Emotionally Focused Therapists in Arvada, CO
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Erin Rohlf
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
To do so, Erin utilizes a treatment modality called
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, or
EFT
, which has shown to be an effective intervention with increasing marital satisfaction.
Erin is a Licensed Clinical Social worker with a Certificate in Marriage and Family Therapy from Regis University. She has been a practicing therapist in Colorado since 2013. Erin specializes in couples therapy for adults who are struggling with trust issues, infidelity, communication problems, recovering from emotional affairs, or whose partnerships have been undermined by addictions.

Colorado Love + Life Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS
Verified
Verified
I provide a safe and compassionate space for both individuals and couples, grounded in trusted and effective healing modalities, including somatic and
emotionally focused
therapies.
Relationships evoke our deepest longings and fears, and touch on wounds that may have been long hidden, wounds which we’ve often lived a lifetime without recognizing. The pain of disconnection we feel in relationships, the heated arguments and periods of distance or alienation, can leave us lost and confused, stuck in emotional knots, with our desire for closeness vying against our protective reactions. Cycles of conflict may escalate, and with them, the pain. All the while, deep down, we quietly long to share ourselves more honestly and fully with those whom we are closest to.

Esther Terpenning
MFTC, MA
Verified
Verified
Staying connected to your partner can be tough - even when there’s a lot of love in your relationship. In fact, being in love can make it that much more painful when you feel far away from or unheard by “your person.” I use
Emotionally Focused
Therapy to help couples who love one another deeply, yet feel like they are missing each other. My approach is nurturing, compassionate, intuitive, and grounded in evidence-based practice. I love helping parents of young children, pregnant and postpartum couples navigate the challenges that come with life with kids.
Duane A Boyd
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MFTC
Verified
Verified
Duane received his Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Regis University in 2019 and has completed training in
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, CBT, and Structural Therapy.
Duane counsels people of all ages utilizing a variety of evidence-based techniques. His passion is helping people be the best version of themselves. He does this by accepting clients for who they are and ensuring they maintain their autonomy. He is interested in helping people develop self-esteem, confidence, and satisfaction in their lives. In addition, he is skilled at drawing on each person’s resourcefulness. He helps clients connect with their loved ones and unite together to solve problems. With couples and families, Duane identifies core strengths in the relationship(s) and brings clarity to ineffective communication patterns

Misti Klarenbeek-McKenna
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCSW, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I am a Certified
Emotionally Focused
Therapist and Supervisor and I provide psychotherapy to couples, families, and individuals. I specialize in working with couples, helping them to connect in a more meaningful way. I am consulted to help people with relationships, grief and loss, transitions, divorce, women's issues, and other life challenges.

Michelle Skiba
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
In couples' work, I primarily utilize
Emotionally Focused
Therapy to facilitate positive change and healing with your partner.
It is difficult to take that first step and ask for help, to find a connection in a trusted therapist. I offer a genuine and collaborative counseling environment for individuals, couples and families. If life's issues from everyday challenges to life changing events have become overwhelming, I want you to know that you are not alone. Or, if your relationship has lost that emotional connection, there may be a path toward re-discovery and new discovery. Our work can help you to understand the sources of your distress in ways that will allow you to think more clearly, feel more deeply, and manage your relationship more effectively.

Marian Perry
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, LPC, MFTC
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
I use emotionally-focused therapy (
EFT
) with individuals, couples and families to create stronger bonds between family members.
Do you sometimes feel alone in the world? Do you sometimes wonder "is this all there is?" Do you often wonder if everyone else has some sort of secret knowledge, that if only you had, would make your life better? Many of us feel these things at one time or another in our lives and sometimes we get "stuck" and feel unable to move forward. I will walk with you and help you understand where these issues come from and what you can do to feel better.

Nicholas (Nick) Simpson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LD, MSEE
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I promote improvement in my client's quality of life related to moods, relationships & sense of purpose. I approach clients where they are in their lives, relationships & moods in a manner that is accepting and encouraging. I believe people are their own best resource for understanding their present state, how they have arrived there, & having resilience to heal & move toward their goals. When clients are very stuck in negative moods, behaviors & relational patterns, I help them engage these through mindfulness, emotionally-focused & trauma healing therapies, which are based on understanding natural processes of healing & growth.

Dawn Swan
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified
Verified
My primary approach is
Emotionally Focused
Therapy.
Currently Accepting New Couples - My passion is helping Couples find deep & lasting connection. If you've been scarred by a betrayal or have gradually lost connection over time, I can help you find your way back to each other using cutting edge attachment science. I can also help with relationship problems, anxiety, depression and unresolved trauma. Please let me know how I can be of help to you.

Angela Powell
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Specialties & Training: Advanced Training in
Emotionally Focused
Therapy for couples & individuals.
We have all faced times of intense waiting where it seems like we just cannot take another step on our own. I would be honored to walk alongside you, to help get through this difficult place and move toward meaningful change. With evidence-based couples and individual counseling using
Emotionally Focused
Therapy (
EFT
& EFIT), we can look closer at interactional patterns, recurring arguments, feelings of disconnection, and work to re-establish comfort and trust. Welcoming to all identities and family configurations!

