Infidelity Therapists in Englewood, CO
Victoria Graham
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MA, MFTC
Verified Verified
Englewood, CO 80112
After 20+ years as a global business professional while raising 3 children in a two working parent household, my life experience, combined with my clinical training, I am passionate about helping others navigate life’s obstacles; whether it be life transitions, adults of childhood trauma, parenting, romantic relationships, divorce, affairs, careers, adult children caring for parents or parenting neurodiverse children. I actively listen to your needs and use a collaborative approach to help you and your loved ones experience being seen and heard in a safe and empathetic setting.
After 20+ years as a global business professional while raising 3 children in a two working parent household, my life experience, combined with my clinical training, I am passionate about helping others navigate life’s obstacles; whether it be life transitions, adults of childhood trauma, parenting, romantic relationships, divorce, affairs, careers, adult children caring for parents or parenting neurodiverse children. I actively listen to your needs and use a collaborative approach to help you and your loved ones experience being seen and heard in a safe and empathetic setting.
A partner's secretive experiences can come in many shades, from a one time incident or pornography, to affairs or sexual compulsions and addictions.
Has your world been turned upside down after learning of your partner's secret romantic or sexual experiences? Do you feel furious, devastated, numb and confused all at the same time? One moment you feel love and the next extreme anger, one moment you're screaming and the next you're crying, one moment you're determined to leave and the next wondering if you can forgive? Or perhaps you've been dealing with this for a while and you feel stuck; you still can't trust or forgive, can't stop thinking about what happened, and worry about it happening again? I understand how you feel and am so deeply sorry that you're going through this.
A partner's secretive experiences can come in many shades, from a one time incident or pornography, to affairs or sexual compulsions and addictions.
Has your world been turned upside down after learning of your partner's secret romantic or sexual experiences? Do you feel furious, devastated, numb and confused all at the same time? One moment you feel love and the next extreme anger, one moment you're screaming and the next you're crying, one moment you're determined to leave and the next wondering if you can forgive? Or perhaps you've been dealing with this for a while and you feel stuck; you still can't trust or forgive, can't stop thinking about what happened, and worry about it happening again? I understand how you feel and am so deeply sorry that you're going through this.
Allison Rimland
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
18 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80112
Couples come to me to communicate better, grow closer, heal affairs, and improve sexual intimacy.
Do you often argue about the same issues? Do you feel like you aren't being heard? Does it seem like you can never get it right with him/her? Do you want closeness, but don't know how to get it? All relationships experience disconnections & conflict. You CAN get back those good feelings that brought you together in the first place. I can help you make sense of the communication breakdowns and patterns leading to conflict. I'll help you learn to communicate in a way that brings closeness & intimacy back into your relationship.
Couples come to me to communicate better, grow closer, heal affairs, and improve sexual intimacy.
Do you often argue about the same issues? Do you feel like you aren't being heard? Does it seem like you can never get it right with him/her? Do you want closeness, but don't know how to get it? All relationships experience disconnections & conflict. You CAN get back those good feelings that brought you together in the first place. I can help you make sense of the communication breakdowns and patterns leading to conflict. I'll help you learn to communicate in a way that brings closeness & intimacy back into your relationship.
Sara Cortese
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MA, MFTC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80111
Some of my specialty areas with couples include healing from infidelity, co-parenting difficulties, and communication struggles.
I believe everyone deserves a place to process the difficulties that life throws at us, and I’m here to meet you with warmth and support. I work with teens (16+), adults, and couples, and have advanced training in Emotionally-Focused Therapy. As a documentary filmmaker in my previous career, I believe in the power of the stories that we hold about ourselves; and as a therapist, I believe in the power of examining and rewriting those stories to make ourselves feel more whole, valued, and loved.
Some of my specialty areas with couples include healing from infidelity, co-parenting difficulties, and communication struggles.
I believe everyone deserves a place to process the difficulties that life throws at us, and I’m here to meet you with warmth and support. I work with teens (16+), adults, and couples, and have advanced training in Emotionally-Focused Therapy. As a documentary filmmaker in my previous career, I believe in the power of the stories that we hold about ourselves; and as a therapist, I believe in the power of examining and rewriting those stories to make ourselves feel more whole, valued, and loved.
Erin Chelgren
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MS, MFTC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80113 (Online Only)
Accepting new clients now. If you're not feeling heard or understood in your relationship or marriage, I want to help. With my advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and EMDR, I help couples identify and transform the root of the communication issues that keep them stuck in distress. Both partners will learn to express their emotions and unmet needs in an effective way that sparks intimate connection and joy. I am passionate about working with couples experiencing anxiety, depression, betrayal trauma, transitions, parenthood, and symptoms of trauma.
