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Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
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Cara Cole

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW (she, her)

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Ithaca, NY 14850
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Ithaca, NY 14850
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As a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist, I specialize in helping couples who feel stuck in repeated arguments, emotional distance, or unresolved hurt. Many partners come in wanting to communicate more clearly, feel closer, or rebuild trust after disconnection or conflict. I offer structured, research-based support to help you understand patterns, restore safety, and strengthen your emotional bond. I also incorporate CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and attachment-focused work to support each couple’s unique needs with clarity, practical tools, and warmth.
I offer structured, evidence-based couples therapy to help you understand conflict patterns, communicate more effectively, and rebuild trust. We’ll strengthen emotional connection, navigate sensitive topics with more safety, and create practical skills to support lasting, meaningful change in your relationship.
Many couples wait until things feel overwhelming before reaching out. You don’t have to navigate this alone. I offer a supportive, grounded space where both partners can be heard, understood, and respected. Email is the best way to connect and begin scheduling.
Cara Cole now for a free 15 minute consultation

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Compassionate Connections Sex & Couples Counseling

Ithaca, NY 14850

My website
Teletherapy for couples and individuals in New York and Maryland. Evening appointments available. Warm, structured, research-based support.
I specialize in Parenting, Marital and Premarital and Women's Issues 
$150 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Connect with Cara Cole
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Compassionate Connections Sex & Couples Counseling

Ithaca, NY 14850

My website
Teletherapy for couples and individuals in New York and Maryland. Evening appointments available. Warm, structured, research-based support.
I specialize in Parenting, Marital and Premarital and Women's Issues 
$150 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $150
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I am an out-of-network provider and offer courtesy billing to help you access reimbursement through your insurance. HSA/FSA accepted. Sliding scale options are available based on need. Payment is due at the time of session.
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I am an out-of-network provider and offer courtesy billing to help you access reimbursement through your insurance. HSA/FSA accepted. Sliding scale options are available based on need. Payment is due at the time of session.
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 097154 Cara Marie Cole
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 17 years
  • Attended Binghamton University, MSW/ LCSW-C, Graduated 2009
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: New York State Office of Professions 080176 / 2024
  • License: Maryland, LCSW-C 19582 / 2013
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Licensed Clinical Social Worker in NY and MD and a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist trained by the Gottman Institute. I combine structured, research-based relationship work with mindfulness and attachment-focused support to strengthen communication, repair trust, and deepen connection.
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
Licensed Clinical Social Worker in NY and MD and a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist trained by the Gottman Institute. I combine structured, research-based relationship work with mindfulness and attachment-focused support to strengthen communication, repair trust, and deepen connection.
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Parenting
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Women's Issues

Expertise

  • Adoption
  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Body Image
  • Child
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Infertility
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Self-Harming
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Veterans
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Certified Gottman Couples Therapy for communication breakdowns, recurring conflict, emotional distance, intimacy concerns, and trust repair. Support for blended families, co-parenting stress, and major relationship transitions. We work toward stronger understanding, connection, and lasting change.
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
Certified Gottman Couples Therapy for communication breakdowns, recurring conflict, emotional distance, intimacy concerns, and trust repair. Support for blended families, co-parenting stress, and major relationship transitions. We work toward stronger understanding, connection, and lasting change.
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.


Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Pacific Islander

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Pacific Islander

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Cognitive Processing (CPT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Imago
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychodynamic
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Structural Family Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
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As a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist, I offer structured, research-based guidance to help you understand patterns and strengthen connection. I also draw from mindfulness, attachment-focused work, and skills-based approaches to support clearer communication, emotional safety, and lasting change.
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
As a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist, I offer structured, research-based guidance to help you understand patterns and strengthen connection. I also draw from mindfulness, attachment-focused work, and skills-based approaches to support clearer communication, emotional safety, and lasting change.
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Groups


Location

Primary Location

Compassionate Connections Sex & Couples Counseling

Ithaca, NY 14850

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Teletherapy for couples and individuals in New York and Maryland. Evening appointments available. Warm, structured, research-based support.
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
"
Teletherapy for couples and individuals in New York and Maryland. Evening appointments available. Warm, structured, research-based support.
Photo of Cara Cole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW
Cara Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW