Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Denver, CO

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Bedoor Alasfoor
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, MA, MACMHC, LPCC
5 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80205
If you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unseen, I want you to know you're not alone. Maybe anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, or life transitions are weighing on you, and you're looking for a space where you can show up as you are—without judgment. My goal is to offer you that space, where you feel truly heard, supported, and understood. Together, we can work toward easing your distress, building resilience, and reconnecting with the parts of you that feel lost or unseen. Healing isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about learning to embrace yourself fully.
If you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unseen, I want you to know you're not alone. Maybe anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, or life transitions are weighing on you, and you're looking for a space where you can show up as you are—without judgment. My goal is to offer you that space, where you feel truly heard, supported, and understood. Together, we can work toward easing your distress, building resilience, and reconnecting with the parts of you that feel lost or unseen. Healing isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about learning to embrace yourself fully.
(720) 619-8277 View (720) 619-8277
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Amanda Earle
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LAC, LPC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
You want to open up your monogamous relationship. You’ve done the reading, reflecting, and exploring on Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM). You are at a point to share this desire with your partner. And yet, the thought of hurting your partner or possibly losing them is terrifying. The guilt for wanting more is keeping you up at night. The confusion and doubt are all-consuming. How do you approach a conversation like this with honesty, care, and the least amount of emotional harm? What might you need to feel ready?... I provide a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can explore these questions through the lens of Narrative therapy.
You want to open up your monogamous relationship. You’ve done the reading, reflecting, and exploring on Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM). You are at a point to share this desire with your partner. And yet, the thought of hurting your partner or possibly losing them is terrifying. The guilt for wanting more is keeping you up at night. The confusion and doubt are all-consuming. How do you approach a conversation like this with honesty, care, and the least amount of emotional harm? What might you need to feel ready?... I provide a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can explore these questions through the lens of Narrative therapy.
(720) 806-9546 View (720) 806-9546
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Ryan J Misegadis
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialize in working with individuals and relationships outside traditional norms, including those exploring polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and kink.
Sometimes life throws us into situations we never imagined facing. As a trauma therapist, I focus on helping clients uncover the deeper roots of what holds them back from living as their most authentic selves. When we endure hardship, our bodies often cling to the survival tools that got us through—even when those tools no longer serve us. Sometimes they fit the moment; other times, they can make things more difficult. In our work together, we'll gently slow things down, explore what truly works for you, and begin the shift from automatic reactions to intentional responses.
I specialize in working with individuals and relationships outside traditional norms, including those exploring polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and kink.
Sometimes life throws us into situations we never imagined facing. As a trauma therapist, I focus on helping clients uncover the deeper roots of what holds them back from living as their most authentic selves. When we endure hardship, our bodies often cling to the survival tools that got us through—even when those tools no longer serve us. Sometimes they fit the moment; other times, they can make things more difficult. In our work together, we'll gently slow things down, explore what truly works for you, and begin the shift from automatic reactions to intentional responses.
(720) 594-5816 View (720) 594-5816
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Danielle Willner
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT-I
4 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80209
My lived experiences in those spheres, as well as in the kink and non-monogamous communities, allow me to bring a fully sex-positive, gender-affirming, and culturally sensitive lens to the therapeutic space.
My approach is rooted in cultural humility and centered around authenticity and connection. I want to help you connect with yourself and your identities, explore intimacy, and engage in personal transformation, however that may look for you.
My lived experiences in those spheres, as well as in the kink and non-monogamous communities, allow me to bring a fully sex-positive, gender-affirming, and culturally sensitive lens to the therapeutic space.
My approach is rooted in cultural humility and centered around authenticity and connection. I want to help you connect with yourself and your identities, explore intimacy, and engage in personal transformation, however that may look for you.
(720) 466-7781 View (720) 466-7781
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Britt Masters MA, LPC at Actualize Counseling LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
3 Endorsed
Online Only
I love working with people of a variety of lifestyles and paths, including but not limited to: artists & creatives, LGBTQ+, kink & BDSM, people in transition, trauma histories, and alternative spirituality.
