Infidelity Therapists in Arvada, CO

After fifteen years of counseling individuals, I completed specialized training in couples counseling. I use my education, as well as my personal experience with marriage and divorce, to help clients achieve peace and harmony in their marriage. While folks most often come to me to talk about infidelity /emotional affairs , domestic violence or addictions, I've worked with couples dealing with very unique situations. I strive to apply the most effective techniques and wisdom to each couple seeking my assistance, and to honor your commitment to growth and positive change.

Anxiety and depression are so prevalent these days. Romantic struggles are stressful. Conflict with your beloved related to intimacy, infidelity , parenting, etc. can be exhausting. Communication with your partner/family member can feel so frustrating at times. "Getting on the same page" with your partner prior to taking the next step would feel great. Adjusting to parenthood, coping with a difficult transition, a loss, or lack of fulfillment can make you feel powerless; you want to feel alive again! These are all really heavy life challenges that many of us face, but you don't have to face them alone. I am here to help.

I am a bilingual & bicultural professional counselor (English & Spanish) with 19 years of experience. I studied both in Mexico and USA, I specialize working with Latino Clients. Have you experienced a traumatic event and don’t know where to turn? Do you have a traumatic experience from your past that continues to negatively affect your life? Whether you’re a victim of crime, infidelity , or domestic violence, it can be tough to seek help. Depression, anxiety, and overwhelm can take over your life, and you may feel like you’re all alone in your pain.

Most of us have faced times of intense emotions and difficult relationship circumstances where it seems like you have tried many things to fix the problems, but you are out of ideas. As a couple therapy specialist, I have a saying that "it's hard to do brain surgery on yourself," and so it goes with trying to understand what ails your relationship and how you can fix it. I can help you understand the negative pattern you and your loved one are caught in, and help you learn a new way. I would be honored to walk alongside you as an individual or couple, to help get through relationship difficulties and move toward meaningful change.

I am a Marriage and Family therapist and an Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT) in training, and am working towards her Sex Therapy Certification through the Sexual Health Alliance. I knew from an early age that becoming a sex therapist was part of my life mission. My love for the intricacies of human sexuality blossomed when obtaining my Somatic Counseling degree where I studied how the human body is an integral component of sex, sexual trauma, exploration, and behaviors. Further, my experience working with child victims of sex trafficking cemented my passion in becoming a sex therapist and has aided in paving my road in healing.

Do you sometimes feel alone in the world? Do you sometimes wonder "is this all there is?" Do you often wonder if everyone else has some sort of secret knowledge, that if only you had, would make your life better? Many of us feel these things at one time or another in our lives and sometimes we get "stuck" and feel unable to move forward. I will walk with you and help you understand where these issues come from and what you can do to feel better.

Daniel Fleshner is a Licensed Professional Counselor and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with a passion for exploring relationships and helping individuals and couples process conflict and engage in healthy communication. He currently works at Inflection Point Therapy in Denver, CO where he provides individual counseling, couples counseling, and sex therapy. He graduated with a M. Ed in Rehabilitation Counseling from The George Washington University and a B.A. in Psychology and Political Science from The University of Michigan.

We need healthy and meaningful relationships to feel a true sense of fulfillment in life. Therapy can be a transformative space for individuals, couples and families to reimagine the way they they relate to themselves and one another. Deep down, I believe we all want what is best for ourselves, our relationships and our families, but sometimes the pains from the past and uncertainty of life can block us from fulfillment and true connection. Life is difficult and can bring unimaginable pain. Relationships and parenting are complex. Everyone needs support.

I recognize that taking the first step to seek out professional counseling can be a big one. I work with both individuals and couples to achieve their goals. We work on things like managing anxiety, relationship issues, dealing with life's transitions, and increasing coping skills. Many couples come to therapy having difficulty communicating and expressing their needs. With more people working from home and spending time cooped up together it is increasingly important to understand and communicate with your partner. It can be an opportunity to understand each other on deeper more meaningful level.

