Sexual Addiction Therapists in Boulder, CO
Straight and LGBTQ+ clients are welcome, as well as Polyamorous, Asexual, Pansexual, and those who have experienced past sexual abuse or sexual obsessions. I also treat those dealing with addiction & substance abuse issues, as well as trauma and anxiety
Straight and LGBTQ+ clients are welcome, as well as Polyamorous, Asexual, Pansexual, and those who have experienced past sexual abuse or sexual obsessions. I also treat those dealing with addiction & substance abuse issues, as well as trauma and anxiety
Are you feeling disconnected in your relationship, your body, or your sense of yourself? Maybe your turnon is turned OFF. Maybe you keep having the same fight, carrying the same shame, & nothing has shifted it. You might ask “Why can’t sex just be easy and fun? Why are relationships so damn hard?” I work with individuals and couples ready to stop circling the same pain drain. Women reclaiming confidence, desire, & boundaries. Men craving deeper intimacy & emotional range. Couples who know something has to change & are willing to be honest about their part in it. It’s time for your life to feel as great inside as it looks outside.
Are you feeling disconnected in your relationship, your body, or your sense of yourself? Maybe your turnon is turned OFF. Maybe you keep having the same fight, carrying the same shame, & nothing has shifted it. You might ask “Why can’t sex just be easy and fun? Why are relationships so damn hard?” I work with individuals and couples ready to stop circling the same pain drain. Women reclaiming confidence, desire, & boundaries. Men craving deeper intimacy & emotional range. Couples who know something has to change & are willing to be honest about their part in it. It’s time for your life to feel as great inside as it looks outside.
I think of my role as your therapist like the wind that bends the willows at high elevation —
helping them grow stronger and more flexible over time. I’m here to support you in building the life you want, always taking care to move at the speed of trust. Through my work in various settings, what I’ve learned is that healing happens through genuine
connection — between you and me, between you and yourself, and in your community. I focus on collaboration and creating space for honest, sometimes challenging conversations, always with the respect and care you deserve. (I am not the kind of therapist who just listens and nods.)
I think of my role as your therapist like the wind that bends the willows at high elevation —
helping them grow stronger and more flexible over time. I’m here to support you in building the life you want, always taking care to move at the speed of trust. Through my work in various settings, what I’ve learned is that healing happens through genuine
connection — between you and me, between you and yourself, and in your community. I focus on collaboration and creating space for honest, sometimes challenging conversations, always with the respect and care you deserve. (I am not the kind of therapist who just listens and nods.)
I am an (AASECT) Certified Sex Therapist and Couple/Relationship Counselor, licensed in Colorado, California and Hawaii. I help individuals and those in traditional, or non-traditional, relationships, explore issues surrounding: sex, sexuality/sexual orientation, gender, sexual performance/functioning, desire discrepancy, kink/fetishes, compulsive sexual behavior/sex addiction, sexual abuse/trauma, communication, intimacy, and betrays of trust/infidelity. I celebrate diversity and approach our work together with empathy and non-judgment.
I am an (AASECT) Certified Sex Therapist and Couple/Relationship Counselor, licensed in Colorado, California and Hawaii. I help individuals and those in traditional, or non-traditional, relationships, explore issues surrounding: sex, sexuality/sexual orientation, gender, sexual performance/functioning, desire discrepancy, kink/fetishes, compulsive sexual behavior/sex addiction, sexual abuse/trauma, communication, intimacy, and betrays of trust/infidelity. I celebrate diversity and approach our work together with empathy and non-judgment.
Yasmina Cobrinik (Book Instantly On My Website)
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, MEd, LPCC, NCC
1 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80302
I think of my role as your therapist like the wind that bends the willows at high elevation — helping you grow stronger and more flexible over time. I’m here to support you in building the life you want, always taking care to move at the speed of trust. I’ve worked in wilderness therapy, residential settings, intensive outpatient programs, and private/group practices, and what I’ve learned is that healing happens through genuine connection — between you and me, between you and yourself, and in your community. I focus on collaboration and creating space for honest, sometimes challenging conversations, always with respect and care.
I think of my role as your therapist like the wind that bends the willows at high elevation — helping you grow stronger and more flexible over time. I’m here to support you in building the life you want, always taking care to move at the speed of trust. I’ve worked in wilderness therapy, residential settings, intensive outpatient programs, and private/group practices, and what I’ve learned is that healing happens through genuine connection — between you and me, between you and yourself, and in your community. I focus on collaboration and creating space for honest, sometimes challenging conversations, always with respect and care.
I use a strengths based approach that integrates whole self wellness with an emphasis on mind, body and relationship. I help clients identify unhelpful patterning and create a vision of sexual and relational health through embodiment, presence and cognitive restructuring. I specialize in the intersection of sex, love, pleasure, relationships, identity, communication, and empowerment.
