Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today

Santa Rosa, CA 95409

Whether borderline, narcissistic or simply toxic, wounded and self-centered parents create wounded children. And these children grow up without the basics of warmth and kindness, acceptance and encouragement. In order to survive, we adapt to the needs of our demanding parents. That might mean we learn to parent our parent. Or we develop antennae and quickly respond to their changing moods and needs, simultaneously ignoring our own. We hope if we do and say the right thing long enough, then one day they will be strong enough to finally take care of us. But that day may never come.

We can spend our whole life looking for what we didn't get in our childhood. Attract partners who are carbon copies. Perceive other people's innocent remarks as attacking or critical. Maybe we're never quite satisfied with the attention we receive. Or no amount of success is enough.

Therapy is a way to find answers and chart a new course; transcend the past and move forward. My approach is pragmatic and straightforward. I do more than just say, "Um huh," or "How does that make you feel?" I offer acceptance and encouragement, as well as feedback and suggestions.

Call or Email Adrian Tiller now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 799-9858

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Santa Rosa, CA 95409

(415) 799-9858

1025 Fifth Street

Novato, CA 94945

I'm providing virtual (video) therapy throughout California. New clients are welcome.

I specialize in Relationship Issues, Anxiety and Narcissistic Personality (NPD)

$200 Per Session, I accept insurance

Individual one-on-one therapy

Let's Connect (415) 799-9858

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Santa Rosa, CA 95409

(415) 799-9858

1025 Fifth Street

Novato, CA 94945

I'm providing virtual (video) therapy throughout California. New clients are welcome.

I specialize in Relationship Issues, Anxiety and Narcissistic Personality (NPD)

$200 Per Session, I accept insurance

Individual one-on-one therapy

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $200
Pay by ACH Bank transfer, Health Savings Account, Venmo

Insurance

Aetna
Anthem | Elevance
Beacon Health Options | Carelon
Blue Cross
Blue Shield
BlueCross and BlueShield
Out of Network

I submit the claims to your insurance company and when we get confirmation, you pay me only your copayment (if applicable).

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 799-9858

Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

I submit the claims to your insurance company and when we get confirmation, you pay me only your copayment (if applicable).

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 799-9858

Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / MFC 25896 Adrian Tiller
In Practice for 34 Years
Attended University of Tennessee, M.S., Graduated 1977

I have a second Master's degree in Creative Writing so I understand the creative process and the daily struggle to create art.

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 799-9858

Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

I have a second Master's degree in Creative Writing so I understand the creative process and the daily struggle to create art.

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 799-9858

Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Relationship Issues
Anxiety
Narcissistic Personality (NPD)

Expertise

Codependency
Coping Skills
Grief
Internet Addiction
LGBTQ+
Life Coaching
Mindfulness & Meditation Training
Peer Relationships
Self Esteem
Spirituality
Stress

I was raised by a self-absorbed mother with Narcissist Personality Disorder. (With humor I say she was my first therapy client.) I thoroughly understand when clients share their experiences with their own unavailable parents. Many of my clients present with anxiety issues or panic attacks. Also, I worked for twenty years in San Francisco near the Castro with gay, lesbian and bisexual clients.

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 799-9858

Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 799-9858

Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
Positive Psychology
Psychodynamic

Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (415) 799-9858

Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (415) 799-9858

Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Location

Primary Location

Santa Rosa, CA 95409

(415) 799-9858

Email me

My website

Additional Location

1025 Fifth Street

Novato, CA 94945

(415) 799-9858

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

I'm providing virtual (video) therapy throughout California. New clients are welcome.

Call for a free consultation now - (415) 799-9858

Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

I'm providing virtual (video) therapy throughout California. New clients are welcome.

Call for a free consultation now - (415) 799-9858

Adrian Tiller

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Last Modified: 28 Feb 2024