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Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
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Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier

Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC (she, her)

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Washington, DC 20012
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Washington, DC 20012
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Do you feel stuck in painful patterns with your partner—or alone in your struggles? I help couples and individuals move out of reactivity and into more connected, intentional ways of relating, heal old wounds, and restore hope. I work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, self-esteem concerns, and relationship conflict. My approach is warm, collaborative, and trauma-informed, grounded in Imago Relationship Therapy and enriched by mindfulness, somatic practices, and positive psychology. Together, we focus not just on understanding patterns, but on shifting how you experience yourself and your relationships.
I offer a warm, inclusive space—LGBTQ+ allied, sex-positive, and committed to equity and respect. Fluent in English, Spanish, and French, I work with individuals and couples from diverse cultural backgrounds. My focus is helping you feel safe enough to be seen, and supported enough to grow.
Alongside my clinical work, I train and supervise therapists in Imago Therapy in the U.S. and internationally. If you’re ready for a safe, supportive space to move toward the life and relationships you want, I invite you to reach out.
Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier now for a free 15 minute consultation

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

The Imago Center of Washington, D.C.

Washington, DC 20012

My website
I am currently seeing all clients through video-conferencing via the HIPAA-compliant Zoom portal.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Relationship Issues and Spirituality 
I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Supporting individuals, couples, and therapists to shift patterns, heal, and strengthen connection. I would love to connect with you!
Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Connect with Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Photo of Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier, Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

The Imago Center of Washington, D.C.

Washington, DC 20012

My website
I am currently seeing all clients through video-conferencing via the HIPAA-compliant Zoom portal.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Relationship Issues and Spirituality 
I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Supporting individuals, couples, and therapists to shift patterns, heal, and strengthen connection. I would love to connect with you!
Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier

Finances

Fees

  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Check, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • TRICARE
  • Out of Network
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Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage.
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Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage.

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Maryland / LC7549 Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
    License state differs from primary location state.
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Loyola University of Maryland, Graduated 2011
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: Virginia Board of Health 0701016039. / 2026
  • License: DC Board of Health PRC200001929 / 2022
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I am also Tricare certified and can support clients who serve in the military.
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Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I am also Tricare certified and can support clients who serve in the military.
Photo of Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier, Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Relationship Issues
  • Spirituality

Expertise

  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex Therapy
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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I work with individuals and couples who feel stuck in painful patterns—conflict, disconnection, or feeling alone. Together, we build insight into what's happening and support meaningful, lasting change—with encouragement, clarity, and practical tools. We connect present struggles to past experiences so you can move forward with greater awareness, confidence, and choice.
Photo of Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier, Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I work with individuals and couples who feel stuck in painful patterns—conflict, disconnection, or feeling alone. Together, we build insight into what's happening and support meaningful, lasting change—with encouragement, clarity, and practical tools. We connect present struggles to past experiences so you can move forward with greater awareness, confidence, and choice.
Photo of Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier, Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

2 Endorsements

Dr. Kerley Most
Dr. Kerley Most
Licensed Professional CounselorPhDLPC
I highly recommend Caroline! As a member of the Imago Relationships faculty, she excels in conflict resolution and relationship building. Working with her was a joy; her warm demeanor and dedication foster a welcoming environment for her clients.
Ayse Alpaslan Zelley
Ayse Alpaslan Zelley
Pre-Licensed ProfessionalMA
Caroline is a deeply insightful, wise, brilliant Imago therapist and supervisor. If connection, healing, and growth are what you seek, you'll be in safe hands. She is multilingual, so the only thing lost in translation will be your old patterns!

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied

I also speak

French
Spanish

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied

I also speak

French
Spanish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Imago
  • Integrative
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Multicultural
  • Psychodynamic
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My work is grounded in Imago Relationship Therapy and supported by mindfulness and somatic awareness. I take an integrative, holistic approach—attending to your thoughts, emotions, bodily experience, and, when meaningful, your sense of purpose or spirituality. Sessions are active and structured, offering both guidance and space for your experience.
Photo of Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier, Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
My work is grounded in Imago Relationship Therapy and supported by mindfulness and somatic awareness. I take an integrative, holistic approach—attending to your thoughts, emotions, bodily experience, and, when meaningful, your sense of purpose or spirituality. Sessions are active and structured, offering both guidance and space for your experience.
Photo of Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier, Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Groups


Location

Primary Location

The Imago Center of Washington, D.C.

Washington, DC 20012

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I am currently seeing all clients through video-conferencing via the HIPAA-compliant Zoom portal.
Photo of Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier, Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
"
I am currently seeing all clients through video-conferencing via the HIPAA-compliant Zoom portal.
Photo of Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier, Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC
Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier
Counselor, PhD, MEd, LCPC, NCC