Do you feel constantly overwhelmed and stressed? Do you feel disconnected from others? Are you struggling to achieve your full potential? Do you feel like you have to hide big parts of who you are for fear that others will reject you? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you’ve come to the right place! Together there is a lot we can do to help you feel better. My name is Britt Masters, and I’m in the business of helping people learn to thrive. Whether you are stuck in life patterns that aren’t getting you anywhere positive or are needing to heal trauma, there is hope!
I love working with people of a variety of lifestyles and paths, including but not limited to: artists & creatives, LGBTQ+, kink & BDSM, people in transition, trauma histories, and alternative spirituality.
Do you feel constantly overwhelmed and stressed? Do you feel disconnected from others? Are you struggling to achieve your full potential? Do you feel like you have to hide big parts of who you are for fear that others will reject you? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you’ve come to the right place! Together there is a lot we can do to help you feel better. My name is Britt Masters, and I’m in the business of helping people learn to thrive. Whether you are stuck in life patterns that aren’t getting you anywhere positive or are needing to heal trauma, there is hope!
(303) 747-6172 View (303) 747-6172
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Jeremy Savage
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
20 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80211
If you're dealing with a significant change in life, whether having a loved one pass, starting a new job, or just adjusting to a new city, dealing with change is my specialty. Having completed coursework for a PhD in Depth Psychology and currently completing a Doctor of Education, I am skilled at working with various issues that I am happy to discuss with you. What sets me apart from others isn't so much the types of issues I work with, but how we work with one another.
If you're dealing with a significant change in life, whether having a loved one pass, starting a new job, or just adjusting to a new city, dealing with change is my specialty. Having completed coursework for a PhD in Depth Psychology and currently completing a Doctor of Education, I am skilled at working with various issues that I am happy to discuss with you. What sets me apart from others isn't so much the types of issues I work with, but how we work with one another.
(303) 622-5792 View (303) 622-5792
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Andy Sebranek
Licensed Social Worker, MSW, LSW
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
Feeling lost, alone, or disconnected from your authentic self and purpose? As someone in the queer community, I understand first-hand the struggle of finding one’s voice, space, and stride. With warmth and creativity, we will collaboratively reconnect you to your innate sense of worth, strengthen connections with others, and discover ways to move towards desires with less shame or fear. You are allowed to belong, all of you, and I look forward to helping you embody this truth.
Feeling lost, alone, or disconnected from your authentic self and purpose? As someone in the queer community, I understand first-hand the struggle of finding one’s voice, space, and stride. With warmth and creativity, we will collaboratively reconnect you to your innate sense of worth, strengthen connections with others, and discover ways to move towards desires with less shame or fear. You are allowed to belong, all of you, and I look forward to helping you embody this truth.
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Kaley Selner
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, MS, LPCC
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80210
Schedule instantly through my website link in my profile! Kaley Selner is the owner of Inclusive Sex and Relationship Therapy, PLLC. I help individuals and partnerships navigate the complexities of intimacy, relationship dynamics, and sexual well-being. I believe that all people deserve access to the information, tools, and support needed to create a satisfying and fulfilling connection with themselves and others. Inclusive Sex and Relationship Therapy is committed to inclusivity and nonjudgment; everyone is welcome here. In our sessions, we’ll work together to set meaningful goals, focusing on what feels most important to you.
Schedule instantly through my website link in my profile! Kaley Selner is the owner of Inclusive Sex and Relationship Therapy, PLLC. I help individuals and partnerships navigate the complexities of intimacy, relationship dynamics, and sexual well-being. I believe that all people deserve access to the information, tools, and support needed to create a satisfying and fulfilling connection with themselves and others. Inclusive Sex and Relationship Therapy is committed to inclusivity and nonjudgment; everyone is welcome here. In our sessions, we’ll work together to set meaningful goals, focusing on what feels most important to you.
