Infidelity Therapists in Cherry Hills, CO
Debra L. Kaplan
Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAT-S, PACT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cherry Hills, CO 80110
Patrick Carnes IITAP; a CSAT therapist and Supervisor, and the author of, "For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Betrayal," "Battle of the Titans: Mastering the Forces of Sex, Money and Power in Relationship.
I specialize in attachment trauma, sex and porn addiction, and financial therapy (money, work and financial disorders). I provide in-person and virtual sessions in Arizona, and teletherapy for Colorado based clients. I work with couples and individuals to resolve their life issues for increased well-being and life fulfillment. I am faculty for Dr. Patrick Carnes, CSAT Supervisor/ therapist for IITAP, and integrate the PACT approach for couples.
Patrick Carnes IITAP; a CSAT therapist and Supervisor, and the author of, "For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Betrayal," "Battle of the Titans: Mastering the Forces of Sex, Money and Power in Relationship.
I specialize in attachment trauma, sex and porn addiction, and financial therapy (money, work and financial disorders). I provide in-person and virtual sessions in Arizona, and teletherapy for Colorado based clients. I work with couples and individuals to resolve their life issues for increased well-being and life fulfillment. I am faculty for Dr. Patrick Carnes, CSAT Supervisor/ therapist for IITAP, and integrate the PACT approach for couples.
Amy Stambuk
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Cherry Hills, CO 80113
When you are struggling to move past conflicts or getting stuck in all-too-familiar patterns, there should be something so direct, personal, and real about what you discover and practice in therapy that it should dramatically change how you think, feel, and act with others. Therapy should captivate and transform you. That's my specialty. Yet, even though therapy is serious work, there should be room for play: for trying things on, for practice, for being human. As a couple and family therapist I care about the quality of your relationships. My approach? Connecting. Pragmatic. Thorough. Creative.
When you are struggling to move past conflicts or getting stuck in all-too-familiar patterns, there should be something so direct, personal, and real about what you discover and practice in therapy that it should dramatically change how you think, feel, and act with others. Therapy should captivate and transform you. That's my specialty. Yet, even though therapy is serious work, there should be room for play: for trying things on, for practice, for being human. As a couple and family therapist I care about the quality of your relationships. My approach? Connecting. Pragmatic. Thorough. Creative.
Adria Rigg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LPC, LMFT, RPT-S
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cherry Hills, CO 80113
Are you someone who is in a committed relationship where you are co-existing but are struggling to deeply connect or work through conflict? Have you lived through a difficult challenge that has put stress on your family (i.e. loss of a parent or job, substance abuse problem, etc.)? Or are you a new parent and you’re having difficulty adjusting to the demands that come with this new life stage? You are not alone. And these are all issues and challenges that can be addressed in therapy where we explore your needs, identify your strengths, practice new skills, and work together towards your goals.
Are you someone who is in a committed relationship where you are co-existing but are struggling to deeply connect or work through conflict? Have you lived through a difficult challenge that has put stress on your family (i.e. loss of a parent or job, substance abuse problem, etc.)? Or are you a new parent and you’re having difficulty adjusting to the demands that come with this new life stage? You are not alone. And these are all issues and challenges that can be addressed in therapy where we explore your needs, identify your strengths, practice new skills, and work together towards your goals.
Flatirons Counseling Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSMFT, MFT, MDiv, CSAT
Verified Verified
Cherry Hills, CO 80110
I am, first and foremost, a highly trained Therapist for pornography and sexual addiction. I love to work with couples, individuals and families helping to put an anchor back into their lives. For 3 decades I have sat front row and center in thousands of peoples lives. I have found that this is a most privileged position. My goal is to give my clients proven tools to learn to have healthy intimate relationships with those individuals who are most important to them.
I am, first and foremost, a highly trained Therapist for pornography and sexual addiction. I love to work with couples, individuals and families helping to put an anchor back into their lives. For 3 decades I have sat front row and center in thousands of peoples lives. I have found that this is a most privileged position. My goal is to give my clients proven tools to learn to have healthy intimate relationships with those individuals who are most important to them.