Healing Connections: Therapy Collective
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
Our collective of therapists bring rich backgrounds and approaches to assist in integrating and moving through challenges, whether chronic, or transitional and the multifaceted, multilayered nature of experiences. We provide diverse approaches to meet the needs of clients coming in from contemplative, polyvagal skill acquisition, wilderness, walk and talk, attachment work with individuals, families, and couples, somatic, narrative and psychodynamic. Each journey is unique and each path of healing holds diverse and nuanced elements. We bring EMDR,
EFT
, PACT, Mindfulness Based, Somatic Based approaches, as well as parts work practices
Not accepting new clients

Amy Couchman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
My approach combines
Emotionally Focused
Therapy with Systemic, Attachment-Focused and Solution-Focused.
I am Licensed Professional Counselor with over 20 years of experience in the counseling field. I enjoy working with people from adolescence to adults, including those who are aging, and specialize in supporting people in relationship work, depression, anxiety, attachment wounds career challenges and emotion intelligence. I love working with people who are curious and ready to build insight in order to deepen their connections with others. I believe that we are meant to be in relationship with one another and when we learn how to be over authentic selfs we deepen our connections and relationships.

Conrad Prososki
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFTC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I specialize in Narrative,
Emotionally Focused
, and Solution-Focused Therapy.
For as long as I can remember, I have wanted to help others. Active listening, being empathetic, and showing compassion for others during tough times has always come naturally to me. I strive to bring these natural strengths, as well as the tools I have learned throughout my time as a student, to give the best possible care to each of my clients/families/couples. I believe that a client should be able to leave each therapy session with a greater understanding and self-awareness of how they can navigate through their lives.

Nicole Jackson
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MA, LMFT-C
Verified
Verified
I use an eclectic blend of attachment theory, informed trauma care,
EFT
, and experiential therapeutic exercises in my therapeutic approaches.
Hello there! I am a Marriage and Family therapist also gaining Sex Therapy certification through the Sexual Health Alliance. I knew from an early age that becoming a sex therapist was part of my life mission. My love for human sexuality blossomed when obtaining my Somatic Counseling degree where I studied how the human body is an integral component of sex, sexual trauma, and behavior. I absolutely love working with partners that have been together for long periods of time and haven't had much success with therapy. The goal is not to go back to the way things used to be, the goal is for things to be stronger than than have ever been.

Ruth Randall
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I work with an emotion focused (
EFT
) approach and through an attachment focused lens.
I’m so glad you’re here. You are most likely looking for support in your partnership, and I trust I can offer that. I am a therapist and coach who specializes in relationship and sex/intimacy struggles. I love working with couples to help them re-access connection and uncover the true roots of their struggles. Often times the challenges are both deeper than we think, and also more resolvable than we think.

Karissa Moody
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Through the use of experiential, attachment-based, and
emotionally focused
frameworks, I support my clients in exploring their relationships with the challenges that they face and how to transform these into ways that offer more creativity, courage, confidence, and resilience.
At times we can get lost in figuring out how to navigate the difficulties in our lives, leading to points of “stuckness” which can feel scary, painful, isolating, and defeating. If your curiosity has brought you here, I gently invite you to lean into that as this is the first step into unlocking what’s possible. I’m passionate about working with motivated individuals and couples who struggle with perfectionism, shame, depression, anxiety, past traumas, low confidence, life transitions, relationship and family conflict, infidelity, divorce, or separation.

Selena Vigue
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFTC
Verified
Verified
I am professionally trained in
Emotionally Focused
Couples Therapy, which is the most effective model that currently exists for couples.
I am a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate with a specialization in couples therapy. I help people who would like to transform their communication skills, resolve conflicts, and deepen their understanding in their relationships with themselves and/or their partner. I also work with individuals battling anxiety and depression.

Kara Carver
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate, MA, LPCC
Verified
Verified
Kara utilizes a holistic approach rooted in
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, family systems, and play therapy. Kara focuses on the mind-body connection to help align clients’ thoughts, feelings, and attitudes to positively affect their biological functioning. She also practices Hypnotherapy to help individuals evolve and change on a deeper level. Kara believes that all behavior makes sense in context and that her role as a therapist is to be a mirror to clients as they heal and make sense of their story.

The Balanced Mother
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I have 25 years of clinical experience. In the last 18 years I have been focusing on women's issues, particularly issues around motherhood such as: perinatal and postpartum mood disorders, fertility, miscarriage and loss as well as transition and adjustment concerns. I also address issues of depression, anxiety, relationship concerns, serious illness and trauma. I consider myself a christian counselor and believe that a persons religious and/or spiritual beliefs can be an asset in making changes and moving forward.

Ashley Gray
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
It feels like the walls are closing in on you. You don’t feel like yourself, you don’t recognize your relationship anymore and you’re not sure what will make you feel like you. It sucks. It’s isolating. While you normally have the answers, you don’t this time. You just know that you want to feel close to your partner, again. You want to feel happy and peaceful. No more crying in the shower or fights without resolve. Together, we will sort out your values, emotions, needs and goals. Ultimately, we will create a space where you feel validated, rested and confident. I've been working with individuals & couples since 2015.
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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.