Accepting new clients now. If you're not feeling heard or understood in your relationship or marriage, I want to help. With my advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and EMDR, I help couples identify and transform the root of the communication issues that keep them stuck in distress. Both partners will learn to express their emotions and unmet needs in an effective way that sparks intimate connection and joy. I am passionate about working with couples experiencing anxiety, depression, betrayal trauma, transitions, parenthood, and symptoms of trauma.
I specialize in partners of sexual infidelity, as well as sexual trauma, and offer online coaching to partners of betrayal all over the world as well as in office sessions.
Personal trauma, anxiety, depression & sexual issues are obstacles in the way of living a fulfilled life. It takes a great deal of courage to seek help and doing so is the first step toward change. I believe that a strong and genuine therapeutic relationship is the key to successful treatment. Through getting to know you and understanding things from your perspective, I tailor treatment and interventions to meet your individual concerns, challenges, strengths and goals.
I specialize in partners of sexual infidelity, as well as sexual trauma, and offer online coaching to partners of betrayal all over the world as well as in office sessions.
Personal trauma, anxiety, depression & sexual issues are obstacles in the way of living a fulfilled life. It takes a great deal of courage to seek help and doing so is the first step toward change. I believe that a strong and genuine therapeutic relationship is the key to successful treatment. Through getting to know you and understanding things from your perspective, I tailor treatment and interventions to meet your individual concerns, challenges, strengths and goals.
Benjamin Massey
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80110
I am passionate about working with couples, individuals and families to find their way out of feeling stuck, disconnected or broken and to help them move towards wholeness, integration and connection. When the complex issues of your life become overwhelming, I can help to provide the safety and structure to not only address the surface level concerns, but to also expand your understanding of the situation to find deep healing, new solutions and lasting change. Whether it is anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relational conflict, sexual problems or infidelity, I can help you find your strength to face these challenges in a new way.
I am passionate about working with couples, individuals and families to find their way out of feeling stuck, disconnected or broken and to help them move towards wholeness, integration and connection. When the complex issues of your life become overwhelming, I can help to provide the safety and structure to not only address the surface level concerns, but to also expand your understanding of the situation to find deep healing, new solutions and lasting change. Whether it is anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relational conflict, sexual problems or infidelity, I can help you find your strength to face these challenges in a new way.
Michelle Jacoby
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80111 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Some common issues that clients may find themselves seeking support for include: desire/arousal, sexual functioning, infidelity, gender identity and exploration, sexual orientation, sexual trauma, out of control sexual behavior.
Talking about sex, relationships, and intimacy can be incredibly difficult. Throughout our lives many of us have been confronted with fear and shame-based messages, inaccurate and harmful information, and often problematic ideas regarding sexuality. These experiences can leave us feeling confused or ashamed, ultimately impacting our ability to tap into our full and authentic selves. Exploring these issues in a therapeutic setting with a trained, sex-positive therapist can be life-changing. A sex-positive framework means that I affirm all consensual sexual activity (or lack of sexual activity) as positive, healthy, and pleasurable.
Some common issues that clients may find themselves seeking support for include: desire/arousal, sexual functioning, infidelity, gender identity and exploration, sexual orientation, sexual trauma, out of control sexual behavior.
Talking about sex, relationships, and intimacy can be incredibly difficult. Throughout our lives many of us have been confronted with fear and shame-based messages, inaccurate and harmful information, and often problematic ideas regarding sexuality. These experiences can leave us feeling confused or ashamed, ultimately impacting our ability to tap into our full and authentic selves. Exploring these issues in a therapeutic setting with a trained, sex-positive therapist can be life-changing. A sex-positive framework means that I affirm all consensual sexual activity (or lack of sexual activity) as positive, healthy, and pleasurable.
Heather M McPherson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST, AASECT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80110
Are you struggling with your relationships and sexuality? Looking for a specialist that can make talking about sex easier? I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Relationship Specialist. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Issues can include communication, fear of sex, relationship conflicts, constant fighting, desire differences, sexual orientation, sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction, polyamorous/open or kink relationships, "sex or porn addiction" or problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, trauma or sexless marriages.
Are you struggling with your relationships and sexuality? Looking for a specialist that can make talking about sex easier? I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Relationship Specialist. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Issues can include communication, fear of sex, relationship conflicts, constant fighting, desire differences, sexual orientation, sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction, polyamorous/open or kink relationships, "sex or porn addiction" or problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, trauma or sexless marriages.
