body - internally with brain wiring and externally through behaviors that communicate when words do not. My focus is challenging emotional states and helping adults, partners, and families resolve what the resulting behaviors may be trying to communicate. Specifically, I work with anxiety/ptsd, depression, anger, health crises/fear of death or abandonment, low self-esteem, and grief. Together we choose methods that feel like a fit to meet your circumstance. Ultimately, the goal is empowerment.
Kathryn Montgomery
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CHT, BCC
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Despite hours of talking and trying, are you still feeling defeated or overwhelmed because changes you say you want haven't materialized? Are you feeling *Stuck* in circumstances, feelings, and patterns of behavior you can't budge? Well, you're not broken -- you just need to learn how to use ALL of your resources. The parts of you that allow and sustain change are in every atom of your body - not just in your head. Allow me to help with WAY more than talk. You really can escape the imprisonment of *Stuck* and get some traction in your life. Yes ... really, you can!
Despite hours of talking and trying, are you still feeling defeated or overwhelmed because changes you say you want haven't materialized? Are you feeling *Stuck* in circumstances, feelings, and patterns of behavior you can't budge? Well, you're not broken -- you just need to learn how to use ALL of your resources. The parts of you that allow and sustain change are in every atom of your body - not just in your head. Allow me to help with WAY more than talk. You really can escape the imprisonment of *Stuck* and get some traction in your life. Yes ... really, you can!
Anna Meehan | Pathways Counseling & Neurofeedback
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
We can work together to untangle issues with codependency, people pleasing behaviors, chronic guilt, low self-worth, childhood emotional neglect, family role trauma, anxiety and depression rooted in relational stress, and adult relationship healing.
As a child, adults said to you: “Wow, you’re mature for your age!” Maybe you had to be. Growing up, you walked on eggshells to keep the peace. You stayed as small, quiet, and compliant as possible. You found yourself parenting your parent, navigating their difficult emotions, but you weren’t allowed to have any of your own. As an adult, you find yourself continuing to live in these patterns in your closest relationships. You say “yes” when you want to say “no”. You put everyone else’s needs ahead of your own and feel overburdened with managing other's emotions . You doubt your intuition and feel lonely, unseen, and misunderstood .
We can work together to untangle issues with codependency, people pleasing behaviors, chronic guilt, low self-worth, childhood emotional neglect, family role trauma, anxiety and depression rooted in relational stress, and adult relationship healing.
As a child, adults said to you: “Wow, you’re mature for your age!” Maybe you had to be. Growing up, you walked on eggshells to keep the peace. You stayed as small, quiet, and compliant as possible. You found yourself parenting your parent, navigating their difficult emotions, but you weren’t allowed to have any of your own. As an adult, you find yourself continuing to live in these patterns in your closest relationships. You say “yes” when you want to say “no”. You put everyone else’s needs ahead of your own and feel overburdened with managing other's emotions . You doubt your intuition and feel lonely, unseen, and misunderstood .
I work with adults seeking greater self-understanding, connection, and personal empowerment through a holistic approach to therapy. Many are navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, grief, or life transitions. Together, we create a warm, collaborative space to explore the connection between your mind, body, emotions, and nervous system, helping you move forward toward greater resilience, self-awareness, and self-trust. My work supports you in reconnecting with yourself—mind, body and spirit—while understanding patterns with greater compassion, and developing a deeper sense of agency in your life.
I work with adults seeking greater self-understanding, connection, and personal empowerment through a holistic approach to therapy. Many are navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, grief, or life transitions. Together, we create a warm, collaborative space to explore the connection between your mind, body, emotions, and nervous system, helping you move forward toward greater resilience, self-awareness, and self-trust. My work supports you in reconnecting with yourself—mind, body and spirit—while understanding patterns with greater compassion, and developing a deeper sense of agency in your life.
I'm a licensed clinical psychologist, and I believe that providing a safe and supportive environment fosters alliance and trust within the therapeutic relationship. My goal as a therapist is to help my clients achieve their goals whether that includes easing symptoms of depression or anxiety, working through difficult issues (current or past), increasing coping skills, increasing self-esteem, and/or identifying what's next in life. I am also trained and certified in EMDR.
I'm a licensed clinical psychologist, and I believe that providing a safe and supportive environment fosters alliance and trust within the therapeutic relationship. My goal as a therapist is to help my clients achieve their goals whether that includes easing symptoms of depression or anxiety, working through difficult issues (current or past), increasing coping skills, increasing self-esteem, and/or identifying what's next in life. I am also trained and certified in EMDR.
It is my honor to work with adults 18+ including seniors to navigate life challenges both present focused and those with roots in the past. Life is a journey of accomplishments & joy along with struggles & challenges. During difficult phases I hope to come alongside and support you by considering the relational, psychological, emotional, & spiritual dimensions in a holistic way. First, I listen to your story to understand your unique personality. Next, integrating my professional training, life experience, and years encouraging and supporting others, I offer resources, strategies, and guidance on how to heal, change & grow.
It is my honor to work with adults 18+ including seniors to navigate life challenges both present focused and those with roots in the past. Life is a journey of accomplishments & joy along with struggles & challenges. During difficult phases I hope to come alongside and support you by considering the relational, psychological, emotional, & spiritual dimensions in a holistic way. First, I listen to your story to understand your unique personality. Next, integrating my professional training, life experience, and years encouraging and supporting others, I offer resources, strategies, and guidance on how to heal, change & grow.
To the deep feelers and thinkers, those who notice things that others miss, I see you. 20-30% of us are born with more finely-tuned nervous systems than others, yet most of us have been made to feel different, strange, and "too sensitive". If you often get overwhelmed by life and the chaos of the world, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you. I love helping Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) and others with neurodivergent brains understand themselves in light of unique wiring, heal from past trauma, and gain the self-trust to soar.
To the deep feelers and thinkers, those who notice things that others miss, I see you. 20-30% of us are born with more finely-tuned nervous systems than others, yet most of us have been made to feel different, strange, and "too sensitive". If you often get overwhelmed by life and the chaos of the world, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you. I love helping Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) and others with neurodivergent brains understand themselves in light of unique wiring, heal from past trauma, and gain the self-trust to soar.
I'm glad you're here exploring the support you need. For the last 18 years I have helped individuals and families navigate life's transitions, losses and challenges. I trust together we will discern the best steps toward reaching your goals, while creating more depth of connection with yourself and others.
I'm glad you're here exploring the support you need. For the last 18 years I have helped individuals and families navigate life's transitions, losses and challenges. I trust together we will discern the best steps toward reaching your goals, while creating more depth of connection with yourself and others.
Welcome. I'm glad you're here. Underneath it all are you feeling sad, lonely and confused, overwhelmed by anxiety or anger? Has it been a long time since you could say that you felt truly happy? Are you stuck in relationship patterns that are no longer serving you but are unsure of how to change, whether this is with your intimate partner(s), your kids, or in your friendships? I would love to partner with you as you journey towards transforming these stuck places in your life.
Welcome. I'm glad you're here. Underneath it all are you feeling sad, lonely and confused, overwhelmed by anxiety or anger? Has it been a long time since you could say that you felt truly happy? Are you stuck in relationship patterns that are no longer serving you but are unsure of how to change, whether this is with your intimate partner(s), your kids, or in your friendships? I would love to partner with you as you journey towards transforming these stuck places in your life.
I have been a counselor for 40 years, working with individuals, couples, families and groups with psychological as well as addiction issues. I have extensive experience in inpatient as well as outpatient settings. I am eclectic in my evaluation and treatment methods, which gives me flexibility to treat individual needs. Primarily, I use cognitive-behavioral techniques. Many of my clients suffer with depression, anger, and anxiety (panic attacks, obsessive-compulsive disorder); all of which impact potential addictions. I also treat couples and families to better understand their dynamics and to improve their communication skills.
I have been a counselor for 40 years, working with individuals, couples, families and groups with psychological as well as addiction issues. I have extensive experience in inpatient as well as outpatient settings. I am eclectic in my evaluation and treatment methods, which gives me flexibility to treat individual needs. Primarily, I use cognitive-behavioral techniques. Many of my clients suffer with depression, anger, and anxiety (panic attacks, obsessive-compulsive disorder); all of which impact potential addictions. I also treat couples and families to better understand their dynamics and to improve their communication skills.
For anyone feeling like life is not aligning, I work as a guide and companion to help move through these moments in life. My passion is helping people navigate through grief, life transition, mood disorders, and anxiety by using an integrative therapeutic approach and nature-based techniques.
For anyone feeling like life is not aligning, I work as a guide and companion to help move through these moments in life. My passion is helping people navigate through grief, life transition, mood disorders, and anxiety by using an integrative therapeutic approach and nature-based techniques.