(888) 460-6285 View (888) 460-6285
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Serotiny Counseling
Counselor, LPC
2 Endorsed
Online Only
My name is Luna (she/her). I would love to help you find your voice, honor who you are, clarify and take steps toward your goals, and embrace the dynamic parts of you. I love to support people on their gender journey and parents of gender-diverse people in their gender-acceptance journey. My clients want to make peace with their bodies, speak to themselves kindly, improve communication with others, unburden themselves from toxic cultural/familial messages, and live their unique path of life. My clients long to live more fully, more authentically, and more harmoniously with themselves and others.
My name is Luna (she/her). I would love to help you find your voice, honor who you are, clarify and take steps toward your goals, and embrace the dynamic parts of you. I love to support people on their gender journey and parents of gender-diverse people in their gender-acceptance journey. My clients want to make peace with their bodies, speak to themselves kindly, improve communication with others, unburden themselves from toxic cultural/familial messages, and live their unique path of life. My clients long to live more fully, more authentically, and more harmoniously with themselves and others.
(720) 868-9785 View (720) 868-9785
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Tyler Melugin
Pre-Licensed Professional, Grad, Student
Denver, CO 80227
I provide LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy, and I am knowledgeable about ethical non-monogamy and kink/BDSM.
I use evidence-based approaches and continually learn and train to ensure that the care I provide remains up-to-date, responsive, and ethically grounded. I use cognitive-behavioral, dialectical-behavioral, and person-centered approaches to help you create change you can actually notice.
I provide LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy, and I am knowledgeable about ethical non-monogamy and kink/BDSM.
I use evidence-based approaches and continually learn and train to ensure that the care I provide remains up-to-date, responsive, and ethically grounded. I use cognitive-behavioral, dialectical-behavioral, and person-centered approaches to help you create change you can actually notice.
(720) 915-4335 View (720) 915-4335
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Allyssa Adams
Clinical Social Work Candidate, MSW, SWC
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80224
Allyssa is dedicated to person-centered therapy and will meet you where you are in life. Allyssa sees her clients as whole individuals who deserve to live out loud and without fear or shame. Her goal is to assist you in developing the most authentic communication with yourself, your loved ones, and the world — inside and outside of your relationships.
Allyssa is dedicated to person-centered therapy and will meet you where you are in life. Allyssa sees her clients as whole individuals who deserve to live out loud and without fear or shame. Her goal is to assist you in developing the most authentic communication with yourself, your loved ones, and the world — inside and outside of your relationships.
(720) 952-7018 View (720) 952-7018
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Andy Sebranek (Book Instantly On Website)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
My practice is ENM-friendly and kink-affirming.
Feeling lost, alone, burnt out, or disconnected from your true self or purpose does not have to be the norm. As someone in the queer community I understand first-hand the struggle of finding one’s voice, identity, and inner strength. Through an open and compassionate approach we can collaboratively discover ways to feel lighter, and more whole. Schedule instantly through my website link in my profile!
My practice is ENM-friendly and kink-affirming.
Feeling lost, alone, burnt out, or disconnected from your true self or purpose does not have to be the norm. As someone in the queer community I understand first-hand the struggle of finding one’s voice, identity, and inner strength. Through an open and compassionate approach we can collaboratively discover ways to feel lighter, and more whole. Schedule instantly through my website link in my profile!
(720) 637-9589 View (720) 637-9589
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Dr. Rachael Meir
Psychologist, PsyD
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I have extensive experience with LGBTQ+ folks, ENM/polyamory, kink/BDSM, and sex-positive communities—I especially love working with people exploring nonmonogamy and literally wrote the book on it.
Maybe you're feeling stuck in your relationship—or in life. You're wondering if things could be different, better, more honest. Perhaps you're curious about opening your relationship but don't know where to start, or you're already nonmonogamous and hitting rough patches. Maybe your concerns have nothing to do with relationship structure—you're just struggling with anxiety, feeling disconnected from yourself, or ready to make changes you've been putting off. Whatever brings you here, you're looking for someone who will really listen, who won't judge your choices, and who can help you figure out what you actually want.