I use a strengths based approach that integrates whole self wellness with an emphasis on mind, body and relationship. I help clients identify unhelpful patterning and create a vision of sexual and relational health through embodiment, presence and cognitive restructuring. I specialize in the intersection of sex, love, pleasure, relationships, identity, communication, and empowerment.
Wendy Conquest
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAT-S, IBP, EMDR
2 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80301
I specialize in treating infidelity including pornography usage interfering with intimacy and relationships. Currently I am seeing couples who have already been working through the discovery of sex addiction and betrayal trauma, have both done some work and healing and are now ready to move to the next stage of healing. I offer 1/2 day, full day and weekend immersions tailored to the couples needs. In addition I work with sex/porn addicts who are in all stages of recovery. I run a men's group for males who have at least 6 months of sobriety. Visit www.wendyconquest.com
I specialize in treating infidelity including pornography usage interfering with intimacy and relationships. Currently I am seeing couples who have already been working through the discovery of sex addiction and betrayal trauma, have both done some work and healing and are now ready to move to the next stage of healing. I offer 1/2 day, full day and weekend immersions tailored to the couples needs. In addition I work with sex/porn addicts who are in all stages of recovery. I run a men's group for males who have at least 6 months of sobriety. Visit www.wendyconquest.com
Flatirons Counseling Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSMFT, CSAT, MDiv, IITAP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I have received advanced specialized training in therapies subsequent to my academic training including, but not limited to, Sexual Addiction and EMDR.
I am, first and foremost, a highly trained Christian Therapist. For over thirty years I have worked with couples, individuals, and families helping put an anchor back into their lives. As a Marriage and Family Therapist who is licensed in both Colorado and California, I have two Masters degrees: a Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Masters of Divinity (a three-year ministerial academic training) both earned from Fuller Seminary in Pasadena, California that has been coined “The Princeton of the West”. I use a "systems" approach to marriage and family therapy which means I view each person as part of a whole.
I have received advanced specialized training in therapies subsequent to my academic training including, but not limited to, Sexual Addiction and EMDR.
I am, first and foremost, a highly trained Christian Therapist. For over thirty years I have worked with couples, individuals, and families helping put an anchor back into their lives. As a Marriage and Family Therapist who is licensed in both Colorado and California, I have two Masters degrees: a Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Masters of Divinity (a three-year ministerial academic training) both earned from Fuller Seminary in Pasadena, California that has been coined “The Princeton of the West”. I use a "systems" approach to marriage and family therapy which means I view each person as part of a whole.
Yasmina Cobrinik
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, MEd, LPCC, NCC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I think of my role as your therapist like the wind that bends the willows at high elevation — helping you grow stronger and more flexible over time. I’m here to support you in building the life you want, always taking care to move at the speed of trust. I’ve worked in wilderness therapy, residential settings, intensive outpatient programs, and private/group practices, and what I’ve learned is that healing happens through genuine connection — between you and me, between you and yourself, and in your community. I focus on collaboration and creating space for honest, sometimes challenging conversations, always with respect and care.
I think of my role as your therapist like the wind that bends the willows at high elevation — helping you grow stronger and more flexible over time. I’m here to support you in building the life you want, always taking care to move at the speed of trust. I’ve worked in wilderness therapy, residential settings, intensive outpatient programs, and private/group practices, and what I’ve learned is that healing happens through genuine connection — between you and me, between you and yourself, and in your community. I focus on collaboration and creating space for honest, sometimes challenging conversations, always with respect and care.
Timothy J Milner
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSMFT, MDiv, CSAT, IITAP
1 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80301
I have received advanced specialized training in therapies subsequent to my academic training including, but not limited to, Sexual Addiction and EMDR.
I am, first and foremost, a highly trained Therapist. For over thirty years I have worked with couples, individuals, and families helping put an anchor back into their lives. As a Marriage and Family Therapist who is licensed in both Colorado and California, I have two Masters degrees: a Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Masters of Divinity (a three-year ministerial academic training) both earned from Fuller Seminary in Pasadena, California that has been coined “The Princeton of the West”. I use a "systems" approach to marriage and family therapy which means I view each person as part of a whole.
I have received advanced specialized training in therapies subsequent to my academic training including, but not limited to, Sexual Addiction and EMDR.
I am, first and foremost, a highly trained Therapist. For over thirty years I have worked with couples, individuals, and families helping put an anchor back into their lives. As a Marriage and Family Therapist who is licensed in both Colorado and California, I have two Masters degrees: a Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Masters of Divinity (a three-year ministerial academic training) both earned from Fuller Seminary in Pasadena, California that has been coined “The Princeton of the West”. I use a "systems" approach to marriage and family therapy which means I view each person as part of a whole.