In a failing relationship, or failing to succeed in your professional or academic pursuits? Call me today to reclaim that meaningful relationship you desire, or to begin experiencing success in your vocation or studies. I have spent over 30 years helping people develop, maintain, and revive meaningful long-term relationships, and to achieve success in their work and studies. With my training in Marriage, Family and Child Counseling, Psychoanalytic and Depth Psychotherapy, Biofeedback and Neurofeedback training, I can help you.
In a failing relationship, or failing to succeed in your professional or academic pursuits? Call me today to reclaim that meaningful relationship you desire, or to begin experiencing success in your vocation or studies. I have spent over 30 years helping people develop, maintain, and revive meaningful long-term relationships, and to achieve success in their work and studies. With my training in Marriage, Family and Child Counseling, Psychoanalytic and Depth Psychotherapy, Biofeedback and Neurofeedback training, I can help you.
At 2nd Star Counseling, our clinicians Kathryn Raley, NCC, LPC, RPT-S, ACS and Maggie Daggett, MA, LPCC offer individual therapy, adolescent therapy, play therapy, and family therapy.
At 2nd Star Counseling, our clinicians Kathryn Raley, NCC, LPC, RPT-S, ACS and Maggie Daggett, MA, LPCC offer individual therapy, adolescent therapy, play therapy, and family therapy.
I’m Terri Kirwan, MA, LPC, CAC II, and for over 25 years I’ve helped clients heal from the lasting effects of trauma and reclaim their lives. My passion is working with complex PTSD and the challenges that often accompany it — anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship struggles, and more. My approach is both comprehensive and compassionate. Whether through individual sessions, my Emotional Regulation Skills Groups, or immersive trauma healing weekends, my goal is to provide you with a safe and supportive environment and the practical tools to release the past, restore balance, and step into the fulfilling life you deserve.
I’m Terri Kirwan, MA, LPC, CAC II, and for over 25 years I’ve helped clients heal from the lasting effects of trauma and reclaim their lives. My passion is working with complex PTSD and the challenges that often accompany it — anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship struggles, and more. My approach is both comprehensive and compassionate. Whether through individual sessions, my Emotional Regulation Skills Groups, or immersive trauma healing weekends, my goal is to provide you with a safe and supportive environment and the practical tools to release the past, restore balance, and step into the fulfilling life you deserve.
Have you experienced trauma, stress or loss in your life? Most likely the answer is yes, we all have a different tolerance for the things life throws at us. Everyday adversities can add up over our lifetime. Unfortunately, we live in a society that too often has a "forget about it and move on" attitude. I want to help you slow down and really look at how your life journey has impacted your overall mental health. My goal is to create a safe place for you or your child to begin understanding how these stressors are impacting your life. I want to normalize the importance of self awareness, communication and self love.
Have you experienced trauma, stress or loss in your life? Most likely the answer is yes, we all have a different tolerance for the things life throws at us. Everyday adversities can add up over our lifetime. Unfortunately, we live in a society that too often has a "forget about it and move on" attitude. I want to help you slow down and really look at how your life journey has impacted your overall mental health. My goal is to create a safe place for you or your child to begin understanding how these stressors are impacting your life. I want to normalize the importance of self awareness, communication and self love.
I work primarily with men experiencing anxiety, depression, burnout, chronic stress, or a sense of disconnection from themselves, their relationships, or their direction in life. Many are high-functioning on the outside but feel overwhelmed, shut down, or mentally exhausted internally. I help clients get to the root of what’s keeping them stuck by working directly with the nervous system, core beliefs, and protective patterns so real, lasting change can occur.
I work primarily with men experiencing anxiety, depression, burnout, chronic stress, or a sense of disconnection from themselves, their relationships, or their direction in life. Many are high-functioning on the outside but feel overwhelmed, shut down, or mentally exhausted internally. I help clients get to the root of what’s keeping them stuck by working directly with the nervous system, core beliefs, and protective patterns so real, lasting change can occur.
People don’t come to therapy because they want to do deep work, they come because something’s hurting, exhausting, or just hasn’t changed no matter how hard they try. I’ve sat with people in that place many times: the chronic pain that has no off-switch, the health that betrays you, the replaying of old hurts that still feels alive in the body.
People don’t come to therapy because they want to do deep work, they come because something’s hurting, exhausting, or just hasn’t changed no matter how hard they try. I’ve sat with people in that place many times: the chronic pain that has no off-switch, the health that betrays you, the replaying of old hurts that still feels alive in the body.
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Codependency Therapists
What therapy types help with codependency problems?
Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.
What happens in therapy for codependency?
Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.
How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?
Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.
What is the goal of therapy for codependency?
One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.