Stephanie Brummond
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80110
You’re on a unique journey in life. Some parts of that journey are more difficult than others, and it’s made worse when you feel isolated or misunderstood. Connection is part of the human experience, and we’re not meant to go through life alone. Whether you’re in a place of individual growth, in need of support for your relationship, or simply feeling disconnected to life in general, I’m here to help. Even when you’ve been through devastating experiences you can begin to feel more centered, empowered, and confident in navigating your relationships. Most importantly, you can experience a life that’s worth living.
You’re on a unique journey in life. Some parts of that journey are more difficult than others, and it’s made worse when you feel isolated or misunderstood. Connection is part of the human experience, and we’re not meant to go through life alone. Whether you’re in a place of individual growth, in need of support for your relationship, or simply feeling disconnected to life in general, I’m here to help. Even when you’ve been through devastating experiences you can begin to feel more centered, empowered, and confident in navigating your relationships. Most importantly, you can experience a life that’s worth living.
Daniel Fleshner is a Licensed Professional Counselor and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with a passion for exploring relationships and helping individuals and couples process conflict and engage in healthy communication. He currently works at Inflection Point Therapy in Denver, CO where he provides individual counseling, couples counseling, and sex therapy. He graduated with a M. Ed in Rehabilitation Counseling from The George Washington University and a B.A. in Psychology and Political Science from The University of Michigan.
Daniel Fleshner is a Licensed Professional Counselor and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with a passion for exploring relationships and helping individuals and couples process conflict and engage in healthy communication. He currently works at Inflection Point Therapy in Denver, CO where he provides individual counseling, couples counseling, and sex therapy. He graduated with a M. Ed in Rehabilitation Counseling from The George Washington University and a B.A. in Psychology and Political Science from The University of Michigan.
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All too often we find ourselves repeating the same behaviors, pursing the same types of relationships, and feeling frustrated with the same emotional experiences. Are you stuck in an addictive pattern? Are you a betrayed partner or family member of someone with substance abuse or who is abusive? I’m here for you! With 10 years of experience working with others and having worked through my own struggles, I hope to help you live a more satisfying and meaningful life. I work specifically with individuals and partners with substance abuse, relationship issues, anxiety, life transitions, narcissistic abuse, and trauma.
All too often we find ourselves repeating the same behaviors, pursing the same types of relationships, and feeling frustrated with the same emotional experiences. Are you stuck in an addictive pattern? Are you a betrayed partner or family member of someone with substance abuse or who is abusive? I’m here for you! With 10 years of experience working with others and having worked through my own struggles, I hope to help you live a more satisfying and meaningful life. I work specifically with individuals and partners with substance abuse, relationship issues, anxiety, life transitions, narcissistic abuse, and trauma.
I see adult and adolescent clients experiencing difficulties with substances, addictions, trauma, mental health and sexually related concerns and dysfunction. I see clients for individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy and group therapy. I am also an experienced evaluator, I provide mental health and substance abuse evaluations for the individual and the courts. I have been in the field of mental health, substance abuse/addiction therapy and treatment for 24 years, and I have worked with more than 2500 clients and families.
I see adult and adolescent clients experiencing difficulties with substances, addictions, trauma, mental health and sexually related concerns and dysfunction. I see clients for individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy and group therapy. I am also an experienced evaluator, I provide mental health and substance abuse evaluations for the individual and the courts. I have been in the field of mental health, substance abuse/addiction therapy and treatment for 24 years, and I have worked with more than 2500 clients and families.
Are you feeling sad, lonely, overwhelmed, or stressed? Have you recently gone through a major life transition? Has life recently thrown you a curve ball? If you're experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, or having issues in your close relationships, I can help. We all have blind spots and obstacles in our lives, and a warm, understanding, and non-biased perspective can be immensely helpful. Therapy can be a powerful tool in relieving distress, learning about oneself, and living a more fulfilled life.
Are you feeling sad, lonely, overwhelmed, or stressed? Have you recently gone through a major life transition? Has life recently thrown you a curve ball? If you're experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, or having issues in your close relationships, I can help. We all have blind spots and obstacles in our lives, and a warm, understanding, and non-biased perspective can be immensely helpful. Therapy can be a powerful tool in relieving distress, learning about oneself, and living a more fulfilled life.
