Infidelity Therapists in Englewood, CO
I help people explore what’s really happening in their relationships and reconnect with joy. My priority is helping you feel understood and no longer alone. We do that by feeling together—crying, being angry, grieving, and experiencing joy. Often this means noticing and expressing what wasn’t safe or encouraged to feel in childhood or past relationships. Together, we explore what shaped you and what you learned is safe or not, so you can rewrite those lessons and feel freer in your relationships and with yourself. As an Emotionally Focused Therapist, I focus on how your emotions and past experiences shape your current communication.
I help people explore what’s really happening in their relationships and reconnect with joy. My priority is helping you feel understood and no longer alone. We do that by feeling together—crying, being angry, grieving, and experiencing joy. Often this means noticing and expressing what wasn’t safe or encouraged to feel in childhood or past relationships. Together, we explore what shaped you and what you learned is safe or not, so you can rewrite those lessons and feel freer in your relationships and with yourself. As an Emotionally Focused Therapist, I focus on how your emotions and past experiences shape your current communication.
After 20+ years as a global business professional while raising 3 children in a two working parent household, my life experience, combined with my clinical training, I am passionate about helping others navigate life’s obstacles; whether it be life transitions, adults of childhood trauma, parenting, romantic relationships, divorce, affairs, careers, adult children caring for parents or parenting neurodiverse children. I actively listen to your needs and use a collaborative approach to help you and your loved ones experience being seen and heard in a safe and empathetic setting.
After 20+ years as a global business professional while raising 3 children in a two working parent household, my life experience, combined with my clinical training, I am passionate about helping others navigate life’s obstacles; whether it be life transitions, adults of childhood trauma, parenting, romantic relationships, divorce, affairs, careers, adult children caring for parents or parenting neurodiverse children. I actively listen to your needs and use a collaborative approach to help you and your loved ones experience being seen and heard in a safe and empathetic setting.
As a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist for couples, individuals, and families, I have specialized experience and advanced training for healing affairs and relationship trauma, creating deeper emotional connection in relationships, improving communication, and decreasing unhealthy conflict.
For our entire life, we have a wired-in need to feel secure in our most important relationships. I can help you make sense of the things you do to cope with not feeling secure that may not always work out the way you want them to. Then, we can work together to find new ways of coping that build stronger bonds and bigger feelings of security.
As a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist for couples, individuals, and families, I have specialized experience and advanced training for healing affairs and relationship trauma, creating deeper emotional connection in relationships, improving communication, and decreasing unhealthy conflict.
For our entire life, we have a wired-in need to feel secure in our most important relationships. I can help you make sense of the things you do to cope with not feeling secure that may not always work out the way you want them to. Then, we can work together to find new ways of coping that build stronger bonds and bigger feelings of security.
I work with repeating conflicts, relationship injuries like infidelity, and life transitions.
Sometimes love is messy, confusing, and exhausting. You may feel like you’re speaking different languages, walking on eggshells, or watching the connection you value slip away. I help couples and individuals explore what’s really happening in these moments, making sense of how your relationship and family history got you here, gently uncovering patterns that keep you stuck, and creating new ways to relate that feel authentic and safe. As a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist and Supervisor, I guide you toward understanding, compassion, and playful, meaningful connection so your relationships can thrive.
I work with repeating conflicts, relationship injuries like infidelity, and life transitions.
Sometimes love is messy, confusing, and exhausting. You may feel like you’re speaking different languages, walking on eggshells, or watching the connection you value slip away. I help couples and individuals explore what’s really happening in these moments, making sense of how your relationship and family history got you here, gently uncovering patterns that keep you stuck, and creating new ways to relate that feel authentic and safe. As a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist and Supervisor, I guide you toward understanding, compassion, and playful, meaningful connection so your relationships can thrive.
Daniel Fleshner is a Licensed Professional Counselor and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with a passion for exploring relationships and helping individuals and couples process conflict and engage in healthy communication. He currently works at Inflection Point Therapy in Denver, CO where he provides individual counseling, couples counseling, and sex therapy. He graduated with a M. Ed in Rehabilitation Counseling from The George Washington University and a B.A. in Psychology and Political Science from The University of Michigan.
Daniel Fleshner is a Licensed Professional Counselor and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with a passion for exploring relationships and helping individuals and couples process conflict and engage in healthy communication. He currently works at Inflection Point Therapy in Denver, CO where he provides individual counseling, couples counseling, and sex therapy. He graduated with a M. Ed in Rehabilitation Counseling from The George Washington University and a B.A. in Psychology and Political Science from The University of Michigan.
Some of my specialty areas with couples include healing from infidelity, co-parenting difficulties, and communication struggles.
