Emotionally Focused Therapists in Kit Carson County, CO

I am Jaelyn Aragon, a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who specializes in working with children, teens, and adults struggling to cope with issues related to addiction, depression, anxiety, underdeveloped coping skills, chronic illness, family conflict, trauma, PTSD, sexual or physical abuse, parenting difficulties, and much more. My journey into counseling began with my work at Safe Passage Children’s Advocacy Center, where I volunteered for over two years. This experience taught me the value of meeting a client wherever they are, both in mindset and situation, and how to respond to a range of emotional challenges.
I am Jaelyn Aragon, a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who specializes in working with children, teens, and adults struggling to cope with issues related to addiction, depression, anxiety, underdeveloped coping skills, chronic illness, family conflict, trauma, PTSD, sexual or physical abuse, parenting difficulties, and much more. My journey into counseling began with my work at Safe Passage Children’s Advocacy Center, where I volunteered for over two years. This experience taught me the value of meeting a client wherever they are, both in mindset and situation, and how to respond to a range of emotional challenges.

My name is Leanne Bolingbroke, I received my Master’s Degree in Psychology from Marist College in New York. Originally from South Africa; I have lived in rural Colorado for the past 18 years. My experience as a Licensed Massage Therapist helps me to understand the mind body connection and how our emotions can manifest physically. I also have experience working as an RBT with neurodivergent children as well as the Special Education Department within school districts. All of my valuable life experiences inform my approach to helping my clients achieve their goals, whether my client is 6 years old, 16 years old, or an adult.
My name is Leanne Bolingbroke, I received my Master’s Degree in Psychology from Marist College in New York. Originally from South Africa; I have lived in rural Colorado for the past 18 years. My experience as a Licensed Massage Therapist helps me to understand the mind body connection and how our emotions can manifest physically. I also have experience working as an RBT with neurodivergent children as well as the Special Education Department within school districts. All of my valuable life experiences inform my approach to helping my clients achieve their goals, whether my client is 6 years old, 16 years old, or an adult.
Online Therapists

Finding a counselor who truly understands the weight of emotional pain can feel overwhelming. I know firsthand how difficult it is to face struggles that seem insurmountable, which is why I am passionate about walking alongside you on your journey toward healing.
Finding a counselor who truly understands the weight of emotional pain can feel overwhelming. I know firsthand how difficult it is to face struggles that seem insurmountable, which is why I am passionate about walking alongside you on your journey toward healing.

My name is Kevin Cure. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in Colorado. I have been licensed since Feb of 2015. I have a Masters Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Saint Mary’s University of Minnesota. I have a wide variety of experience both in providing therapy and other areas of experience that allow me to work successfully with a wide variety of couples, families, and individuals in the current difficulties they are experiencing.
My name is Kevin Cure. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in Colorado. I have been licensed since Feb of 2015. I have a Masters Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Saint Mary’s University of Minnesota. I have a wide variety of experience both in providing therapy and other areas of experience that allow me to work successfully with a wide variety of couples, families, and individuals in the current difficulties they are experiencing.

You're not sure when it started, or why, but something feels off. You feel the pressure building as you try to balance the things that take your time and energy in life. You want to feel lively, humorous, joyful, motivated, confident, and light, but it doesn't feel available to you. Maybe you've learned to approach life with grit and determination, appearing solid and self-sufficient on the outside, but feeling unfulfilled, unsupported, and disconnected in the inside. Well, all of that sounds hard, and I'm SO proud for you to take time for yourself to see if things can be different and better for you.
You're not sure when it started, or why, but something feels off. You feel the pressure building as you try to balance the things that take your time and energy in life. You want to feel lively, humorous, joyful, motivated, confident, and light, but it doesn't feel available to you. Maybe you've learned to approach life with grit and determination, appearing solid and self-sufficient on the outside, but feeling unfulfilled, unsupported, and disconnected in the inside. Well, all of that sounds hard, and I'm SO proud for you to take time for yourself to see if things can be different and better for you.