Trysta Wedding
Counselor, LPCC, MA, NCC, CMH, CRMIII
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80113
As a multiracial, queer woman of indigenous descent (reconnecting) I am passionate about decolonizing mental healthcare and sex therapy in supporting diverse clients in reaching their therapeutic goals. I love working with diverse individuals and relationships including BIPOC, lgbtqia2s+, neurodivergent, kink/bdsm, and expansive relational approaches. We all need to be seen, loved, and understood in supportive relationships-including our therapeutic relationship. Some specific areas of interest in my practice are sexual issues/exploration, gender, identities, embodiment, problematic behaviors, life changes, and congruence.
As a multiracial, queer woman of indigenous descent (reconnecting) I am passionate about decolonizing mental healthcare and sex therapy in supporting diverse clients in reaching their therapeutic goals. I love working with diverse individuals and relationships including BIPOC, lgbtqia2s+, neurodivergent, kink/bdsm, and expansive relational approaches. We all need to be seen, loved, and understood in supportive relationships-including our therapeutic relationship. Some specific areas of interest in my practice are sexual issues/exploration, gender, identities, embodiment, problematic behaviors, life changes, and congruence.
It’s a new day and you’re disappointed the sun even came up…overwhelmed is the best word to describe you. Sadness waves through you. Sleep is elusive or sometimes you sleep too much. Worry engulfs you. You know exercise is supposed to help. But you don’t have an ounce of energy. The self-criticism that floats through your head can feel like it’s drowning you. You feel helpless and drained. No one knows you’re feeling this way. Sometimes you think that you should be able to pull yourself up by the bootstraps. But you just can’t. And you’ve tried so many different times. Everything you’ve tried has failed. Now what?
It’s a new day and you’re disappointed the sun even came up…overwhelmed is the best word to describe you. Sadness waves through you. Sleep is elusive or sometimes you sleep too much. Worry engulfs you. You know exercise is supposed to help. But you don’t have an ounce of energy. The self-criticism that floats through your head can feel like it’s drowning you. You feel helpless and drained. No one knows you’re feeling this way. Sometimes you think that you should be able to pull yourself up by the bootstraps. But you just can’t. And you’ve tried so many different times. Everything you’ve tried has failed. Now what?
Jessica Sepulveda
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80112
Anyone can struggle in their most important relationships, in spite of hard work & the best intentions. Trying to fix your own relationship difficulties can feel like trying to do brain surgery on yourself. If you try hard & still get stuck in repeating patterns of conflict, don't know how to talk about your feelings without starting a fight, feel misunderstood, or maybe feel like you're not high on your partner's priority list, you are not alone. I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, an evidenced-based map to help you get the love, closeness & sense of security in your most important relationships that you deserve to have.
Anyone can struggle in their most important relationships, in spite of hard work & the best intentions. Trying to fix your own relationship difficulties can feel like trying to do brain surgery on yourself. If you try hard & still get stuck in repeating patterns of conflict, don't know how to talk about your feelings without starting a fight, feel misunderstood, or maybe feel like you're not high on your partner's priority list, you are not alone. I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, an evidenced-based map to help you get the love, closeness & sense of security in your most important relationships that you deserve to have.
At some point in our lives, so many of us feel lost and unable to follow our "internal compass" to find our way. I remember feeling this way, wondering why no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't get my "stuff" together on my own. I believe that there are many paths we can take to find our way back to ourselves - to find our way home. Perhaps I am the person who can walk beside you while you find your bearings, discovering healing and growth along your way.
At some point in our lives, so many of us feel lost and unable to follow our "internal compass" to find our way. I remember feeling this way, wondering why no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't get my "stuff" together on my own. I believe that there are many paths we can take to find our way back to ourselves - to find our way home. Perhaps I am the person who can walk beside you while you find your bearings, discovering healing and growth along your way.
COUPLES, FAMILY, CHILD and INDIVIDUAL THERAPY. True Happiness and Stability Stems from the Quality of our Significant Relationships! I work from a strength-based, solution-focused, and systemic or relational orientation, all are evidence-based approaches. I focus on people's strengths and possibilities while addressing their real life difficulties. I also provide personality, relationship and career assessments. I believe in a holistic approach to the therapeutic process that incorporates biological, psychological, social, and spiritual dimensions empowering a person or family toward mastering life to its fullest!
COUPLES, FAMILY, CHILD and INDIVIDUAL THERAPY. True Happiness and Stability Stems from the Quality of our Significant Relationships! I work from a strength-based, solution-focused, and systemic or relational orientation, all are evidence-based approaches. I focus on people's strengths and possibilities while addressing their real life difficulties. I also provide personality, relationship and career assessments. I believe in a holistic approach to the therapeutic process that incorporates biological, psychological, social, and spiritual dimensions empowering a person or family toward mastering life to its fullest!
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.