I believe everyone deserves a place to process the difficulties that life throws at us, and I’m here to meet you with warmth and support. I work with teens (16+), adults, and couples, and have advanced training in Emotionally-Focused Therapy. As a documentary filmmaker in my previous career, I believe in the power of the stories that we hold about ourselves; and as a therapist, I believe in the power of examining and rewriting those stories to make ourselves feel more whole, valued, and loved.
Some of my specialty areas with couples include healing from infidelity, co-parenting difficulties, and communication struggles.
I believe everyone deserves a place to process the difficulties that life throws at us, and I’m here to meet you with warmth and support. I work with teens (16+), adults, and couples, and have advanced training in Emotionally-Focused Therapy. As a documentary filmmaker in my previous career, I believe in the power of the stories that we hold about ourselves; and as a therapist, I believe in the power of examining and rewriting those stories to make ourselves feel more whole, valued, and loved.
It’s a new day and you’re disappointed the sun even came up…overwhelmed is the best word to describe you. Depression waves through you. Sleep is elusive or sometimes you sleep too much. Anxiety engulfs you. You know exercise is supposed to help. But you don’t have an ounce of energy. The self-criticism that floats through your head can feel like it’s drowning you. You feel helpless and drained. No one knows you’re feeling this way. Sometimes you think that you should be able to pull yourself up by the bootstraps. But you just can’t. And you’ve tried so many different times. Everything you’ve tried has failed. Now what?
It’s a new day and you’re disappointed the sun even came up…overwhelmed is the best word to describe you. Depression waves through you. Sleep is elusive or sometimes you sleep too much. Anxiety engulfs you. You know exercise is supposed to help. But you don’t have an ounce of energy. The self-criticism that floats through your head can feel like it’s drowning you. You feel helpless and drained. No one knows you’re feeling this way. Sometimes you think that you should be able to pull yourself up by the bootstraps. But you just can’t. And you’ve tried so many different times. Everything you’ve tried has failed. Now what?
I work with partners navigating repeated conflicts, attachment injuries, infidelity, or life transitions.
Relationships can feel confusing and painful when you argue over the same things or silence replaces connection. When you’re feeling discouraged, it can feel easier to pull away or protect yourself, even from the person you love most. I work with couples who want to overcome this inertia to feel safe with each other again, communicate openly, and soften old defenses. I help you slow down moments when things go sideways, understand what's happening beneath the surface, and begin to reach for each other with honesty, warmth, and understanding. You deserve a relationship where you feel held and seen, and with work, this is possible!
I work with partners navigating repeated conflicts, attachment injuries, infidelity, or life transitions.
Relationships can feel confusing and painful when you argue over the same things or silence replaces connection. When you’re feeling discouraged, it can feel easier to pull away or protect yourself, even from the person you love most. I work with couples who want to overcome this inertia to feel safe with each other again, communicate openly, and soften old defenses. I help you slow down moments when things go sideways, understand what's happening beneath the surface, and begin to reach for each other with honesty, warmth, and understanding. You deserve a relationship where you feel held and seen, and with work, this is possible!
I specialize in partners of sexual infidelity, as well as sexual trauma, and offer online coaching to partners of betrayal all over the world as well as in office sessions.
Personal trauma, anxiety, depression & sexual issues are obstacles in the way of living a fulfilled life. It takes a great deal of courage to seek help and doing so is the first step toward change. I believe that a strong and genuine therapeutic relationship is the key to successful treatment. Through getting to know you and understanding things from your perspective, I tailor treatment and interventions to meet your individual concerns, challenges, strengths and goals.
I specialize in partners of sexual infidelity, as well as sexual trauma, and offer online coaching to partners of betrayal all over the world as well as in office sessions.
Personal trauma, anxiety, depression & sexual issues are obstacles in the way of living a fulfilled life. It takes a great deal of courage to seek help and doing so is the first step toward change. I believe that a strong and genuine therapeutic relationship is the key to successful treatment. Through getting to know you and understanding things from your perspective, I tailor treatment and interventions to meet your individual concerns, challenges, strengths and goals.
I have been practicing therapy for over 14 years and I am passionate about supporting my clients in their personal growth. I use a person - centered approach while exploring the past and present and challenging distorted negative cognitions when appropriate. The decision to enter therapy is not an easy one and my goal is to offer support in a safe and compassionate space. I am trained in Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing and Somatic Experiencing. These training provide me with a wide variety of tools/skills to offer my clients.
I have been practicing therapy for over 14 years and I am passionate about supporting my clients in their personal growth. I use a person - centered approach while exploring the past and present and challenging distorted negative cognitions when appropriate. The decision to enter therapy is not an easy one and my goal is to offer support in a safe and compassionate space. I am trained in Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing and Somatic Experiencing. These training provide me with a wide variety of tools/skills to offer my clients.
