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Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT (he, him)

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Available both in-person and online
519 La Cienega Blvd Suite 210 West Hollywood, CA 90048
On the outside, a lot of the men I work with are successful and put-together, but on the inside, something feels missing. Like they're not enough, or they don't quite measure up. They might feel anxious, overwhelmed, or lonely, struggle in relationships, use substances more than they'd like, or feel shame around sex. Some have religious trauma. Others just feel like they don't belong. Therapy with me is collaborative and honest. The goal is lasting change in how you see and feel about yourself.​ I'm the founder of A Road Trip to Love Therapy, and I see gay men in West Hollywood and online across California.
My passion is helping gay men understand where their patterns come from and how the past still informs their present. I draw on psychodynamic therapy, attachment theory, and training in trauma care, specializing in religious trauma. Over time, the men I work with feel more at peace, more connected in their relationships, and worthy of the life they want.
Many gay men internalized beliefs about themselves that affect their lives, consciously and unconsciously. We were wounded in relationship, and it's in relationship where we heal. This is the foundation of our work together. If any of this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you.
Call or Chris Tompkins now for a free 15 minute consultation - (323) 395-5359

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

519 La Cienega Blvd

Suite 210

West Hollywood, CA 90048 map

(323) 395-5359
My website
I offer telehealth sessions for clients throughout California.
I specialize in Men's Issues, LGBTQ+ and Relationship Issues 
$250 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (323) 395-5359
Photo of Chris Tompkins, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

519 La Cienega Blvd

Suite 210

West Hollywood, CA 90048 map

(323) 395-5359
My website
I offer telehealth sessions for clients throughout California.
I specialize in Men's Issues, LGBTQ+ and Relationship Issues 
$250 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $250
  • Couple Sessions $300
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Discover, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Zelle
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I am an out-of-network therapist, but I am happy to provide a monthly superbill for submission to insurance for reimbursement upon request. Please reach out with any questions.
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Chris Tompkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (323) 395-5359
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I am an out-of-network therapist, but I am happy to provide a monthly superbill for submission to insurance for reimbursement upon request. Please reach out with any questions.
Photo of Chris Tompkins, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Chris Tompkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (323) 395-5359

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 158578 Chris Tompkins
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 5 years
  • Attended Antioch University Los Angeles, Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology , Graduated 2022
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT) 2022
  • Certificate from The Allender Center at The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology 2020
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I'm a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist specializing in adult gay men, working with both individuals and couples. I also hold advanced training in Narrative-Focused Trauma Care through The Allender Center of Seattle, WA, for adults who are interested in healing religious trauma.
Photo of Chris Tompkins, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Chris Tompkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (323) 395-5359
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I'm a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist specializing in adult gay men, working with both individuals and couples. I also hold advanced training in Narrative-Focused Trauma Care through The Allender Center of Seattle, WA, for adults who are interested in healing religious trauma.
Photo of Chris Tompkins, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Chris Tompkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (323) 395-5359

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Men's Issues
  • LGBTQ+
  • Relationship Issues

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anxiety
  • Body Image
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Drug Abuse
  • Family Conflict
  • Internalized Homophobia
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Parenting
  • Religious Trauma and Male Identity
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I work with gay men whose outward success doesn't match how they feel inside. Many feel shame, self-doubt, or like they're not enough. In our first sessions, we'll explore how past experiences influence patterns in relationships and self-worth. Together, we'll create a plan with insight and action. Most clients develop a better relationship with themselves that reaches every area of their life.
Photo of Chris Tompkins, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Chris Tompkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (323) 395-5359
"
I work with gay men whose outward success doesn't match how they feel inside. Many feel shame, self-doubt, or like they're not enough. In our first sessions, we'll explore how past experiences influence patterns in relationships and self-worth. Together, we'll create a plan with insight and action. Most clients develop a better relationship with themselves that reaches every area of their life.
Photo of Chris Tompkins, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Chris Tompkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (323) 395-5359