You're a high-achieving man—partner, father, or professional—struggling silently with emotional disconnection, sexual dissatisfaction, porn or sex addiction, or the aftermath of infidelity. You've been called “too nice,” “checked out,” or emotionally unavailable. Underneath, you long for clarity, masculine integrity, and meaningful connection. You may have tried therapy before, but it felt too soft or generic. You’re not here for surface-level change. You want depth, truth, and transformation. I specialize in helping men like you find direction, heal shame, and reclaim inner strength.
You're a high-achieving man—partner, father, or professional—struggling silently with emotional disconnection, sexual dissatisfaction, porn or sex addiction, or the aftermath of infidelity. You've been called “too nice,” “checked out,” or emotionally unavailable. Underneath, you long for clarity, masculine integrity, and meaningful connection. You may have tried therapy before, but it felt too soft or generic. You’re not here for surface-level change. You want depth, truth, and transformation. I specialize in helping men like you find direction, heal shame, and reclaim inner strength.
Being the “default parent” or holding it all together can feel overwhelming and isolating. I specialize in supporting women—especially moms—who feel stretched thin, exhausted, or unsure of who they are beyond their roles. In our work, you’ll find a space that’s compassionate, nonjudgmental, and tailored to you—whether you’re navigating anxiety, grief, relationship stress, or the constant pressure to do it all. Therapy with me is grounded in connection and flexibility: sometimes that looks like laughter, sometimes like tears, and often a mix of both.
Being the “default parent” or holding it all together can feel overwhelming and isolating. I specialize in supporting women—especially moms—who feel stretched thin, exhausted, or unsure of who they are beyond their roles. In our work, you’ll find a space that’s compassionate, nonjudgmental, and tailored to you—whether you’re navigating anxiety, grief, relationship stress, or the constant pressure to do it all. Therapy with me is grounded in connection and flexibility: sometimes that looks like laughter, sometimes like tears, and often a mix of both.
I am a Christian counselor/coach and I am passionate about helping men experience freedom from compulsive behaviors and, as a result, a deeper connection with God, themselves, and others. I specialize in helping men struggling with addictive and compulsive behaviors like pornography, sex, drugs, alcohol, food, work, video games, relationships, etc.
After more than 20 years of experience, I have found that true lasting healing does not happen in isolation. Weekly recovery groups provide the accountability, honesty, and brotherhood required for lasting transformation. That is why I now fully focus on the power of group work.
I am a Christian counselor/coach and I am passionate about helping men experience freedom from compulsive behaviors and, as a result, a deeper connection with God, themselves, and others. I specialize in helping men struggling with addictive and compulsive behaviors like pornography, sex, drugs, alcohol, food, work, video games, relationships, etc.
After more than 20 years of experience, I have found that true lasting healing does not happen in isolation. Weekly recovery groups provide the accountability, honesty, and brotherhood required for lasting transformation. That is why I now fully focus on the power of group work.
Schedule now through my website in my bio! Are you overwhelmed by disturbing intrusive thoughts that seem too terrible to talk about? Do you ever feel powerless to stop looking at pornography? Or are you a man grappling with how to live more authentically in an increasingly complex world? If you identify with any of these struggles, please know that you are not alone and that you can find your way to greater well-being. Opening up about things that you might feel ashamed of or distressed by can be scary, but I believe these struggles deserve to be understood with deep compassion and that facing them head-on is the way forward.
Schedule now through my website in my bio! Are you overwhelmed by disturbing intrusive thoughts that seem too terrible to talk about? Do you ever feel powerless to stop looking at pornography? Or are you a man grappling with how to live more authentically in an increasingly complex world? If you identify with any of these struggles, please know that you are not alone and that you can find your way to greater well-being. Opening up about things that you might feel ashamed of or distressed by can be scary, but I believe these struggles deserve to be understood with deep compassion and that facing them head-on is the way forward.
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) helping men struggling with sex addiction and porn addiction regain control and build healthier, more productive lives.
When unwanted sexual behaviors feel hard to stop, it can be painful, discouraging, and damaging to relationships. Many men find themselves stuck despite a genuine desire to change. If you or someone you care about is struggling, I offer a free consultation to explore whether working together may be a good fit.
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) helping men struggling with sex addiction and porn addiction regain control and build healthier, more productive lives.
When unwanted sexual behaviors feel hard to stop, it can be painful, discouraging, and damaging to relationships. Many men find themselves stuck despite a genuine desire to change. If you or someone you care about is struggling, I offer a free consultation to explore whether working together may be a good fit.