I have extensive experience with LGBTQ+ folks, ENM/polyamory, kink/BDSM, and sex-positive communities—I especially love working with people exploring nonmonogamy and literally wrote the book on it.
Maybe you're feeling stuck in your relationship—or in life. You're wondering if things could be different, better, more honest. Perhaps you're curious about opening your relationship but don't know where to start, or you're already nonmonogamous and hitting rough patches. Maybe your concerns have nothing to do with relationship structure—you're just struggling with anxiety, feeling disconnected from yourself, or ready to make changes you've been putting off. Whatever brings you here, you're looking for someone who will really listen, who won't judge your choices, and who can help you figure out what you actually want.
(727) 334-2830 View (727) 334-2830
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Shelly Sieligowski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80227
I also work with individuals and couples in relationships such as polyamory, ENM, and kink, offering an affirming space to explore identity and connection.
I work with children (10+) and adults who are ready to move beyond survival, people who want to understand themselves more deeply, break free from old patterns, and create lives rooted in meaning and connection. My approach is collaborative, relational, and non-pathologizing, grounded in psychodynamic, relational, and trauma-informed frameworks. I also integrate somatic awareness, attachment theory, mindfulness, and parts work when they support the process, tailoring therapy to each person’s unique needs.
I also work with individuals and couples in relationships such as polyamory, ENM, and kink, offering an affirming space to explore identity and connection.
I work with children (10+) and adults who are ready to move beyond survival, people who want to understand themselves more deeply, break free from old patterns, and create lives rooted in meaning and connection. My approach is collaborative, relational, and non-pathologizing, grounded in psychodynamic, relational, and trauma-informed frameworks. I also integrate somatic awareness, attachment theory, mindfulness, and parts work when they support the process, tailoring therapy to each person’s unique needs.
(719) 451-7205 View (719) 451-7205
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Anne Avonlee
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, LAC
Online Only
Do you feel weighed down by old patterns, unresolved trauma, or the struggle to show up authentically in your relationships? Maybe you’re navigating addiction recovery, healing from painful experiences, or exploring ethical non-monogamy such as polyamory or multiamory. You want deeper connection but often feel unseen or misunderstood. Together, we’ll create a supportive space to release what no longer serves you, embrace your full self, and build relationships and a life that align with your values.
Do you feel weighed down by old patterns, unresolved trauma, or the struggle to show up authentically in your relationships? Maybe you’re navigating addiction recovery, healing from painful experiences, or exploring ethical non-monogamy such as polyamory or multiamory. You want deeper connection but often feel unseen or misunderstood. Together, we’ll create a supportive space to release what no longer serves you, embrace your full self, and build relationships and a life that align with your values.
(970) 715-8080 View (970) 715-8080
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Sarah Reardon
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I help clients heal from trauma, navigate relationships with themselves and others, and explore sexual identities and interests in kink/BDSM.
You've always been the "strong one", right? Maybe you’re feeling stuck and overwhelmed because past experiences are blocking you from fully connecting with others, and most importantly, yourself. Maybe you’re hiding sexual or kinky desires and feel lost in how to share these with your partner(s) or even accept them yourself. Maybe you just need someone to vent to. That’s ok! You have taken the most courageous step by asking for help, and that is exactly where I will meet you.
I help clients heal from trauma, navigate relationships with themselves and others, and explore sexual identities and interests in kink/BDSM.
You've always been the "strong one", right? Maybe you’re feeling stuck and overwhelmed because past experiences are blocking you from fully connecting with others, and most importantly, yourself. Maybe you’re hiding sexual or kinky desires and feel lost in how to share these with your partner(s) or even accept them yourself. Maybe you just need someone to vent to. That’s ok! You have taken the most courageous step by asking for help, and that is exactly where I will meet you.