I have experience and success treating marital affairs, with teen issues, or children’s challenges like ADHD, self-esteem or adjustment.
You have been debating about therapy for a while I bet…but pick up the phone and call, you will feel so much better! I am a licensed marriage and family therapist with 23 + years of experience and a seasoned in couples/family therapist with a emphasis on anxiety/depression and child/teen issues. I understand the challenges in finding someone you can trust to help you process the hardships life can toss your direction. If you need help finding your way out of the pain- give therapy a try and call. Many clients tell me the call is the hardest step and the relief is very welcome. We get to where we want to go—one step at a time.
I have experience and success treating marital affairs, with teen issues, or children’s challenges like ADHD, self-esteem or adjustment.
You have been debating about therapy for a while I bet…but pick up the phone and call, you will feel so much better! I am a licensed marriage and family therapist with 23 + years of experience and a seasoned in couples/family therapist with a emphasis on anxiety/depression and child/teen issues. I understand the challenges in finding someone you can trust to help you process the hardships life can toss your direction. If you need help finding your way out of the pain- give therapy a try and call. Many clients tell me the call is the hardest step and the relief is very welcome. We get to where we want to go—one step at a time.
Sometimes, relationships have been injured by infidelity, substance abuse, or other betrayals.
Many things can impact our lives and relationships from stress, anxiety, and depression, to trauma, substance use, sexual difficulties, life transitions, and unresolved childhood attachment injuries. My hope is that together we will cultivate new corrective experiences that bring you closer to your true needs and desires. Together, we will identify your goals and set you up to achieve them. Through therapy we will develop better communication and connection skills that will foster deeper connections with the people in your life. I will strive to help you regain confidence in your innate strengths and abilities, hopes, and dreams.
Sometimes, relationships have been injured by infidelity, substance abuse, or other betrayals.
Many things can impact our lives and relationships from stress, anxiety, and depression, to trauma, substance use, sexual difficulties, life transitions, and unresolved childhood attachment injuries. My hope is that together we will cultivate new corrective experiences that bring you closer to your true needs and desires. Together, we will identify your goals and set you up to achieve them. Through therapy we will develop better communication and connection skills that will foster deeper connections with the people in your life. I will strive to help you regain confidence in your innate strengths and abilities, hopes, and dreams.
Just because you carry it well doesn’t mean it’s not heavy. Your history, experiences, and situations have shaped who you are today. You’ve had to adapt and adjust by keeping quiet, by not having needs, or overcompensating with success or high achievements. Seeking approval, becoming self-critical or people-pleasing is the armor you wear to survive. Here at Cedar Psychology, we want to understand, identify, and help you change the patterns that are keeping you from living authentically. We help you find freedom from burdens that aren’t yours to bear.
Just because you carry it well doesn’t mean it’s not heavy. Your history, experiences, and situations have shaped who you are today. You’ve had to adapt and adjust by keeping quiet, by not having needs, or overcompensating with success or high achievements. Seeking approval, becoming self-critical or people-pleasing is the armor you wear to survive. Here at Cedar Psychology, we want to understand, identify, and help you change the patterns that are keeping you from living authentically. We help you find freedom from burdens that aren’t yours to bear.
Within our therapeutic relationship my hope will be to expand the connection to yourself and to others through the combination of inner healing, insight, and functional skill building. My ultimate goal is to empower you as a whole person, and magnify your impact on the world. I see the therapeutic process as dynamic and collaborative, and you will be seen and compassionately known by me and through yourself and step into greater freedom. Bring yourself and whatever you are navigating through and we will get to work! - Tip: You will get a faster response emailing me instead of reaching out by phone :)
Within our therapeutic relationship my hope will be to expand the connection to yourself and to others through the combination of inner healing, insight, and functional skill building. My ultimate goal is to empower you as a whole person, and magnify your impact on the world. I see the therapeutic process as dynamic and collaborative, and you will be seen and compassionately known by me and through yourself and step into greater freedom. Bring yourself and whatever you are navigating through and we will get to work! - Tip: You will get a faster response emailing me instead of reaching out by phone :)
Learn how to feel more connected to yourself, others and the world around you. Therapy provides all the elements of intimacy: honest communication, vulnerability and trust. Good therapy is challenging yet warm, providing both structure and empathy for your unique experience. We are a collective of therapists with a wide range of specialties. Our intake professionals will help connect you with the right therapist for your needs. We make appointments easy, offering evenings and weekends and flexibility for creative professionals who can't make the same time each week.
Learn how to feel more connected to yourself, others and the world around you. Therapy provides all the elements of intimacy: honest communication, vulnerability and trust. Good therapy is challenging yet warm, providing both structure and empathy for your unique experience. We are a collective of therapists with a wide range of specialties. Our intake professionals will help connect you with the right therapist for your needs. We make appointments easy, offering evenings and weekends and flexibility for creative professionals who can't make the same time each week.