Melanie Secary
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, BA, MA, MFTC
Verified Verified
Brush, CO 80723
We all know life comes with its ups and downs and sometimes we struggle with how to navigate this crazy journey called life. Therapy can be a scary thing to start when it is the unknown, however, I am here in hopes of bringing new light to your life. I am an MFTC working with individuals, couples, and families. I work with clients using different types of therapy modalities (listed below) that are most fitting for the client and client-therapist relationship. I also often work with kiddos as young as age 4 using play therapy techniques.
We all know life comes with its ups and downs and sometimes we struggle with how to navigate this crazy journey called life. Therapy can be a scary thing to start when it is the unknown, however, I am here in hopes of bringing new light to your life. I am an MFTC working with individuals, couples, and families. I work with clients using different types of therapy modalities (listed below) that are most fitting for the client and client-therapist relationship. I also often work with kiddos as young as age 4 using play therapy techniques.

Congratulations on taking the step towards your well-being—it's a journey worth embarking on. Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, or feeling stuck in negative thought patterns? Perhaps you're seeking to live a more fulfilling life but don't know where to start. You want to break free from the grip of mental health challenges and discover your inner resilience. You're seeking a therapist who sees you as a whole person, not just a list of problems, and who can offer evidence-based strategies for positive change. Your goal is to cultivate mindfulness, challenge negative thoughts, and build a life filled with meaning and purpos
Congratulations on taking the step towards your well-being—it's a journey worth embarking on. Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, or feeling stuck in negative thought patterns? Perhaps you're seeking to live a more fulfilling life but don't know where to start. You want to break free from the grip of mental health challenges and discover your inner resilience. You're seeking a therapist who sees you as a whole person, not just a list of problems, and who can offer evidence-based strategies for positive change. Your goal is to cultivate mindfulness, challenge negative thoughts, and build a life filled with meaning and purpos

Grief is not about "getting over it." It's not a medical condition that needs to be cured, nor does it fit into a box. It is about loss...a break up, death of a loved one, end of a friendship, job loss or the end of a career, divorce, or the loss of a dream. Some days it may feel like you are drowning in a tidal wave of sadness. Other days, a pocket of grief envelopes you because of a song, smell, or memory. You grieve as deeply as you love, and your grief demands to be felt!
Grief is not about "getting over it." It's not a medical condition that needs to be cured, nor does it fit into a box. It is about loss...a break up, death of a loved one, end of a friendship, job loss or the end of a career, divorce, or the loss of a dream. Some days it may feel like you are drowning in a tidal wave of sadness. Other days, a pocket of grief envelopes you because of a song, smell, or memory. You grieve as deeply as you love, and your grief demands to be felt!

Zoë has a commitment to providing client-centered care and fostering a safe and nonjudgmental space for individuals seeking support. She has a dedication to tailoring treatment plans to meet each client’s unique needs and goals. Counseling may be beneficial to: Support Career and Lifestyle Change, Manage Depression, Strengthen Relationships, Explore Conflict Resolution, Improve Emotional Regulation Skills, Cope with Grief & Loss , Manage Anxiety , Heal from Trauma or Abuse, Increase Motivation, Strengthen Communication Skills.
Zoë has a commitment to providing client-centered care and fostering a safe and nonjudgmental space for individuals seeking support. She has a dedication to tailoring treatment plans to meet each client’s unique needs and goals. Counseling may be beneficial to: Support Career and Lifestyle Change, Manage Depression, Strengthen Relationships, Explore Conflict Resolution, Improve Emotional Regulation Skills, Cope with Grief & Loss , Manage Anxiety , Heal from Trauma or Abuse, Increase Motivation, Strengthen Communication Skills.

I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of Colorado. Marriage and Family Therapist are trained with direct clinical supervision in family systems theory. We believe that individuals and their problems must be seen in context, and that the most important context is the family. Marriage and Family Therapist subscribe to a strict code of ethics, covering responsibilities to clients, the profession and the community. I am a Clinical Member and Approved Supervisor of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy as well as Past President of the Colorado Association of Marriage and Family Therapy.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of Colorado. Marriage and Family Therapist are trained with direct clinical supervision in family systems theory. We believe that individuals and their problems must be seen in context, and that the most important context is the family. Marriage and Family Therapist subscribe to a strict code of ethics, covering responsibilities to clients, the profession and the community. I am a Clinical Member and Approved Supervisor of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy as well as Past President of the Colorado Association of Marriage and Family Therapy.
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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.