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Jodie Miller
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I have been a therapist for over 25 years, and I'm especially committed to serving my own queer community, with experience counseling clients with issues related to coming out, challenges with sexual and (trans)gender identity, with reconciling one's religious beliefs, and with other cognitive and emotional complications. I also specialize in personality disorders, mood disorders, self-confidence and acceptance, and alternative sexual practices, as well as being supportive of alt-culture. My main therapeutic approaches include Rational-Emotive Behavior Therapy, client-centered therapy, Jungian therapy, and archetypal psychology.
I have been a therapist for over 25 years, and I'm especially committed to serving my own queer community, with experience counseling clients with issues related to coming out, challenges with sexual and (trans)gender identity, with reconciling one's religious beliefs, and with other cognitive and emotional complications. I also specialize in personality disorders, mood disorders, self-confidence and acceptance, and alternative sexual practices, as well as being supportive of alt-culture. My main therapeutic approaches include Rational-Emotive Behavior Therapy, client-centered therapy, Jungian therapy, and archetypal psychology.
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Jen Meyer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LMFT, CST, CSTS
7 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I help my clients find their way to more authentic and fulfilling lives. Whether it's through improving personal relationships, increasing individual self-awareness, or building upon pre-exisiting resiliency, I assist my clients in finding positive and pragmatic solutions to the relational and sexual difficulties in their lives. I tend to approach my interventions in a collaborative and humanistic way. Empathic support, unconditional acceptance and gentle challenging guide my therapeutic process. I offer support to individuals and couples and aim to enhance each client's insight, resiliency and hope.
I help my clients find their way to more authentic and fulfilling lives. Whether it's through improving personal relationships, increasing individual self-awareness, or building upon pre-exisiting resiliency, I assist my clients in finding positive and pragmatic solutions to the relational and sexual difficulties in their lives. I tend to approach my interventions in a collaborative and humanistic way. Empathic support, unconditional acceptance and gentle challenging guide my therapeutic process. I offer support to individuals and couples and aim to enhance each client's insight, resiliency and hope.
(720) 571-4343 View (720) 571-4343
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Ami Lee
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MA, MFTC
Serves Area
I work with clients on a variety of relationship topics, including relationship patterns, consensual non-monogamy, sex-positive or kink-affirming practices, and infidelity.
Welcome! Accepting new clients! You may be feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward—either in your relationship or within yourself. You might find that discussions with your partner often end in tension, withdrawal, or misunderstanding, leaving you stuck in the same relational patterns. As an individual, you might be navigating anxiety, stress, or life transitions, and seeking guidance to feel more grounded, confident, and connected. This is a space where you can pause, reflect, and work toward clarity and balance.
I work with clients on a variety of relationship topics, including relationship patterns, consensual non-monogamy, sex-positive or kink-affirming practices, and infidelity.
Welcome! Accepting new clients! You may be feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward—either in your relationship or within yourself. You might find that discussions with your partner often end in tension, withdrawal, or misunderstanding, leaving you stuck in the same relational patterns. As an individual, you might be navigating anxiety, stress, or life transitions, and seeking guidance to feel more grounded, confident, and connected. This is a space where you can pause, reflect, and work toward clarity and balance.
(720) 928-3208 View (720) 928-3208
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Eric Teman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LAC
Serves Area
I provide an affirming, sex-positive space to explore intimacy, sexuality, and kink with openness and respect.
I specialize in trauma treatment and supporting men and LGBTQIA+ clients through life’s challenges. Drawing on narrative and solution-focused methods, I help clients reframe past struggles, clarify values, and take practical steps forward. My approach is culturally competent, collaborative, and focused on building resilience and lasting growth.
I provide an affirming, sex-positive space to explore intimacy, sexuality, and kink with openness and respect.
I specialize in trauma treatment and supporting men and LGBTQIA+ clients through life’s challenges. Drawing on narrative and solution-focused methods, I help clients reframe past struggles, clarify values, and take practical steps forward. My approach is culturally competent, collaborative, and focused on building resilience and lasting growth.
(970) 575-5944 View (970) 575-5944

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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?

Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?

Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.