All too often we find ourselves repeating the same behaviors, pursing the same types of relationships, and feeling frustrated with the same emotional experiences. Are you stuck in an addictive pattern? Are you a betrayed partner or family member of someone with substance abuse or who is abusive? I’m here for you! With 10 years of experience working with others and having worked through my own struggles, I hope to help you live a more satisfying and meaningful life. I work specifically with individuals and partners with substance abuse, relationship issues, anxiety, life transitions, narcissistic abuse, and trauma.
All too often we find ourselves repeating the same behaviors, pursing the same types of relationships, and feeling frustrated with the same emotional experiences. Are you stuck in an addictive pattern? Are you a betrayed partner or family member of someone with substance abuse or who is abusive? I’m here for you! With 10 years of experience working with others and having worked through my own struggles, I hope to help you live a more satisfying and meaningful life. I work specifically with individuals and partners with substance abuse, relationship issues, anxiety, life transitions, narcissistic abuse, and trauma.
Camille L. Reich
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cherry Hills, CO 80110
COUPLES, FAMILY, CHILD and INDIVIDUAL THERAPY. True Happiness and Stability Stems from the Quality of our Significant Relationships! I work from a strength-based, solution-focused, and systemic or relational orientation, all are evidence-based approaches. I focus on people's strengths and possibilities while addressing their real life difficulties. I also practice child-centered play therapy and provide personality, relationship (couple) and career assessments. I believe in a holistic approach to the therapeutic process that incorporates biological, psychological, social, and spiritual dimensions empowering a person or family towards mastering life to its fullest. I look forward to consulting with you!
COUPLES, FAMILY, CHILD and INDIVIDUAL THERAPY. True Happiness and Stability Stems from the Quality of our Significant Relationships! I work from a strength-based, solution-focused, and systemic or relational orientation, all are evidence-based approaches. I focus on people's strengths and possibilities while addressing their real life difficulties. I also practice child-centered play therapy and provide personality, relationship (couple) and career assessments. I believe in a holistic approach to the therapeutic process that incorporates biological, psychological, social, and spiritual dimensions empowering a person or family towards mastering life to its fullest. I look forward to consulting with you!
Suzanne Meli
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cherry Hills, CO 80110
Do you feel like your partner has turned into your roommate? Is it difficult to find joy in the things you once loved? Do you feel like negative emotions are taking over? Do you feel stuck? It is an intimidating process to seek help when things just aren’t right. Here is some good news…by searching for help, you’re already on the path to feeling better and having more meaningful relationships! Even though it may not feel possible right now, the suffering that you are experiencing can be alleviated. Often we don't know a way out of our pain, and that is where I can help with new perspective and a safe space to express your thoughts.
Do you feel like your partner has turned into your roommate? Is it difficult to find joy in the things you once loved? Do you feel like negative emotions are taking over? Do you feel stuck? It is an intimidating process to seek help when things just aren’t right. Here is some good news…by searching for help, you’re already on the path to feeling better and having more meaningful relationships! Even though it may not feel possible right now, the suffering that you are experiencing can be alleviated. Often we don't know a way out of our pain, and that is where I can help with new perspective and a safe space to express your thoughts.
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Allison Rimland
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
18 Endorsed
Littleton, CO 80121
Couples come to me to communicate better, grow closer, heal affairs, and improve sexual intimacy.
Do you often argue about the same issues? Do you feel like you aren't being heard? Does it seem like you can never get it right with him/her? Do you want closeness, but don't know how to get it? All relationships experience disconnections & conflict. You CAN get back those good feelings that brought you together in the first place. I can help you make sense of the communication breakdowns and patterns leading to conflict. I'll help you learn to communicate in a way that brings closeness & intimacy back into your relationship.
Couples come to me to communicate better, grow closer, heal affairs, and improve sexual intimacy.