I have a deep passion to sit with people in their darkest times of struggle. As a therapist, I too have been in need of help along my journey. I believe the strong are the people who reach out, to make their lives richer, full of peace, joy and hope. In order to heal past and current wounds, I have learned that safety is crucial to heal. Since safety is a primal need, I strive to help each client feel safe in my office and to work together to find the best solutions to their unique situation.
I have a deep passion to sit with people in their darkest times of struggle. As a therapist, I too have been in need of help along my journey. I believe the strong are the people who reach out, to make their lives richer, full of peace, joy and hope. In order to heal past and current wounds, I have learned that safety is crucial to heal. Since safety is a primal need, I strive to help each client feel safe in my office and to work together to find the best solutions to their unique situation.
Sex Addiction is a black hole. Getting help via a therapeutic relationship where the client can be heard, accepted, empathized with and helped to feel safe is a path to freedom from this addiction. Tools for growth, new strength, a greater life balance, connection and clarity are used. I have a passion for coming alongside individuals who are seeking to overcome compulsive porn/sexual behaviors, carving a path to that freedom and walking alongside them on that special journey. My greatest satisfaction is from seeing an individual attain their life goals through a special therapeutic relationship. The first 30 minute consult is free.
Sex Addiction is a black hole. Getting help via a therapeutic relationship where the client can be heard, accepted, empathized with and helped to feel safe is a path to freedom from this addiction. Tools for growth, new strength, a greater life balance, connection and clarity are used. I have a passion for coming alongside individuals who are seeking to overcome compulsive porn/sexual behaviors, carving a path to that freedom and walking alongside them on that special journey. My greatest satisfaction is from seeing an individual attain their life goals through a special therapeutic relationship. The first 30 minute consult is free.
My name is Sara DeFazio, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I specialize in supporting young adults who are recovering from interpersonal trauma and exploring their sense of identity to foster greater self-love and authenticity. In our work together, I co-create a warm, compassionate space where you can practice self-acceptance and build the capacity to meet life’s challenges with curiosity and resilience. During our initial sessions, you can expect conversations rooted in empathy and mindful awareness as we develop a felt sense of safety and connection.
My name is Sara DeFazio, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I specialize in supporting young adults who are recovering from interpersonal trauma and exploring their sense of identity to foster greater self-love and authenticity. In our work together, I co-create a warm, compassionate space where you can practice self-acceptance and build the capacity to meet life’s challenges with curiosity and resilience. During our initial sessions, you can expect conversations rooted in empathy and mindful awareness as we develop a felt sense of safety and connection.
Supervised by Lacie Hamilton. Do you struggle with trauma, anxiety, grief, or betrayal that impacts your day-to-day life, relationships, or sense of self? Do you feel overwhelmed, lost, or unsure how to move forward? Welcome to the club "Trying to be Human" it can be really hard. Perhaps you’re navigating what it means to recover from betrayal or trauma, cope with a loss, or rebuild after a challenging relationship. These feelings can leave you questioning whether life will ever feel better or more stable. Now more than ever, people are facing uncertainty, stress, and disconnection, leaving them searching for hope and answers.
Supervised by Lacie Hamilton. Do you struggle with trauma, anxiety, grief, or betrayal that impacts your day-to-day life, relationships, or sense of self? Do you feel overwhelmed, lost, or unsure how to move forward? Welcome to the club "Trying to be Human" it can be really hard. Perhaps you’re navigating what it means to recover from betrayal or trauma, cope with a loss, or rebuild after a challenging relationship. These feelings can leave you questioning whether life will ever feel better or more stable. Now more than ever, people are facing uncertainty, stress, and disconnection, leaving them searching for hope and answers.
Are you ready to be transformed by the work? Are you ready for deep, lasting change? Do you have a sense there's more you need to experience & offer? Are you willing to work for it?If these feel true of you, we may be a fit. If you're willing to show up to the work, learn & grow, be accountable, especially when it's hard, let’s talk. I’m a soul guide & coach that helps people like you find your soul's purpose & the work that’s yours to do, while cultivating more aliveness & deep, meaningful connections with those you're closest to & with the natural world. If this feels like you, reach out to me; we've got good work to do.
Are you ready to be transformed by the work? Are you ready for deep, lasting change? Do you have a sense there's more you need to experience & offer? Are you willing to work for it?If these feel true of you, we may be a fit. If you're willing to show up to the work, learn & grow, be accountable, especially when it's hard, let’s talk. I’m a soul guide & coach that helps people like you find your soul's purpose & the work that’s yours to do, while cultivating more aliveness & deep, meaningful connections with those you're closest to & with the natural world. If this feels like you, reach out to me; we've got good work to do.
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When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.
What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.
How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.
What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.