I enjoy working with people who are hesitant about the counseling process, strongly desire change, and/or have a deep need to be seen and heard. I have experience working with people ages 11 through 80. I enjoy helping grade school students organize and strategize for a better school experience. I enjoy the process of self-discovery and differentiation that young adults go through in their 18-30s. I also enjoy the process of rediscovering identity when all your roles change because of marriage, divorce, death, employment, and retirement.
I enjoy working with people who are hesitant about the counseling process, strongly desire change, and/or have a deep need to be seen and heard. I have experience working with people ages 11 through 80. I enjoy helping grade school students organize and strategize for a better school experience. I enjoy the process of self-discovery and differentiation that young adults go through in their 18-30s. I also enjoy the process of rediscovering identity when all your roles change because of marriage, divorce, death, employment, and retirement.
Tanji Wendorff Trauma·Codependency· EMDR Therapist
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, MA, LPCC
3 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80112
Waitlist for new clients
Are you feeling stuck in guilt, people-pleasing, or relationships that leave you drained? You’ve spent years being everything for everyone—partner, parent, friend, fixer—but where does that leave you? Exhausted and wondering when it’s your turn to breathe. I help people untangle from trauma, codependency, and toxic cycles so they can reclaim their voice and peace.
Because we live in a world quick to judge—politically, socially, or personally—please know this is a space where you can show up exactly as you are. No labels, no shaming, no pretending. I provide a space for safe therapy.
Are you feeling stuck in guilt, people-pleasing, or relationships that leave you drained? You’ve spent years being everything for everyone—partner, parent, friend, fixer—but where does that leave you? Exhausted and wondering when it’s your turn to breathe. I help people untangle from trauma, codependency, and toxic cycles so they can reclaim their voice and peace.
Because we live in a world quick to judge—politically, socially, or personally—please know this is a space where you can show up exactly as you are. No labels, no shaming, no pretending. I provide a space for safe therapy.
Anyone can struggle in their most important relationships, in spite of hard work & the best intentions. Trying to fix your own relationship difficulties can feel like trying to do brain surgery on yourself. If you try hard & still get stuck in repeating patterns of conflict, don't know how to talk about your feelings without starting a fight, feel misunderstood, or maybe feel like you're not high on your partner's priority list, you are not alone. I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, an evidenced-based map to help you get the love, closeness & sense of security in your most important relationships that you deserve to have.
Anyone can struggle in their most important relationships, in spite of hard work & the best intentions. Trying to fix your own relationship difficulties can feel like trying to do brain surgery on yourself. If you try hard & still get stuck in repeating patterns of conflict, don't know how to talk about your feelings without starting a fight, feel misunderstood, or maybe feel like you're not high on your partner's priority list, you are not alone. I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, an evidenced-based map to help you get the love, closeness & sense of security in your most important relationships that you deserve to have.
“I can’t picture a time when things will get better, no matter how much effort I put in.” “My mind never seems to quiet down, and even minor situations feel like they could spiral out of control.” “I can be surrounded by friends or family and still feel completely invisible.” If these feelings sound familiar, know that you are not alone. Anxiety, depression, and the scars of past trauma can feel overwhelming, but recovery is possible. Together, we can navigate life’s intense and sometimes frightening emotions, and I would be honored to support you along the way.
“I can’t picture a time when things will get better, no matter how much effort I put in.” “My mind never seems to quiet down, and even minor situations feel like they could spiral out of control.” “I can be surrounded by friends or family and still feel completely invisible.” If these feelings sound familiar, know that you are not alone. Anxiety, depression, and the scars of past trauma can feel overwhelming, but recovery is possible. Together, we can navigate life’s intense and sometimes frightening emotions, and I would be honored to support you along the way.
When you are struggling to move past conflicts or getting stuck in all-too-familiar patterns, there should be something so direct, personal, and real about what you discover and practice in therapy that it should dramatically change how you think, feel, and act with others. Therapy should captivate and transform you. That's my specialty. Yet, even though therapy is serious work, there should be room for play: for trying things on, for practice, for being human. As a Certified Emotionally Focused Couple and family therapist, I care about the quality of your relationships. My approach? Connecting. Pragmatic. Thorough. Creative.
When you are struggling to move past conflicts or getting stuck in all-too-familiar patterns, there should be something so direct, personal, and real about what you discover and practice in therapy that it should dramatically change how you think, feel, and act with others. Therapy should captivate and transform you. That's my specialty. Yet, even though therapy is serious work, there should be room for play: for trying things on, for practice, for being human. As a Certified Emotionally Focused Couple and family therapist, I care about the quality of your relationships. My approach? Connecting. Pragmatic. Thorough. Creative.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.