Do you often argue about the same issues? Do you feel like you aren't being heard? Does it seem like you can never get it right with him/her? Do you want closeness, but don't know how to get it? All relationships experience disconnections & conflict. You CAN get back those good feelings that brought you together in the first place. I can help you make sense of the communication breakdowns and patterns leading to conflict. I'll help you learn to communicate in a way that brings closeness & intimacy back into your relationship.
A partner's secretive experiences can come in many shades, from a one time incident or pornography, to affairs or sexual compulsions and addictions.
Has your world been turned upside down after learning of your partner's secret romantic or sexual experiences? Do you feel furious, devastated, numb and confused all at the same time? One moment you feel love and the next extreme anger, one moment you're screaming and the next you're crying, one moment you're determined to leave and the next wondering if you can forgive? Or perhaps you've been dealing with this for a while and you feel stuck; you still can't trust or forgive, can't stop thinking about what happened, and worry about it happening again? I understand how you feel and am so deeply sorry that you're going through this.
A partner's secretive experiences can come in many shades, from a one time incident or pornography, to affairs or sexual compulsions and addictions.
Has your world been turned upside down after learning of your partner's secret romantic or sexual experiences? Do you feel furious, devastated, numb and confused all at the same time? One moment you feel love and the next extreme anger, one moment you're screaming and the next you're crying, one moment you're determined to leave and the next wondering if you can forgive? Or perhaps you've been dealing with this for a while and you feel stuck; you still can't trust or forgive, can't stop thinking about what happened, and worry about it happening again? I understand how you feel and am so deeply sorry that you're going through this.
I specialize in working with clients who are struggling with anxiety, perfectionism, and low self-esteem, as well as those healing from betrayal or relational trauma. I use a trauma-focused and compassion-centered approach to help clients reconnect with themselves, break out of anxious cycles, and find pathways to healing. I integrate techniques from various models, including Internal Family Systems, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, to best serve my clients' needs.
I specialize in working with clients who are struggling with anxiety, perfectionism, and low self-esteem, as well as those healing from betrayal or relational trauma. I use a trauma-focused and compassion-centered approach to help clients reconnect with themselves, break out of anxious cycles, and find pathways to healing. I integrate techniques from various models, including Internal Family Systems, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, to best serve my clients' needs.
I specialize in working with 20-somethings, 30-somethings and 40-somethings and 50-somethings with: Decision-making, Career, Relationships, Personal Responsibility, Self Awareness, Family Issues, Anxiety, Panic, Shyness, Worrying, Overwhelm, Stress, Depression, Guilt, Shame, Self-defeating behaviors, Trauma, Sexual Abuse, Infidelity, Problematic Drinking.
You want to feel better, right? I take pride in my commitment to helping you achieve this. I will help you understand yourself better and work through blocks so that you can have more enjoyment, worry less, and function better in work, relationships, and life. I listen for what's underlying your issues and then help you find resolution. I work with you to relieve worries, racing thoughts, poor concentration, panic, moodiness, irritability, relationship problems, and work-related problems.
I specialize in working with 20-somethings, 30-somethings and 40-somethings and 50-somethings with: Decision-making, Career, Relationships, Personal Responsibility, Self Awareness, Family Issues, Anxiety, Panic, Shyness, Worrying, Overwhelm, Stress, Depression, Guilt, Shame, Self-defeating behaviors, Trauma, Sexual Abuse, Infidelity, Problematic Drinking.
You want to feel better, right? I take pride in my commitment to helping you achieve this. I will help you understand yourself better and work through blocks so that you can have more enjoyment, worry less, and function better in work, relationships, and life. I listen for what's underlying your issues and then help you find resolution. I work with you to relieve worries, racing thoughts, poor concentration, panic, moodiness, irritability, relationship problems, and work-related problems.
Benjamin Massey
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80110
I am passionate about working with couples, individuals and families to find their way out of feeling stuck, disconnected or broken and to help them move towards wholeness, integration and connection. When the complex issues of your life become overwhelming, I can help to provide the safety and structure to not only address the surface level concerns, but to also expand your understanding of the situation to find deep healing, new solutions and lasting change. Whether it is anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relational conflict, sexual problems or infidelity, I can help you find your strength to face these challenges in a new way.