Practicing in Colorado and California. After more than 50 years in a variety of capacities in the mental health field. I enjoy working with just about anyone that comes through my door. I am always amazed and honored by the wide variety of individuals that enter my office. My strengths are working with adolescents, adults, and couples with all kinds of issues and concerns. I have a long history of working with men covering a wide array of concerns. An important focus of my work over the past 40 years has been work with intimate partners and couples in which one or both are survivors of trauma/abuse.

I bring 23 years and counting of clinical experience, working with people of all walks of life. After all this time, I continue to love what I do. I consider it a deep privilege to support people on their journey, and witness others' transformation, healing and evolution. I see the resilience of the human spirit every day.

Have you had a recent change in your life? Feeling tired and frustrated? Unfulfilled in your personal and romantic relationships? When was the last time you thought about what YOU need or want? Have you ever felt like running away? I offer you an open and compassionate space to come explore all of this and more each week. Together you and I will explore your concerns and find new ways to re-connect with yourself and the important people in your life, and will be a support system for you while you explore the changes you would like to make.

By now you may feel like you've tried everything. Perhaps your home has become a battleground, filled with fights that repeat over and over without any progress. Maybe you feel like you have hit a wall with your partner and aren’t sure how to move forward, or maybe you feel stuck, watching from the sidelines as your child navigates the many challenges of adolescence. Taking action can help resolve these feelings of helplessness and taking the initiative to seek treatment is the first step forward. If you or your child is struggling to live a fulfilling life—or even struggling to make it through the day—it’s time to seek help.

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate who provides evidence-based, compassionate treatment for depression, anxiety, chronic pain, stress management, self-esteem issues, relationship challenges, career and academic challenges, childhood emotional neglect, and major life transitions.

Relationships evoke our deepest longings and fears, and touch on wounds that may have been long hidden, wounds which we’ve often lived a lifetime without recognizing. The pain of disconnection we feel in relationships, the heated arguments and periods of distance or alienation, can leave us lost and confused, stuck in emotional knots, with our desire for closeness vying against our protective reactions. Cycles of conflict may escalate, and with them, the pain. All the while, deep down, we quietly long to share ourselves more honestly and fully with those whom we are closest to.

Life can be difficult, often leaving us with a loss of direction, feelings of anxiety, depression, and isolation. Together we can explore what might feel chaotic or overwhelming to gently being to process and unpack, identifying personalized coping tools, strategies, and plans for your personal growth.

Specializing in working with men and couples. Is this you? Relationships are filled with more conflict than caring? Overwhelmed by the stress and anxiety of life's challenges? Stuck in a rut that keeps repeating and stands in the way of living the life you deserve? Muscles are tight, stomach hurts, and headaches - making fun nearly impossible? Your life feels like it is without meaning or purpose? Feeling this way is exhausting. Ready to live life more abundantly? Schedule a FREE consultation today.

When did you last feel so alive that you wanted to slide across the room in your socks pantomiming that silly "Risky Business" song? I bet it's been a while. Sometimes things get gray in our lives and we don't notice for a long while. But, I bet you've noticed. I bet you're searching for something that will help you feel the joyful and alive again. Therapy can help. I have seen it again and again and I would love to see if I can help you get your groove back.

I work best with individuals, couples and families on these issues: Couple/Relationship conflict, Parenting/Family issues, Grief and loss, Life Transitions, Anger Management, Self-Esteem, Identity formation, LGBTQI/ Gender Identity, Spirituality, and Meaning Making.

There is always hope for restoration and fullness in life. Whether you are struggling in your relationship, experiencing sexual dissatisfaction, or living in confusion and shame, Denver Couples & Sex Therapy will provide the safety, understanding and acceptance to help you in your journey to find wholeness. Life is too short to surrender to unfulfilling relationships, destructive patterns, unsatisfying intimacy, trauma, or shame. My heart is to cultivate the space for you to experience healing and growth so that you may live intimately and securely connected to yourself and others.