13 Endorsements

John Buse
John Buse
Marriage & Family TherapistMAMFT
Chris brings genuine empathy, curiosity, and dedication to his work-qualities I've experienced in our interactions. He is thoughtful and intelligent, with particular strength in his work with the LGBTQ community. I highly recommend him as a therapist.
Andrew Merrell
Andrew Merrell
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Chris' compassion, conviction and innovation make him a standout among his peers.
Ellie Doherty
Ellie Doherty
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Chris is an amazingly insightful therapist. He is an incredible listener and creates a safe space for clients to explore any and all feelings. He is warm and compassionate and helps clients grow and flourish. I highly recommend Chris!
Jake Mallove
Jake Mallove
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
I've had the pleasure of working with Chris and seeing first hand the knowledge, dedication and compassion he brings to the room. His empathy and understanding of the field as well as the specific needs of the LGBT community make him a wonderful therapist!
Samer Fawaz
Samer Fawaz
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Chris is an exceptionally skilled and compassionate therapist who creates a safe, affirming space for clients to grow and heal. His deep empathy, wisdom, life experience, and strong presence make him profoundly impactful in his work with others.
Corrie Blissit
Corrie Blissit
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Chris brings a steady, thoughtful presence and has a natural ability to make others feel heard and understood. Chris approaches situations with curiosity and empathy, and his insight and kindness make him a valued colleague and friend.
Robert McShane
Robert McShane
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Chris is one of the most thoughtful, empathetic, and skilled clinicians I've had the privilege of working with. His contributions to the field of mental health are meaningful and impactful, particularly through his articles in Psychology Today.
Adam Stoker
Adam Stoker
PsychologistPhD
Chris is a warm, empathetic, knowledgeable clinician, and accomplished author and speaker. He utilizes his clinical expertise and experiences to provide incredibly strong, attuned, and affirming clinical care, particularly to those in the LGBTQ community.
Katy Bird
Katy Bird
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFTAPCCRev
Chris is caring, compassionate, and a great listener! I highly recommend his services!
Greg Kelly
Greg Kelly
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFTAPCC
Chris exudes an empathetic warmth that makes clients feel a deep sense of partnership. He beautifully blends innate curiosity with skillful clinical intuition to help clients navigate complex patterns and create meaningful, lasting change.
Ben Hietala
Ben Hietala
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Chris approaches therapy with intention, humility, and heart. He brings a care and thoughtfulness that invites clients, colleagues, and community to show up with honesty, curiosity, and trust.
Shane Bruce, LMFT
Shane Bruce, LMFT
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
I have known Chris for several years. He has proven himself time and again, an empathic, sensitive, astute and responsible coach and therapist. We are fortunate to have him in our group practice and are inspired by his passion!
Philip Champagne
Philip Champagne
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Chris brings an immediately warm presence, and genuine investment in his clients' inner world, to his work. Chris is passionate about therapy, with inviting emotional depth and a clear point-of-view. I highly recommend Chris and his approach to therapy.

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

I also speak

Spanish

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

I also speak

Spanish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Family / Marital
  • Imago
  • Integrative
  • LGBTQ Affirmative Therapy
  • Narrative
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Trauma Focused
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No matter where we are, whether it's a bar or a church, we're all looking for the same thing: connection with something greater than ourselves. The difference is that one source is sustainable, and the other isn't. My path has shown me that connecting with our spirituality, loving ourselves, and taking full responsibility for our lives is where our strength lies at the deepest level.
Photo of Chris Tompkins, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Chris Tompkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (323) 395-5359
"
No matter where we are, whether it's a bar or a church, we're all looking for the same thing: connection with something greater than ourselves. The difference is that one source is sustainable, and the other isn't. My path has shown me that connecting with our spirituality, loving ourselves, and taking full responsibility for our lives is where our strength lies at the deepest level.
Photo of Chris Tompkins, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Chris Tompkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (323) 395-5359

Location

Primary Location

519 La Cienega Blvd

Suite 210

West Hollywood, CA 90048

(323) 395-5359
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I offer telehealth sessions for clients throughout California.
Photo of Chris Tompkins, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Chris Tompkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (323) 395-5359
"
I offer telehealth sessions for clients throughout California.
Photo of Chris Tompkins, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Chris Tompkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (323) 395-5359