I am passionate about working with couples, individuals and families to find their way out of feeling stuck, disconnected or broken and to help them move towards wholeness, integration and connection. When the complex issues of your life become overwhelming, I can help to provide the safety and structure to not only address the surface level concerns, but to also expand your understanding of the situation to find deep healing, new solutions and lasting change. Whether it is anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relational conflict, sexual problems or infidelity, I can help you find your strength to face these challenges in a new way.
Claudia Nell Hawley
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, ASAT, CTMH
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Littleton, CO 80121
Finding peace in a complex world often involves seeking answers to sensitive and sometimes distressing questions. Unexpected loss, childhood traumas, and relationship distress lead to distress and disconnection from others. My therapeutic work is attachment-based and trauma informed to foster kindness, compassion, and respect for the whole person (mind, body, and spirit). I work with adult individuals and couples. I have advanced training in infidelity and affair recovery for couples, betrayal trauma, and partner recovery, as well as the use of EMDR with complex trauma. Additionally I am a Level 3 Gottman Method Therapist.
Finding peace in a complex world often involves seeking answers to sensitive and sometimes distressing questions. Unexpected loss, childhood traumas, and relationship distress lead to distress and disconnection from others. My therapeutic work is attachment-based and trauma informed to foster kindness, compassion, and respect for the whole person (mind, body, and spirit). I work with adult individuals and couples. I have advanced training in infidelity and affair recovery for couples, betrayal trauma, and partner recovery, as well as the use of EMDR with complex trauma. Additionally I am a Level 3 Gottman Method Therapist.
Erin Chelgren
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MS, MFTC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80113 (Online Only)
Accepting new clients now. If you're not feeling heard or understood in your relationship or marriage, I want to help. With my advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and EMDR, I help couples identify and transform the root of the communication issues that keep them stuck in distress. Both partners will learn to express their emotions and unmet needs in an effective way that sparks intimate connection and joy. I am passionate about working with couples experiencing anxiety, depression, betrayal trauma, transitions, parenthood, and symptoms of trauma.
Accepting new clients now. If you're not feeling heard or understood in your relationship or marriage, I want to help. With my advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and EMDR, I help couples identify and transform the root of the communication issues that keep them stuck in distress. Both partners will learn to express their emotions and unmet needs in an effective way that sparks intimate connection and joy. I am passionate about working with couples experiencing anxiety, depression, betrayal trauma, transitions, parenthood, and symptoms of trauma.
Heather M McPherson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST, AASECT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Englewood, CO 80110
Are you struggling with your relationships and sexuality? Looking for a specialist that can make talking about sex easier? I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Relationship Specialist. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Issues can include communication, fear of sex, relationship conflicts, constant fighting, desire differences, sexual orientation, sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction, polyamorous/open or kink relationships, "sex or porn addiction" or problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, trauma or sexless marriages.
Are you struggling with your relationships and sexuality? Looking for a specialist that can make talking about sex easier? I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Relationship Specialist. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Issues can include communication, fear of sex, relationship conflicts, constant fighting, desire differences, sexual orientation, sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction, polyamorous/open or kink relationships, "sex or porn addiction" or problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, trauma or sexless marriages.
I have experience working with people who want to address relationship concerns, intimacy/ sexual issues, communication problems, depression and anxiety, infidelity, compulsive sexual behaviors, sexual trauma, gender transition, behavioral issues and life transitions.
Are you wanting to increase connection and intimacy within your relationship(s)? Are you wanting to repair your relationship(s) and rebuild trust? Are you struggling with communication or feel like you are not being heard by others? Do you desire a life where you can express and celebrate your authentic self? Life and relationships can be hard at times and you do not have to face it alone. I am here to support you and your loved ones.
I have experience working with people who want to address relationship concerns, intimacy/ sexual issues, communication problems, depression and anxiety, infidelity, compulsive sexual behaviors, sexual trauma, gender transition, behavioral issues and life transitions.
