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Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW

Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW

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Tacoma, WA 98418
Let's Connect (253) 785-4338
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Being queer can feel simple, yet that doesn’t mean it’s easy - especially in the current cultural climate. With more than 20 years of experience as a clinical social worker, I specialize in working with LGBTQIA2S+ individuals, couples, and families who want a therapist who genuinely understands our community. As a certified Sexual Minority Specialist, I offer an affirming, grounded space where real dialogue can happen. Whether you're navigating discrimination, structural stigma, fear of rejection, or internalized heterosexism, we will work together to find clarity, healing, and strength.
I also understand that not all LGBTQIA2S+ journeys look the same. With specialized experience in the BDSM/kink community and polyamorous relationships, I welcome complexity, curiosity, and the parts of your story that may not have always felt safe to name out loud. To quote RuPaul, “We’re all born naked – everything else is drag.”
Our work will center your lived experience, your resilience, and the life you’re ready to build. This isn’t about fixing who you are, it’s about supporting who you’re becoming. When we understand ourselves better, we do better! If something in this speaks to you, I invite you to reach out. You don’t have to navigate it all on your own.
Call or Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis now for a free 15 minute consultation - (253) 785-4338

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Tacoma, WA 98418

(253) 785-4338

Seattle, WA 98107

Book now by clicking on my website.
I specialize in Sex-Positive, Kink Allied, Bisexual and LGBTQ+ 
$100 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (253) 785-4338
Photo of Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Tacoma, WA 98418

(253) 785-4338

Seattle, WA 98107

Book now by clicking on my website.
I specialize in Sex-Positive, Kink Allied, Bisexual and LGBTQ+ 
$100 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $100
  • Couple Sessions $150
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, Paypal, Venmo

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield of Ma
  • Blue Shield
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Optum
  • Oscar Health
  • Oxford
  • Premera Blue Cross
  • Regence
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Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
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Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (253) 785-4338

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Washington / LW 00009601 Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 23 years
  • Attended University of Washington, Seattle, PhD, Graduated 2015
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from Seattle University BA Honors Psychology / 2002
  • Degree/Diploma from University of Washington, Seattle MSW Clinical/Contextual Practice / 2004
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A Sexual Minority Mental Health Specialist is a a certified mental health professional that has completed hundreds of hours of sexual minority training, have been supervised in direct work with sexual minority clients for at least one year, and continue ongoing, specialized training each year.
Photo of Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (253) 785-4338
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A Sexual Minority Mental Health Specialist is a a certified mental health professional that has completed hundreds of hours of sexual minority training, have been supervised in direct work with sexual minority clients for at least one year, and continue ongoing, specialized training each year.
Photo of Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (253) 785-4338

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Bisexual
  • LGBTQ+

Expertise

  • Aging
  • Anxiety
  • Body Image
  • Caregivers
  • Depression
  • Internalized Stigma
  • Lesbian
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Racial Identity
  • Spirituality
  • Sports Performance
  • Substance Use
  • Transgender
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I specialize in helping LGBTQIA individuals navigate challenges like discrimination, stigma, internalized heterosexism, and identity management, as well as subcultural issues such as BDSM/kink and polyamory. Together, we'll create a personalized treatment plan to build resilience and self-understanding, empowering you to live authentically and confidently.
Photo of Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (253) 785-4338
"
I specialize in helping LGBTQIA individuals navigate challenges like discrimination, stigma, internalized heterosexism, and identity management, as well as subcultural issues such as BDSM/kink and polyamory. Together, we'll create a personalized treatment plan to build resilience and self-understanding, empowering you to live authentically and confidently.
Photo of Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (253) 785-4338

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Eclectic
  • Existential
  • Narrative
  • Psychodynamic
  • Rational Emotive Behavior (REBT)
  • Strength-Based
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My foundational approach is psychodynamic, which posits that a great deal of what we believe about ourselves, other people, and the world is rooted in earlier life experiences. This is informed by both phenomenological (what it means more so than what it is) and narrative (stories we create to explain our experiences to ourselves) perspectives.
Photo of Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (253) 785-4338
"
My foundational approach is psychodynamic, which posits that a great deal of what we believe about ourselves, other people, and the world is rooted in earlier life experiences. This is informed by both phenomenological (what it means more so than what it is) and narrative (stories we create to explain our experiences to ourselves) perspectives.
Photo of Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (253) 785-4338

Location

Primary Location

Tacoma, WA 98418

(253) 785-4338

Additional Location

Seattle, WA 98107

(253) 785-4338
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Book now by clicking on my website.
Photo of Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Call for a free consultation now - (253) 785-4338
"
Book now by clicking on my website.
Photo of Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Charles Pitre Hoy-Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW
Call for a free consultation now - (253) 785-4338