Chris Tomkins
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, ACS, CCS (he, him)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
8 Endorsed
Let's Connect (973) 878-0956
You keep replaying that last argument in your head, or imagining the next one. Your body is along for the ride, feeling that pit in your stomach and chest tightness as if it were happening right now. You're impatient and irritable with those around you. Talking about it leads to arguing, so you keep it all inside, until you blow up again. The things you do to cope help somewhat, but they also cause more problems of their own.
You want your relationships to be peaceful and close. You want to be calm and present. You want your choices to align with your values. You are who I help.
I specialize in helping men whose issues are interfering with their relationships. Anxiety, depression, anger and addiction are treatable conditions. I help people be their best selves: healthy, loving and strong.
I also love to help high-conflict couples find peace. Life is too short to keep hating the person you love. Terry Real’s Relational Life Therapy is a practical, action-oriented way to disrupt and replace longstanding patterns. Weekly couples counseling or two-day "Save the Marriage" Intensives available. Schedule a free consultation to learn more.
Call or Email Chris Tomkins now for a free 15 minute consultation - (973) 878-0956
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $225
- Couple Sessions $275
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Insurance
- Out of Network
Chris Tomkins
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, ACS, CCS
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (973) 878-0956
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New Jersey / 37PC00471500 Chris Tomkins
- In Practice for 18 years
- Certificate from Certified Clinical Supervisor 1005
- Certificate from Approved Clinical Supervisor ACS02007
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Chris Tomkins
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, ACS, CCS
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (973) 878-0956
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Relationship Issues
Expertise
- Addiction
- Alcohol Use
- Anger Management
- Career Counseling
- Clinical Supervision
- Codependency
- Divorce
- Family Addiction
- Gambling
- Grief
- Internet Addiction
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
- Parenting
- Self Esteem
- Sexual Addiction
- Sleep or Insomnia
- Substance Use
- Trauma and PTSD
- Video Game Addiction
Chris Tomkins
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, ACS, CCS
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (973) 878-0956
8 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Motivational Interviewing
- Relational Life Therapy
Chris Tomkins
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, ACS, CCS
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (973) 878-0956
Groups
Beacon Men's Group
Beacon Men’s Group is a virtual therapy group for young men seeking purpose, connection, and strength. We talk about what it means to be a man today, how to build a satisfying life, and how to face challenges with clarity and confidence. Topics include emotional strength, masculinity, mental fitness, and overcoming loneliness. If you're wondering, “Where do I go from here?”, Beacon is a place to figure it out.
Expertise
Anxiety
Men's Issues
Peer Relationships
Age
Adults
Session Cost
$80
Group Meets
Every Mon 1 P.M. - 2 P.M.
Location
Caldwell, NJ 07006
Email Chris Tomkins about this group or call - (973) 878-0956
Location
Nearby Areas
Chris Tomkins
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, ACS, CCS
Call for a free consultation now - (973) 878-0956