Are you wanting to increase connection and intimacy within your relationship(s)? Are you wanting to repair your relationship(s) and rebuild trust? Are you struggling with communication or feel like you are not being heard by others? Do you desire a life where you can express and celebrate your authentic self? Life and relationships can be hard at times and you do not have to face it alone. I am here to support you and your loved ones.
Gillian Pierce
Registered Psychotherapist, NLC, MA, MPA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80210
Welcome! Learning to be in loving relationship with ourselves and others is the greatest gift one can offer the world. When we heal ourselves through improved self-love and self-esteem we are able to cultivate healthier relationships and life gets better. I specialize in relationship issues, especially our most vital relationship, the one with ourselves. I support clients through life-transitions, learning relationship tools, pre-marital counseling, infidelity, divorce, self-esteem, anxiety, co-dependence versus interdependence, boundaries, and addiction issues to name a few. I am PACT Level II certified.
Welcome! Learning to be in loving relationship with ourselves and others is the greatest gift one can offer the world. When we heal ourselves through improved self-love and self-esteem we are able to cultivate healthier relationships and life gets better. I specialize in relationship issues, especially our most vital relationship, the one with ourselves. I support clients through life-transitions, learning relationship tools, pre-marital counseling, infidelity, divorce, self-esteem, anxiety, co-dependence versus interdependence, boundaries, and addiction issues to name a few. I am PACT Level II certified.
Hi! I'm Karen Holland. I want to help you live a sparked life. This means, I want to help you get free from the past and build capacity to deal with your current struggles. I have a lot of experience working with: anxiety, breakups, grief, infidelity, relationship struggles, self esteem and self confidence, all kinds of trauma and dealing with chronic pain and illness. I know you want to heal, improve your ability to cope and find a way to enjoy life again.
Hi! I'm Karen Holland. I want to help you live a sparked life. This means, I want to help you get free from the past and build capacity to deal with your current struggles. I have a lot of experience working with: anxiety, breakups, grief, infidelity, relationship struggles, self esteem and self confidence, all kinds of trauma and dealing with chronic pain and illness. I know you want to heal, improve your ability to cope and find a way to enjoy life again.
Pamela Peters--Couple's Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFTC, MAMFT, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80210
Do you and your partner(s) constantly fight or avoid each other? Interested in an Open Relationship or Consensual nonmonogamy? Are you reeling from infidelity or betrayal? Has conflict in your polycule caused negative impacts in your daily lives? Need support navigating a big life change? Is there disconnect between your current beliefs, how you were brought up, and how you want to live NOW? I can help you embrace these differences and move beyond the beliefs that no longer serve you. Together we can bring your way of life and relationships in line with your beliefs.
Do you and your partner(s) constantly fight or avoid each other? Interested in an Open Relationship or Consensual nonmonogamy? Are you reeling from infidelity or betrayal? Has conflict in your polycule caused negative impacts in your daily lives? Need support navigating a big life change? Is there disconnect between your current beliefs, how you were brought up, and how you want to live NOW? I can help you embrace these differences and move beyond the beliefs that no longer serve you. Together we can bring your way of life and relationships in line with your beliefs.
Is your relationship struggling? Do fights or silences break out before you even know what happened? Do you feel cut out or lonely in your relationship? These are signs that the ‘check engine’ light is on and it might be time to take your relationship in for a check up. Sometimes you just get to a point where you need expert help. I excel at helping couples work through challenging conflicts and move past barriers to intimacy. Whatever the particular circumstances I will work with you to sort things out in an open and understanding way.
Is your relationship struggling? Do fights or silences break out before you even know what happened? Do you feel cut out or lonely in your relationship? These are signs that the ‘check engine’ light is on and it might be time to take your relationship in for a check up. Sometimes you just get to a point where you need expert help. I excel at helping couples work through challenging conflicts and move past barriers to intimacy. Whatever the particular circumstances I will work with you to sort things out in an open and understanding way.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.